18/04/2025
Notes on personal experiences. Human societies live largely around narratives and beliefs, even though we have evolved into technological and scientific societies. Even in Science there are narratives and biases of many kinds, but it is the most objective and impartial human 'enterprise' ever created. That is why the narratives we create, about ourselves and others, continue to be important and impactful. In this particular case, some of us may, by randomness and/or lesser 'luck' (yes, in quotes...) be negatively impacted by unfounded impressions, narratives and subjectivities. Unfortunately, I am one of those who had and still has to go through this type of 'path'.
But I would like to leave a message for potential friends or followers: it is essential to believe, but even more important to develop, our own positive narrative of control over our lives and not to be held hostage by the narratives of others. As a rule, others will almost never make our lives what we want it to be and what happen to us, even if there are many good people, with good intentions and who can help us in our life goals. Because that is what is essential, not losing track of our positive Life narratives, being in control and command of them and having the humility to make the necessary changes that Contingency might demand. But it will not be others defining us and determine what happens or what does not happen to us.
No matter the timing, another hostage to biased 'conventional wisdom'. We have the time to make it happen, if we want to.