02/06/2025
Why do women stay in toxic relationship?
They stay in toxic relationship firstly because of the immance attachment with someone they've been with for years...
Secondly the imagery world they've created where the person they love is the most handsome or caring or how the person treated them like Princes before getting them and they couldn't get that image out of their heads...
Then the one's that are married think about their children's future that no one is going to love them as their own father would do and if they get into new relationships their new partner would not accept their past...
Then they consider what if the second person they get into relationship or marry comes out to be worst then the one they had been with like also being physically abused with verbally tortured...or what if they ended up divorced again or make same mistake twice?
They also get scared of making attachments again both emotionally and physically after being manipulated multiple times by the one they considerd their true love... They're scared of being tormented again.
Also some of them that are not very much educated are scared of not being able to provide to their children or being in the feet of their parents to earn money and feed the children that they are responsible for,
Some are scared of the society that they will spread fall rumers about them or force them to get married to an old bald man who's either divorced or still married with many adult children...
And some of them are scared because the abusive one is the only one in the world they ever been with so they somehow feel for them like home even if being at *home* hurts...
People, being a woman is hard...
Please respect the one's Allah has pared you with...
Because at the day of judgment you will be asked about how did you spend the life with the one's you were responsible for... And you would have no good answer instead of guilt...
May we all find peace happiness and comfort in our marriages...ameen ...Abeer...
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