19/12/2025
๐๐ด๐ฎ๐ถ๐ป๐๐ ๐๐น๐น ๐ข๐ฑ๐ฑ๐: ๐ ๐ ๐ผ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐ฟ ๐ฃ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐๐ฎ๐ถ๐น๐
Success often hides the unseen battles like personal struggles, failures, and sacrifices quietly endured along the way. The road to achievement is rarely smooth; it is shaped by hardships that test resilience and character. People stumble, cry, and failโbut what defines humanity is the refusal to give up.
Yoly Unosโ life is a powerful testament to success forged through struggle. Born into a modest family, she was the youngest and the only daughter among her siblings. Though they were not wealthy, she was raised with immense love and care. That comfort, however, began to change in August 2015, when she set out to take control of her life on her own.
Filled with excitement and curiosity about the future, Yoly entered Benguet State University (BSU) as a forestry student. Like many young dreamers, she believed determination would be enough. Yet, life soon revealed challenges she never imagined facing.
"๐๐ก๐ ๐๐ก๐๐ฅ๐ฅ๐๐ง๐ ๐". Yoly received financial and emotional support from her family.
โMy aunt gave me a salary of โฑ3,000 every month, and that was a big help,โ she shared. โWhen my family visited, they brought rice and a little cash.โ However, along with this support came expectations, especially from her mother, who would often ask,
โAye, when will you finish your studies?โ
The pressure weighed heavily on her. Unfortunately, she channeled it in a negative direction.
In February 2019, at just 20 years old and in her fourth year of college, Yoly discovered she was pregnant. Pregnancy fatigue forced her to drop her subjects, and fear and shame kept her from going home. She remained in La Trinidad, Benguet, while her cousin informed her parents of the news.
After giving birth, Yoly returned to her parentsโ home to recover and continue her studies through Online Distance Learning (ODL) during the COVID-19 pandemic. Becoming both a student and a mother reshaped her world overnight.
Balancing motherhood and academics proved overwhelming. Beyond parenting responsibilities, she struggled with unreliable internet access. There were times she could not submit exams on time, but she remained grateful for understanding professors who showed compassion during her difficult circumstances.
Her once carefree youth was replaced by responsibility, exhaustion, and uncertainty, but also by a growing strength she never knew she had.
"๐๐จ๐ฏ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐
๐จ๐ซ๐ฐ๐๐ซ๐ ๐๐ฆ๐ข๐๐ฌ๐ญ ๐๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐๐๐๐ฌ". Face-to-face classes brought another set of challenges.
โIโm always late, but I have to make it work,โ she admitted. She often took multiple rides just to reach campus, sacrificing sleep to keep up with her responsibilities.
โI prioritized my tasks and made sacrifices. I cooked, cleaned, and cared for my kids, then studied at night when theyโre asleep,โ she shared. Her days began before sunrise preparing meals, getting her children ready for school, and commuting long distances.
โI relied on the kindness of others to get me through,โ Yoly said.
โMy teachers are understanding, and my family is supportive. But itโs not easy.โ
When asked how she copes, she smiled gently. โI pray a lot, and I remind myself why Iโm doing thisโfor my family and for my future.โ
After three years of hardship, perseverance paid off. Yoly graduated from college, passed the board examination, and is now a professional Forester.
Her story reflects the reality of many students who became mothers while pursuing their dreams. The phrase โI can do itโ may seem simple, but it holds immense power. Saying it does not signal weaknessโit reveals determination, courage, and self-belief.
*๐๐๐๐จ ๐ฅ๐ง๐ค๐๐๐ก๐ ๐๐ง๐ฉ๐๐๐ก๐ ๐๐จ ๐ ๐ง๐๐ฆ๐ช๐๐ง๐๐ข๐๐ฃ๐ฉ ๐๐ค๐ง ๐ฉ๐๐ ๐จ๐ช๐๐๐๐๐ฉ ๐ฟ๐๐๐พ 125: ๐๐๐ง๐ฉ๐๐๐๐ฅ๐๐ฉ๐ค๐ง๐ฎ ๐ฟ๐๐ซ๐๐ก๐ค๐ฅ๐ข๐๐ฃ๐ฉ ๐
๐ค๐ช๐ง๐ฃ๐๐ก๐๐จ๐ข ๐ค๐ ๐ฉ๐๐ ๐ฉ๐๐๐ง๐ ๐ฎ๐๐๐ง๐จ, ๐ฟ๐๐ซ๐๐ก๐ค๐ฅ๐ข๐๐ฃ๐ฉ ๐
๐ค๐ช๐ง๐ฃ๐๐ก๐๐จ๐ข ๐ข๐๐๐ค๐ง๐จ, ๐ฝ๐๐๐๐๐ก๐ค๐ง ๐ค๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ฃ๐๐ ๐๐ฃ ๐ฟ๐๐ซ๐๐ก๐ค๐ฅ๐ข๐๐ฃ๐ฉ ๐พ๐ค๐ข๐ข๐ช๐ฃ๐๐๐๐ฉ๐๐ค๐ฃ (๐ฝ๐๐ฟ๐พ)