Daily Thought

07/06/2024

06/06/2024

"KUNG AYAW MO SA AKIN, AYOKO DIN SA YO"

Almost all of us had experienced holding on to people na paulit-ulit na tayong niloko ... yung tipong harap-harapan na tayong dinededma, sige pa rin tayong isinisiksik ang sarili ...desperately hoping na ma-recognize ang worth natin ... yung tipong iiwanan tayo at babalikan ulit at iiwan na naman kung may nakitang iba ... yung tipong ang theme song ay "Basta Maghintay Ka Lamang".

Well, iba yung may hinihintay ...may darating kung ganoon ...pero kung ang hinihintay mo ay andyan lang ...di naman lumalapit syo kung hindi ka kailangan, naghihintay ka ng sakit ng dibdib at sama ng loob.

It is worth our while to give ourselves the chance ... walang masamang mag-effort para mapansin tayo ... para mahalin tayo ... para ituring na kaibigan ...and in many cases, para ituring tayo na "kabiyak ng puso". Pero kung effort tayo ng effort at ang tingin naman sa atin ng pinatutungkulan natin ay epal tayo ... TUMIGIL NA TAYO ... mas piliing mahalin ang sarili ... mas mabuti pang mag-isa kesa may kasama nga pero mas marami pang away kesa pagsasaya.

LET GO OF PEOPLE WHO WANTS TO GO ... hayaan nating lumayas sa buhay natin ang mga taong gustong mawala tayo sa kanilang mundo. Hindi natin dapat ipagsisikan ang ating mga sarili. When we keep these people in our lives, they dominate our consciousness. They occupy big spaces in our hearts ... nawawalan ng espasyo ang mga tamang tao para sa atin .. di makapasok sa ating buhay. Minsan sa kakasiksik natin sa maling tao, di na natin napapansing andyan lang pala sa tabi natin ang mga taong tunay na magmamahal at magmamalasakit sa atin. Naghihintay ng pagkakataon ...

So the next time na sabihin o iparamdam sa atin ng ibang tao na ayaw nila sa atin, ESPECIALLY after doing our best, sabihin o iparamdam din natin na "KUNG AYAW MO SA AKIN, AYOKO DIN SA YO" ...turn our backs and walk away .. di man napasaatin ang taong gusto natin, we have our honor, dignity and pride with us ...somewhere along the way, the RIGHT FRIEND will come ...and stay

05/06/2024

SABI NILA, SA ISANG RELASYON...

Babae ang mas nagmamahal, sila 'yung mas nag bubuhos ng oras, atensyon at mas sweet...

Babae ang mas umiintindi, kahit minsan sobrang toxic na, pinipilit nilang unawain kasi ayaw nilang maiwanan...

Babae ang mas matatag, matyaga, nag hahabol at mas matindi kumapit. Kahit pa minsan wala na silang kinakapitan at pinang hahawakan, nananatili pa rin sila...

Babae ang mas marupok, konting suyo, yakap o I love you mo lang diyan marupok na naman 'yan...
Kahit pa paulit ulit mong ginago 'yan...

Babae ang mas nasasaktan, grabe umiyak at mag pakita ng emosyon...
Walang gabi na hindi niyan iisipin kung anong mali sakanya at paano maging sapat...

Babae ang mas matagal mag move on, minsan kahit taon na hindi pa rin 'yan nakakalimot, taon na pero 'yung nanakit pa rin sakanila ang minamahal nila, taon na pero 'yung sakit sariwang sariwa pa...

PERO, oras na sumuko 'yan, mapagod at mawalan ng gana...
Hindi na kahit kailan babalik 'yan...

Kahit mahal kapa niyan, kahit suyuin mo pa 'yan...
Pero bago sumuko 'yan, umunawa, nag tyaga at nag tiis 'yan but once she said she's done?...

Believe her, she's done...
Walang lingunan.

04/06/2024

BAKIT MARAMI ANG HINDI UMAASENSO?

REALITY TALK po tayo today. Bakit nga ba? Marami naman ay masipag, matiyaga, masinop. Marami naman ay halos tipirin ang sarili sa luho ..tiyaga sa simpleng pagkain, pananamit at pamumuhay. ...marami ang hindi tatalikod sa pagkakataong makakuha ng "sidejobs" kapag day off ...sabi nga, yung halos araw at gabing trabaho ng trabaho pero bago magkatapusan ang buwan, wala na ni halos pamasahe papunta sa trabaho o pauwi sa bahay.

Marami sa ating mga nasa abroad ang uuwi ng Pilipinas ng walang sapat na ipon para sa ating pagtanda, tanging baon ay magagandang alaala ng kahapon at habang tumutulo ang luha ay tinatanong ang sarili, SAAN AKO NAGKAMALI?

Likas na mabait at matulungin ang bawat Pilipino. Likas ito sa ating kultura. Ito ang ating kiagisnan mula sa ating mga magulang ...ang pagdadamayam at pagtulong sa pamilya ay banal at sagrado. NGUNIT PAANO KUNG ANG PAGTULONG NA ITO ANG HUMAHADLANG PARA TAYO UMASENSO?

Bigay tayo ng bigay ...sustento sa magulang (na kailangang sapat lamang) ...pagpapaaral sa mga kapatid (na kung tutuusin ay di natin obligasyon) ... sagot natin pati handa sa kasal, birthdays at iba pang selebrasyon ng pamilya. Bigay dito ...bigay doon ...tulong tayo ng tulong ...hanggang maubusan na tayo ng panahon ...tumanda .. nagkasakit ...umuwing walang pera. AT ANG MASAKIT, di na rayo umasenso dahil sa pagtulong, di rin umasenso yung ating mgat tinulungan dahil nasanay na sila sa pagtanggap .. o kung umunlad man sila ay mayroon naman silang sariling pamilyang dapat unang bigyan ng kalinga at pagkakataon sa buhay. Bubuo sila ng sariling pangarap .. magsisikap na iangat ang sarili .. mag-iipon ...AND LIKE IT OR NOT, DITAYO KASAMA SA KANILANG PANGARAP.

Ang punto ko dito ay bigyang pansin ang ating mga sarili. MAG-IPON PARA SA PAGTANDA. Huwag umasa sa kalinga ng mga taong iyong kinalinga. Huwag isiping bata pa naman at may pagkakataong magsubi para sa kinabukasan. Paano kung biruin ng tadhana? Nagkauwian ng biglaan ..kung NGAYON ang araw na iyon, SAAN KA PUPULUTIN?

INVEST IN YOURSELF ...Mabuti ng iayos at paunlarin ang sarili bago tumulong sa iba. Put your money where it needed to be. Di masama ang tumulong but do not lose sight of your goal. AND THAT IS TO MAKE A BETTER FUTURE FOR YOURSELF (and your immediate family which include your spouse and children). Madalas, di natin napapansing ang tinutupad natin ay pangarap ng ibang kapamilya .. habang ikaw ay nililipasan na ng panahon ... nauubusan na ng lakas,

May panahon pa para itama ang lahat. Baguhin ang prayoridad .. matutong magsabi ng HINDI at WALA .. matutong TUMANGGI sa hinihinging pabor ng kapamilya at kaibigan. SIMULAN sa pagkakalkula ng pagkakautang. Paano at gaano pa katagal mababayaran. Di na ito dapat madagdagan. PAY OFF ALL DEBTS as aoon as possible ...then SAVE 20% of your monthly income ...yung 80% iallocate na sa gastusin sa Pilioinas. MAG-IPON FOR FUTURE INVESTMENTS. Huwag mangutang para magpatayo ng bahay ...o mangutang ng pambili ng sasakyang pang dagdag kita. Ipuniin mo ang dapat sana ay pambuwanang hulog sa utang at tubo, mas mabilis kang makakaatikha sa buhay. Mas mabuti kung katuwang si mister o misis sa pagkita. Yung tipong kung di man makadagdag ay di na sana makabawas pa sa buwanang iipunin. Palakihin ang mga anak sa reyalidad ng buhay sa abroad ...ipamulat ang katakut-takot na luha at sakripisyo kapalit ng perang kanilang tinatanggap. HUWAG MATAKOT SABIHIN ang lahat ng pagkakautang ...na babayaran mo ito ...na dahilan upang mabago ang halaga ng perang dadaloy sa kanilang mga palad.

TODAY IS THE PERFECT DAY to change our ways ...prioritize .. unahin ang obligasyon (sa magulang at mga anak pati na ang lahat ng pagkakautang)...everything else is secondary (di mo obligasyon ...kusang loob mo lamang ang pagtulong ...dapat pahindian kung makakaapekto sa iyong sariling pangarap). REASSES your goal ...aling pangarap ang idedepende ng direkta sa pag-aabroad. At alin ang pangarap na tutuparin MULA SA NAIPONG PERA sa pangingibang-bayan. Set a REALISTIC DEADLINE to achieve all these. At pagkatapos, UWIAN NA ...at patuloy na paunlarin ang sarili kasama ng pamilya sa Pilipinas.

TANDAAN, WALANG HALAGA ANG PERA KUNG WASAK NA ANG PAMILYANG UUWIAN.

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27/03/2024

" Love does not end with death;
it merely transforms.
Grief is the space where love grows wings, teaching us to love beyond
the barriers of life and death."

~ Anonymous

01/03/2024

Soul connections are undeniably real, and trust me, there is someone out there who is tailor-made for you, just like a key that perfectly fits a lock.

But let me tell you, finding your soul mate is not a journey of shortcuts. It requires patience , because destiny will bring you together at the perfect moment .

There will come a day, a moment in time, when you will be wrapped in the embrace of the person destined to be your lifelong companion . It will feel like a magnetic force drawing you towards each other, forming an unbreakable bond of love and passion that transcends time .

Your soul mate won't be flawless or perfect, but they will have the power to transform your life, bringing it to a whole new level of joy and fulfillment . They will be the missing piece that completes you.

To every devoted, loving woman reading this, my prayer is that you will cross paths with that one true man who will love you so deeply, you will forget the pain of past mistreatment and heartbreak. May your heart be healed and your love story be rewritten with happiness and fulfillment.


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20/12/2023

10 Lessons from Love Yourself Like Your Life Depends on It:

1. Love yourself unconditionally. This means loving yourself even when you make mistakes, even when you fall short of your expectations, and even when you feel unlovable. It means accepting yourself for who you are, flaws and all.

2. Be your own best friend. This means being kind to yourself, supportive of yourself, and compassionate with yourself. It means being there for yourself when you need it most, and celebrating your successes with yourself.

3. Set boundaries with people who are toxic or negative. You don't have to put up with people who make you feel bad about yourself or who treat you disrespectfully. It's okay to say no to people and to distance yourself from those who are not good for you.

4. Take care of your physical and mental health. This means eating healthy foods, getting enough sleep, and exercising regularly. It also means taking care of your mental health by managing stress, seeking professional help if needed, and practicing positive self-talk.

5. Forgive yourself for your mistakes. Everyone makes mistakes. It's important to learn from your mistakes and move on. Holding onto guilt and regret will only hold you back.

6. Appreciate your unique talents and qualities. We all have unique talents and qualities that make us special. Take the time to identify and appreciate your own unique gifts.

7. Don't compare yourself to others. Everyone is on their own unique journey in life. Comparing yourself to others will only lead to unhappiness. Instead, focus on your own journey and celebrate your own progress.

8. Don't be afraid to fail. Failure is a part of life. Everyone fails at some point. The important thing is to learn from your failures and keep trying.

9. Go after your dreams. Don't let anything stop you from pursuing your dreams. Believe in yourself and your ability to achieve your goals.

10. Be grateful for what you have. It's easy to focus on the things we don't have, but it's important to take the time to appreciate the things we do have. Gratitude can help us to feel happier and more content with our lives.

Loving yourself is one of the most important things you can do for yourself. It's the foundation for a happy and fulfilling life. When you love yourself, you're more likely to make healthy choices, pursue your dreams, and build strong relationships.

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19/12/2023

GUIDE TO A GOOD LIFE: 🔏

1. Control your thoughts when you are alone. Your thoughts manifest into realities.

2. Control your tongue when you are with friends. Your words have so much power and people can use them against you.

3. Control your decisions when you are angry. Anger is a temporal thing but the decisions you make when you are angry can have lifelong effect.

4. Pay attention to your behaviour when you sit in a group. Maintain a respectful attitude to others even during stressful times. Don’t disrespect anyone, use appropriate language, apologise for errors or misunderstandings, and keep your personal opinions of others private.

5. Control your pride when someone praises you. Pride is poison for your soul and can create an inflated self-image with negative after effect.

6. Control your emotions when someone say something wrong about you. It can be a trap intentionally set to capture you. If you control your emotions, you can figure out how to deal with problematic events and difficult situations and come to reasonable solutions.

EYA Oliver

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