25/12/2024
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This year unfolded differently for each of us. We all carried our own fair share of hardships and challenges, no matter how light or heavy the burdens weighed on our shoulders. Our little victories and woeful trials have culminated in a well-deserved Christmas breakโa holiday from long, repetitive days of hustle and anxiety. We retreat and nestle in the warmth of our homes and families.
The Filipino Christmas is more than just a season; it wraps the wounds in our souls, assures our tired bodies of rest, and ties us back to our loved ones and communities. It offers a pauseโlike a bus stop amid the busy street noise and heavy trafficโpromising replenishment for our overall well-being.
Retracing the Tradition of Christmas: Welcoming the Child in Us
Who was Santa for you? To many, he was a mystery that children tried to solve before being tucked beneath cozy covers. There is magic in his identityโan omniscient figure who seemed to know our deeds, sleep, and wishes. Yet, deep down, we knew only those who loved us dearly would pay such attention to the smallest details, making him magical.
As we grow older, tales shift. We realize Santa is not a jolly stranger in red, but our loved ones, smiling as they watch us unwrap gifts they had carefully hidden. The magic lies in how well we are treasuredโto be so deeply known and loved.
The Season of Christmas: An Invitation to Reunite with Our Families
Each family has its unique Christmas traditions, favorite seasonal activities that strengthen bonds. For some, itโs decorating the Christmas treeโa narrative on its own. The treeโs branches, worn from years of holding balls, candy canes, ribbons, and lights, tell stories of time. Themes of ornaments mark trends and cherished memories.
Some adorn trees with glittery flora, bedazzling branches with sparkles; others hang tiny pictures of distant loved ones. Most special is crowning the tree with the best ornamentโthe star.
For others, Christmas means baking, cooking, playing games, giving prizes, singing karaoke, or sharing drinks. Whatever the activity, it fosters quality time, expressing love uniquely shared within families.
Tying the Community Through the Christmas Tree Lighting Tradition
Beyond the home, communities gather around a special tree yet to be lit. Each day counts down to the grand reveal of a towering evergreen, adorned with carefully crafted ornaments and lights. Families and friends witness the lighting ceremony together, celebrating as one.
The significance of this tree lies not in its grandeur but in its ability to bring people together despite their differences. Sharing the moment when the tree finally shines ignites the Christmas spirit, fostering a sense of belonging amidst the chilly December air.
The Missing Silver Lining in the December Gloom
Yet, the breeze carries whispers of nostalgiaโChristmas no longer feels the same. Gone is the child-like wonder of discovering Santaโs identity. Decorating trees with loved ones might be neglected, lost to busy schedules and exhaustion. Seasonal blues make it harder to invite others to celebrate, especially in gloomy weather.
While this season is meant for joy, it can feel difficult to find the silver lining. But this longing to connect with others reveals that Christmas still lives in our hearts. The ache to share this festivity stems from loveโthe love weโve cultivated through gifts, traditions, and celebrations.
A Grand Delight Amidst It All
Despite lifeโs demands, perhaps Christmas reminds us to celebrate being with our loved ones. The magic lies in the small, secure moments, free from deadlines and looming tasks. After a year of productivity, we find ourselves resting at the metaphorical bus stop, savoring the present moment, reconnecting with ourselves and our families.
There will come a time when we reclaim our child-like wonder. Until then, love waits patiently, warmed by fragments of past memories.
As the years transform how we celebrate, the child in us remains eager for each gift, tradition, and moment shared with others. The best gifts to unwrap are the arms holding us tight in a warm embrace. No greater delight exists than the smiles exchanged with loved ones. This is the essence of Christmasโthe love we carry for ourselves and our ability to share it with others is the greatest gift of all.