10/01/2026
The Kingdom of God is built not on competition, ego, or comparison, but on humility, clarity of calling, and joyful surrender. John the Baptist models a rare kind of discipleship that celebrates God’s work—even when it means stepping aside...
𝗛𝗲 𝗠𝘂𝘀𝘁 𝗜𝗻𝗰𝗿𝗲𝗮𝘀𝗲, 𝗜 𝗠𝘂𝘀𝘁 𝗗𝗲𝗰𝗿𝗲𝗮𝘀𝗲: 𝙁𝙞𝙣𝙙𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙔𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙋𝙪𝙧𝙥𝙤𝙨𝙚 𝙞𝙣 𝙂𝙤𝙙'𝙨 𝙋𝙡𝙖𝙣
Have you ever felt like you’re working so hard, giving your best, but someone else comes along and seems to be getting all the attention and praise? How do you feel when that happens? Do you ever wonder what your purpose is in the bigger picture?
Let me share a story from Scripture about someone who faced this exact situation—and handled it with incredible grace and wisdom.
In 𝗝𝗼𝗵𝗻 𝟯:𝟮𝟮-𝟯𝟬, John the Baptist and Jesus are both baptizing people. John’s disciples notice that Jesus is drawing larger crowds, and they begin to worry. They ask John, “𝘙𝘢𝘣𝘣𝘪, 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘮𝘢𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘵𝘦𝘴𝘵𝘪𝘧𝘪𝘦𝘥 𝘢𝘣𝘰𝘶𝘵—𝘏𝘦’𝘴 𝘯𝘰𝘸 𝘣𝘢𝘱𝘵𝘪𝘻𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘺𝘰𝘯𝘦 𝘪𝘴 𝘨𝘰𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘰 𝘏𝘪𝘮!” It’s easy to imagine their frustration: "We were here first! Why is He getting all the attention?"
But John isn’t upset. Instead, he reminds them of his role. He says, “𝘐 𝘢𝘮 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘔𝘦𝘴𝘴𝘪𝘢𝘩 𝘣𝘶𝘵 𝘢𝘮 𝘴𝘦𝘯𝘵 𝘢𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘥 𝘰𝘧 𝘏𝘪𝘮.” John knows his role — he’s not in competition with Jesus. He’s preparing the way for Him. He compares himself to the best man at a wedding, saying his joy comes from seeing the groom—Jesus—take center stage. Then John utters these famous words: “He must increase, but I must decrease.”
John’s words are profound, humble, and so countercultural. Instead of competing, he celebrates Jesus’ success. Instead of clinging to his influence, he steps aside joyfully. Let’s break down the passage and see how John's example can guide us in our lives right now, toward our purpose.
• 𝗥𝗲𝗰𝗼𝗴𝗻𝗶𝘇𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗬𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗥𝗼𝗹𝗲 (𝘃𝟮𝟮-𝟮𝟰):
The simultaneous ministries of Jesus and John reflect a transitional period in God's plan of salvation. John’s ministry was preparing people for Jesus, and now Jesus' ministry is taking center stage. Sometimes, we might find ourselves in a situation where we feel like we’re doing good work, but others seem to be shining brighter. John could have easily felt threatened by Jesus’ growing following, but he didn’t. He knew his purpose. Like John, we must recognize that we all have a role to play in God’s bigger plan.
Think of a group project at school. You might not be the team leader, but your part in it matters. The project would not be successful without everyone doing their best, even if your role isn’t the most visible. Just like that, our roles in God’s plan are all important, whether big or small.
• 𝗔𝘃𝗼𝗶𝗱𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗖𝗼𝗺𝗽𝗮𝗿𝗶𝘀𝗼𝗻 (𝘃𝟮𝟱-𝟮𝟲):
Now, John’s followers were worried about numbers. They were caught in the trap of comparison and competition. They asked, “Why is everyone going to Jesus instead of staying with us?” Like them, it’s natural to compare ourselves to others, especially when they seem to be doing better. But Jesus’ success doesn’t take away from John’s purpose.
Think about social media. It’s easy to scroll and feel like others have it all figured out. But everyone has their own journey. Don’t measure your worth by others' success. Celebrate what God is doing in their lives and trust that He’s doing something amazing in yours, too.
• 𝗨𝗻𝗱𝗲𝗿𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗻𝗱𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗚𝗼𝗱’𝘀 𝗚𝗶𝗳𝘁𝘀 (𝘃𝟮𝟳-𝟮𝟴):
John says, “𝘈 𝘱𝘦𝘳𝘴𝘰𝘯 𝘤𝘢𝘯 𝘳𝘦𝘤𝘦𝘪𝘷𝘦 𝘰𝘯𝘭𝘺 𝘸𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘪𝘴 𝘨𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘮 𝘧𝘳𝘰𝘮 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘷𝘦𝘯.” We all have unique gifts, and those gifts are given by God. John's ministry, influence, and purpose were all gifts from heaven. He acknowledges his role as the forerunner, not the Messiah. He wasn’t trying to compete for attention or take credit for something that wasn’t his. When we remember or know that everything we have is a gift from God, it shifts our focus from striving for recognition to serving Him.
It’s like being on a sports team. Not everyone can be the star player, but the team would be incomplete without the support players, the ones who pass the ball, or the ones who keep the team spirit high. Your gifts — no matter how big or small — are crucial to God’s kingdom.
Think about your gifts and talents. Have you been using them for God’s glory or for your own? Take time to thank Him for the abilities, opportunities, and achievements He’s given you.
• 𝗙𝗶𝗻𝗱𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗝𝗼𝘆 𝗶𝗻 𝗢𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿𝘀’ 𝗦𝘂𝗰𝗰𝗲𝘀𝘀 (𝘃𝟮𝟵):
Now, John described himself as the friend of the bridegroom, full of joy because the bridegroom’s day had come. His happiness wasn’t about his own role but about seeing God’s plan unfold. He didn’t feel jealous; he celebrated it. The same goes for us. When someone else succeeds, especially in God’s work, we should rejoice with them.
Let's be real. Most of the time, it’s easy to feel left out when others succeed, but God is inviting us to find joy in their success. Celebrate with them because it’s a reflection of God’s goodness. Remember, when we rejoice with others, we create a community of support that uplifts everyone.
True joy comes from seeing God’s plans unfold, even if it means stepping back so someone else can shine.
• 𝗘𝗺𝗯𝗿𝗮𝗰𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗛𝘂𝗺𝗶𝗹𝗶𝘁𝘆 (𝘃𝟯𝟬):
Finally, John sums it up with this profound statement: “𝘏𝘦 𝘮𝘶𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯𝘤𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦, 𝘣𝘶𝘵 𝘐 𝘮𝘶𝘴𝘵 𝘥𝘦𝘤𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦.” This is where we need to check our hearts. Do we want to be the center of attention, or do we want Jesus to be glorified? In a world that constantly pushes us to build our personal brand, to gain followers, and to make a name for ourselves, this is a tough call.
John understands that Jesus is the true leader, and that is enough for him. For us, it’s a call to humility and selflessness. Our lives are not about making ourselves bigger but pointing people to Jesus.
Imagine you’re at a concert, and the spotlight is on the lead singer. The backup singers and the musicians may not get as much attention, but they are essential to making the music come alive. Our job is to make sure the spotlight is always on Jesus, not on us.
So, what does this mean for us today? Whether you're just starting your faith journey or have been walking with God for a while, the call is the same: to point others to Jesus and serve humbly. It’s not about our fame or our moment in the spotlight. It’s about letting Jesus shine.
When we make space for Jesus to increase in our lives, we find our true purpose. Like John, we can be content knowing that our role is to glorify God — not to compete, not to compare, and not to seek our own glory. Let’s make the words of John our own: “𝙃𝙚 𝙢𝙪𝙨𝙩 𝙞𝙣𝙘𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙨𝙚, 𝙗𝙪𝙩 𝙄 𝙢𝙪𝙨𝙩 𝙙𝙚𝙘𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙨𝙚.”
And let’s pray for the humility to serve with joy, the wisdom to know our place in God’s plan, and the heart to celebrate others as they fulfill their roles. May we always remember that in God’s kingdom, every role is important, and the greatest joy is in seeing Him work through us and through others.
Keep shining, keep serving, and let Jesus increase in your life!
𝗟𝗘𝗧 𝗨𝗦 𝗣𝗥𝗔𝗬:
Heavenly Father, thank You for the unique purpose You have given each of us in Your grand plan. Teach us to embrace humility, to celebrate others’ successes, and to find joy in pointing people to Jesus. Help us resist the temptation to compare ourselves with others and instead trust in Your perfect timing and provision.
May we always rely on Your grace and rejoice in the success of others for the growth of Your kingdom. Make us a faithful servant, content in knowing that all we have is a gift from You.
And may we live out the words of John the Baptist: “He must increase, but I must decrease.” Fill our hearts with joy in serving You, and let every word, thought, and action point others to Your glory.
In Jesus’ mighty name, we pray. Amen.