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UrbanSocialites is a quarterly printed & online magazine celebrating our journey for the best lifestyles. Who is UrbanSocialites the Man's Man?

US celebrates and promotes positive influences to enable cultural experience. Our Model is based on exposure and the impact of cultivating one self. He's the real class act. He always shaves and wears clothes that fit. He's worldly, educated, and a gentleman. He thinks that buttoned shirts are not just for special occasions and that newspapers have more than one section. While he is polite, he is

not a pushover. He will swear when he needs to, but will try to control his temper. He can handle his liquor responsibly and keeps himself in shape. Most importantly, he will admit his faults and errors, because that is what real men do. He is comfortable with his s*xuality, black or white, Republic or Democrat, Atheist or Evangelical; he just does whatever he thinks makes himself a good person that he can be proud of.

06/01/2022

WELLNESS WITH PRIDE

Remind yourself that, despite your challenges, you are a unique, special, and valuable person, and that you deserve to feel good about yourself. You are, after all, a miracle of PURPOSE.

BLACK GAY PROUD EVOLUTIONARY

05/21/2022

SERIOUSLY SEEKING????

For many reasons, it is difficult for HIM to make room for something real once he discovers just how many choices he has online, he may become less interested in committing and more interested in continuing to look around.

WISDOM
Some men use the Internet to find relationships; some use it to run from them.

What’s your experience on the APPS

05/16/2022

It's simple: when he loves you, he wants to keep you happy. This doesn't mean always letting you get your way, but it does mean he'll be eager to reach a middle ground with you where you're both happy. Whether it's where you spend quality time or who gets the remote, he'll show his love by insisting that we call the shots sometimes.

05/11/2022

Liberate with US DEC 3rd-8th

Destination HEDONISM JAMAICA

COME EXPERIENCE WITH US

03/09/2022

Sometimes, one of the hardest and most rewarding fitness hurdles to overcome is the mental one — the awareness that your body is your body, with all its unique characteristics and individualities. There’s always something we could want to change about our bodies. But instead of dwelling on those components, celebrating them is a surefire way to gain mental peace and greater self-confidence.

12/05/2021

Living inside ourselves means no longer being addicted to stimulation. It means no longer living a life of constant doing, interspersed with periods of distraction. Inwardness brings a fundamental sense of ease and contentment. We are perfectly happy even if there are no entertainments or activities to occupy our attention. We can rest peacefully inside ourselves, occupying our own mental space and observing our own thoughts and feelings.

12/01/2021

Today we remember who we have lost in the past and those who can now live healthy lives with HIV.

WISDOM
We must create a healthy community effort to end HIV/AIDS with the same conviction and sustained efforts that we give to COVID, Heart Disease, Asthma, Cancer, and other illnesses. Far too many Same Gender loving Men globally are living in trauma and stigma therefore causing a disconnect with the health system and a primary care provider.

The lack of compassion, support and safe space from the Black community must stop.

Community, parents and extending family must provide a safe space for all especially Black Gay/ Q***r or Same Gender loving men.

11/20/2021

The truth is, you’re not the same person you were in the past. You don’t do things the same way you once did. You no longer want what you once wanted. Instead of labeling yourself and focusing on who you are today, recognize how much you’ve grown and changed from your former self.

11/06/2021

Conscious appreciation arises naturally from giving our full attention to our surroundings and our experience. It’s the sense of natural appreciation we might feel when we feel relaxed and our minds are fairly quiet, and we perceive the world around us freshly and directly.

10/30/2021

CAUSALITIES OF LOVE LOST!

I want you to know that it is not always easy to love me. That sometimes my chest is a field full of landmines, and where I was last night, I can’t guarantee tomorrow. It’s not about disrespect but more about my personal journey. There is no manual, there is no road map, no help line you can call; my body does not come with instructions, and sometimes even I don’t know what to do with it. This cannot be easy. But still, you touch me anyway.

10/26/2021

It's time we change the way we approach our pursuit of committed
connections. Rather than partaking in the superficial race, we need to evolve our perception of dating and become conscious daters. [CONSCIOUS] dating is a method that honors and respects US as individuals and offers an emotionally healthy way to find love. This process is about attracting a partner who are in alignment with our most authentic self. It's not about creating superficial illusions or wearing a mask.
WISDOM
Put down the mask, to work on ourselves, and to understand the direct correlation between the love we have for ourselves and the love we receive from others.

10/09/2021

Maybe it’s time to begin taking care of your self? It’s far better to change the way you live, beginning now, instead of waiting for things to get out of your control. Create an inventory of your health including diet, exercise, genetics, and stress level. Begin slowly, one change at a time, eventually incorporating others.

07/11/2021

Faith is a fundamental part of life in the South. We're taught from a very young age that leaning on faith in difficult situations helps us to overcome even the most trying and challenging times that we will face during our life.
WISDOM
Faith is unseen but felt, faith is strength when we feel we have none, faith is hope when all seems lost

05/30/2021

Activating your BLESSING!

I want you to be so full of faith and then be able to so full of faith and then to act on your faith, so you can activate the blessing of God in your life. Get a hold on these scriptures I’ve listed for you, read them, meditate on them, pray over them and watch your faith and power grow.

04/11/2021

It's time we change the way we approach our pursuit of committed connections. Rather than partaking in the superficial race, we need to evolve our perception of dating and become conscious daters. [CONSCIOUS] dating is a method that honors and respects US as individuals and offers an emotionally healthy way to find love. This process is about attracting
a partner who are in alignment with our most authentic self. It's not about creating superficial illusions or wearing a mask.
WISDOM
Put down the mask, to work on ourselves, and to understand the direct correlation between the love we have for ourselves and the love we receive from others.

04/04/2021

Use this season of renewal as a reminder to get rid of things that are weighing you down and sapping your energy?

Allow yourself to let go of the past to make room for new things to come into your life.

Commit to making decisions you’ve been putting off.

Challenge limiting beliefs about yourself and about how things should be.

03/24/2021

Broaden your scope. Focus on the solution, not the problem. Step back from today’s challenge, look at the big picture, and brainstorm a wide range of options instead of over-focusing on the difficulty. Every time you’re feeling pessimistic or hopeless, put on your wide-angle lens, pull up the big picture, and see the situation in a broad context instead of from the narrow lens that clouds out possibilities.

03/21/2021

I decided to go naked, leaving more space for the unexpected instead of focusing on a goal. When I fear emptiness, I redirect my thoughts to the idea that the future holds good things that I haven’t yet imagined. I am so grateful for my tiny mental bandwidth that I am determined not to waste it!

03/14/2021

Shifting to the true self, means that one integrates the skills and strengths of the false self with the shadow side, the aspects of self that were being suppressed by the false self. This way, one moves into an enlightened view of connection and unity with others, life, universe.

03/13/2021

Choose a consistent time to wake. Before you get out of bed, direct your mind to something positive such as expressing gratitude.
WISDOM
Do something simple and unobtrusive that centers and directs your mind (and ideally your mind in motion) in a calming, pleasurable manner.

03/12/2021

LIBERATE YOUR EXPERIENCE
Destination Jamaica DEC 2nd-7th
The journey from the uncomfortable to the comfortable.

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03/07/2021

Ponder the Black Joy in You.

When you truly grasp those truths, they will forever change you. You won’t be able to feel badly about yourself ever again because you will have an assurance that you are adored and wanted and loved.

03/06/2021

I decided to go naked, leaving more space for the unexpected instead of focusing on what’s not out there for me. When I fear loneliness , I redirect my thoughts to the idea that the future holds good things that I haven’t yet imagined. I am so grateful for my tiny mental bandwidth that I am determined there someone out there for me.

03/01/2021

MY NAME IS PEACHES

02/28/2021

In a world where followers and likes can seem like rock-solid proof of a person's worth, you don't have to take the bait.
WISDOM

True self-love begins and ends internally. The gifts we receive in our lives, or the gifts that we work tirelessly for, are wonderful byproducts of the work we do internally.

02/25/2021

What does intimacy mean to you?

Much like a love language, we each have an intimacy language. For some, intimacy means having every inch of your body caressed in the glow of candlelight. For others, it’s a quickie followed by snuggle.

WISDOM
There’s always more we can learn about our partner — and ourselves. The key is asking the right questions and listening to the answers without judgement. When it comes to s*x and intimacy, this is especially true because fear of being judged can often stand in the way of desire.

*xuality

02/21/2021

GIVE ME STRENGTH WISDOM AND GUIDANCE

Thank You for Your guidance and not getting ahead of Your plans for me. Help me know when to stop and listen for Your direction. Help me to set my thoughts on things above and to speak only what will help and encourage others.

02/14/2021

Be my Valentine
I wanted you to love me more than you lust me, not for who you are but for who I am and when I am with you.
Does his desire for me has something to do with wanting to be acknowledged?

GROWTH
I am confident because I can admit who I am, what I have done, and loving myself for who I’ve become.

*xobsession *xobject

02/08/2021

National Black HIV/AIDS Awareness Day (NBHAAD)

We have all the tools available to end the spread of HIV and it begins with purpose and self care.

BE confident that you are valuable and have purpose.

BE confident in having a conversation with your s*xual partner.

BE confident and begin a relationship with a cultural competent provider.

BE confident to get a physical exam once a year regardless of any symptoms.

BE confident to ask a friend or a friend referral for those uncomfortable questions.

BE confident to wear CONDOMS to prevent STI.

BE confident to know that not all s*x energy is good for your emotional wellness.

BE confident to have a conversation about starting PrEP. (A daily pill to prevent HIV)

BE confident that researcher are working on additional options to protect you. Participate in new development like injectable Cabotegravir.

*xpositivity

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Today we remember who we have lost in the past and those who can now live healthy lives with HIV. WISDOM We must create a healthy community effort to end HIV/AIDS with the same conviction and sustained efforts that we give to COVID, Heart Disease, Asthma, Cancer, and other illnesses. Far too many Same Gender loving Men globally are living in trauma and stigma therefore causing a disconnect with the health system and a primary care provider. The lack of compassion, support and safe space from the Black community must stop. Community, parents and extending family must provide a safe space for all especially Black Gay/ Queer or Same Gender loving men. #wad #hivcure #hivlivesmatter #endhiv #hivawarenessandprevention #familymatters #safespace #samegenderlovingmen #holidayseason #heisvaluable #hivresearch #BAI

MY NAME IS PEACHES #exploreher #hearmesing #homage #femaleimpersonator #livingoutloud

WELCOME HOME FOR THE HOLIDAYS When he his part of me and my family. #loveislove🌈 #beintentional #blackfamily #modernfamily #tistheseason #happyholidays #bromance

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National HIV Testing Day. IT’S NEVER TO LATE! It can be frighten to get test result but self care is far more important . Assess your personal sexual activity regardless of relationship status, and make STI/HIV part of your annual self care check list. WISDOM Having a BFF or a support network such as @heisvaluable and @impulseatl can easy the anxiety. YOUR NOT ALONE. GET HIP TO HEALTH GET CONNECTED TO ALL THE RESOURCES TO A HEALTHY LIFESTYLE. . . @gethipgetconnected @m.e.n._project2019 @heisvaluable @dacribbatl @lost.n.found.youth @thespotatrush @impulseatl @avision4hoproject2019pe.nonprofit @stophivatl @mercycareatlanta @naesm_inc @aid_atlanta @aidshealthcare @positiveimpact_atl @absolutecare_medical_center @thrive_ss @someonecaresatl #PEPprevention #PrEPprevention #gayboy #blackgiftedandwhole #ghgc #gethipgetconnected #heisvaluable #stophivatl #comedy #bff #supportsystem #supportnetwork #hivprevention #selfcare #gaycomedy

Craving is an overwhelming emotional experience that produces a powerful, often overwhelming, urge. During the state of craving people experience a disconnection between what they desire at the moment and what is best for their long-term self-interest. WISDOM Monitoring and self-awareness are the crucial components of self-control. Monitoring may prove difficult during highly emotional states. Self-control failure occurs when an individual attends only to the immediate present and does not monitor inconsistencies between current interests and long-term goals. #chooseyourfuxswisely #prep4pleasure #craving #kraving #sexsation #betterdecision #loveselffirst #stophivatl

BLACK BOLD PASSIONATE Most of us have an irregular, more part-time boldness: We're able to speak up and be decisive about some issues or with some people but not others: Most times stepping up and making a solid decision isn't a part-time occasional challenge but a constant struggle: #blackboldpassionate #humpdaywednesday #blackboyjoy #confidence

When Black girls ROCK. Owning our Magic. Rocking our Truth. @staceyabrams @oprah @keishabottoms #whenweallvote #bethechange #changeadvocates

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“I know who I am and I am enough” It’s okay to be broken. And it’s okay to let the broken parts mend.” “I choose to be present and mindful right now.” “I am in control of the way I respond to the behavior of others.” “I’m grateful for the life I have.” #faith #hishealth #grateful #lovingme #ichooseme

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