07/01/2026
People don't change because they become selfish.
They change because being too kind nearly broke them.
Once, they gave without limits.
Always saying yes.
Always helping.
Always believing people would do the same.
Then life tested them.
And suddenly.....
the people they helped the most
were nowhere to be found.
That’s when reality hit.
NOW, they think before spending.
Not because they’re greedy,
but because bills don’t wait,
loans don’t forgive,
and emergencies don’t care about good intentions.
So YES! -they’re not the same anymore.
They’re wiser.
They’ve learned boundaries.
They choose peace over pleasing people.
This isn’t selfishness.
This is survival with lessons learned.
IF THIS MADE YOU PAUSE,
IT'S BECAUSE YOU'VE LIVED IT, TOO😁