Louraine and Kayin

28/12/2024

HOW TO RESPECT YOURSELF IN 2025

1️⃣ Stop looking for who is not looking for you. 🕵️‍♂️
2️⃣ Stop begging. 🙏🚫
3️⃣ Stop saying more than necessary. 🤐
4️⃣ When people disrespect you, confront them immediately. ⚡💬
5️⃣ Don't eat other people's food more than they eat yours. 🍽️⚖️
6️⃣ Reduce how you visit some people, especially if they don't reciprocate it. 🏠↔️👥
7️⃣ Invest in yourself. Make yourself happy. 🎯😊
8️⃣ Stop entertaining gossip about other people. 🗣️🚫
9️⃣ Think before you talk. 🧠💬 80% of how people value you is what comes out of your mouth.
🔟 Always look your best. 👔 Dress the way you should be addressed.
1️⃣1️⃣ Be an achiever. 🏆 Get busy with your goals.
1️⃣2️⃣ Respect your time. ⏳⏰
1️⃣3️⃣ Don't stay in a relationship where you don't feel respected and valued. 🚶‍♀️❌💔
1️⃣4️⃣ Learn to spend money on yourself. 💸 That's how people will learn to spend on you.
1️⃣5️⃣ Be scarce sometimes. 👻
1️⃣6️⃣ Be a giver more than a receiver. 🎁❤️
1️⃣7️⃣ Don't go where you are not invited. And when invited, don't overstay your welcome. 🚪⏳
1️⃣8️⃣ Treat people exactly the way you want to be treated. 🤝💛
1️⃣9️⃣ Except they owe you money, two call attempts are enough. 📞 If they value you, they will call you back.
2️⃣0️⃣ Be good at what you do. 💼✨

STAY BLESSED IN 2025 🙏❤️

27/12/2024

parang iba ata ang nakikita ko....ice cream choco flavor

lets go!!!

27/12/2024

Pansin mo ba,.patanda tayo pero mas papalungkot ang buhay natin...

27/12/2024

ANG TUKSO LUMALAPIT YAN, NA PWEDE MONG SUNGGABAN AT PWEDE MONG IWASAN.😔🤔👇

Ang tukso lumalapit yan, na pwede mong sunggaban at pwede mong iwasan.
Nasa sayo na yan kung kumagat ka sa bitag.
Pero kung hindi mo kaya, marupok kang nilalang ka.

Kase bago mo kagatin at maakit sa tukso, dapat gamitin mo muna ang utak mo.
Mag isip kang mabuti ng paulit-ulit kung handa kang may mabago sa buhay mo.
At handa kang may mawawala sayo.

Syempre ang tukso ay may maganda at pangit na maidudulot.
Yung maganda na dulot nito sayo ay nag enjoy ka at may sandaling ligaya.
Pero ang pangit na dulot nito, may nasira kang tao at tiwala.

Kaya ang hatid nito sa buhay mo ay meron pagkamuhi.
Dahil yung tiwalang binigay sayo ng buo ay may sakit ng nakaakibat at lamat na hindi mo na maibabalik pa.
Dahil meron ka ng nasaktang iba.

Na kahit pa nakapikit, nakikita parin ang dulot na sakit sa pagtataksil mo.
At siyang nagbigay din ng pagkasuklam na pait sa taong nagmahal sayo ng totoo pero niloko mo!

26/12/2024

My secret is simple.
I pray.
I trust God.
I give him all the glory.

26/12/2024

Madali lang mag cheat pero ung sugat na iiwan nyan sa partner mo habang buhay nya dadalin, maaring pinatawad kana nya pero masakit parin sa kanya, kada gabi matutulog kayo maiisip nya ginawa mo, habang hinahalikan mo sya maiisip nya ganun din ba ginawa mo dun sa isa, habang yinayakap mo sya iisipin nya mas mahigpit ba yakap mo dun sa isa, habang sinasabi mong mahal mo sya maiisip nya kung totoo pa ba mga sinasabi mo, oo magbabalikan, magpapatawaran pero alam mo ba ung dillema ng ginawa mo dadalin na nya habang buhay? Hindi lang halata, hindi mo lang ramdam pero ung kurot sa puso nya andun na habang buhay, bitbit nya ung sakit at bigat ng lahat. Itatago nya sayo ung pain kasi gusto nya mabuo ulit kayo pati ang pamilya, lulunokin ang pride, kunyari ok lang lahat, Madali mag cheat pero hindi na mawawala ung sugat, magiging peklat pero andun parin ang lahat. Kaya mag isip ka mabuti, yan panloloko mo maaring sandali lang pero ung sakit na ibibigay nyan sa partner mo pang habang buhay na.
Words of
- Andi & Philmar
Ctto

26/12/2024

Sabi nila ang sarap ng buhay ko, ako lang po ang masarap hindi ang buhay ko..may kanya kanya po tayong problema 🤣

25/12/2024

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Maaaring may sampung dahilan para sumuko ka, Ngunit may milyong paraan para magpatuloy pa.

24/12/2024

IT ENDED BECAUSE SHE WAS ALWAYS ANGRY AND MADE AN ARGUMENT OUT OF EVERYTHING.

"My wife was almost always angry, pi**ed, and never happy. I had lost hope and thought we would break up soon. But then I decided it was time to act. After all, I had the most beautiful woman in the world by my side. I started buying her flowers, kissing her more and more often, and telling her compliments. I grabbed her and thanked her every minute. I got many gifts for her, and I started living only for her. I talked about her in public. You won't believe it, but it’s like she blossomed. She has become an even more beautiful woman than before. She had come to love me more than ever. I didn’t know she could love so much. And then I realized... the woman represents the reflection of the man next to her."

23/12/2024

Alam kaya ni Batman, na siya ang bahala?😂😂😂

23/12/2024

Huwag kang magtaka kung ang dating mahinahon at mapagmahal ay naging isang taong hindi mo na kilala. Sabi nga ni Loisa Andalio, 'Lolokohin niyo tapos magrereklamo kayo na napaka-controlling at toxic. Don't create a monster you cannot deal with.'

Hindi kasalanan ng isang tao kung napipilitan siyang magbago dahil sa sakit na dinulot ng panloloko. Paano mo aasahang magtiwala pa siya kung ikaw mismo ang bumigo? Paano mo siya aasahang maging kalmado kung paulit-ulit mo siyang sinubok?

Kapag may sinasaktan ka, huwag kang magtaka kung bumabalik sa'yo ang epekto. Kaya bago mo sabihing toxic siya, balikan mo ang mga pagkakataong ikaw ang nag-udyok sa pagbabago niya. Dahil ang relasyon ay respeto at pagmamahalan, hindi larong susubukan kung hanggang saan ang kaya ng isa.

Kung hindi mo kayang panindigan ang isang relasyon, mas mabuti pang huwag ka nang manira ng tao. Tandaan, ang bawat kilos mo ay may epekto. Huwag kang lumikha ng halimaw na ikaw din ang hindi kakayanin.

22/12/2024

I got 2,489 reactions and 222 replies on my recent top post! Thank you all for your continued support. I could not have done it without you. 🙏🤗🎉

HOW TO HANDLE A CHEATING HUSBAND 😘

I'm always happy to see women seeking solutions instead of giving up. I'm not condoning cheating or encouraging women to endure bad marriages. However, finding solutions is crucial, especially when a cheating husband remains responsible and non-abusive.

It's deeply painful to share a bed with someone who has been intimate with another woman. The wife may experience depression, stress, ill health, confiding in family and friends, sleeplessness, constant crying, and even confronting the other woman—often to no avail. The emotional toll of seeing someone who shows little regard for her feelings is immense.

My dearest married woman! Here's a possible response to a cheating husband.

• Stop worrying and complaining.
• Take excellent care of yourself; maintain a clean and attractive appearance.
• Smile more than ever.
• Engage in activities you enjoy.
• Focus on your well-being and your children's. Make your children your closest confidants.
• If you work, concentrate on your job or business.
• Avoid sharing important matters with him, but maintain basic communication and fulfill your marital duties, such as cooking.
• Stop initiating s*x. If he initiates, don't refuse, but participate without overt enthusiasm. If you were previously demonstrative, tone it down, but never refuse.
• Stop letting him see that you can't live happily without him.
• Spend time with friends who support you, but maintain your privacy.
• Always look your best when you go out.

Some cheating men avoid s*x with their wives. Even if the wife initiates, he might feign tiredness or stress. Stop embarrassing yourself; don't push it, no matter how hard it is. If he stops touching you, don't ask or complain.

• Maintain high self-esteem and confidence. Prioritize your happiness.
• Start saving money in a private account. A cheating husband is often insecure. Instead of improvement, he might divorce you. Your savings will protect you and your children.

While doing all this, don't let him think you're a fool. Don't cry or act distraught as before. Discreetly monitor his activities. If he tries emotional blackmail, remind him of his recent actions.

Your silence shouldn't be mistaken for ignorance or acceptance. When a woman prioritizes her happiness, some cheating husbands complain as if she's to blame, forgetting that her reaction is a direct result of his behavior.

Cheating husbands who still love their wives are often jealous. When you focus on your well-being and stop crying or complaining, it often affects his conscience, if he still cares, despite his infidelity. He may fear losing you; he might even suspect you're cheating. He might then start playing the victim.

Cheating husbands often have inflated egos. They feed on your tears and pleas. When you stop reacting, their fear of losing you may lead to frustration.

Only those who never truly loved you will continue cheating without fear of losing you
God will help us.

ctto: Edith Paul

21/12/2024

-Kung Nararamdaman mo na hindi ka na mahal ng partner mo, Itigil mo na hanggat maliit pa ang anak nyo...

Kung palagi kayo bangayan at di na magkasunod, Itigil mo na hanggat di pa nag kakaisip ang anak nyo ...

Kung palagi ka na lang umiiyak at malungkot, Tama na hanggat di pa nakikita ng anak mo kung gaano ka kamiserable ngayon...

Kung pilit na lang ang pagmamahal nya sayo, Pabayaan mo na sya hanggat di pa nakakapag salita ang anak nyo....

Dahil KUNG MERON MANG MAS MASASAKTAN AT MAHIHIRAPAN, WALANG IBA KUNDI ANG ANAK NYO KAPAG NAG KAISIP NA YAN ... MAG TATANONG NA YAN BAKIT KAYO GANYAN, IISIPIN NYA KASALANAN NYA BAKIT KAYI NAG - AAWAY AT DI MAGKASUNDO

KAYA HANGGAT MAAGA PA, HANGGAT MALIIT PA ANG ANAK NYO, TAPUSIN NYO NA BAGO MAG SILAKIHAN AT MAG REBELDE SILA NG DAHIL SA BUO NGA KAYO DI NAMAN MATAWAG NA PAMILYA.

21/12/2024

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21/12/2024

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20/12/2024

Mas okay na ako yung babaeng niloko kaysa maging babaeng pumayag manloko ng kapwa babae. Hindi ko kailanman ipagpapalit ang isang malinis na konsensya para sa panandaliang kasiyahan na nakatapak sa damdamin ng iba.

Minsan, masakit tanggapin na ikaw ang naiwan, niloko, o pinili ng iba para gawing tanga. Pero mas masakit yata kung ikaw ang naging dahilan ng pagkawasak ng ibang tao—lalo na kung kapwa mo babae ang sinaktan mo. Sa mundong puno ng kompetisyon at inggitan, sana piliin nating maging mabuti.

Ang malinaw na konsensya ay higit pa sa kahit anong ginto o materyal na bagay. Yan ang dala mo hanggang pagtanda—ang kaalaman na wala kang natapakang tao para lang sa sarili mong kaligayahan. Kaya kung darating man ang araw na pareho tayong pipili ng posisyon sa istorya ng buhay na ito, piliin mong umupo sa lugar na hindi nakakahiya.

Ikaw, saan mo gustong umupo? Sa bangkong tahimik pero malinis? O sa trono ng kasinungalingan at panloloko? Sa huli, tayo ang magdadala ng bigat ng sarili nating desisyon.

19/12/2024

NAGPIPIGA NG LABAHIN, EH IKAW? 🤣

19/12/2024

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