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26/01/2025

💡 Unlock Peace with "The Let Them Theory" by Mel Robbins 💡

Are you tired of stressing over things you can't control?

The Let Them Theory is your guide to letting go and living a more peaceful life. It's a mindset tool that helps you identify what's in your control and what's not, instantly freeing you from stress and anxiety.

Here are some practical wisdom that will transform how we should show up in life. Learn from these topics:

👉 The Significant Difference Between “Let Them” and “Let Me”
👉 Stop Obsessing Over Things You Can’t Control
👉 People Only Change if They Want to
👉 How Do You Let Difficult People Be
👉 Learn to Value Your Time and Energy
👉 Two Things that Truly Define Love
👉 Let People Gossip About It
👉 Don’t Expect Too Much From Others
👉 Let Them Lie to You, It’s Their Truth

People only change if they want to. They only show who they really are... Let Them lie to you. Indeed , it’s their truth. Practice letting go. 🙂 Redirect your energy to what matters most—your goals and your happiness.

🌟 KEY TAKEAWAYS on how to stop giving your power away to others' opinions and behavior while focusing on the three things you can always control: your thoughts, your actions, and how you process your emotions. Here's a quick summary and tips to help you apply this life-changing mindset daily:

1. Accept What You Can’t Control: Stop trying to manage others’ decisions or actions. Let them live their lives.
2. Focus on Your Reaction: Instead of controlling others, control how you respond. Stay calm and grounded.
3. Set Clear Boundaries: Respect others’ choices while protecting your peace of mind.
4. Empathize, Don’t Criticize: Understand others’ perspectives instead of judging them.
5. Practice Letting Go: Release the weight of things you can’t influence and focus on your growth.

✨ HOW CAN THIS HELP YOU?

📌 Reduce Stress: By focusing on what you can control, you’ll feel lighter and more in control of your emotions.
📌 Build Stronger Relationships: Accepting others as they are deepens connections and reduces conflict.
📌 Enhance Personal Growth: Redirect your energy to what matters most—your goals and happiness.

🚀 ADDITIONAL QUICK TIPS TO APPLY THIS DAILY:

✔️ Set boundaries for a healthier work-life balance.
✔️ When feeling stressed, pause and ask: “Can I control this?”
✔️ Respect others’ choices—even when you don’t agree.
✔️ Reflect on situations where you can let go and move forward.

The Let Them Theory is not about indifference; it’s about freedom—freedom from unnecessary stress and drama. 💕

👉 Start small today: What’s one thing you can let go of?

26/01/2025

Invest in yourself now regardless of your age..

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14/02/2023

Ikigai

This is a term for your reason of being.

Your ikigai is your lifes purpose. It’s what brings you joy and inspires you to get out of bed every day.

Contrary to popular belief it's not about professional accomplishment.

It's about finding your bliss.

12/02/2023

10 realizations that you have to embrace.

1. As you get older, you choose the people that you accept in your life. You do not want to waste your energy trying to connect with someone, and it will not prosper into a relationship that is worth keeping.

2. You can't stop people from saying things about you. It is not your responsibility to change their minds. You only have to keep on doing what you do best. For as long as you are not hurting anyone, then there is no need to explain yourself.

3. You don't need so many friends in your life. You only need a few but are genuine with you. You cut off people in your life who do not respect you.

4. You are a work in progress, so there is no need for you to be hard on yourself. You have to continue learning and embrace that you will never please everyone.

5. Kindness goes a long way. If you have nothing good to say, it is better to keep your opinions to yourself. Allow people to grow and learn from their past mistakes.

6. Those people who know you better will stay with you no matter what. These are people that you have to keep because they have the purest intentions for you.

7. Maturity is to prioritize your needs over anything. For as long it can serve its purpose, you don't feel the need to buy a new one.

8. Embrace the fact that we outgrew people. Some of them do not stay because they have other priorities. You don't stop them, you let them go.

9. You choose your battles because not everything is worth your time and energy. You would want to protect your peace of mind than engage in drama.

10. You choose your happiness more than anything. You don't let people define your success. You make the most of every day because life is fleeting.

You chase your dreams, not people anymore.

04/02/2023

10 lessons from the book “Master Your Time, Master Your Life”

1. One of your great jobs in life is to find something you really love to do and then put your whole heart into becoming excellent at doing that one thing.

2. Nature Says you can have all the money you want, but you will have to earn by serving other people with the things they want and need.

3. There is nothing that will move you ahead faster than for you to get a reputation for good work habits.

4. There are 3 main enemies of creative thought: the Comfort zone, learned helplessness and fear of failure or rejection

5. The wonderful discovery is that your creative ability is like a muscle. The more you use it, the stronger it becomes and the faster it works for you.

6. Your income will be largely determined by 3 factors: The work you do, how well you do it, and the difficulty of replacing you.

7. The highest-paid people were always reading, learning and upgrading their skills.

8. When you become a lifelong learner, your potential has no limit.

9. Time and money are interchangeable. They can be either spent or invested. If you spend time or money, they are gone forever. You can never get them back. But if you invest time and money, you can earn a return that may go on for years.

10. No matter who signs your paycheck, you are always on your own payroll.

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07/11/2022

Success is a daily habit 🎯

05/11/2022

What is the 80/20 Principle?

The 80/20 principle (aka the Pareto principle) states that 80% of the results come from 20% of the causes.

80/20 Principle at Work

80% of the value in any organization or profession comes from 20% of the professionals. Workers who are above average will tend to be paid more than those who are below average, but nowhere near enough to reflect the differential in performance.

It follows that the best people are always underpaid and the worst people always overpaid.

Being Intelligent and Lazy
The key to earning more and working less is to pick the right thing to do and to do only those things that add the highest value.

Identify where 20% of effort gives 80% of the returns: In any sphere of activity, 80% of people are achieving 20% of the results, and 20% of the people are achieving 80% of the results.

What are the majority doing wrong and the minority doing right?

What we must do is internalize that hard work—especially for someone else— is usually not an efficient way to achieve what we want. Hard work leads to low returns. Insight and doing what we ourselves want leads to high returns.

31/10/2022

Good things take time.
Your investments, in knowledge, skills, money, and in relationships will take time before they bear fruit.

Be patient.
There is a time to plant and a time to harvest. Be patient.

24/03/2022

Adopt a Growth Mindset and Focus on Learning Over Achievement.

When you focus on a growth mindset, you embrace all the things that have felt threatening: challenges, struggles, criticism, and setbacks.

When you embrace the tough stuff, you open yourself up to fully realizing your potential and all that you can be.

Instead of depending on luck or “natural” talent, you focus on developing your skills and abilities and learning from your efforts.

18/03/2022

Ego is the Enemy

"Wherever you are, whatever you’re doing, your worst enemy already lives inside you: your ego."

10/03/2022

You Are Not Shaped by Your Circumstances

If you believe you can’t get something just because you came from a different background or because your environment doesn’t support you, you are wrong...

You are not shaped by the circumstances, but rather the outer world of circumstances shapes itself into the inner world of your thoughts.

No matter what the circumstances are, you always have the freedom to choose how to respond. And the best response is always to choose to focus on the areas you have control of. When you focus on what you have control over and improve that way, you win in life.

Men are anxious to improve their circumstances, but are unwilling to improve themselves; they, therefore, remain bound.

16/12/2021

Audit Your Life

What you do with your spare time says a lot about what you value. If you say you value family but spend all day at work, you're not living by your values.

Audit your time and correct course if your actions and values don't align.

Doing a life audit is crucial for pinpointing where to make adjustments.
Start by figuring out where you stand in the 8 areas of life:
- health
- career
- finances
- self-care
- free time
- home life
- relationships
- personal development

Create Space For Reflection

Sit down and reflect on your emotions and decisions at the end of each day.

Through reflection, you listen to your inner voice, find who you really are, and discard the expectations of others.

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