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๐Œ๐ฒ ๐ ๐ข๐ซ๐ฅ๐Ÿ๐ซ๐ข๐ž๐ง๐ ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐Ÿ”๐ฆ๐จ๐ง๐ญ๐ก๐ฌ (๐Ÿ๐Ÿ“๐…)๐ฃ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ญ ๐ญ๐จ๐ฅ๐ ๐ฆ๐ž ๐ฌ๐ก๐ž ๐ก๐š๐ฌ ๐Ÿ‘ ๐ค๐ข๐๐ฌ ๐ˆ'๐ฆ ๐š (๐Ÿ๐Ÿ๐Œ) ๐‡๐จ๐ฐ ๐๐จ ๐ข ๐ฉ๐ซ๐จ๐œ๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ฌ?Got into a situation i never...
23/11/2024

๐Œ๐ฒ ๐ ๐ข๐ซ๐ฅ๐Ÿ๐ซ๐ข๐ž๐ง๐ ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐Ÿ”๐ฆ๐จ๐ง๐ญ๐ก๐ฌ (๐Ÿ๐Ÿ“๐…)๐ฃ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ญ ๐ญ๐จ๐ฅ๐ ๐ฆ๐ž ๐ฌ๐ก๐ž ๐ก๐š๐ฌ ๐Ÿ‘ ๐ค๐ข๐๐ฌ ๐ˆ'๐ฆ ๐š (๐Ÿ๐Ÿ๐Œ) ๐‡๐จ๐ฐ ๐๐จ ๐ข ๐ฉ๐ซ๐จ๐œ๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ฌ?

Got into a situation i never expected and i don't know what to do.

Hey i am a 21 year old male and my girlfriend of six months just told that she has 3 kids i was unaware that's she had these kids. She told me that she was scared to reveal them because she didnโ€™t know how to / didnโ€™t know how i was going to react. I'm really stuck because i really love this girl and she has all the qualities i would want in my wife but rn i just don't know if I'm ready to be with someone with 3 kids. She told me about 1 and i accepted it then told me about the other 2 and i kind of just shut down. She also has an extensive support system with the kids and their families. Really looking forward to any opinions on how i should proceed because i really don't want to lose her. At the moment i know that she was untruthful but the feelings we have for each other was real and it probably has been the best 6 months of my life.

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23/11/2024

I've just reached 19K followers! Thank you for continuing support. I could never have made it without each one of you. ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿค—๐ŸŽ‰

๐‡๐จ๐ฐ ๐๐จ ๐ˆ (๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ๐…) ๐ซ๐ž๐œ๐จ๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ ๐š๐Ÿ๐ญ๐ž๐ซ ๐ฌ๐ž๐ž๐ข๐ง๐  ๐š ๐ง๐จ๐ญ๐ž ๐š๐›๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ก๐จ๐ฐ ๐ฎ๐ ๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐š๐ง๐ ๐Ÿ๐š๐ญ ๐ˆ ๐š๐ฆ ๐ข๐ง ๐ฆ๐ฒ ๐ก๐ฎ๐ฌ๐›๐š๐ง๐โ€™๐ฌ (๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ’๐Œ) ๐ฉ๐ก๐จ๐ง๐ž?My husband and I were...
23/11/2024

๐‡๐จ๐ฐ ๐๐จ ๐ˆ (๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ๐…) ๐ซ๐ž๐œ๐จ๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ ๐š๐Ÿ๐ญ๐ž๐ซ ๐ฌ๐ž๐ž๐ข๐ง๐  ๐š ๐ง๐จ๐ญ๐ž ๐š๐›๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ก๐จ๐ฐ ๐ฎ๐ ๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐š๐ง๐ ๐Ÿ๐š๐ญ ๐ˆ ๐š๐ฆ ๐ข๐ง ๐ฆ๐ฒ ๐ก๐ฎ๐ฌ๐›๐š๐ง๐โ€™๐ฌ (๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ’๐Œ) ๐ฉ๐ก๐จ๐ง๐ž?

My husband and I were just chilling in the house, he was cooking while I was reading my book. He goes to therapy for himself and I think itโ€™s great. I know he talks about us, discusses sensitive topics before we can talk, and tries his best to deal with things in a healthier way.

I wanted to check for some photos he took of me on his phone and generally speaking we don't keep our phones off limits from each other. I noticed a widget of notes with my name on it and was curious so I looked.

โ€œMy wife is fat even 2 years after we had our child. She has a pretty face but even that gets lost in the frumpy clothing, zero makeup and double chinโ€

This crushed me. I know this was private and probably wrote it as notes to talk to his therapist about but this is a bell that canโ€™t be unrung. I just silently put his phone away because I didnโ€™t want to find anything else.

Iโ€™m heartbroken because I know now what he feels about me. Sure our s*x life may not be the best right now, and my physical fitness hasnโ€™t recovered, but after reading that note, being ugly and fat is all I think about. I am just obsessing over it.

Iโ€™ve just been very reserved the past few days and I am too embarrassed, angry, humiliated and unloved to even bring this up to him. If I even can

Heโ€™s never outwardly expressed that to me, or his behavior/actions isnโ€™t aligning with what he wrote in his notes. He IS kind to me and treats me well. But I do care about what he genuinely feels and his feelings about me HURT

How do I move forward?

๐Œ๐ฒ ๐ก๐ฎ๐ฌ๐›๐š๐ง๐ (๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ“๐Œ) ๐ญ๐š๐ค๐ž๐ฌ ๐ฆ๐ฒ (๐Ÿ‘๐ŸŽ๐…) ๐ž๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐š๐ฌ ๐ฉ๐ž๐ซ๐ฌ๐จ๐ง๐š๐ฅ ๐š๐ญ๐ญ๐š๐œ๐ค๐ฌ. ๐ˆ๐ฌ ๐ข๐ญ ๐ฆ๐ž ๐จ๐ซ ๐ก๐ข๐ฆ?My husband & I have been together for 7 ye...
22/11/2024

๐Œ๐ฒ ๐ก๐ฎ๐ฌ๐›๐š๐ง๐ (๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ“๐Œ) ๐ญ๐š๐ค๐ž๐ฌ ๐ฆ๐ฒ (๐Ÿ‘๐ŸŽ๐…) ๐ž๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐š๐ฌ ๐ฉ๐ž๐ซ๐ฌ๐จ๐ง๐š๐ฅ ๐š๐ญ๐ญ๐š๐œ๐ค๐ฌ. ๐ˆ๐ฌ ๐ข๐ญ ๐ฆ๐ž ๐จ๐ซ ๐ก๐ข๐ฆ?

My husband & I have been together for 7 years. Yesterday I received a life changing medical diagnosis. I have a handful of appointments coming up to understand next steps. At dinner I was expressing my fears and anxiety about everything and he got upset with me. He said, โ€œI feel like youโ€™re just saying this to make me upset with you and I donโ€™t want to beโ€ and he left the room. I gave him a few hours of space then went and asked for a hug. He gave me a hug, then said โ€œI feel like youโ€™re here to start drama.โ€

Granted, I am overly anxious and tend to be a pessimistic person. I canโ€™t help but be hurt and wonder if this is normal. This is a constant occurrence with him.

Edit to add: I asked him if he wants to leave me based on this diagnosis and he said it โ€œsounds like youโ€™re projecting as if you would leave me if this happened to meโ€.

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22/11/2024

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16/11/2024

You gain the ability to stop time. After stopping time whatโ€™s the first thing youโ€™re going to do?

15/11/2024

What are subtle signs that someone is actually intelligent?

15/11/2024

Whatโ€™s something from childhood you didnโ€™t appreciate until you became an adult?

13/11/2024

Ps4 still for sale? ๐Ÿ’€

13/11/2024

Whatโ€™s one thing a therapist has said to you that you will never forget?

13/11/2024

Whatโ€™s that thing that you once said or did, that you still cringe at to this day?

12/11/2024

Whatโ€™s the dumbest thing someone has told you?

12/11/2024

What is a red flag to see in someone's home?

12/11/2024

What is something you donโ€™t realize is weird until you really think about it?

12/11/2024

Men who suddenly lost your interest in someone but for a weird reason, what was it??

12/11/2024

What is a scientifically proven fact you refuse to believe?

08/11/2024

All I want for xmas is you.. ๐ŸŽ„

08/11/2024

What can you only admit anonymously?

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