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28/01/2025

28/01/2025

22:14hr.

Who is awake?

Come eat dinner with us, we are still awake.

28/01/2025

You all know how difficult it is sometimes to come up with something to cook for your family.

Sometimes we end up creating a beautiful recipe just by following our mind.

I never had anything in mind, i saw this pack of mixed vegetables at the supermarket and it looked really nice so i bought it without knowing what to use it with.

I arrived home and decided to freestyle it with noodles and it came out nicely and i ate that one alone.

When my husband returned home, i told him about the tasty vegetable noodles i made and i promised to prepare it for him with the assurance that he would love it.

I prepared it for him, he ate it and liked it. in his words, this is a complete meal we should start making noodles this way instead of the regular way.

One new food added to my menu. 💃💃

28/01/2025

I will rather do this than try that. ゚viralシ

27/01/2025

The Joy when your mom finally arrived in Europe for Omugwo. ゚viralシ

27/01/2025

The Joy when grandma finally arrives in Europe for Omugwo 💃💃🥳🙌

26/01/2025

Goodnight my lovely people 😘

25/01/2025

This my baby hair doesn’t look like a new born hair, it’s too hard.

I am considering adding children relaxer on it to soften it.

I am afraid his hair might turn to dada (dread) he crîes whenever i comb it, i don’t want dada for him because i have not seen any kid born abroad with dread.

have you used relaxer on your baby’s hair before, which brand did you use? please recommend a product for me, i don’t need harsh ones just a mild products for children.

24/01/2025

Olivia Chris recently asked to take her bike to school, which is just a 5-minute walk from our home.

I saw her friends with their bikes on our way back from her school the other day.
I realized the request was due to peer pressure.

Today, I allowed her to take hers.

Is it okay to give in to peer pressure in this case?

Please share your opinion I want to know what you think.

24/01/2025

Breakfast for my man from a premium Anambra wife 😍☺️☺️.

24/01/2025

The same people making møckery of divorces and single mothers will be the same to ask why didn't she leave when the tøxic marriage eventually claims your life.

It's healthier when you part ways amicably, rather than pretending to be united under the pretense of marriage, when in reality your differences have become irreconcilable.

If you are in a marriage and you find yourself doing everything by yourself and for yourself.
Just know that it's time to be alone.

You are better off alone.

Stop deceiving yourself by remaining there because of what people would say, whether you leave or not people will still say when it becomes obvious, your well being should be your priority and not people's opinion.

23/01/2025

My mom called and was asking if I'd been helping Jordan practice sitting, but I said no. I didn't do it with Olivia either she learned on her own when she was ready.

I never practiced sitting with Olivia, she learnt and started sitting on her own.

I struggle with this part of being a mom, cuddling a baby to sleep, practicing sitting or walking.

With Olivia, I would bathe, feed, and lay her beside me and doze off and my sister living with me then thought I was crazy, she would ask which mom sleeps before her baby 🤣

For me, as long as the baby isn't crying he or she will sleep when they are ready to.

But I have noticed Olivia usually puts Jordan to sleep, I don't know how she does it but each time I handed Jordan over to her, he ends up falling asleep a few minutes later.

Sometimes she would ask if I want her to make him to sleep, for me why not and In the next few minutes he is sleeping already.

Does practicing sitting really help babies sit up earlier? I don't think it makes a difference.

23/01/2025

Weird Stomach Feelings After Childbirth?

Have you ever felt strange movements in your stomach after giving birth, wondering if there's still a baby inside?

I experienced this after having Olivia. For months, I felt movements that made me panic, thinking another baby was still inside, I even visited the hospital to ease my mind.

But with Jordan, it was different. I didn't feel that movement but I had contractions while breastfeeding him. Each time I breastfed him I felt this shãrp paiin in my stomach that lasted as long as he sückled until 6weeks after I gave birth.

Surprisingly, with Jordan my body healed faster within a month, I felt okay.

But with Olivia, recovery was much slower it took a couple of months.

How about you? What was your postpartum experience like?

22/01/2025

When choosing a baby stroller which direction do you prefer your baby to face?

1. Face to face with you
2. Forward facing, your baby looks ahead.

Which one do you prefer and why?

22/01/2025

I saw someone pushing her dog in a baby stroller, that's the weirdest thing I have seen living here 🤣

I started laughing and she was smiling back at me not knowing why I was laughing 😄.

People don't joke with pets here, they treat them like humans.

Two days back Olivia Chris and I were coming back from the supermarket and we saw a poster of two missing cats, while we stopped to read what was written on the poster, one elderly woman came to us and started talking with us.

She asked if we have seen the cat around our neighbourhood 😂

Is it possible to recognise a cat? I can't differentiate them from each other.

22/01/2025

Why do babies cryy in their sleep?

He will be sleeping and suddenly he will screám and start cryiing😴

22/01/2025

Breãst Milk Expression: Yay or Nay?

Have you considered expressing breãst milk to store for later? What are your thoughts on it?

I personally considered getting a breãst pump, but later optioned out. Here's why:

I feel breãst refills quickly, so why store when my baby can feed directly from me?

And also I feel it limits bonding, I want to cherish that special nursing time with my baby.

What about you? Do you express breãst milk? Share your experiences or you can tell us the importance of expressing your milk because for me I don't see a need to do so.

22/01/2025

Have you faced presssure from family and society regarding childbêaring? Do you mind sharing your story?
If you don't want to say it in the open you can message me at Olivia Chris then I will post it anonymously.

Don't let anyone pressure you.

Plan your parenthood journey wisely, considering your financial, emotional, and physical capabilities.
Childbirth shouldn't be about what family or people around demands.
The decision starts first from you the lady and then with your spouse.

This is a discussion that should take place before marriage with anyone.

How many kids are you capable of bringing forth and what if life happens, it could be death or separation can you provide for your children's needs with or without your spouse's support?

Raising children can be expensive and time consuming, especially in countries with limited government support. Even with child benefits, many families abroad choose to have only 2-3 children.

Aside from the financial aspect of childbearing, you invest your life and emotions into the life of your children as long as they live and you live as well.

Birthing too many kids Keep you worrying about a lot of things and people, stress and pressure from all these limits chances of you living your own life.

Your life and health comes first
Don't succumb to pressure from family or society. Listen to your inner voice and prioritize your well-being. A lot of women have løst their lïves in this journey of childbearing because they failed to listen to their body but preferred to please others.

If you have a supportive spouse that prioritises your health and well being, then you are so lucky.
Some mën don't cãre, it's just all about what they want it doesn't matter if your lïfe is at stãke