عاشقانه ها

20/11/2024

حال دلتون خوش عزیزان❤️❤️
باهاش بخونید و لذت ببرید.

17/11/2024

میرے پیج کو فالو کریں۔

24/09/2024

Thanks for being a top engager and making it on to my weekly engagement list! 🎉 شرىف الله عزىزى, عدنان افغان افغان, Navid Mohamadi, Malekfaisal Alemyar

22/09/2024

با جهان زیبا – به‌تازگی به‌عنوان یکی از طرفداران برتر او شناخته شدم! 🎉

20/09/2024

چندتا عکس از فیض آباد زیبا شهر عشق و خاطره ها

10/09/2024

https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100070947584287
رقص قشنگ دختر ایرانی

10/09/2024

Hazaragi 💃

31/05/2024

30/05/2024

میشه نیم رخاتونو ببینم؟
لطفن بفرستید.

30/05/2024

S*x vs Intimacy
S*x is a physical act. S*x does not necessarily carry with it an emotional connection or feelings of attachment. I mean ultimately, that’s what the majority of people want in their relationships, however, it’s not the case for everyone. Sometimes s*x is just a physical act performed in order to achieve an or**sm. Some people are okay with just needing that physical connection.

Intimacy is a feeling of closeness, familiarity, and/or friendship with another person. Synonyms for intimacy are: attachment, affection, warmth, togetherness, affinity, rapport. I had none of these things in my first marriage. In fact, we were severely detached from each other’s needs.

I’m an emotional person and I couldn’t be my true self for fear he wouldn’t accept me. Typically, my husband recoiled when I expressed any type of emotion and as a result, I grew more and more distant. Because I didn’t have those critical components of intimacy in my relationship, I didn’t feel connected to him. I discovered that I needed intimacy in order to feel s*xual.

In the beginning of our relationship s*x with my then husband was mediocre. For some reason I thought that as we grew together in our marriage, the s*x would get better. Well, I was wrong. It got worse and I became more and more detached and unfulfilled. Before long, s*x became an obligatory act that eventually became a repulsive one. Five years into it, the thought of having s*x with this man triggered my gag-reflex.

I think because we lacked the intimacy I needed to enjoy having s*x with him.

I wish I would have understood the importance of intimacy in a relationship, especially a long-term relationship. I wish my husband did too. I have found that most people don’t talk about s*x and intimacy. It’s probably because they were never taught how to express themselves emotionally or s*xually. In our culture our boys are taught to detach from their emotions. Our girls are taught that their bodies are objects so they detach from their bodies. Boys and girls need to be taught to connect with the mind, body and spirit. But that’s the subject of another post.

S*x and intimacy are two different things. It’s important to understand how they differ and how they correlate. It’s also important to understand what you value. If intimacy isn’t important to you but it’s important to your partner, this should be discussed before you get married. How will you navigate these differences in your marriage? Will you consider not getting married if this need is not fulfilled.

30/05/2024

What’s the difference between love and infatuation?

30/05/2024

Every generation has struggled with the enduring question, What is Love?, and it remains one of Google’s most popular searches. Set off on a journey around the globe to explore the beauty, depth and complexity of love.

Hear unforgettable stories from those who have found love in a single glance to those who have searched for it their entire lives, from those who have made the ultimate sacrifice to those who have discovered a power stronger than hatred and violence.

Peer inside the workings of the human brain to discover a fundamental neurological need stronger than the body’s physical need for food. Observe the inner struggles that make finding and holding on to love so complicated.

12/05/2024

چقدر جمله قشنگی

08/05/2024

تمام اشک‌هایم در رگ‌هایت سهیم می‌شوند. نگاهی است که جهان من را نورانی می‌کند. دستان تو به دنبالی است که در هر آغوشی محل قرارگیری من است. با تمام وجود به خودم می‌خندم، زیرا تو همواره در نزدیکی من هستی.

02/05/2024

دلبسته ی چشمان تو و دل نگرانم

به طرز نگاه تو که بند است جهانم

در دشت دلم عطر تو پیچید دوباره

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