Spicymom

30/08/2024

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30/08/2024

I baked my turkey instead of frying it and it came out so nice 😋😋.

29/08/2024

I woke from sleep and was looking for Olivia, you won’t believe where she was 🙄. abroad

28/08/2024

I love the fact she enjoys her own company.

27/08/2024

Today Walk with Olivia took longer than expected but it was actually nice 😍😍.

27/08/2024

How do you cope with not having an appetite to eat during pregnancy?

27/08/2024

How i made my Sweet pepper stew. Something different from the regular sunday stew.

26/08/2024

Let’s go bring Olivia back from school. It was a long walk that left me exhausted but my husband surprised us.

26/08/2024

Back to school morning routine after the long summer vacation. Olivia’s first day at school. let’s pack her lunch bag and get her ready.

25/08/2024

I made this tomato Jollof Noodles for my family with watermelon/grape smoothie. A quick meal, you are lucky if your man eats Noodles.

25/08/2024

I cook the best pear 😋 It’s never too soft nor hard

24/08/2024

Ate my favorite food and found myself this way

23/08/2024

This is the last antenatal appointment Olivia would be going with me. Another day with my midwife, antenatal check 😍

21/08/2024

Top 5 Cities to live in the Netherlands for better opportunities if you are from an English speaking country.

21/08/2024

Nigerian local meal for lunch. My husband has refused to eat this again after i made it earlier 😂😂.

21/08/2024

Dealing with str.etch marks in pregnancy, what a sweet irresistible itch 🤰🤓.

20/08/2024

Olivia is helping mummy clean the balcony, She’s getting better with cleaning you can see how freely her hands move while she’s doing it.

20/08/2024

I want to get a short braid but my husband said i must make it long and beautiful if i have to pay €90 for it 😂😂😂.

19/08/2024

We stopped by for Olivia to have some fun, hear the advice Olivia has for me. 🙄

19/08/2024

I went to buy plantain at this chinese shop but ended up buying things i didn’t budget.

19/08/2024

Let’s go feed some animals in the water

18/08/2024

My husband had an emergency call while i was still cooking, because i didn’t know when he would round off so i suggested he take something before leaving but he didn’t want to, instead of returning them back to the fridge, the baby said she wanted them. This is me feeding baby now. This baby has eaten so much j.unk i am glad it’s not telling on my body🙄🙄

18/08/2024

Some days are like this. I woke up this morning feeling so energetic.

16/08/2024

So Olivia has some amazing questions to ask me about being pregnant 🤰 🥰😍. Do you think these questions were necessary? 🤨.

14/08/2024

Let’s make pasta the nigerian way 😋.

14/08/2024

A gift from my husband’s colleague to Olivia a princess sticker 😍

13/08/2024

To parents out there 😍

13/08/2024

13/08/2024

Nothing g00d comes from P0lygamy.

Go back and check, most families still struggling with diab0lic activities in Africa, you can trace it back to their grand fathers/great grand fathers.
It started from P0lygamy.

P0lygamy is the r00t of diabol!sm, £nvy, jeal0usy, c0mpetition, h@tred just name it.

Often time, this stirs from the women that are married into the family, in f!ghting to win the heart of their husband and become the favourite, they bring in this w!tchcr@fting and gradually inn!tiate their children into it both the male and female children and before you know it, it begins to spread and linger on and when the men inherit this sp!r!t of jeal0usy from their mothers, they go on to bew!tch and h!nder the pr0gress of their step siblings.

It's less with the female children because they marry out of the family but some of them take the practice to their husband's house.

I come from one, my father is not a p0lygamist but his father was, we the grand children could still feel the heat from the act of our grand father.

My Dad learnt a few lessons from his upbringing and avoided divided attention, tried his best to put his home together.

I am glad he modelled a good legacy of what marriage should look like to us his children.

It is easier to manage peace and raise children in love in a small family than sharing love between several women and children. It can never be equal and there must be competiti0ns and jeal0usy.

I have been following Hair Tutorials & Lifestyle vacation vlog and have made some useful observations on her family vlog, how coordinated her parents home is and how they work in unity with her siblings.

You could tell they had a humble beginning, wasn't born with a silver spoon but the love, bond and coordination is still intact but it can never be the same if it was a large family.

I don't know much but the little she has shown us, you could see in the house that it's just her mom and her siblings with few extended family members that usually Visits and leaves....
No much people in the compound.

If you are cooking from one pot for the whole family, you do that in Confidence and trust you are with your siblings and then share with other family members that visited.

But you see family cooking in a p0lygamous home, 🙄🙄🙄 I cannot eat from such Pot.
To me it's like a b0ndage.

There are no doubts even people with one wife struggles in marriage also but often time check well, one partner came from a d@maged home that lacked good m0ral principles about marriage.

Aside from that, bad behaviours and personal differences that are unable to be resolved can also tear a marriage apart.

That is why I Love the white man pattern of marriage. If you get tired of coping, both of you go your separate ways life continues.

No need to gather different women together under one roof, constituting nu!sance and bringing generati0nal f!ght and r!val between siblings and step siblings.

It's only gr££d, £go and most importantly
Indisc!pline will make a man feel entitled to more than one woman at a go not minding the consequences beh!nd it.

No man will accept his woman to have another man beside him, men are not emotionally fit to take it but an African woman will accept it but it has it's C0nsequences, African women will absolve it emotionally but will act on it indirectly and it's usually disastr0us and extends to the children....

You want to tell me tomorrow May edochie's children and Chukwualokam children will be best of siblings? The least they will do is do things diplomatically and mind their business because of the availability of wealth aside that is a life time tvg of w@r.

True l0ve can never exist between two women that are in c0mpetition seeking for the attention of one man, forget the pretence.

13/08/2024

A few advice i received from my midwife Con trary to the advice every pregnant woman receives out there.