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�ℐ 𝓌𝓇𝒾𝓉ℯ 𝓉ℴ ℯ𝓍𝓅𝓇ℯ𝓈𝓈�
❦︎𝐶𝑒𝑟𝑡𝑖𝑓𝑖𝑒𝑑 𝑀𝑎𝑛𝑢𝑛𝑢𝑙𝑎𝑡
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18/10/2024

Habang bata pa lang, Ituro mo na sa mga anak mo na ang kanilang mga kapatid ay isa sa mga pinaka importanteng tao dapat sa buhay nila.

Kase Hindi nmn tayo laging anjan para sa kanila. Mauuna tayong mawawala at maiiwan naten sila.
Pero ang mga magkakapatid,
Sila ung mga taong inilaan ng Diyos na anjan bilang katuwang nila sa journey na ito ng buhay bukod sa kanilang magiging pamilya.

Itrain naten sila habang bata pa sila,
na dapat nagtutulungan sila at nagbibigayan.
Na lagi dapat silang anjan para sa isat isa.
Alisin ang inggitan at awayan, sa halip, Turuan naten silang magmahalan at magrespetuhan.

Kase sa buhay na ito,
People come and go.
Ung mga kaibigan nila mawawala din yan isa isa.
At ang buhay ay hindi lang puro saya. puno din ito ng pagsubok at kabiguan.

Kailangan naten ng mga taong tunay na masasandalan sa oras ng kagipitan.
Napakasarap sa pakiramdam na alam mo na hindi ka mag iisa,
na laging may karamay ka.
At unang una na jan, ang mga kapatid naten na anjan at willing tumulong sa anumang problema.

18/10/2024

Love is not just about being physically attracted to each other or intimate. It is built on respect, trust, and honesty.

To care for the feelings, boundaries, and opinions of your partner forms respect.

Respect is when you understand and accept the other person as who he is instead of trying to alter him.

Trust refers to having an assurance with your partner knowing that they will be faithful and truthful to you at all times.

Honesty makes the strength of a relation; therefore, such two persons need not be shamed to express all their thoughts and emotions to each other.

Actually, love is helping each other when things get rough and the happy moments are shared.

It's a matter of being there-not just physically but emotionally and mentally, too-and you can face anything if there's respect, trust, and honesty between each other.

That is what makes a relationship last knowing that your love is based on real values, not just physical attraction.

True love transcends the superficial level and forms an attachment that gets stronger with years.

16/10/2024

Be with someone who will take care of you.
Not materialistically, but take care of your soul, your well being, your heart..protect and respect you.. Remember if theres no respect thats not love

16/10/2024

At the end of the day, no heart would beat for you except your own.

Nobody will understand the reasons behind those empty liquor bottles and all your silent battles. Nobody will feel the words that you write or why the world stopped treating you right. Nobody will be there in the sad scenes nobody has seen. All those reeking wrecks of childhood dreams. You just reach the point where explaining yourself exhausts you―why you just can’t stop chasing one’s tail even after all these repetitive tales of failures.

So at the end of the day, you only have yourself. It's because nobody will understand the dormant anger within you and the hunger for that piece of peace that you wish this time, comes with no cost. And you grew and learned and became defensive because you knew that at the start of the day, nobody would truly see the real you and your mourning every morning—all the breaking and mending. No one sees the pain you hide, or understand why you’re still on the losing side.

16/10/2024

🙊

16/10/2024

I used to be one call away, but I stopped that system. because when I'm the one who needs something, they don't have it

16/10/2024

"The weight of mental pain is crushing, while physical pain is merely painful."

16/10/2024

"Trying to recover from disappointments"

16/10/2024

nothing hurts more than trying your absolute best and still not being good enough.

16/10/2024

'Strong People always cry at Night'

16/10/2024

☝️

16/10/2024

Tears shed in silence hurt the most..

15/10/2024

i actually didn't talk s**t about you. i just said what happened and it's your fault if the situation makes you look like s**t, because truth hurts, reality bites, and accountability burns, exposing the depths of your own actions.

that's the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth, without sugarcoating or spin, revealing the intricate web of deception you've woven, and the consequences that come with it.

i called out your actions, not your character, because accountability matters, and growth begins with acknowledgment, requiring you to confront the flaws in your own behavior, and take ownership of the harm caused.

your defensiveness only validates my words, while silence would have been a stronger denial, but instead you chose to react, revealing the guilt and shame that fuels your anger.

take responsibility, and let's move forward with honesty, transparency, mutual respect, and a commitment to healing, leaving the toxic cycle of blame and denial behind.

don't distort reality; face the consequences of your choices head-on, with courage and conviction, embracing the opportunity for growth and transformation.

own up to your mistakes, and maybe we can begin to heal, to mend the fractures of our relationship, and rebuild trust on a foundation of truth and integrity.

but until then, i stand firm, unwavering in my commitment to truth, unshakeable in my conviction, refusing to be silenced or swayed by your anger or manipulation.

15/10/2024

Relatable?

15/10/2024

Because you didn't want to lose him, you lost yourself in the process.
You became a girl who kept being mistreated and you formed a habit of saying "I'm used to it".

You became a girl who kept being unappreciated and you began to tell yourself "It's okay".

You became a girl who kept being undervalued and you learned how to say "I'm fine".

You became a girl who kept being put last and you naturally reacted with "It's whatever".

You became a girl who kept being taken for granted and you dealt with it by repeating
"Everything's okay".

You became a girl who kept being unhappy and you regularly told people "I'm gonna be fine".

And if you're reading this right now, then you need to understand that no guy is worth losing yourself for, no guy is worth suffering for at the expense of your happiness, and no guy is worth tormenting yourself over for the sake of making him happy.

At this point, perhaps losing him is the only way you'd be able to get yourself back because as much as you wouldn't want this to be true, he's the only thing that's in your way of finding yourself and he's the only reason you've lost yourself for so long.

14/10/2024

What is future faking?

It's another manipulation tactic used by many narcissistic people. Future faking is when the narcissist uses our future to control us in our present.

Future faking is precisely what it says. Only it's better explained the other way around. It's when the narcissist fakes a future with us. They will make fake promises about our future together to get their needs met in the present, to hide how horrible it is in the present by getting us to focus on the future promises they'll never deliver. They build up or hopes to miss the mark. They will gaslight, which is psychological manipulation to distort our reality. Still, not only do they distort our present reality, they use the present to distort our future, to hide what they are doing to us in the present. They lie in those idealisation stages to sell us an illusion of something that will never be. The Narcissist will mirror us, they'll get to know all our likes and all our dislikes in the idealisation stage, so they can sell us that dream to deliver us our worst nightmare. What they promise is rarely to never delivered. They will fail to act on their promises time and time again, often than with intermittent future faking, gaslighting, blames-shifting, projection, silent treatments, financial abuse, triangulation, and other forms of coercive control to leave us feeling like we are at fault that they didn't act on their promises, leaving us with the hope when they future fake that our wishes and dreams with them will come true, so they can escape accountability for whatever is happening in the present then not delivering on their fake future promises, in the future and so we try harder to please them In the hope they'll deliver on those future dreams and plans they made with us, at the beginning when they could treat us so well. -

14/10/2024

The narcissist does not want a partner, they want a servant, a loyal subject, a devoted disciple. They seek someone who will cater to their every whim, fulfill their every desire, and surrender to their every demand. They crave a sense of control and dominance, a feeling of being worshipped and adored.

In their twisted mind, they believe they are entitled to this kind of treatment, that they deserve special privileges and exemptions. They see themselves as superior beings, above the rules and conventions that govern mere mortals.

But the truth is, they are afraid of true intimacy, of vulnerability, of being seen as equals. They fear that if they surrender to genuine partnership, they will lose their power, their control, their sense of self.

So they manipulate, they gaslight, they charm and deceive. They create a false narrative, a fantasy world where they are the heroes and their partners are the villains. They use guilt, shame, and anger to keep their partners in line, to maintain their grip on the relationship.

But the relationship is not a partnership, it's a dictatorship. The narcissist rules with an iron fist, crushing any dissent, any opposition, any semblance of autonomy. They suffocate the spirit, stifle creativity, and extinguish hope.

And yet, despite the toll it takes on their mental and emotional well-being, their partners often stay, trapped in the web of deceit and manipulation. They stay because they believe they can change the narcissist, that they can fix them, that they can love them into submission.

But the narcissist cannot be changed, they cannot be fixed. They can only be exposed, confronted, and rejected. For only then can their partners break free from the shackles of servitude and embrace their true worth, their true power, their true selves.

14/10/2024

minsan mapapahinga ka nalang talaga ng malalim at mapapasabi sa sarili mo na "sige lang, okay lang, tiis pa."

10/10/2024

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10/10/2024

𝙒𝙊𝙍𝙇𝘿 𝙈𝙀𝙉𝙏𝘼𝙇 𝙃𝙀𝘼𝙇𝙏𝙃 𝘿𝘼𝙔

It's okay to distance yourself from people who:

☑️ Drain your energy
☑️ Don't support your growth
☑️ Constantly bring negativity
☑️ Fail to respect your boundaries
☑️ Don’t appreciate your worth

☑️ It's okay to distance yourself from people whom you thought were your 𝙁𝙍𝙄𝙀𝙉𝘿𝙎 .

You deserve to be surrounded by people who uplift and inspire you.

𝙋𝙧𝙤𝙩𝙚𝙘𝙩 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙬𝙚𝙡𝙡-𝙗𝙚𝙞𝙣𝙜.
𝙋𝙧𝙤𝙩𝙚𝙘𝙩 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙢𝙚𝙣𝙩𝙖𝙡 𝙝𝙚𝙖𝙡𝙩𝙝.

10/10/2024

- Nakakapanlumo makita na ang ating magulang ay tumatanda na, habang tayo ay hirap parin sa buhay, yung guilt na dala-dala parin natin sa bawat araw na lumilipas dahil hindi parin natin afford ang mga bagay at magandang buhay na gusto sana nating ipaparanas sa kanila. gustuhin man natin makabawi hindi rin natin alam at kung saan at paano tayo mag sisimula, dahil ito lang tayo. at sana kung darating man yung panahon na magtagumpay tayo sa buhay sana sa mga panahon na iyon ay malakas parin ang ating mga magulang.

10/10/2024

Lord sobrang nahihirapan na po ako ang bigat sa dibdib ang sakit, pero alam ko po na this pain has a purpose and this is your way to make me stronger ang braver🥺

10/10/2024

To MYSELF ✨

You’re not hard to love.
You’re not too much. You’re not too difficult.
And I’m sorry someone in this world made you feel that way.

And while it may hurt right now, I want you to know that there is someone out there who is waiting to love you just as you are.

They will honour you. They will respect you. They will never lie to you. They will do everything in their power to make you feel safe; to make you feel secure. They will hold your darkest secrets. They will protect you against your greatest fears. Nothing will be too heavy for them to carry, for their greatest desire in this life will be to simply lighten your load.

They will become your home,
And you, my love, will become theirs.

And once you have it, you’ll never feel like you’re too much again.

For this person will reassure you,

That you are perfect just the way you are.

10/10/2024

Utang na pinaka mahirap bayaran sa mundo utang na loob- Mahal ang utang na loob kasi sumbat ang interes..

10/10/2024

Lord, I'm in one of the most challenging seasons of my life right now, but I trust You. Whenever I feel like giving up, please give me the strength to carry on.

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To love is to be seen and considered .. To have someone who knows when your sad when your down without saying a word

generous pero pag mag kaaway kayo isusumbat lahat , never na validate ung mga nagawa mo .. Kaya hindi ako pwede magpahinga e kc kawawa ako hnd koman lang naexperience maalagaan ng tama na walang halong panunumbat yung willingness na tulingan ka even hnd mo hiningi worst is sasabihan kapa na puro pakinabang lang gusto mo .. Giver ako e and ang sakit lang msabihan ng gnun kc nga natulungan ka nung mga time na kailangan mo

Iba ako mawalan ng pake!

I always find reason to stay kahit gaano kahirap kahit gaano kasakit but his actions is always telling me to let him go .. Ganun pala no kapag nakita mong masaya sya sa iba wala kang choice but to accept and the next thing you can do is just to remove yourself from the situation .. Sana kapag nakita mo akong masaya sa iba masabi mo din sa sarili mo na dapat ikaw yon

Ilang maling tao ba dapat ??

I did .. Pero araw araw niang pinaramdam sakin kung saan ko dapat ilugar ang sarili ko.. I know my capabilities at hindi ko deserve makisawsaw at maging option sa relasyon ng mga taong hnd nmn interesting !!!! Binalewala mo ung taong pinapangarap ng iba! Jan kana the monkey is belong to the same monkey!!!

The way my heart drop Seeing him happy with someone else is just a full of mixed emotions Pinakamasakit, hinayaan nya lang din akong unti unting maubos. Hinintay nya ang pagbitaw ko ang maging tanging option ko sa aming dalawa 💔

All this time puro kasinungalingan lang pala ang lahat !! THE AUDACITY na antagal q inayos ung sarili q tpos pumasok pasok ka sa buhay ko para saktan at wasakin lang ako!!!!!

As what ive said bumawi na sya sa iba nangako na sa iba !!

Tapos yung nanakit sayo living his best life na walang kahit na anong sakit na nararamdaman !

Unti unti ng dumadating yung araw na kinatatakutan ko nasasanay na ako .. Sabi nga nila Don’t leave your coffee for too long. And then surprised why its cold. Im not talking about the coffee. ☕️

He didn't even try to fix kase wala nmn tlaga syang balak ayusin..

Bumawi naman siya sa iba nga lang un kase ung mas mahal niya!! In gods time darating din ung taong totoong para satin ung taong ibibigay ni lord na magmamahal satin ng totoo na walang halong pagkukunwari panloloko at alinlangan