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15/12/2024

"Why Getting Too Attached to Someone Can Be Risky"

Attachment is a natural and beautiful way to connect with others. It brings comfort and closeness, but if it becomes too strong, it can lead to emotional struggles.

Here’s why getting overly attached can be harmful:

1. You Might Lose Yourself:
You focus so much on their happiness that you forget your own needs and identity.

2. You Fear Losing Them:
The thought of them leaving or changing becomes overwhelming. Small disagreements or silences feel like major problems.

3. Your Happiness Depends on Them:
When they’re happy, you’re happy. But if they’re upset, your world feels unstable.

4. You Ignore Red Flags:
You might overlook problems or accept unhealthy behavior just to keep them close.

5. You Feel Drained:
Giving too much without getting the same energy back leaves you exhausted and doubting your worth.

How to Avoid Over-Attachment

Stay True to Yourself:
Keep your own hobbies, dreams, and friendships. You’re complete on your own.

Set Boundaries:
Love should be balanced. Speak up about your needs and respect each other’s space.

Practice Self-Love:
The better you treat yourself, the healthier your relationships will be.

Accept Change:
Nothing lasts forever. Enjoy the moments but be prepared for change.

Loving someone deeply is wonderful, but don’t let it cost your peace of mind. Healthy relationships grow with balance and mutual respect.

14/12/2024

HE DIDN'T CHEAT BUT HE'S STILL A TRAITOR

My boyfriend left his phone open as he took a shower. Out of curiosity, I opened his phone and accessed all of his social media accounts.

There, I found out that he never entertained other girls and he never bothered to respond on their flirty messages. In other words, there were no signs of cheating at all.

As his girlfriend, I couldn't help but to smile in satisfaction. I continued scrolling down his newsfeed and upon scrolling, there's a picture of a woman who completely caught my attention.

I stalked the woman's account and I was surprised knowing that my boyfriend always filled her posts and pictures with "heart reactions" and he even commented, "ganda naman". The woman also responded, "thank you".

For the first time in years, I got alarmed and somewhat a bit threatened.

What I saw that day completely disturbed my mental state. I know it was just a small thing and I should not put a malice towards their mini interaction in social media but my anxiety couldn't handle it.

From that day onwards, I started to overthink. I became so paranoid.

Months passed, I could feel my boyfriend's cold approach towards me. He became so distant, he's near yet I couldn't feel his warmth and presence.

He became more secretive and it felt like there's something part of him that I wasn't allowed to step on.

Out of paranoia, I opened my boyfriend's account once again. I know I am invading his privacy but I'm too desperate to know what is happening why he's acting so cold lately.

I stalked the account of the woman who got me jealous and they had no conversation at all, but they are talking in the comment section while praising each other's existence.

That day, I laughed while droplets of tears escaped my eyes.

Yes, my boyfriend is not a cheater but I always wonder how would it feel when someone loves you right. Someone who would make you feel that you are special, that you are the only woman who's beautiful in his eyes.

Each day, my anxiety is getting worse and it affected our relationship.

I love my man but I don't want to be selfish, because I knew to myself that he's just waiting for me to let go of him.

That's why, I decided to break up with him and ended our three years relationship.

It hurts walking away from the man you love, but what hurts the most is when he did nothing to chase and fight for me to stay.

Nag-break na lang kami na parang wala lang nangyari. Na parang hindi kami nagmahalan nang tatlong taon!

—
After two weeks of break up, I found out that he's already dating with the same woman I stalked in facebook.

There, I've realized that small things can be big. Those small interactions of them in social media is already a warning which I failed to notice and those little red flags which I chose to ignore.

I've already accepted that we broke up, but I still can't accept how we ended.

I felt so betrayed!

Yes, my man is not a cheater but do you know what makes him a traitor?

It's when he already knew who's next after you while you are still in the process of moving on!

CTTO

Cheating isn't always physical; sometimes, it's the betrayal of emotions and loyalty. 💔

03/12/2024

Marriage: The Hard Truths They Don’t Tell You

Marriage looks sweet from the outside—new couples in love and successful relationships make it seem perfect. But once you’re in, you realize marriage is much more complicated than it appears. Many focus on romance, but few prepare for the challenges that come with marriage. The hardest parts of marriage matter more than the romantic moments.

What ruins most marriages isn’t the lack of love, but the inability to handle the tough times. Here are five challenges you might not be told about:

1. Staying Faithful

Being faithful in marriage is harder than staying pure when you’re single. Once you know how good s*x feels, the temptation to cheat becomes stronger—especially if your spouse isn’t interested in s*x. Others might try to seduce you.

To stay faithful, you need discipline and self-control, not just love. Marriage won’t magically stop cheating; only strong self-control can. If you struggle to stay pure now, it will be harder in marriage.

2. Sexual Issues

Saving s*x for marriage is wise. It teaches self-control and keeps you from unhealthy habits or expectations.

In marriage, s*xual issues often arise. One partner may have more experience, while the other may be new. One might want s*x often, while the other is okay going months without it.

These differences can cause tension, so it’s important to be patient and understanding. If you stay pure before marriage, it’s easier to handle these challenges.

3. Money Problems

Money can help or destroy a marriage. What’s your attitude toward money? Can you both work together financially?

As a woman, do you see your money as only yours while your husband’s money is for the family?
As a man, are you ready to provide, or will you rely on your wife’s income while controlling how it’s spent?

You both need to be open about finances. Hiding money or building wealth in secret can ruin trust.

4. Unmet Expectations

People change. If she gains weight after pregnancy, can you accept it? If he becomes busy with work and has less time for romance, can you handle it?

Prepare for tough times in marriage. Just as you expect sunny days, be ready for storms. Unmet expectations are part of life, but how you handle them matters.

5. Handling Differences

Differences can lead to divorce if not handled well. How will you deal with them?

For example:

He squeezes toothpaste from the middle, but you prefer the bottom.

She likes cold food, but you want it hot.

These small things add up if not addressed. Marriage is about adjusting, compromising, and tolerating each other’s habits.

Marriage isn’t just a wedding or romance. It’s a lifetime commitment with ups and downs. Be ready for challenges like financial problems, family issues, loss of a job, or delays in having kids.

Marriage is hard, but if you prepare your mind and work together, you can handle anything. Finding the right partner is tough, but staying married is even harder. Focus on both the good times and the challenges, so you can build a strong, lasting union.

02/12/2024

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30/11/2024

8 lessons from The Art of Being Alone by Renuka Gavrani:

1. Embrace Solitude as Self-Care
Gavrani emphasizes that solitude should be viewed as an essential form of self-care. Being alone allows for emotional and mental recharge, leading to a deeper understanding of oneself and fostering personal growth.

2. Build a Strong Relationship with Yourself
Learning to enjoy your own company is vital. The book encourages readers to cultivate a strong, compassionate relationship with themselves, which lays the foundation for healthier relationships with others.

3. Silence as a Tool for Reflection
Silence is powerful in helping us listen to our inner voice. Gavrani suggests that by embracing silence, we open ourselves up to introspection and a clearer understanding of our thoughts and emotions.

4. Aloneness vs. Loneliness
Gavrani distinguishes between being alone and feeling lonely. Aloneness is a conscious choice for self-discovery and peace, while loneliness stems from a lack of connection. By appreciating time alone, we can reduce feelings of loneliness.

5. Use Alone Time for Creativity and Productivity
Solitude can be a productive space for creativity. Without distractions, you can focus on creative pursuits, hobbies, or self-improvement, finding inspiration in stillness.

6. Set Boundaries for Social Interactions
The book emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries in relationships to protect your energy. Gavrani encourages readers to balance social engagements with moments of solitude to maintain emotional well-being.

7. Find Joy in Simple Activities
Gavrani highlights the importance of finding joy in small, simple activities when alone, such as reading, walking, or journaling. These activities can bring peace and contentment without the need for external validation.

8. Develop Emotional Independence
One of the key lessons is to cultivate emotional independence. The book stresses that you don’t need to rely on others for happiness. By being emotionally self-reliant, you build resilience and inner strength.

23/11/2024

Vice: Alam mo, tuwing may discussion about love and relationship, I always use your story. Lalo na pag ginagawang issue ‘yung kung gaano katagal ba dapat nagliligawan, gaano ba kayo dapat katagal magkakilala. Lagi kong sinasabi, hindi natin talaga masasabi kasi nga si Aga at Charlene, ‘nung kinuwento niya sa GGV, hindi sila nagligawan. Hindi sila naging boyfriend/girlfriend. He felt at that time he wanted to marry Charlene, and they did.

Aga: And the most surprising part there was she said yes kasi parang, ang lalaki, pwede kang mag-decide na, I will propose. Alam mo, feeling mo sasagutin ka, diba? Ba’t ka magpo-propose eh di mo girlfriend? Wala, parang you just felt it right. I just want you to be my wife. When she said yes, ako ‘yung umiyak, eh. Kung nag-no siya, doon ako liligaw. Kukunin ko siya talaga. Alam ko siya ‘yung asawa ko. And until this day, coming here to work and even promoting or doing a film, ganyan. And my happiest times is when I come home, and when my wife and I… di mo kami mapaghihiwalay talaga. We travel, we work out, we eat, we sleep, we wake up, coffee, talk talk talk—for the past 23 years.

Indeed, find a man who loves you more, as this will help the relationship last and prosper. Choose a man whose world lights up at the mere mention of your name—a man who treats you as his home, always sees your worth, and values you deeply. He will love you unconditionally, no matter the phases you go through, whether in a relationship or marriage. You are blessed to have someone who will remain consistent in their love and care, even as the years pass.

A successful marriage is not always about how long you have known each other. Most of the time, it is about the genuine connection between two people who are willing to take risks together.

04/11/2024

#1 rule kapag nilibre ka always piliin mo ung mura and if you still preferred ordering the expensive one make sure to share and pay for your bill kahit sinabi pa ng manliligaw mong libre ka niya.

29/10/2024

Reading this has really struck a chord with me. Popularity alone doesn’t equip someone with the skills or experience to handle the complexities of government, legislation, or public administration. Unfortunately, not everyone has the eye for discernment when choosing leaders, but it’s essential to remember that when we vote, we should prioritize someone who genuinely has the capacity to serve the nation — not just cater to individual interests.

In developed countries like Singapore and the United States, leadership often focuses on strategic growth, economic development, and national progress, rather than solely on charisma or fame. We, too, need leaders who put the country’s advancement first.

If public figures who are already popular or wealthy want to make a difference, they might consider setting up foundations or charities. This approach allows them to help people directly without holding government positions they might not be fully prepared to handle.

Government is about much more than just helping people on a personal level; it’s about fostering economic growth and long-term progress. When leaders prioritize national development, the benefits naturally uplift everyone in the country. So, as voters, let’s choose leaders based on competence and dedication to the nation’s prosperity, not just their popularity.

26/10/2024

Not a smart move 🥲

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05/10/2024

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04/10/2024

Kung ikaw ay isang sikat na influencer at alam naman ng lahat na napakalaki na ng iyong kinikita, ngunit sinabi mong gusto mong pumasok sa politika para makatulong, pag-isipan mo itong mabuti.

Kung ang motibo mo ay pagtulong sa lipunan, mas mabuting magtayo ka na lang ng foundation kaysa sumabak sa politika, na para bang ginagamit mo ito bilang paraan para makabuo ng bagong koneksyon at negosyo.

29/09/2024

"Parents should listen not for rebuttals, but for understanding."

"An apology is different from repair. Repair focuses more on admitting what you could have done, rather than emphasizing your excuses or the reasons why you failed or became angry."

For example:
Apology: "I'm sorry I yelled at you. I was just really stressed out from work."

Repair: "I realize I shouldn't have yelled at you. I should have taken a moment to calm down and communicated better instead of reacting with anger."

Not Repair: "I'm sorry I yelled at you, but you were really annoying me, and I couldn't help it."

To repair a relationship, if needs active listening in communication, especially between parents and children. When parents focus on understanding rather than preparing a response or rebuttal, it fosters a more open and trusting relationship. This approach encourages children to express themselves freely and can lead to deeper connections and better conflict resolution.

Parents may find themselves always in a difficult position understanding their child, but they have to always remember that when you have a child, that child would be always younger than you.

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29/09/2024

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28/09/2024

Spotting fake or hacked accounts used for trolling on Facebook can be tricky, but here are some tips to help you identify them:

1. Profile Picture:
Check if the profile picture looks suspicious. Fake accounts often use stock photos, celebrity images, or no profile picture at all.

2. Profile Information:
Look for incomplete or inconsistent information. Fake accounts might have minimal details, or the information might not add up (e.g., a young person claiming to be a CEO).

3. Friends List:
Examine their friends list. Fake accounts often have few friends or friends from all over the world with no local connections.

4. Activity and Posts:
Check their activity. Fake accounts might have very few posts, or their posts might be generic and lack personal details. Also, look for repetitive or spammy comments.

5. Account Age:
New accounts with very little activity can be a red flag. Troll accounts are often created recently.

6. Interaction Patterns:
Notice how they interact. Trolls often post inflammatory or provocative comments to elicit strong reactions.

7. Search for Their Name:
Use search engines to see if the person appears on other social networks with the same name and similar details.

8. Profile Tags:
Real accounts are often tagged in photos and posts by friends. A lack of tags can be suspicious.

9. Direct Communication:
If you're unsure, you can message them and ask why they want to connect with you. Genuine users will usually provide a reasonable explanation.

10. Report and Block:
If you suspect an account is fake or hacked, report it to Facebook and block the user to prevent further interaction.

By staying vigilant and using these tips, you can better protect yourself from fake or hacked accounts on Facebook.

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28/09/2024

Mas bagay ata sila sa energen. Mas practical po inumin.

Sa energen gurantisado ang everyday energy mo 😅 Ganado sa bawat laban ng buhay.

Pwede para sa lahat.

Inumin na di lang para sa moms kundi para sa mga GF din. Pwede sa girl,boy,bakla at tomboy. Ang inumin na walang kinikilingan 😅

Safe sa mga buntis at di pa nabubuntis.
Sa oatmeal palang busog ka na 🤣