About Life and Everything

17/11/2023

Choose your partner wisely and know your worth.

Choose someone who will give you peace of mind and happiness, not the one who will give you stress and constant lies and excuses.😭😭😭

Choose someone who is willing to offer you his time to show you that you're important and won't let you feel lonely in relationship.

Choose someone who keeps his promises, who keeps every words he says just to make sure you are secure around his arms.

Above all, choose someone who stays, someone you can spend another half of your life with.

17/11/2023

LESSONS

VALUE the person who loves you. Pahalagahan mo siya dahil hindi biro ang mahalin ka.
📌 Ang hirap mong mahalin pero minamahal ka pa rin tapos PAGTATAKSILAN MO?

Huwag hanapin ang wala. Pahalagahan ang meron. MATUTONG MAKUNTENTO.
📌 MAKUNTENTO KASI. Hindi Yung hanap ng hanap ng meron sa iba.

Never ever take for granted ang TRUST & CHANCES. Kapag binigyan ka ng pagkakataon,WAG MONG ABUSUHIN.
📌 PINATAWAD KA NA,UULIT ULITIN MO PA!??

PAHALAGAHAN ang partner habang may oras pa. Time is running fast,so grab every chance to be with her/him.
📌 Hindi ka mabubuhay forever.

Ang totoong pag-ibig ay hindi makasarili.
📌 Isipin mo yung partner mo,Hindi puro IKAW,IKAW,IKAW,IKAW!

All CHEATING starts with a little malicious care.
📌 Simpleng "hi,hello". Tapos ano!?

If you PLANT BETRAYAL,you will reap the same.
📌 Hindi man ngayon,pero sa tamang panahon. You will reap what you sow!!

Hindi matatakpan ng isa ang kasalanan ang Isang pagkakamali. Always choose TO BE HONEST,and face the consequences.
📌 Mali na ngang NAG CHEAT KA,Mali pang itinago mo pa. Tapos pa victim ka pa!?

Ang totoong pagmamahal ay nabubuhay sa KATOTOHANAN. You don't fool people for love.
📌 Dun tayo sa TOTOO. HINDI SA PANLOLOKO.

Walang pagtataksil na hindi nabubunyag.
📌 Feeling maitatago FOREVER??? Hoy,Walang ganon.

Kung ayaw mong lokohin ka,huwag mong gawin sa iba.
📌 Ayaw mong lokohin ka? So dpat wag mong gawin sa iba lalo na sa partner mo.

03/11/2023

01/11/2023

Dear God
You know I'm not okay. You know I'm down. I'm drained. I'm physically and mentally tired but please let me have a peace of mind and heal my broken soul.

19/10/2023

One day you'll remember the girl who LOVED you so much. That she forgot to love herself. You'll remember her when you WAKE UP,when you EAT, when you're about to ASLEEP. She will be your GREATEST NIGHTMARE. You'll be the one CRYING and she will be the one HAPPY with SOMEONELSE. One day YOU'LL REGRET LOSING HER. You lost the girl WHO DID EVERYTHING FOR YOU,you lost the girl WHO ALWAYS THERE FOR YOU when NO ONE ELSE IS,you lost her because of your EGO,you lost the girl WHO STAYED BY YOUR SIDE,you lost the girl who TRIED TO UNDERSTAND YOU. When she NEEDED YOU and YOU WERE NOT THERE. I lost a lot of people even after GIVING MY BEST so now I have STOPPED asking people to stay at all, because my best revenge is I'll make them realize HOW RARE I AM. Instead of constantly trying to get their attention and approval, focus on myself not in a relationship it's a big mistake to keep pushing when it's clear the OTHER PERSON isn't INTERESTED because it's like falling in to a trap and not being willing to step back. I stop expecting in a miracle if someone doesn't seem to CARE or KEEP their distance. You should STOP HOPING for things to magically improve avoid behaviors that BEGGING or EXCESSIVE ATTEMPTS both win them over. I KNOW MY WORTH. I don't underestimate but also I don't overestimate MY IMPORTANCE IN THEIR LIFE. I VALUE my time. Life is too short to WASTE to SOMEONE WHO DOESN'T CARE OF ME.

23/09/2023

The truth is,you cannot skip certain chapters in your life. Sometimes,you have to experience the wrong love in order to learn how to fight for your heart,in order to learn how to recognize the right love when it comes your way. Sometimes,you have to be alone,you have to heal in the quiet,so that you do not let your past wounds stop you from receiving all that you deserve in this life. Sometimes,you have to choose the wrong path,you have to make the mistake,in order to truly connect with the fact that even the missteps,that even the rejections,were really just redirections. Sometimes,you have to lose all that you hoped for yourself,all that thought you wanted,in order to unearth all you truly need,in order to make room within your life for the right things to unfold. Remember everything you once considered a failure was really just an opportunity to flourish. Everything you once considered an error was really just an opportunity to expand into the kind of life that you were always meant to be living,into the kind of love,and career,and happiness that were always meant to be yours.

21/09/2023

You will not find a love that is perfect,but you will find A LOVE THAT IS REAL.

You will not find a love that is perfect,but you will find A LOVE THAT SEES YOU. The kind that brings down your walls,that asks you to share the parts of your soul you have tucked away that kept hidden from the world.

You will not find a love that is perfect,but you will find love that shows you that it is okay to be the kind of person who balances both hope and hurt within them,that it is okay to be the kind of person who has not always known how to quiet the beating of their heart within their chests. And this love,it will hold you there. It will not vilify you for the ways you have to heal your sadness,for the ways you show up in this world. This love,it will not flinch at the sight of your darkened past. It will hold you there. Not just when you are a gleaming example of beauty or perfection,but when you are baring your teeth. When you are unraveled before it. It will not run from you when you take off your mask.

19/09/2023

Listen to the part of yourself that knows there's more out there for you.

18/09/2023

It is okay to take your time. We live in a generation that romanticizes moving forward as quickly as possible when it comes to careers and our futures and our success within them. But there is no point in rushing quickly towards a life that will not inspire you or fulfill you it is okay to slow down. It is okay to take the time you need. You are in no rush to figure out your own soul. It's never too late to start over,it's never too late to change your mind l,it's never too late to redirect yourself,to replace the dreams you thought you wanted for the ones that genuinely excite and challenge you.

16/09/2023

Sometimes,you have to choose yourself. Sometimes,you have to choose your healing,no matter how hard you want to keep fighting,no matter how deeply you care. See,when your heart chooses someone who does not choose it back,when you tender soul fights for someone who will not fight for it,when you make the effort to show up for someone who does not care,or make the effort,to show up for you. YOU MUST WALK AWAY. You must give yourself the closure you so desperately seek. You must give yourself permission to move forward,to let go,to believe in the fact that you deserve to be loved by someone who will look at you and know that you are enough. Because if there is one thing life has taught me,it is that love, genuine love, should never make you feel like you are too much,it should never make you feel like a difficult person to care for. If there is one thing life has taught me,it is that love, WORTHWHILE LOVE, should never make you quiet your heartbeat,it should never be something you have to beg for. So please,if you still find yourself chasing after someone who is not chasing after you. STOP running towards those dead ends and instead start running toward yourself.

13/09/2023

Above all else,I hope you give yourself permission to believe that you are not defined by a person's inability to love you or by a person's inability to choose you. I hope.you do not abandon who you are even though they did. I hope you do not neglect or question yourself even though they did. I hope you remember to love yourself better than they could,I hope you learn how to give yourself that kind of strength. I hope you remind yourself that you are RARE,that you hold VALUE here. I hope seasons of being misunderstood,of being unappreciated,do not cause you to see yourself through the eyes of those who could not celebrate you or support you.Above all else,I hope you connect with just how worthy you have always been. I hope you give yourself permission to be all that you are.

12/09/2023

The truth is no one comes out of life unscathed. No one navigates their journey without experiencing certain things that leave a mark, without experiencing certain things that weigh heavily within their souls. The truth is we have all been hurt at the hands of others. We have all been weathered by things we may not have always deserved,by jarring and unexpected circumstances. We all hold nostalgia within us,the kind that scarred our souls,the kind that swirls together hurt and hope within a human being. We are all just learning how to find understanding within those aches,we are all just learning how to seek forgiveness,how to believe in what the storms were teaching us. The truth is we are all just trying to heal from the things we don't often talk about,we are all just trying to heal from the things we don't quite understand

09/09/2023

Bad timing doesn't exist. The people your heart chooses at what it thinks is the wrong time are simply just the wrong people. They are simply just the ones who were meant to get away. They were simply just the ones who were never meant to stay. Because at the end of the day,the right people fight for you. The right people show up. The right people care,not only when life is convenient,but when it is difficult and messy and it aches all over. The right people take the chance. They choose you just as confidently as you choose them. They hand you their heart. They bet on you. They believe in what you share with a ruthless conviction,with a hope that spills out of them. Have the courage to wait for these people. Do not settle for half-loves,do not settle for someone who does not see the value in holding your heart. The people who walk away from you because the timing is not right are simply just the people who are not willing to put the right amount of time into you. Let that be your closure.

08/09/2023

At the end of the day,I want to be proud of the way I loved,I want to be proud of the way I placed my heart into the hands of others. I want to be proud of the way I chose vulnerability,of the way I chose tenderness, how I never stopped choosing it no matter what my soul experienced at the hands of being the kind of human being who loved deeply in this world. I want to be proud of the way I fought for others,of the way I dedicated myself to making them feel seen and understood l, I want to be proud of the way I showed up, of the way I tried my best to speak beauty into the parts of them that no one else clapped for. I want to be proud of the way I did not let fear convince me to keep myself hidden from others. I want to be proud of the way I cared.

07/09/2023

Do not lose yourself trying to love someone else. It is better to be alone within yourself than to feel lonely within the home you built inside of another human being.

05/09/2023

Being loved OPENLY and CLEARLY builds the most uniquely beautiful connections. At the end of the day,nothing is more attractive than someone who stands firmly in front of you and chooses you. At the end of the day, nothing is more comforting than the kind of love that grows from certainty and conviction,no games,just PRESENCE.

03/09/2023

One day,when you least expect it,you are going to crash into someone who is going to be so soft and gentle with your heart,and you are going to be so glad you kept it open. You are going to be so glad that you continued to fight for it,that you chose to believe it deserved more.

02/09/2023

Always choose to care. Choose to stay messy-hearted in a world that may not always be kind to you. Choose to do whatever you have to do to make it to tomorrow, choose to get up in the morning when you do not want to, choose to face what is scarred within you. Just work every single day to be gentle and soft with yourself,even when you have been given every reason to harden. Choose to believe in something hopeful, choose to feel everything intensely,and do not apologize for your power, your hope,or the way you slam yourself into the human beings you meet. Choose to shout your love from rooftops, choose to share your heart with the world. Choose to fight to be better,to heal even when it hurts,to believe with everything you hold within yourself that you have purpose here and that you belong here,that you deserve to take up space.

01/09/2023

31/08/2023

I think it's beautiful the way you show up in this world, unguarded and willing to try again, despite all of the ways it has tried to defeat you. I think it's beautiful, the way you tuck courage into yourself each morning, the way you refuse to be anything but hopeful in this world, despite the inner battles you fight, despite the struggles you have experienced for so long.
I think it's beautiful the way you twist your losses into lessons,the way you fight even when you feel weak. You are not weak. There is a resounding level of courage to be found in being the person who continues to heal,even when it hurts.There is a resounding level of bravery to be found in being the person who believes in the light, even when they cannot see it.

28/08/2023

No one will ever fully be able to understand the internal battles you had to endure just to HEAL,just to GROW,just to MAKE IT here today.Be proud of the way you fought to save yourself.Be proud of the way you SURVIVED.

27/08/2023

Give yourself permission to let go of what weighs heavily on your soul. You carry it all so well,but that does not mean that it is yours to hold.

24/08/2023

"Even a STRONG WOMAN gets TIRED."

23/08/2023

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23/08/2023

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