30/08/2024
Endless summer. 🏝️ 🌊
Aspiring photographer & writer ✨💫
(1)
Endless summer. 🏝️ 🌊
Snap•shots 📸
Rest day spent well. ☁️
Family. 🐶💕
Good food for the soul. 🍤🥟🍜
Yum! 😋
Always the best part of the day 🍝 🥞
I enjoy taking people to areas where I am also visible. I’m not gatekeeping these memories na alam kong magugustuhan and maeenjoy din ng iba.
We’ve been struggling silently at madaming hindi nakakaalam ng kwento natin araw-araw. And bringing them with you can remove burdens and it might help them also to appreciate life more.
I also appreciate that some people would give it back to me in different ways. And it’s better than saying “thank you”.
Enjoy life with others while you CAN! 🩷
Sa muling pagkikita, Intramuros! 💕
It's a hard pill to swallow pero dadating ka sa punto na you would face your journey with different people.
May mga tao na magiging parte nalang ng nakaraan mo.
Mga taong nakakasama mo sa litrato na hindi na maaaring maulit pa.
Mga taong naging kasama mo sa ups and downs ng buhay mo.
Iyong process for acceptance would be uneasy. Pero nag-iiba tayo ng priorities and pananaw sa buhay. Mas natitira iyong mga taong mas magiging relevant at mas maiintindihan ka sa phase ng buhay mo.
Wag na muna tayong umuwi. 🛶 🛖 🌆
By 30, practice being as fully honest as you can. Even when it hurts people's feelings, even when it changes their perception of you. You'll have fewer people in your life, but your relationships will be built on trust, not fear. ✨
I can honestly say that pwede palang sumaya at matapos ang araw ng walang social media updates. Mas nakakagalaw at nagagawa mo iyong gusto mo without interruptions. And smooth iyong mga plan kasi walang pressure sa ibang tao.
It implies that you are at peace with yourself and that no one can destroy it.
Tuloy lang. 💕
Piliin mo ang Pilipinas. 🚤 🌊 🌴
📍Camarines Sur, Philippines
One of the unsaid norms I aim to follow:
Don't hate your enemy back, instead clap back for them.
I know this is a hard pill to swallow, but I learned that we don't need to be bitter just because we are not in good terms to some people.
Mahirap 'to i-process kasi everytime nagkwekwento tayo sa ibang tao, palaging side lang natin iyong nadidinig. While I am getting older, hearing or sharing two sides of the story is always the best gift that you could give in behalf of them.
You might hear unpleasant words to people you disconnected with pero hindi mo kailangan gumaya sa kanila and just stay firm no matter what it takes.
“Don't do unto others what you don't want done unto you; wish for others what you wish for yourself”.
It's difficult for me to let go of people who have become the core of my life for so long.
Iisipin ko pang mabuti iyan as in dadaan ang madaming panahon bago maging fully decided sa gagawin.
Para sa'kin kasi lahat ng bagay ay "investment". Kailangan mo pumili at sugalan para makita if ano mangyayari at syempre mag-eeffort ka para mag-work.
Walang bagay ang magwowork instantly. Best example diyan ay iyong relasyon natin with family, friends, partners, workmates, and so on.
Enjoy while it lasts. Work things out, and communication is always essential.
Let us be grateful for what is left. ✨
Ramdam natin na iba talaga iyong impact ng generation natin ngayon when it comes to parenting, no?
Mostly of us, have been really trying to change iyong nakaugalian na pagpapalaki sa mga anak and nasusupprt na din iyong equality sa opinions sa loob ng bahay.
But let's not forget to educate those who came sa older generations iyong mga bagay na pilit nating tinatapos para mas magkaroon tayo ng better generations sa future. Madaming pagbabago and hindi kayang intindihin ng tao at hindi lahat ng nakikita din natin na ginagawa ng mga kabataan ay TAMA.
Give and take and wag kalimutan iyong pasensya. Walang masamang magcall-out ng tao pero pairalin pa din natin iyong pang-unawa muna saka bigyan ng aral.
Never ako nakaramdam ng separation anxiety sa work na pinanggalingan ko. Except doon sa mga taong I became closed with.
Ngayon ko lang din na-realize na ang daming taon na din ang lumipas simula no'ng makasama ko sila. Sarap lang din sa pakiramdam kapag may chance pa din na makita mo sila in person.
Sabi nga nila "bonus nalang kung magkaroon ka ng kaibigan sa trabaho."
Ang bilis ng oras at panahon - sana magkaroon tayong lahat ng chance makasama iyong mga kaibigan at pamilya natin if may oras tayo. Masarap i-keep iyong mga taong nagpu-pursue pa din makasama ka kahit di na kayo pareho ng workplace.
PS: These were some photos that I had with them. Naniniwala talaga ako na photos can bring back good memories. 📸
Dati kapag may nakikilala tayong kaibigan gusto natin lahat i-keep. Pero dadating talaga sa punto na may mawawala at mapapalitan.
Just because they didn't work for us, it doesn't mean they didn't deserve to be happy.
They need to grow without us.
They need to learn without us.
They need to go on with their lives without us.
We can still forgive, but never forget.
We can still be happy without them. 🎈
Best feeling is to date yourself in a grocery store. 😂💘
Ang sarap mamili dito - knowing na ang fresh lahat as in! A bit pricey pero super okay! 🥦
Just because you're not friends with them doesn't mean you won't remember what you've learnt from them.
Minsan iyong iba tao kapag may kaaway sila, wala silang ibang iisipin or ibabato kung hindi puro galit or negtivity about sa ugali no'ng taong iyon.
Let's look back doon sa mga bagay that they helped us to learn and realize. Wag natin itapon lahat - keep those morals na natutunan mo din sa kanila. 🍃
When I reached 23 years of age and very timely that me and my ex-partner broke up, I told to myself na baka di pa 'to para sa'kin.
Fast forward na almost 30 na ako this year - Did I feel bad of being unmarried and no kids at all? HINDI.
I don't want to have kids just because need makita ng society na "HINDI KA SAYANG" kasi nagka-pamilya ka na. Pa'no kung di pa ready at need mo pa ayusin future mo?
Mas mahirap if may madamay kang bata tapos walang growth na nangyayari sa'yo at sa taong kinakasama mo. Okay lang sana kung meron - pero again situational iyon.
STOP judging and CANCELLING others just because they won't FIT IN sa gusto mo.
MY LIFE, NOT YOURS!
Sarap maging bata ulit. Ang problema mo lang dati e papano ka papayagan maglaro after school.
Mas iba pa din dati, e. Mas active sa labas para makakilala ng ibang bata din. Sana mabalik iyong ganito. 🍃
Exactly why relationships are our biggest teachers whether we like it or not, whether they’re successful or go south.
Every person who walks into our life, comes with a message to share and a lesson to learn- as long as we’re open enough to see it. 🌈
Ngayon ko nakita kung gaano ka-convenient umalis or mag-travel mag-isa. In this way, mas makikilala mo sarili mo ng walang time limit.
You can also give more time mas makikilala mo sarili mo and things that you still want to share and start.
If gusto mo ng new hobby, mas malalaman mo if ano ba ang gusto mo.
This time payapa - walang ibang tao sa kwarto kundi ikaw.
Walang masamang sumubok ng bago. Simulan mo na iyan. ☺️
🩶🌈
Home. 🌴 🥥
Malayo pa, pero malayo na. 🍃🙏🏻
Minsan di mo maiiwasan aminin iyong mga araw na napapagod ka na.
Ang daming araw ang dumadaan na minsan puro challenges iyong dala.
Madaming gusto at hangarin sa buhay ang gusto matupad at minsan di mo na alam kung paano sisimulan.
Hahanapin ang sarili saglit tapos biglang pakiramdam mo naligaw ka na naman.
Ayos lang malungkot kahit sa paningin ng iba ang negatibo. Mas doon mo makikilala ang sarili mo para humanap ng strengths sa mga dadating pang araw.
Piliin mo din magpahinga pero wag ka titigil. Tuloy lang.
Dulumbayan
Baras
1880
Be the first to know and let us send you an email when Sharmaine Boiser Lee posts news and promotions. Your email address will not be used for any other purpose, and you can unsubscribe at any time.
Send a message to Sharmaine Boiser Lee:
No one’s going to turn page for you. Create more memories! 🩶#capcut #restday #funday #reels #monthsarycake #coffee #samgyup #foodietokph #friendshipgoals
Tired but a productive day with my siblings! First time ever to have moments with them without anyone, but only us!! Where to next? 🩷
The beautiful part of healing is: it's a journey.There are no quick fixes. There's no perfect or even right way to do it. Healing really is just waking up to who you truly are. A beautiful person with gifts, talents, and compassion. Welcome home. 🏡
Coffee after work. ☕️ Salted Caramel Macchiato is the best! ✨ @The Weekend Kofi 📍Teresa, Rizal #coffeelovers #cafelovers #rizalcoffee #Philippines
It’s good to slow down. Not rushing into things that are not yet for you to own. Not pressuring yourself to meet others’ standards. Not forsaking your mental health to please others. And not letting anything or anyone steal your peace and joy. 🍃 #restdayfeels #datewithmyself #funday #MarchDump
Self-care is really a must. I just realized this after several of sleep paralysis. Health is wealth! And don’t feel guilty spending time for yourself. Rest and work in hustle. 💓 #datewithmyself #funday #restdayfeels
To create the life you want, there's absolutely a time when you need to push yourself and go beyond your comfort zone. And, there's a time to for the pause: to rest and allow your nervous system to self regulate. Society tends to forget the pause. 💕
Coach DJ Ervs Explore Sound System
Brgy. Muzon