Quotes of Life

21/12/2024

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Have you ever considered
that, at any given moment, you are exactly who the world needs?

That you're the tune to someone's lyrics when no other melody seems to fit.

That you're the stars to someone's sky when it is drowning in inky darkness.

That you're the moon to someone's ocean when it cannot find its way back to the sand.

And it might not be forever.

Songs end,
the sun rises
and the tide turns.

But maybe for a while - maybe in this moment -
you are exactly where you're supposed to be.

Because it gives you a chance
to sing, to shine and to make waves.

And your light,
your music,
your guide...
Oh the world needs it.

It really, really does.

*****

'Any Given Moment' by Becky Hemsley Poetry

21/12/2024

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"Tears are like words that need to be written down, but sometimes they're too heavy and too complicated to ever find their way on paper." They burn behind your eyes, swelling from the weight of emotions that cannot be said, emotions that twist and bite your soul.
"You try to express them, release yourself from their embrace, but all you can do is cry, silently begging someone to understand what you can't even say out loud."

~Paulo Coelho

21/12/2024

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"Dogs are a man's best friend" is a common English idiom that means dogs are loyal and loving companions to humans. Dogs have been domesticated for thousands of years, providing affection, protection and assistance. They're often considered part of the family.
Here are some interesting facts about dogs:

*History*

1. Dogs were domesticated around 15,000-30,000 years ago.
2. Ancient civilizations (Egypt, Greece, Rome) revered dogs as companions and hunting partners.
3. The first dog breed, the Saluki, emerged around 4000 BCE.

*Loyalty and Intelligence*

1. Dogs have 300 million olfactory receptors (humans have 6 million).
2. They can recognize and respond to over 1,000 words.
3. Dogs can detect emotions, providing comfort and empathy.

*Health Benefits*

1. Dog owners tend to have lower blood pressure andad cholesterol.
2. Dogs reduce stress and anxiety.
3. Walking dogs promotes physical activity.

*Amazing Abilities*

1. Service dogs assist people with disabilities.
2. Search and rescue dogs locate missing persons.
3. Therapy dogs provide emotional support.

*Fun Facts*

1. Dogs have unique nose prints, like human fingerprints.
2. They can hear sounds up to 40,000 Hz (humans: 20,000 Hz).
3. The world's smallest dog breed is the Chihuahua.

*Popular Breeds*

1. Labrador Retriever
2. German Shepherd
3. Golden Retriever
4. French Bulldog
5. Poodle

*Dog Care Tips*

1. Provide regular exercise (30 minutes/day).
2. Train basic obedience commands.
3. Schedule veterinary check-ups.
4. Offer mental stimulation (toys, puzzles).
5. Show love and affection!

20/12/2024

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BE A MAN :

I. Never Take Your Parents For Granted. They Won't Be Around Forever.

II. When You Improve Yourself, You Improve Your Family. When You Improve Your Family, You Improve Your Community. It’s That Simple.

III. Men Who Can Control Their Lust Are Unstoppable. They Have Solved 80% Of Their Life Problems. Control Your Lust!

IV. Embarrassment Lasts A Day. Regret Lasts A Lifetime.

V. A Man Without A Purpose Will Look To Distract Himself With Cheap Pleasures.

VI. Avoid People Who Hate The Opposite S*x.

VII. Pay Attention To The Advice Of Happy Old People.

VIII. Discipline Beats Motivation Every Single Day.

IX. You're A Slave To Everyone You Feel The Need To Impress.

X. Most Unhappiness In Men Comes From A Lack Of Purpose.

XI. Advice For Young Women: Avoid Men Who Are Rude To Their Mothers.

XII. One Of The Worst Things A Man Can Be Addicted To Is Comfort.

XIII. Femininity Inspires Masculinity. Masculinity Inspires Femininity.

XIV. Life Doesn't Get Easier, You Just Get Stronger.

XV. No Man Ever Became Great By Sitting On The Sofa Watching Netflix All Day.

XVI. Men Are Happiest When They’re Building A Legacy.

XVII. Ignore Losers Who Say Life Gets Worse With Age.

XVIII. Be The Man Who Remains Calm When Everyone Else Is Losing Their Minds.

XIX. It's Better To Risk Making Mistakes Than To Take No Action At All.

XX. Laughing At A Fat Person In The Gym Is Like Laughing At A Homeless Person For Trying To Find A Job.

XXI. Spending Time In Nature Is An Elite Anxiety Remedy.

XXII. Learn How To Take Criticism Without Reacting Emotionally.

XXIII. You Become A Better Man When You Stop Watching P**n.

XXIV. You Either Fight For What You Want Or You Get What You're Given.

XXV. Always Remember That Some Men Are Only Nice Because They're Too Weak To Confront Anyone.

-Leon Nhomboka

19/12/2024

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(7) SEVEN THINGS YOU SHOULD GIVE YOUR SPOUSE DAILY ✨

When it comes to giving, many married people are generous to everybody except their spouses. There are seven things you should give your spouse daily – not weekly, monthly or annually. They are things you must give your spouse daily. Let’s see them:

1. Give Your Spouse A TOUCH

One of the ways to bond with your spouse is to give him or her a touch. We have encouragement touch, affirmation touch, healing touch, apology touch, and we have s*xual touch. Study your partner and know what touch to give at a particular time.

2. Give Your Spouse SPACE

As much as you need to bond with your spouse and be together for daily intimacy, communication, affection, planning, etc., you still need to give your spouse his or her space. There is time for couples’ prayers, time for couples’ bonding. Also there is time for personal prayer, personal meditation, personal rest, personal planning, etc.

Don’t choke your spouse. Don’t be over-possessive and over-demanding to your spouse. Stop unnecessary policing and monitoring. Give your spouse the space they need when they need it.

3. Give Your Spouse A CALL/CHAT

Some people can chat with all the contacts on their phone and all the people on their Face book friends list but they will never chat with or call their spouse all through the day.

Chatting with or calling your spouse in a day at work is a way of saying, “Dear, despite my busy schedule, I have you in mind. I am thinking about you.”

Make sure you send a chat, or give a call, to your spouse today. Make it a habit; it is beneficial to both of you. Nobody can be tired of receiving a caring chat or a call from someone they love.

4. Give Your Spouse A HUG

Hugging is fast disappearing in many marriages today. Research has proved that hugging is one of the emotional needs of every human being. It is the scarcity of spousal hugs that makes many men indiscriminately hug ladies who are not their wives. Many women too crave for hugs and unwittingly allow every Tom and Jerry to hug them because their husbands are not giving them hugs.

Hugs can be given in the morning, or at night, but let no day pass without you hugging your spouse. It is one valuable thing you must give your spouse. It could be a welcoming hug, a goodbye hug, an appreciating hug, or an affirmative hug.

Hugging is a non-verbal means of communication. Use it well. Don’t let your husband or wife crave for a hug from strangers when you are still alive. Hug passionately! Hug romantically.

5. Give Your Spouse A SMILE

God smiles on a home when couples smile at each other. A smile is a way of telling your spouse, “You delight me,” “Your presence amuses me,” “I am pleased with you.”

Frowning at your spouse is not a thing that should last a whole day. One of the ways to know your marriage is SMELLING is when you are not SMILING with each other. Smile. It is one of the best gifts you can give your spouse in a day.

I don’t like people who are not generous with their smiles. It is free. You don’t need to pay to smile. Just relax your muscles and smile. Couples, please smile! Keep smiling! To prevent your marriage from smelling, keep smiling with your spouse!!!

6. Give Your Spouse PEACE OF MIND

The home is the endpoint of everything we do daily. If you are a doctor, you can’t sleep in the hospital all the days of your life. You will need to come home. If you are an engineer, you can’t sleep in the site everyday. If you are a lawyer, you can’t sleep in the court everyday. Even as a pastor, you can’t be in the church 24/7. We all must go back home.

Home is the endpoint. Therefore, if your spouse will be excited to come home, it must be a peaceful home. Stop nagging, stop fighting, Stop insulting, stop abusing, stop threatening, and stop humiliating your spouse. Give him/her rest of mind. Give your wife rest of mind.

Be the head of your wife sir, not the headache of your wife. Madam, be a wife to your husband, not a ‘knife’. Blessed are the couples who give each other peace of mind daily!

7. Give Your Spouse A PRAYER

No matter how wealthy or highly connected you are, there are things you cannot do for your spouse. You are limited. One of the ways to show love to your spouse is to commit him/her to the unlimited God. Say a word of prayer for your spouse daily.

Every other thing may fail and may not work, but no force can withstand the power of prayer. You can’t heal your spouse, only God can heal him/her. You can’t lengthen the days of your spouse. Only God can do that. You can’t save your spouse. You can’t take away addiction and evil habits from your spouse , only God can do that for him/her.

Pray to God. Mention the name of your husband/wife to God. As a man, you are the priest of your family. Lay your hands on your wife, or hold her hands and say a word of prayer into her life. It is a major gift many couples find so difficult to give each other.

Blessed is that wife whose husband gives a gift of prayer daily. Blessed also is that husband whose wife gives a gift of prayer daily. Pray for your spouse if you don’t want him/her to become a prey in the hands of the devil.

All these seven things you must give your spouse daily are very easy, simple,
free and important. Put them on your to-do list. Don’t forget to give it.

Remember, givers never lack. If you give your spouse all these, I guarantee that there is a high assurance that you will get them back.

18/12/2024

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“How beautiful it is to stay silent when someone expects you to be enraged!” (Paulo Coelho)

There's a quiet power in choosing silence when anger is expected. It's a testament to self-control, a refusal to be manipulated by the emotions of others. It's a demonstration of strength, a refusal to stoop to the level of the provocateur.

In that silence, we rise above the fray, choosing peace over chaos, understanding over aggression. It's a beautiful act of defiance, a declaration that we are not defined by the anger of others, but by the strength of our own inner peace.❤️

17/12/2024

Let's apply this everyday to make the world more peaceful and full of LOVE

“If we could look into another person’s heart and understand the daily challenges each of us faces, I think we would treat each other with more kindness, patience, tolerance, and caring. ”❣️❣️❣️

17/12/2024

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I didn't lose my love for you. I just stopped believing in you. I stopped waiting for you. I stopped hoping for you to change. I stopped letting myself be taken for granted by doing things that you wouldn't even think of doing for me. I stopped because i knew i couldn't keep letting the same person break me in the same ways, over and over. if I did, i wouldn't have any part of my heart left, and i don't want to lose myself if that's what it takes to be loved by you.😔💔

16/12/2024

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A high-value woman is not defined by her appearance, her style, or her level of education.

She is distinguished by her personal boundaries.

Recognize her by her strength in saying “no,” and her ability to walk away from any place or relationship where she is not valued for who she truly is.

A woman worthy of admiration does not beg for appreciation. She commands it through her actions, because she is confident and holds herself in high regard.

You won’t find in her life people who joke with poor manners or belittle her. She doesn’t tolerate negativity and removes toxic individuals from her circle without hesitation.

Her life is one of quality—defined by respect and integrity, not wealth. She lives by standards that reflect her true worth.

A high-value woman does not justify staying in a toxic or unfulfilling relationship due to emotions, needs, or a “need for support.”

She does not need brands, titles, a husband, or certifications to prove her value. She knows and feels her worth so deeply that it requires no validation from others.

She will walk away from anything that threatens to poison her soul, just as she would from anything harmful to her body.

A high-value woman believes in her worth and maintains the purity of her essence, never compromising or negotiating it.

She knows that no matter what beautiful additions life brings her, her pure essence remains the most valuable, profound, and beautiful part of who she is.

Sublime Heart
Divine Souls

15/12/2024

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"The saddest kind of love is the love that is never realized, the love that exists only in dreams and quiet hopes. It is the love that lingers in stolen glances, in unspoken words, in the spaces between what is and what could be. And as time passes, that love becomes a bittersweet memory, a tender ache that never fully goes away, a reminder of what was lost before it even had a chance to be found."

— Leo Tolstoy, Anna Karenina

15/12/2024

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10 TRUTHS ABOUT THE EX

1. Don't go back to an ex just because you miss the s*x

2. Establish boundaries between you and your ex. It is easy to slip back to an ex due to past experiences shared. Move on completely lest you confuse and hinder your progress

3. Before you date or marry someone, find out what happened to lead to their break up with the ex lest they import the mess from their previous relationship into the one they are building with you

4. Before you get into a new relationship, make sure things between you and your ex are completely over. An undecided heart breaks other hearts

5. You don't have to keep in touch with your ex. This is because you can easily find yourself being mindful of the feelings of your ex, forgetting the feelings of your current partner. Your loyalty and responsibility is to your new found love

6. Don't keep praising your ex to your current partner

7. How you treat and talk about your ex will either make your partner very secure or very insecure

8. If you have a child/children with your ex and you two have chosen to co-parent, keep boundaries. Let your communication be based on your parenting. Your current partner will not mind if you are honest, transparent and clear on boundaries

9. If your ex is taken or you are taken, stop feeding your past emotions by telling each other "I miss you" or calling each other "Sweetheart"

10. Don't compete with your ex on who is moving on and succeeding in life better between you and your ex. This will make you lose your focus and purpose in life as you try to prove a point. Remember your life doesn't revolve around your ex

14/12/2024

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I'm from a different tale!!!

I don’t belong to Wonderland, I’m not as beautiful as Snow White, I don’t have Rapunzel’s long hair, and I can’t sing like the Little Mermaid.

I come from a place called reality, where princesses save themselves and kiss frogs that never turn into princes.

We’re not looking for a prince; we want a real man.
An ogre like Shrek, who would risk everything for his Fiona.
A madman like Don Quixote, who fights to the end for his Dulcinea.

We don’t need seven dwarfs, palaces, or castles.
All we want is someone like the Beast, who loves us as deeply as he loves Belle.

My story is different, a much more beautiful one.
There are no dragons, fairy godmothers, magical spells, or perfect endings.
Here, you cry, you suffer, but you also grow and learn.

The magic in my story is real.
I may break, I may fall apart, but I always rebuild myself.

You see, my tale is unique because I write it myself.
And in this story, the Witch is me!

14/12/2024

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Choosing someone differs from loving them. Choosing means committing through life's highs and lows. Anyone can claim love, but not everyone chooses you during hardships.

The reality of love isn't constant bliss or affection; it's choosing each other daily. Not every day is happy, not every day is loving, but I hope you choose to stay together daily. I may not love you every day, but I'll choose you daily, through thick and thin."

14/12/2024

I hope that during this HOLIDAY SEASON , people come together, peace replaces hate and love conquers all.🎄💕

13/12/2024

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"Sometimes the greatest gift you can give another person is to simply include them!”

In a world often driven by self-interest, the simple act of inclusion can be the most profound gift we can offer.
Sometimes, the greatest kindness isn't a grand gesture or a lavish present, but the quiet act of making someone feel seen, heard, and valued. It's about inviting them into our circle, sharing our space, and acknowledging their presence. It's about creating a sense of belonging, of knowing that they are not alone, that they are part of something bigger than themselves.

By extending a hand of friendship, a smile of acceptance, or simply a listening ear, we can make a world of difference in someone's life. For in the act of inclusion, we create a space for connection, for understanding, and for the blossoming of genuine human connection.💕💕💕

13/12/2024

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A the saying goes:

” Be careful who you let on your ship, because some people will sink the whole ship just because they can't be the captain".

Be mindful of who you allow on your ship, for not everyone comes with good intentions.
Some people, driven by their own need for control or resentment, may try to steer your course in directions that lead to turmoil.
They may not be satisfied with simply being part of the journey, and in their desire to take over, they risk sinking the entire ship.

Protect your ship—your life, your peace, your dreams—from those who cannot honor the role they are meant to play. Surround yourself with those who lift you, who respect your path, and who understand that a true journey is about supporting one another, not seizing the helm at all costs👍😊.

12/12/2024

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"A man is rich, whose heart is light,
Whose pleasures are simple, and his joys in sight,
He finds delight, in nature's gentle breeze,

And sunshine warms his soul, with effortless ease.
His wealth is measured, not in gold or might,
But in the beauty, of a peaceful night,

A walk in the woods, a book by the fire,
These are the treasures, that his heart desires.
He is the richest, who can find delight,

In the smallest pleasures, that life brings to sight,
A child's laughter, a friend's warm embrace,
These are the riches, that fill his heart with grace.

So let us not be fooled, by wealth's disguise,
For true richness lies, in a heart that's wise,
That finds joy in the simple things,
And treasures love, above all earthly rings."
Credit to unknown author

12/12/2024

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If you feel like you cannot move on from whatever you are going through at the moment, remember this: six months ago, or twelve months ago, or two years ago, you thought the same. You were in a position that threatened all that was hopeful within you; you did not think you would survive. But six months ago, or twelve months ago, or two years ago - you did. You did. You woke up in the morning. You pushed through the mess, you dug yourself out of the hurt. You held on to whatever light you found within your days, you pressed it into yourself whenever you could, reminding yourself that goodness still existed, that the softness was still there. Six months ago, or twelve months ago, or two years ago, you fought your way out of the dark. You fought to be here. You have the strength to save yourself. You always have. Please, don't ever forget that.