Servants Heart

11/01/2025

Ain't that the truth

10/31/2025

Agreed

It’s never a child’s responsibility to chase their parent’s love.

A child should never have to earn affection that should’ve been freely given.
They shouldn’t have to perform, behave perfectly, or grow up too soon just to be seen, heard, or loved.

Yet so many adults walk around with wounds that started in childhood —
from trying to prove they were “good enough” to be loved by their own parents.

Love isn’t something a child should work for.
Love is something a parent should give — without conditions, without tests, without guilt.

If your child is always trying to make you proud, ask yourself if they feel safe being imperfect with you.
If your child hesitates to speak their truth, ask yourself if your love depends on their obedience.
If your child always apologizes for existing too loudly, ask yourself if they’ve been made to feel “too much.”

Because one day, that child grows up.
And they either spend years healing from the love they had to chase…
or they repeat the cycle, thinking love is something they must constantly prove to deserve.

Let’s be the parents who break that pattern.
Let’s raise children who know they are loved even when they mess up.
Children who never have to question if they matter.
Children who grow up understanding:
💛 “I am loved. I don’t have to earn it.”
✍️ Parenting

10/19/2025

10/16/2025

Big shout out to my newest top fans! 💎 Nick Searfoss

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10/13/2025

😘😘

10/12/2025

09/14/2025

she became her own best friend.

06/22/2025

That's right!!!

05/26/2025

Real Talk. 💯💯

05/04/2025

Yes this. Holly 🦅