The Reaching Hand

21/12/2024

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Robin Ntr Bhai, Bibha Narzary

20/12/2024

I listen so I can judge appropriately. Iring lang.

20/12/2024

When He Complains About Doing Things That Make You Happy

“The wrong man will do something nice for you and complain the whole time while doing it. He’ll then expect you to be happy, not realizing that his attitude ruined everything.”

Let’s say you love to walk along the beach, but every time he takes you, he complains. He thinks he is earning brownie points by taking you when, in fact, he’s losing points. Sooner or later, you’ll stop asking him to go with you. He may think he’s finally convinced you that walking along the beach is boring, but he hasn’t. You still love walking along the beach… you still want to walk along the beach you just are no longer interested in doing it with him.

The right man, however, will do it because he wants to make you = happy. He won’t ruin your moment with his petty personal complaints. After all, he is making you happy and at the end of the day, in his mind, that’s what it’s all about.

20/12/2024

Why people are difficult and how to deal with them...

19/12/2024

Take care of your inner peace...

18/12/2024

18/12/2024

The youth is the hope of our nation.

17/12/2024

May today you continue to work on your happiness path...

16/12/2024

Mao intawon ni mosugat naku kada buntag sa amoang tugkaran... Unya pila ka minutos pa lang inig human ug panilhig, ingon ani na pud kadaghan... Pero sauna rani kay akoa na gipapul-ungan after Odette.

15/12/2024

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14/12/2024

I hope you have the courage to do the hard work. I hope you have the courage to sit down with your de-mons, to befriend them; to look them in the face and to not feel fear. I hope you have the courage to stop picking or numbing or avoiding the wounds within, and I hope you choose to heal them instead. I hope you have the courage to understand yourself, fundamentally - to open up the deepest, darkest parts of your mind, to unhinge your rib cage revealing the gritty parts of your soul, the parts no one else claps for, and I hope you have the courage to clean them out.

To forgive yourself for what you had to do to kill your sadness. To forgive yourself for the ways in which you didn't fight for the person you were becoming. I hope you have the courage to nurture your pain, to not disregard it or sweep it under the rug of distraction or convenience. I hope you have the courage to heal yourself, even when it hurts.

I hope you have the courage to know when to end things. And I hope you have the courage to see endings as beautiful, transformative stepping stones. I hope you have the courage to let love and opportunity move through you like rain. To not grip, or seek to change it, to not ask people or circumstances to be more than they can be for you. I hope you have the courage to see endings as the cornerstone of the chapters that changed you without needing them to be a part of the rest of your story.

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14/12/2024

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13/12/2024

Emotionally Lazy Men

“Whatever you do, never chase a man. Why? Because it’ll make him emotionally lazy and he will feel like he doesn’t have to do anything to meet your emotional needs.”

Think about it; if you’re doing everything from the beginning, what is his incentive to do anything after you two get together? In the end, you’ll find yourself assuming the proactive role throughout the relationship because that’s what he’ll be used to. He will have no reason to change because you’ll have already shown him that he
can do absolutely nothing and you will still be willing to do everything.

13/12/2024

Pagplano na ug tigom

13/12/2024

Aba may bisita...

12/12/2024

12/12/2024

Raki is such a playful girl...

12/12/2024

Some are blind with your love.
Some are deaf with your love.
And some are just both.
But just keep on loving until you'll get tired and love no more.