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Spicymom

I live in the Netherlands with my beautiful family 💏👨‍👩‍👧🇳🇱🇳🇬
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21/12/2024

Someone saw Spicydaddy at Amsterdam today and called him Daddy Olivia, my husband was surprised.
I didn't go to Amsterdam with them, he came back home and was telling me about it.
Immediately I knew it's one of us here 😂😂😂
Abeg na who be that? 😂
I want to greet you for recognising him 😍❤️❤️

21/12/2024

I love taking pictures to keep memories.

It's amazing to look back and see how far I've come. I cherish every moment and I'm grateful to share some of my journey with you here 😍🫶

21/12/2024

Outside with my man to go make a new baby for 2025 🥳👏
The kids are at home 🤩

21/12/2024

Guess what he was staring at?

He woke up since early hours of the morning after he had eaten, he refused to fall back to sleep and continued babbling 😂 i ignored him and tried to sleep but he didn’t give up until he succeeded in driving sleep away from my eyes.

Then i woke and gave him a kiss on his forehead, he gave out a loud scream in excitement then it dawn on me all he wanted was attention, he needed someone to play with him and that was how we started playing.

He was giggling so much i had to bring him downstairs to the living room to continue playing in order not to disturb daddy ☺️😍

Big sis and papa are still sleeping mummy and Jordan are in the Living room playing 🥰

20/12/2024

Big sis and little bro 😍😍😍
People who reäct daily on our pösts hope you find whatever you’re looking for. 🙏❤️🎄

20/12/2024

Olivia wouldn't have taken it lightly with me if I had disappointed her, now I believed those that said she would be more disappointed with me than her teacher.

You needed to see how she was supervising what I was cooking.
After cooking I wanted to package the food in a big bowl but she said no that I shouldn't embarrass her that they might think it's trash.🤣🤣🤣

And she suggested another one and to think that she requested to taste the food first before I took it to them ,🤔🙄

20/12/2024

I was wondering how they managed to keep their canals clean and sparkling and then i came across them doing it yesterday.

20/12/2024

Something I love about the Netherlands is their cleanliness, their maintenance culture, their love for nature and how they nurture and preserve these nature.

Most of the bush meats back home that goes into hiding at the sight of humans because of being hünted and used for peppersoup 🤣🤣 you see them here a lot, roaming freely and you dare not tamper with them 😂

When it comes to maintenance culture, they take it seriously here.
The trees, the animals, the canals, the roads the building are all well cared for.

After the trees started losing their leaves on my way back home one day, I literally saw these people trimming the body's of these trees you see in the streets and was doing it one after the other and I began to think, what level of orderliness is this 🙄 everything with life here in the Netherlands is valued.
I just envy how organised they are 🫶

20/12/2024

Please hëlp me these people want to snãtch my husband from me .

20/12/2024

If I was someone seeking public validation or moved by people's opinion, I would have had a loud wedding to prove them wrong because people said a lot about my marriage, some thought I was a single mother, some said my husband abandoned me and was enjoying himself abroad, some said I didn't even have a good business 🤣🤣

Some said the house I was living in was sponsored by my sugar daddy,
There was nothing they didn't say but amidst all I remained focused and played a deaf ear to their gossips.

I left them to keep assuming and speculating, I was doing everything on a low-key until we secretly relocated abroad and their shãme was shaming me 🤣
Imagine saying things with confidence about someone you know nothing about only for them to prove you wrong, do you know how stupiid you will appear? Especially before your gossiip mates.

Maybe if I had started doing things to show them we were processing something then they would do everything within their reach to spoil it just to prove themselves right.

Even when I travelled to Accra to go write my exams for my visa, I made it look like I went for a vacation to validate their assumptions about my sugar daddy 🤣

To crown it all, see how God blessed me immediately I landed the Netherlands I got pregnant immediately with ease after staying for good 7years before trying to conceive again.

My blessing is loud I think I don't thank God enough 😭🙏

As much as I act strong outside then after I hear nãsty things about me sometimes when I lay in my bed at night, some days I cry and after crying I wipe my tears and beg God not to let me down for all my sacrifices.

See me smiling Over here with my family while they are there with Tinubu 🤣

20/12/2024

It was not an easy journey but finally I am happy where I am now. 😍

This was me in 2017, it wasn't certain if I was going to join my husband abroad or not even though he had promised to bring us over I didn't put all my hope in the promise because of the too many discouragements and negative talks from people about distance marriage especially abroad.

He was sending us upkeep and taking care of every responsibilities as he should but still I had doubts inside, instead of living a normal life I was in panick busy hustling back home to have something to fall back on incase the inevitable happens because I didn't want to be caught unawares.

I requested he open a business for me back home but he objected saying I should sit back at home and take care of Olivia while waiting for him to bring us over🙄.
I adhered to the advice and was nursing Olivia until she was one year old and still, non of our plans were working out.

With the little money I had saved, i started a small business for myself while waiting for him and after a while, I had to open up to my husband and told him what I was doing by the side to make some money despite the money he was sending to us.

He wasn't happy about it, I explained to him how difficult it was for me to stay idle to think that he met me working I had to stop work after birthing Olivia but then, instead of letting me to be jumping around the streets, he decided to support me with some money to get a shop to be doing my business which he still insisted that the business wasn't necessary that I was just sufferiing myself for no reason.
But I can assure you that business really distracted me from a lot and helped kept me busy.

At a point I was considering whether to quit or to keep hanging on but on a second thought I was like, what if I decide to quit and it happens that he was really serious about his plans and to think that he had never said something to me and then end up doing a different thing...

There were a lot of challenges but the fear of quitting and making the mistake of ending up with the wrong person kept me.

Why I started considering quitting was because my life was on hold, I had no sustainable income just my small business and the upkeep he sends to us, it was taking him too long to visit us and I had wanted to further my studies, and what if something happens to him and he's no more which I never pray for, I have a child to care for that is another burden on me, what if he decides to stop sending us money which he has never faulted for once even when we have disagreements but then I needed to imagine those circumstances because they are bound to happen at some point in life, will I just fold my hands and be depending and waiting for a man?
A lot were bothering me which sometimes I communicate to him but I am glad he had a way of reassuring and calming me down.

But I must tell you that one thing that always made me have a rethink and waited for him was his honesty, he never promised too much just to keep me.

I had access to his company's line then and a few of his colleagues in case I needed to know anything 🤔.

I will end it here for now.

Distance relationship is not for the faint hearted if you must do it, be determined and stay focus and most importantly, make sure to keep yourself engaged with something else depression and imaginations will kpai you.

19/12/2024

I playfully went to the internet to check flight tickets to Nigeria for a family of 6 because I wanted to know whether to give birth to more kids before travelling home or to wait after travelling and also to know how much it will cost my family to visit Nigeria.
What I saw there eeeeh 😳 I had to minus one and made it family of 5 but still🙄 and then I reduced it again to family of 4 😂🤣.

E be like na family of 4 we go dey visit Nigeria before giving birth to anymore kids 😂

Some people don go do family planning because of tinubu 😂😂

I know a lot of people are already missing Buhari by now, Buhari on his own would be on one corner laughing at the people😂.

If this man comes back 2027 I will not take my people's rant seriously again.

How much is transportation fare to your village this December, are you traveling?
When last did you travel to your village?

Transportation fair to Nigeria with my family is over 10million don't ask me when I am coming back, we are stuck here 😂

Una goodnight 🤗😍

19/12/2024

Each time I go out, I come back home with a headache, runny nose and sore throat that has made me realise why people go into hiding during winter.

When we moved to the Netherlands last winter whenever we went out, it was usually dry outside I saw only a few people around and I was wondering why the city was so empty, i was asking my husband where the people living in all the residential Houses around are, I see a lot of houses around but I don't see anyone outside.

Not until it was summer, they started crawling out from their hiding, 🤣 people would literally
bring seats outside of their house just to take the sun.

People don't joke with the sun here because it doesn't show up often.

Close to two weeks now we have not had sun, the weather is just cold, cloudy and rainy.

Dealing with catarrh again, seems this is gonna be an endless challenge until the season is over.🙄

19/12/2024

A short clip from Olivia’s dinner party.

19/12/2024

😂😂😂
The answer to their questions is in the comment section and even on my page because I posted a video of myself and husband same time I made that post but still, inpatient wouldn't let them verify things before running into conclusions.

Anyways, this is Jordan and I laughing at them 😘

19/12/2024

When I was still going for my intergration seminar, the Kenyan girl who happens to be the only black girl there with me was gisting with me how she visited her Nigerian friend who offered to braid her hair at a cheap rate.

She said that the girl served her white rice and stew, that it was very sweet and she liked it but there was so much pepper in it and that in their country they don't eat pepper like Nigerians.
The way she was rolling her tongue demonstrating it got me laughing.

Till this moment, you people are still reminding me to add pepper to the jollof rice I am making, now I believe the girl, Una love pepper 😂

I am suspecting that her friend to be from one tribe like that in Nigeria but I will not mention it 🤣🤣🤣

This small pepper you are seeing is what I am using, if you are not living here you will not understand the power this tiny pepper has, I might still have to divide it by two to avoid problems.

19/12/2024

While Olivia was leaving for school this morning, she said I should start making her dinner party food before she returns from school so that we don't go late but I objected.

No, that I would wait for her to return then we do it together, after all it's her dinner party and not mine.
Parents are invited but will not get free food, you have to pay for anything you want.

Meanwhile, Olivia went to school with a plate spoon and a cup they were asked to bring it to school, probably for their enjoyment 😜.

Looking at the time for her party, it seems I will have to follow her advice and start already because if I wait for her definitely we would be late to the event.

And again I'm thinking what if I disappoint this people and not present the jollof rice I promise, what will happen? 😊🤣🤣

19/12/2024

Something I have realised, the one thing you didn't do right is what people would capitalize on.

Sometimes, when you make a post and there's an omission somewhere or grammatical error, the mistake is what would actually bring you more engagements.

The post I made yesterday about our civil marriage, I didn't include my husband's picture in the upload and so far people are in the comment section asking who is the husband, where is the husband? 😂

If I had included my husband's picture maybe those searching for him wouldn't have commented, they would just scroll past after reading and watching the pictures. 🤣

What did I learn? Sometimes reserve some details to make room for further questions.

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Video's

I was wondering how they managed to keep their canals clean and sparkling and then i came across them doing it yesterday. #netherlands #canal #lifeineurope

They want my man.

Please hëlp me these people want to snãtch my husband from me . #netherlands #motherhood

Dinner party

A short clip from Olivia’s dinner party. #dinnerparty #christmas2024 #netherlands

From my kitchen window I could see Olivia at school, they went to the gym returning back to their school. The gym center is opposite their school.

My Wedding.

This was the emergency choir people that sang for my wedding uninvited. you will not believe what they did to us #trendingwedding #nigerianwedding

What A Shy Bride 👰‍♀️ #weddinginspo #bridetobe #nigeriawedding

Siblings

Now she has a companion. #netherlands #bigsis #motherhood #newborn #familyfun

Big sis duty

Big sis was busy making video with little bro while i was in the kitchen preparing dinner. #netherlands #dinner #bigsis

Omugwo body don dey show

I didn’t know my daughter was recording us. i came back home so hungry and asked olivia to microwave oliebollen for me and it became very stretchy instead of hot so my husband was explaining the difference doing it with oven and using a microwave. #netherlands• Omugwo body don dey show, i have been eating too much lately.

He's not feeling wëll. He got his first n!ddle vãccine today, two at once and since then we have been like this.#Netherlands

He was more cute b4

My Baby’s skîn tone darkened after birth. Can you rècommend a stròng crėam to help restòre his original fàir còmplexion. #netherlands #motherhood #childbirth #newborn