12/19/2024
Inconsequential headline hoggers
It must be one of those lame news days that newsmen face every now and then, or so I thought.
An actress/singer had started to receive attention for what should have been a private matter. But it was not to be. For about a week now, that semi-popular celebrity had become embroiled in a controversy involving her former boyfriend and an actor she had been paired with as one of those sickening “love teams” that have been a staple of Philippine show business for decades.
The guy was not as popular as her, and may well be facing the end of what has been a lackluster career thus far.
Not the actress/singer though. Although I do not really follow local showbiz, I was vaguely aware of her existence as one of the many young women out to make a name for herself.
Since their sordid tale had spread throughout social media, with all news organizations picking up the story to the delight of their followers who should know better, everyone and his next door neighbor had become aware of the non-newsworthy events surrounding the young entertainers.
It seemed that the reel love team had become a real thing.
To put it bluntly, they had begun to have s*x with each other, starting their steamy affair when they both had respective partners.
Since she cheated on her then boyfriend, and he with his own then girlfriend, interest grew especially after the scorned girlfriend of the guy managed to take shots of their messages, then posted those self-same shots over social media.
Actress/singer, in particular, was pretty graphic in her descriptions of what they were doing.
It certainly made her ex-boyfriend – himself an active showbiz personality – look like a poor victim.
That’s what it seemed at first glance. Later details emerged when he supposedly had a number of shortcomings in their relationship. Being the older of the two, he did not give her the treatment she had been wanting.
To romanticize it, she wanted to be treated like a princess. To be more brutal about it, she was not getting the physical satisfaction that she had been seeking.
That’s where her loveteam partner came in. He supposedly paid her the attention she craved. Never mind that he had a non-showbiz girlfriend who seemed to be aware of his indiscretions.
To make a long story short, the actress/singer in her mid-20s was suddenly getting the physical pleasures she had been after for the longest time.
She made no bones about her getting what she wanted, and he was more than willing to give it to her.
So what was wrong with the picture?
She had been crafting an image of herself as a sweet young thing, not a l***y v***n.
As such, she had won sponsorship contracts with large consumer organizations, including the country’s top food and beverage company.
As a result of her mistakes, she was dropped like a proverbial hot potato.
Some are saying that she may as well have kissed her young career goodbye. But her handlers would have none of it. A carefully crafted public statement was prepared for her, and she delivered it well enough.
She even shed a tear or two, and owned up to the error of her ways.
Shortly thereafter, her new partner in crime did pretty much the same thing. He, too, apologized, but sadly for him his came out as half-hearted. It was devoid of feeling, but worse was to come.
A “friend” of his came out on social media saying that the guy with a western-sounding name was actually bragging of his s*xual conquest of a young celebrity.
The word used for him is cad, isn’t it? Except maybe no one uses that word anymore.
So now the jury is out on whether either or both of the guilty parties can call it a day as far as their showbiz career is concerned.
Much will depend on what happens in the next few weeks and months.
The actress/singer may have a better chance of salvaging her career. She may never be a superstar, but it is not improbable to think that she can still be around if she and her management team play their cards right.
But they should be reminded that there is no shortage of younger ladies who have the potential to be actress/singers like her.
There’s always new blood waiting to be discovered.
To be honest, actress/singer is quite attractive physically, but her singing skills have substantial room for improvement. Samples of her work can be seen on YouTube.
As for her acting chops, same thing. She still has a ways to go before hitting the stratospheric heights of the country’s best actresses.
Under a worst-case scenario, she will slowly fade to the background, perhaps land secondary roles in the movies. She can play the lead actress’s best friend or older sister.
As for her singing career, there are many small clubs that will always welcome entertainers with name recall.
But it is highly doubtful that the country’s biggest consumer goods manufacturers will want her to serve as their spokesperson ever again. At the back of their minds, they will recall all the nasty details that were revealed by the messages she shared with her new love or lust partner.
Quite incidentally, it was illegal for the ex-girlfriend of her current partner to reveal those messages. A lawsuit has been discussed, but this will only serve to remind the public of all the details that most parties in the drama would rather forget.
This, by the way, is not the first time that social media as well as mass media played a role in exposing details of the s*xual lives of showbiz figures.
Some women who have been involved in similar situations in the past have managed to survive, and return to the entertainment circuit.
The public can be pretty fickle where such things are concerned. A good many will say that adults are free to do what they want as long as they do no harm to others.
As long as actress/singer genuinely learns her lesson, she will be back in some form somewhere down the road.
As for the cad who is at the center of all this nonsense, maybe he can go to the provinces and serve as emcee during fiestas in third class towns and municipalities.
For now, his days as an inconsequential headline hogger are over.