09/01/2025
THE MORE YOU STAY SINGLE, THE MORE YOU’RE GONNA ENJOY IT, THE MORE YOU’RE NOT GONNA LOOK FOR IT.
I remember from my senior colleague before, he said that having a romantic relationship is not for him. Now that I’m approaching 30s and have been single for five years already, I realized that it might be true. Love life isn’t really made for everyone.
Indeed, the more you stay single for so long, the more you get connected with yourself, with your family and your friends, and that you won’t see the point of having someone anymore because you’re already used to the kind of life that you have today.
Having a partner and not having one are actually equally the same. You might be single now for years feeling alone and lonely or you might be in a relationship with someone today, not alone for sure but perhaps feeling lonely as well.
Love life should not always be about finding the other person. What about building a love life with yourself? Maybe it’s called “love life” to love your life first before anyone else. Or maybe just simply to love yourself, period.