English Teacher in Thailand05/12/2024
To all the BASHERS out there: READ THIS ‼️
Bashers, what do you gain from hurting and judging people you barely even know? Let me get straight to the point: seeing hateful and below-the-belt comments on social media is overwhelming. I can only imagine the impact on the person being targeted, especially on their mental health.
First, I know some might argue that people who post their personal issues on social media choose to be cyberbullying victims. But seriously, is social media supposed to be a platform for perfect individuals who never make mistakes? Does that give you the right to judge others and spread hate? Social media may be a free platform, but freedom comes with responsibility. People can share whatever they want—it’s their life, not yours. If it doesn’t affect you, why waste time giving unnecessary opinions that do more harm than good?
Second, while everyone is entitled to their opinion, consider this: does your opinion improve the situation or make it worse? Leaving a hateful comment is a choice, and you can always decide to react differently. It’s okay to feel triggered or upset, but reacting responsibly and constructively is what matters.
Third, even if you care about the issue, pointing out mistakes on social media isn’t helpful or justified. Those being targeted likely already know if they did something wrong. We don’t know the full story, nor do we know the person behind the screen. They’re human, and like us, they make mistakes. Bashing them won’t solve anything; it only drags them down further. Imagine being in their position—would you want to be bombarded with hate?
Fourth, if we can’t control what others post, we can control how we respond. If something directly affects you, deal with it privately. Many people turn to social media for attention, but not every issue needs to be public. Influencers may feel the need to repair their reputation because it’s their livelihood, but personal problems should be resolved privately. Seeking public validation doesn’t always help—it often makes things worse.
Fifth, validation seems to be what many people are chasing on social media, whether to boost their ego or protect their reputation. While it’s natural to seek affirmation, we don’t actually need it. What truly matters is self-awareness and the judgment of our Creator. He knows us best, and ultimately, His opinion is the only one that counts.
This post is meant to spread awareness about cyberbullying and the roles we play—whether as contributors or victims. I’m not perfect, but I can proudly say I’ve never left a hateful comment online. I don’t usually start debates on controversial topics, but these are my thoughts. I’m open to constructive feedback and other perspectives.
To those who are victims of cyberbullying, your worth is not determined by others. If social media affects your peace or mental health, take a break. This is a genuine piece of advice, not an unsolicited opinion—unlike most comments online.
