The 3rd Birth
In my studies, I've come to understand that there are three births we experience in life:
1. Physical Birth – The moment we enter the world.
2. Cultural Consciousness Birth – This is when we begin identifying with the life story shaped by our culture and experiences. It’s the creation of our positionalities: “I am ____. I grew up ____.”
3. Self-Actualization – This is the journey of detachment, a process of practicing non-attachment to our life story.
#Depression can sometimes lead to detachment, manifesting as a clinical symptom. However, practicing non-identification with one’s life story is not about escaping or avoiding—it’s a spiritual practice. It’s about understanding that our true essence isn’t confined to the story we’ve been telling ourselves.
Reflect on this: How attached are you to your life story? What would it look like to practice non-identification and step into the process of self-actualization?
🔗 For more insights and full episodes, visit: https://www.becomeanoutlier.com/links
#SelfActualization #SpiritualGrowth #NonAttachment #MentalHealth #LiveInTruth #SelfAwareness #PersonalGrowth #IsThatSOO #StayLIT
In life, we often create idols—whether they be people, beliefs, material possessions, or even aspects of ourselves. But here's the truth: all idols must fall. Anything we place on a pedestal, anything we cling to for identity or security, is ultimately transient and imperfect. True freedom comes when we detach from these idols, recognizing that they are not the source of our true being or happiness. By letting go of these external attachments, we make space for genuine self-actualization and inner peace. Reflect on this: What idols are you holding onto in your life? How might your path to freedom and self-discovery begin with letting them go?🔗 For more insights and full episodes, visit: https://www.becomeanoutlier.com/links#LetGo #SelfAwareness #SpiritualGrowth #NonAttachment #InnerPeace #LiveInTruth #PersonalGrowth #IsThatSOO #StayLIT
Breaking Barriers in Therapy for Black Male Teens
I asked Dr. Ritch Hall about the challenges of engaging Black male teens in therapy. In this clip, Dr. Hall discusses the unique hurdles faced when working with young Black men and the importance of building trust and understanding in the therapeutic process.
Dr. Hall shares his experiences and insights on how crucial it is for Black male teens to have an adult who genuinely listens to them, and the uphill climb it often is to establish that trust.
Listen to learn about the importance of patience, persistence, and cultural sensitivity in therapy. It was an honor to have him share his wisdom on the set.
🔗 Full Episode & Blog:
Podcast Episode: https://www.becomeanoutlier.com/podcasts/is-that-soo-with-the-nocturnal-therapist/episodes/2148675236
Blog Post: https://www.becomeanoutlier.com/blog/mental-health-and-personal-growth-ritch-hall
#IsThatSOO #DrRitchHall #BlackTherapists #MensMentalHealth #TeenTherapy #EmotionalResilience #MentalHealth #PodcastClip #Inspiration #EmotionalHealth #EmotionalHealth
Season 4: Episode 1 Clip - Authenticity at Work: Luke Deighton's Insights
Real Talk with Luke Deighton | Live In Truth - Season 4: Episode 2
In this powerful clip from the "Is That SOO?" podcast, I ask Luke Deighton about the tangible benefits the corporate world could gain from embracing spiritual practices. Luke explains how authenticity is often missing from corporate structures, leading to a misalignment between stated values and actual behavior.
🗣️ Authenticity, which requires tolerance of each other’s perspectives and unique ways of seeing life, can improve financial, emotional, mental, and overall well-being for both employers and employees.
Reflect on this: How authentic is your workplace? Do you feel your company's actions align with its stated values? How might embracing authenticity, which requires tolerance, openness, curiosity, patience, and healthy communication, transform your work environment?
Tune in to discover how incorporating authenticity and spiritual practices can transform the corporate environment, leading to a more harmonious and productive workplace.
🔗 Full Episode & Blog:
Podcast Episode: https://www.becomeanoutlier.com/podcasts/is-that-soo-with-the-nocturnal-therapist/episodes/2148675235
Blog Post: https://www.becomeanoutlier.com/blog/bridging-corporate-and-spiritual-worlds-luke-deighton
Provide space for Luke's insights to serve as inspiration to foster authenticity and well-being in your professional life and personal life.
Stay L.I.T.
#LiveInTruth #IsThatSOO #TheNocturnalTherapist #CorporateBalance #SpiritualGrowth #Authenticity #PersonalGrowth #PodcastClip #RealTalk #Inspiration #WorkLifeBalance #StayLIT
Real Talk with Luke Deighton | Live In Truth - Season 4: Episode 2
In this episode from the "Is That SOO?" podcast, Luke Deighton discusses the art of balancing corporate structures with spiritual practices. Luke shares how creating harmony between mind, body, and soul can lead to a more fulfilling and purposeful life.
🗣️ "It's about aligning your true purpose with your daily actions, both in the corporate world and beyond."
Discover practical steps for integrating spirituality into your professional and personal life, and learn how to navigate the intersection of these two worlds with intention and mindfulness.
🔗 Full Episode & Blog:
Podcast Episode: https://www.becomeanoutlier.com/podcasts/is-that-soo-with-the-nocturnal-therapist/episodes/2148675235
Blog Post: https://www.becomeanoutlier.com/blog/bridging-corporate-and-spiritual-worlds-luke-deighton
Let Luke's insights guide you towards living in truth and achieving balance in all aspects of your life.
Stay L.I.T.
#LiveInTruth #IsThatSOO #TheNocturnalTherapist #CorporateBalance #SpiritualGrowth #Mindfulness #PersonalGrowth #PodcastClip #RealTalk #Inspiration #WorkLifeBalance #StayLIT
Real Talk with Joe Pomeroy | Live In Truth - Season 4: Episode 1
In this powerful clip from the "Is That SOO?" podcast, Joe Pomeroy opens up about his struggle to balance being a hero at work with his responsibilities as a husband and father. His journey is a profound reminder of the importance of living in truth and finding harmony in all aspects of life.
🗣️ "I didn’t want to be just Joe. I wanted to be Joe the Hero."
Tune in to hear Joe's candid reflections and discover how embracing authenticity can transform your personal and professional life.
🔗 Full Episode & Blog:
Podcast Episode: https://www.becomeanoutlier.com/podcasts/is-that-soo-with-the-nocturnal-therapist/episodes/2148675201
Blog Post: https://www.becomeanoutlier.com/blog/living-in-truth-journey-with-joe-pomeroy
Let Joe's story inspire you to live your truth and become the hero in your own life.
Stay L.I.T.
#LiveInTruth #IsThatSOO #TheNocturnalTherapist #HeroJourney #WorkLifeBalance #Authenticity #PersonalGrowth #MentalHealth #PodcastClip #RealTalk #Inspiration #Wisdom #FamilyLife
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Freedom exists on the other side of your fears. #indecisive #indecision #selfreflection #freeyourself #foryoupage #FalseEvidenceAppearingReal #personalgrowth
PART II: Unlocking Forgiveness - How to Forgive the "Self" to Counter Chronic Anger and Narcissism
Ready to tackle that inner critic and lingering anger? This next part of our "Unlocking Forgiveness" series is all about forgiving ourselves, understanding our own anger, and not letting self-centered thoughts take over.
What We'll Cover:
How to Forgive Ourselves: We all mess up. Let's talk about how to let go of past mistakes and move on.
Building Compassion for Ourselves: It's easy to be hard on ourselves. We'll discuss how to be kinder and more understanding to the person we are.
Understanding Anger and Self-Centered Thinking: Ever notice we can be our own biggest fan and harshest critic? Let's dive into why this happens and how it ties to anger and thinking only about ourselves.
Getting Back to Loving Who We Are: Remember when you used to love yourself just as you are? Let's find that feeling again, focusing on our growth and the good in us.
Join us for a straightforward chat on how to be easier on ourselves, manage our anger, and keep our ego in check. It's all about leading a happier, more balanced life.
Agape and Stay L.I.T.
Harry "The Nocturnal Therapist" Turner
“The ego is the veil between humans and God” - Rumi. Stay L.I.T. (www.BecomeAnOutlier.com) #insights #innerstanding #InnerWisdom #Innervisions #BePresent #TrueVisions
Unlocking Forgiveness: How Letting Go Transforms Us and Counters Chronic Anger and Narcissism
When: Friday, October 27, 2023
Where: StreamYard and Facebook
Time: 7pm (CT)/8pm (ET)
In our upcoming "Update Your Algorithm" session, we'll take a focused look at forgiveness. This powerful act is more than just a moral virtue; it's a tool for personal transformation. But what stands in our way? And how is it tied to traits like narcissism?
Topics We'll Explore:
1) Defining Forgiveness: We'll go beyond common definitions to truly understand the depths of what it means to forgive, and why it's more than just "letting go."
2) The Roadblocks to Forgiveness: Delving into the complex emotions and societal pressures that make us cling to grudges, we'll discuss what makes forgiveness so challenging at times.
3) Forgiveness vs. Narcissism: Narcissism can hinder our ability to forgive and move forward. We'll examine the relationship between a lack of forgiveness and narcissistic tendencies, shedding light on how they feed into one another.
4) The Bigger Picture: Holding Onto Hurt and Broader Personality Challenges: Beyond narcissism, we'll explore how unforgiveness can be both a sign and a source of other personality issues.
I invite you to join us for an enlightening discussion on forgiveness. We'll unravel its transformative power, show its antithesis in narcissistic traits, and provide insights on how embracing forgiveness can be a stepping stone to personal growth and healthier, more empathetic relationships.
Agape and Stay L.I.T.
Harry "The Nocturnal Therapist" Turner
You are not responsible for the interpretations people who typically have never met you, make about you. What people think about you doing you, is none of your business. Thank you What's Your Happi? Mr Vernon Brown. You continue to inspire. #StayLIT #Confidence #confidencebuilding #ConfidenceBoost #UnapologeticallyAuthentic
It's time to redefine reality, Outliers! 'i think i know' is our 30-minute dive into the realm of self with Brandon Croucher. Mental health awareness, spiritual enlightenment, and self-discovery all rolled into one. Explore with us: https://youtu.be/hXHejX2rIOI. #IsThatSOO #SchoolofOutliers #SelfDiscovery #MentalHealthAwareness #SpiritualEnlightenment #spirituality #levelsofconsciousness #knowthyself
I think that I don't know!
The connection between mental health with spirituality.
#validateyourSelf #subconsciousmind #levelsofconsciousness #selflove2023 #awarenessiskey #iamconfident #IsThatSOO