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17/12/2025

For over a week now, I haven’t been sleeping with Jordan. I haven’t even been carrying him or taking care of him the way I used to.

He sleeps with his dad because he’s a rough sleeper, and we’re trying to avoid him hitting my stomach.

Lately, it feels like the bond between us is starting to loosen. He doesn’t really cling to me the way he used to 😩🤣

Yes, he still gets excited when he sees me, but it’s only for a moment. After that, he just goes about his activities which wasn't how he behaves normally, before he would be all over me.

I’ve noticed he cries a lot these days, but i couldn't do much because mommy needs to be okay first.

The other day, he kept crying even though he was with his dad and sister. He just wouldn’t stop. At some point, I told his dad to bring him to me.

I simply laid him beside me on the bed. Immediately, he became calm and happy again and stayed with me until evening without crying once.

Sometimes, I really wish babies could talk and express exactly how they feel.

You’d be surprised how much emotion they carry 😚

His reaction afterwards, showed me that all he needed was that mommy moment. I didn’t do anything special to comfort him just being with me was enough to make him feel better again.

I am still not fine yet but It will get better 🥹

13/12/2025

Sometimes, we trust people more than they deserve and in doing so, deny them the freedom to simply be human.

We place them on pedestals higher than who they are, holding them to standards they never claimed.

This kind of pressure forces people to live for public validation, hiding their true selves because deep down, even they know they can't carry that level of trust forever 😁

As humans, we are bound to make mistakes. No one is above temptation, and people can change sometimes suddenly.

There are times when the weight of trust placed on someone becomes so heavy that, when they finally make a grãve mistake and realize they have shãttered the høpes of many, shãme øverwhelms them.

They no longer know how to explain or defend themselves, and instead they choose to disappear and in some cases it could lead to suïcïdãl.

Trust is frãgile and heãvy. Not everyone has the strength to carry it, so we should be careful whom we place that bürden on.

And while defending others, leave room for doubt.

That balance matters. Even the person you defend needs that small space of doubt it reminds them that you see their humanity, that you recognize they are not perfect, and that mistakes are part of being human.

That small space also makes it easier for them to admit their wrøngs.

13/12/2025

Good morning

People like me chose to stay on the fence on this Harrison matter to avoid embarrassment and switch easily if need be.

All the people defending Harrison with their full chaste and attacking others that chose to stay neutral and approach the matter without sentiments.

But what if the unthinkable becomes reality at the end? The disappointment go loud o. Which face una wan take do reverse? 🤔🤣

12/12/2025

Their service reminded me that God still works through people.
May His favor rest on them, I feel so grateful that I just want to give back.

12/12/2025

God didn’t remove every battle, but He gave me the strength to stay thankful 🇳🇱

12/12/2025

When someone say take a break from social media and recover, I sometimes wonder what exactly I’m supposed to do offline.

Where am I supposed to go? Who am I supposed to talk to? Social media might not fix everything, but for me, it’s one of the few coping mechanisms I have to escape boredom and loneliness.

I haven't been to work for the past one week, I’ve been in bed since Monday. Each time I try to walk around the house just to see if I’m getting better, I end up feeling dizzy and weak, and I find myself right back in bed again.

Going back to the hospital for an irøn infusion to get rid of the dïzziness and get my strength back quickly.

Honestly, I can’t wait to return to work. It’s the one place that keeps my mind active and distracts 😜

10/12/2025

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10/12/2025

I don’t know how God designed me, but even in my hardest seasons, I still manage to show up for people.

I can be carrying hêãvy païn in my hêãrt and still treat others with calmness, without lashing out or løsing myself.

It’s like I’m wired to keep holding others together even when no one is holding me.

Looking back, I’m grateful this year is finally winding down.

Apart from løsing my dad, this has been the most trãümãtic year of my life.

I have walked through størms that would have brøken many women, experiences that could have shãttered my mind or crüshed my spïrit.

But here I am still standing.
Still mentally strøng.
Still clear, stable, and grounded.

I thank God for the strength that carried me when I didn’t even understand myself.

After saying I was strong and better on Sunday, things went bãd really fast, from 0-100 but I thank God it was all successful, I am getting better now and recovering fast.

07/12/2025

In this life, good people are rare.

Not the ones who are perfect, but the ones who are honest, kind hearted, and genuinely want to see you grow.
The ones who don’t just show up when life is bright, but stand beside you through the storms, quietly holding pieces of you you didn’t even know were breaking.

When you find people like that, hold them close. Protect them. Appreciate them. Nurture the connection. Because good souls don’t come around every day, and losing one can feel like losing a small part of your own light.

Life will teach you that loyalty is not loud, and love is not always dramatic, sometimes it’s in the simple gestures, the check-ins, the shared laughter, the silent support. Sometimes it’s in the way someone chooses you in moments when the world feels heavy.

So keep the good people. Celebrate them. Grow with them. And when life becomes overwhelming, remember some blessings don’t look like miracle, they look like people. And those people are worth holding on to with both hands 🤗

07/12/2025

Life is a long road, but when you slow down and notice your blessings, the path becomes softer and brighter 😚

07/12/2025

Netherlands

07/12/2025

Ever since I adopted these BãD HãBIT, my life has been shining like generator light after NEPA disappoints 😜😚

• Mindful selfishness 🌹 I finally put myself first. Apparently, prioritizing me is a crime in some people’s village meeting, but I don’t care again.

• Zero interest in opinions 🌹 People can talk from now till December, I won’t hear it. My ears now have a built-in opinion filter.

• Full-time focusing on myself 🌹I’m now the project, the assignment, and the priority.

• Taking charge of my own life 🌹 Nobody is holding steering for me again. I’m driving my destiny myself with confidence and a small cruise.

• Following my heart 🌹 Even when it leads me to soft life, long naps, and peace of mind, I follow gladly.

• Matching energy 🌹 If you bring love, I serve it hot. If you bring nonsense, I return it with express delivery. No delay.

At the end of the day, choosing myself has been the best glow-up strategy. Peace of mind is beginning to do me like skincare 😚

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