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BiBi, Ikot Ekpene, Uyo Itam (2024)

18/07/2024

DO IT YOURSELF

Stop Wasting Money On Insecticide: Get Salt, Kerosine And Any Detergent, and Do This.

Many have wasted alot of money on insecticide, not knowing that there's also another way through which you can get rid of insects both the ones flying and creeping in your house.

What it takes to get them permanently rid of in your house and compound is at your disposal.

It has been working, just that many people do not know about it.

Many of us make use of Kerosine, same as everyone uses Salt and detergent is in everyone's home because it is one of most used in many families.

Get an empty container (it could be Eva water empty container) get salt, Kerosine and any detergent of your choice and follow this steps provided below.

HOW TO MIX INGREDIENTS TOGETHER.

Get the empty container, pour about 10 tea spoon of Salt into the empty container, get any detergent of your choice, pour like 100 naira detergent into the container, Now get your Kerosine, pour till it gets to half of the container and then cover the container and shake it very well.

When you want to apply it, make a little hole on the cover of the container and apply gently.

Have you been disturbed by mosquitoes, bedbugs, ants, flies, centipede, snakes, lizard, insects, reptiles of all sorts, both creeping and flying insects, now their ends are here.
After mixing ingredients together, you can now apply them where necessary to kill any insects disturbing your peace in the house.

Apply in and around your compound every three (3) months to avoid snakes and any creepy creature, for bedbugs, apply it around the affected places including on the foam and see the wonder of the mixture.

For mosquitoes, drop around some strategic places around your room and leave for 20mins, your peace is restored.

For flies, drop around the places, and u won't see them again.
After trying this and it works for you, don't keep it to yourself alone, tell others about it, spread the good news.

12/07/2024

My brothers, you cannot keep being an HURRICANE to your WIFE, CHEATING, DISRESPECTING and ABUSING her then expect her to give you PEACE. When you love and treat your woman right, she become legally blind to the world, she sees only you and will worship you, giving you PEACE will flow effortlessly and naturally from her. PEACE is EARNED NOT DEMANDED. The way a woman treats her man will always be a reflection of how the man treats her.

THERE WILL BE NO PEACE FOR THE WICKED..

12/07/2024

LOVE AND LUST

LOVE and LUST are not identical, although they can share the same space in your AFFECTION..

Lust DEVOURS, Love DEFENDS....

Lust VIOLATES, Love VALUES...

Lust PREYS ON YOU, Love PRAYS FOR YOU..

Lust COVETS, Love COVERS..

Lust "PUSHES UP" ON YOU, Love PUSHES YOU UP..

Lust LIES to you so it can LIE WITH YOU , Love speaks TRUTH to you so that it can be TRUE to you.

KNOW THE DIFFERENCE and Don't get played.

12/07/2024

So FUNNY how some MEN think a WOMAN should not USE WASHING MACHINE to PROVE she's a WIFE MATERIAL

MY SISTER..
If he says a WIFE MATERIAL shouldn’t use WASHING MACHINE, then he should SELL his CAR and be TREKKING as a HUSBAND MATERIAL 😁 🙌

12/07/2024

The case in many Nigerian homes

12/07/2024

Lagos flood has created New Jobs

12/07/2024

DEAR SISTERS, If you are WAITING for a MAN to make you HAPPY, then you will WAIT in VAIN.

If you are WAITING for your CHILDREN to make you HAPPY, you will WAIT till ETERNITY.

TAKE CARE of yourself, LOVE yourself, INVEST in yourself, BUILD yourself.

Stop TOLERATING ABUSE in MARRIAGE just to keep answering MRS. Marriage.

MARRIAGE is meant to be ENJOYED not ENDURED. DADDY I CANNOT LEAVE MY MARRIAGE o because I HAVE CHILDREN, CONTINUE one day he will give you a BEFITTING BURIAL ARRANGEMENT since you are MRS CHILDRENOLOGY..

The truth I have come to realize is that no matter how much you give love to a MAN, if he doesn't VALUE you, he won't APPRECIATE you so do the best you can to TAKE CARE of yourself. Don't KILL yourself with HOUSE CHORES, REST if you can. No WOMAN has ever won an AWARD for the MOST HARDWORKING WOMAN. HOUSE CHORES will always be there.

A lot of WOMEN today have HIGH BLOOD PRESSURE, some are OLDER than their AGE because they take care of CHILDREN and HUSBANDS while they NEGLECT themselves.

Take care of yourselves QUEENS, LOVE yourself, go to the GYM if you can, EAT WELL, look GOOD..

When last did you BUY yourself a PAIR of SHOES?

When last did you GET PIZZA or BABEQUE?

When last did you BUY that HAIR?

When last did you LICK or DRINK ICE CREAM?
MADAM take care of yourself, your HUSBAND and CHILDREN will be ALRIGHT last last. You have only one life to live.

29/06/2024

𝗗𝗢𝗡'𝗧 𝗟𝗘𝗧 𝗔 𝗪𝗢𝗨𝗡𝗗𝗘𝗗 𝗦𝗢𝗟𝗗𝗜𝗘𝗥 𝗗𝗜𝗘!

Someone once said that it's only in Christendom that when a soldier gets hit that he's trampled down so he may die fast, whereas in the secular,a wounded soldier is succoured and led to safety for treatment.

It's sad but this is a reality in the body of Christ. We're all soldiers of the Cross, fighting for the same course. Sometimes,a soldier around us may be be hit and overcome sin and temptations.

It's painful that instead of seeking healing and recovery,many choose to help plunge them deeper into the pit. Jesus never did this,and this model is not from Heaven.

The fallen soldier can either be you or I,and we need people to give us helping hands,back to our feet. A child of God may fall, please, don't help destroy him/her. With love,seek for their restoration.

As a leader, don't think that God gave you the gifts of giving people suspensions. Love never fails when it's administered in purity as Christ would do. Pastor, leaders, and workers, let's go and seek the sheep we've suspended to the wolves.

The woman caught in adultery wasn't killed by Jesus,but was pardoned. We're not better than Jesus. He said we should walk and work as He did. Let's watch out for our fallen heroes and help them back.

Don't stigmatize or gossip about them. The race is still very far away,and we'll need each other to make it through. Let Jesus not only be our message but our life and disposition.

The fact that you're still standing is because GOD never gives up on you, despite your wrong decisions and faltering strength. Why must you give up on a fellow soldier?

Love never fails and it's a voice everyone on earth hears,a lingua franca for all nations. If you help a brother with words of encouragement,and assistance, you'll help make their journey easier.

To the wounded on this journey to Heaven,I need you to know that you're loved. That challenge is not your identity. I stretch forth my hands to pull you up. Be heal!

08/06/2024

LET'S LAUGH AWAY OUR STRESS WITH ANTS 🐜😁😂
1. 5 ants + 5 ants = Tenants
2. To bring an ant from another country into your country = Important
3. Ant that goes to school = Brilliant
4. Ant that is looking for a job = Applicant
5. A spy ant = Informant
6. A very little ant = Infant
7. An ant that uses a gun = Militant
8. An ant that is a specialist = Consultant
9. A proud ant = Arrogant
10. An ant that is cruel and oppressive = Tyrant
11. An ant that is friendly and lovely = Coolant
12. An ant that has changed from evil to good deeds = Repentant
13. An ant that accumulated so much food in summer for use in winter = Abundant
14. An ant that isn’t willing = Reluctant
15. An ant that keeps financial account = Accountant
16. An ant that occupies a flat = Occupant
17. A huge ant = Giant
18. An ant that is important = Significant
19. An ant that has big legs = Elephant
20. A sarcastic ant = Mordant
21. An extremely fast ant = Instant
22. A noisy ant = Rant
23. An ant that doesn't keep moving = Constant
24. A dirty ant = Pollutant
25. An ant that annoys = Irritant
26. An ant that lacks knowledge= Ignorant
27. An ant that can take anything without complaining= Tolerant
28. An ant that wastes resources= Extravagant
29. A very careful ant = Vigilant
30. An ant that maintains good odour = Deodorant
31. An ant that finds it hard to move = adamant
32. An ant that refused to move = Redundant
33. An ant that is into business = Merchant
34. A Political ant = Aspirant
35. An ant that sues someone to court= Complainant
36. A happy ant = Jubilant
37. An ant that is patient - tolerant
38. An ant that does not cooperate - recalcitrant
39. An ant that doesn't agree easily - reluctant
40.An ant that runs away from school unjustified -Truant😂😂🤣

23/05/2024

Happiest birthday my womb opener
My most incredible gift of life
Full package
Love you to the moon and back
Your light shall shine and overwhelm seeming darkness.

My Noble, strong and exalted baby, live, prosper, succeed, overtake and conquer

14/05/2024

INNER PEACE THE ULTIMATE

People will come and go
Those who understand you will be at peace with you
Those who don't will be at war
There is nothing you can really do just let go and keep your priorities straight.

02/05/2024

LET'S TEACH OUR KIDS THE RIGHT ENGLISH.
👇
It's "spaghetti" not "supergetti"
It's "lagging behind" not "lacking behind"
It's "expatiate" not "expantiate"
It's "penalty" not "penarity"🤣
It's "tuck in" not "tore in"
It is "without mincing words" and not "without mixing words"
It's "steer clear" not "stay clear".
It's "sail through" not "scale through".
It's "standard living" not "sandalili."
It's "oh singers sing on" not "o singo singo"
Its "brisket bone" not "biscuit bone".
It's "rack your brain" not "crack your brain"
It's "the end" or "extreme", not "extreme end'.
It's "put to birth" not "put to bed"
It's a "penthouse" and not "a painthouse".
It's "cervix opened" not "service open"
It's "enmity" not "enemity"
It is "at this juncture" not "junction".
It's "Postpone' not 'Prospone".
It's "as and when due", not "as at when due"
It's "rainy season" not "raining season."
It's "adding salt to injury" and not "adding insult to injury".
It's "pronunciation" not "pronounciation"
It's "a little" or "a bit" not "a little bit"
It's "fork" not "ferk"
It's "grateful" not 'greatful"
It's "lycra skirt" not "lacra skirt"
It's "national anthem" not "item"

we stand, Divided we fall
~is~Power 💪

30/04/2024

My Dear Sons.
Let me advice you a bit.
You see eh.
When you get Married...
Make it a habit to hang out and enjoy life with your wife.
Have a meal here and there, travel together and enjoy life with her.
Let your wife be your friend and enjoyment partner.
There is nothing more s*xy and uplifting than making your wife know you are her paddyman.
Now my dear son, that woman has to be your friend and someone who loves you unconditionally.
Many young men at your age and even older men like me when they make money stop hanging out with their wives and chose side ladies and friends or colleagues to have fun.
Their wives stay at home and become baby machines and home restaurants. No Papa.
That's not correct at all.
Enjoy the best moments of your life with your Woman, your friend, your everything like sings.
If you have a woman who only experiences horrible moments ... labour pains and insults how would she be happy.
My Dear Son...
Enjoy the best moments of your life with your wife and you will be one happy and fulfilled Man

Cc

29/04/2024

LETTER TO ALL SINGLE MUM
Dear Single Mum, it's now obvious that almost 85%-90% of you are desperate to settle down and as a result of which many of you forget to Prioritize the stands of your child or children in your new found relationship.
Please Ensure that the Man you are ready to give your Heart to is ready to adopt your child as his own and if he's not ready to do so, Please don't hesitate to Quit. You can't afford your child to be leaving like a total stranger in your house because He/She is not welcome or regarded as a family member.
Some Men see it as if they are doing you a favour by marrying you just because you are a single mum.
You and your Child Deserve the Best too, NA PIKIN YOU BORN YOU NO KILL PERSON....
Please put your head up and aim high and don't allow inferiority complex Dim your light.

Receive grace to push ahead.
Sending hugs 💕

24/04/2024

WHAT KEEPS A MAN?

1. Virginity does not keep a man.
S*x does not keep a man.
Money does not keep a man.

2.A man can have s*x with you now and the next minute starts calling the woman he loves.

3. You can tell him how you've kept yourself for years for him and the next day he's trying to chase after who his heart longs for.

4.You can shower him with so much money and gifts and he'll use that money and gifts to pamper a lady he is dieing for.

5. He can promise 10 girls the world and marriage and break all their hearts for the one he loves.

6. A man is a chaser.
He chases his dreams.
He chases the woman who inspires him.
He chases the woman who challenges him.
He chases the woman who fits his vision.

7. The more you worry about a man, the more you lose him.

8. The more you try to keep him and monitor him, the more frustrated you become.

9. The more you sniff into his phone to checkup messages and all that, the more you feel you're in the wrong place.

10. S*x is not love to men.
Be a woman who value herself.
Be a woman who rules men on her knees.
Be a woman who chases after your vision.
Be a woman of many talent and means.
Be a woman of passion and character.
Be a woman who inspires.
Be a woman who provide solution every time.
Be a woman with worth, pride, and value.
Be a woman with attitude and courteousness.

11.Such women bring men to their knees.
Such woman keep men sleepless at night.
Such women keep men craving for more.
Such women win the loyalty of men.
Such women have their man fight for them.
Such women kill the desire for other women in the heart of a man.
Such women are irresistible and irreplaceable in the hearts of men.
Such women become an addiction.
They're idolized by men.
They are made queens.
They're priceless.
They don't beg to be loved.
They don't struggle for attention.

THEY ARE BUILT TO KEEP THE MEN THEY LOVE FOREVER!

HOPE U GET IT RIGHT?

24/04/2024

DEAR LADIES..

If another WOMAN is able to get CLOSE to your MAN, she's not the PROBLEM, HE is. The fact that another WOMAN feels so welcomed REFLECTS on your MAN'S BEHAVIOR behind your BACK because no WOMAN can DATE or get closed to your MAN if he didn't allow it.

Sisters never COMPETE with another woman over a MAN. If he makes another WOMAN feels like she stands a chance with him, let her have him. You don't want someone that EVERYONE can have.

Listen, a GOOD MAN will place you ABOVE other WOMEN, he will RESPECT your FEELINGS and SET BOUNDARIES because he knows that CHEATING causes emotional trauma to any RELATIONSHIP or MARRIAGE.

DEAR LADIES, you are not a REHABILITATION CENTER for an unfaithful man. You cannot keep a GROWN MAN because you love him, rather a GROWN MAN keeps himself because he loves and RESPECT you. Nothing keeps a man who doesn't want to be kept. Stop fighting another woman over an IRRESPONSIBLE man, you will end up belittling yourself because of a MAN who doesn't value your EXISTENCE.

Stop tolerating cheating just to keep a MAN, the ENEMY of a woman isn't another WOMAN rather the ENEMY of a woman is the irresponsible man who lacks discipline and respect for his woman. Having a man isn't an achievement or trophy until you have a man who values you, respect you, appreciate you and who gives you PEACE OF MIND.

Truth is if another WOMAN STEALS or SN**CH your MAN, there's no better revenge than letting her keep him. REAL and GENUINE MEN can't be STOLEN or SN**CHED. God just saved you from a COMMUNITY MAN, A DEMOCRATIC P***S, A MAN OF THE PEOPLE, FOR THE PEOPLE, BY THE PEOPLE and WITH THE PEOPLE. CLASS DISMISSED.

23/04/2024

My dear Ladies.
You are not rehabilitation centers for badly raised Men.
It is not your job to fix him,change him, parent him or raise him.
You want a Partner NOT a Project.

23/04/2024

Once you've made the decision to move on, don't look back. You will never find your future in the rear view mirror.

23/04/2024

A man can be obsessed with you and still not love you.

A man can be in your twenty-three hours each day and still not think of you as a wife fit for him.

A man can introduce you to his friends and family and still agree with them all that you are not the one.

A man can even engage you and still not have plans to marry you at all.

A man can even plan a lavish wedding with you and still disappear to marry a faceless stranger, somewhere, low key

Sometimes, it has nothing to do with you at all.

Sometimes it has everything to do with him and the indoctrinations that have been planted in him by people he respects.

Sometimes, it has everything to do with his bleeding wounds, unresolved histories and trauma bond

Sometimes, it could be God saving you from a human accident.

This generation can waste your time and still call you names later.

This generation isn't as faithful as our Fathers' and Mothers'

This generation can share all their deepest secrets and vulnerabilities with you and still turn around to marry a clueless, bitter, pretty stranger, with whom they have never discuss jack with.

This generation can agree with and like all your posts and pictures everywhere on social media and still run off to marry another whom they aren't even friends with on social media.

This generation can love you in your Dm and be ashamed to identify with you publicly on a global domain.

This generation can type 'More Grace' while you are a nobody and still fight, castigate, hate and even murder you when the Grace actually becomes More.

This generation wants lasting marriages and relationships but with the wrong manual and strategies.

This generation does more than they actually say or mean.

If he or she is becoming obsessed with you already, please, do not foolishly swim in that uncertainty

The heart of man is desperately wicked and none can know it except by principles and discernment

Therefore, apply the principle of asking and get very clear answers

23/04/2024

If you are a Business owner, either Big or Small. Please come closer, I want to talk to you.

Let me assume you sell baby wears and you live in Abuja. So if i go on Google and type Baby wears sellers in Abuja; Will Google search find your business out?

If the answer is No

Then i can categorically tell you that you are not a serious business person because, i don't know the reason you choose to remain at level one when the world is operating at level 7 already.

Just give me one reason your business is not listed online yet?

Well, I am not here to condemn you but to enlighten you and show you the way.

There is something called Google Business and thats the best place to register your business and get it listed on the world largest search engine and the amazing thing about it is that, its absolutely free.

This is how to get started

1. Open their website (i will put it in the comments section)

2. Log in with your Google Mail (Gmail), i suggest you open a New gmail for this, in your business name

3. Add your business information

4. Select your business type

5. Enter your Location or Location you are targeting

6. Add your contact information

7. Lastly, Verify your business and thats all

It's as simple as that.

You don't need to pay any one to help you set it up.

If there is anything you don't understand, you can go to YouTube and download supporting videos that can guide you through.

Be of help to someone out there by sharing this post

Class Dismissed.

18/04/2024

Sisters, Self Care is Needful.

To all the warrior women balancing the triathlon of motherhood, careers, and domestic jungles: remember, you didn’t say “I do” to lose yourself in the laundry pile or the corporate ladder. The person who dazzled your partner into marriage loved you for *you*—not just for your potential as a supermom or a business guru. Yes, kids happen, bodies change, and workloads could squash a small elephant. But hey, let’s not sacrifice *you* on the altar of endless to-dos!

It’s understandable to shift priorities, but let’s not vanish in the process. As much as possible, carve out a sanctuary in time for yourself. Whether it's a steamy bubble bath longer than your toddler's attention span or a morning jog where the only thing you're chasing is your peace of mind, keep that rendezvous with yourself sacred. Because if you don’t, the person by your side—who promised to be there through thick and thin—might start wondering where the woman he fell in love with has vanished to.

And to the gentlemen, a little PSA: your wife isn't a magical creature who can juggle kids, careers, and casseroles without ever dropping a ball. If she’s expected to stay sparkly for you, the least you can do is pick up a wand and do some magic of your own around the house. It’s tragicomic, really, that her losing herself in the juggle becomes her crime in your courtroom of expectations.

So, let's not wait for a tragedy of disconnection. Support her, laugh with her, and maybe—just maybe—help fold the laundry. Let's make sure that the only things getting lost around here are your socks in the laundry, not her essence in the chaos.

Let’s keep it real, keep it supportive, and maybe keep it a little sarcastic—because life’s too short to not laugh at the chaos. And remember, a well-balanced woman leads to a well-balanced life for everyone. Let's not just pass this message along—let's live it!

11/04/2024

Men desire wives that can support them and give them peace at home in an environment filled with respect and loyalty. Many women want and can give this.

However, it becomes tricky and difficult to give when you begin to feel insecure by the actions or inactions of your husband.

Infidelity arguably is the biggest trigger of it today. How do you support a man who is having affairs that you know of and sense when your money or moral support is going to enable cheating you?

How do you guarantee loyalty to a person who will not hesitate to throw you under the bus with family, friends and even strangers publicly and privately?

How do you contribute and build with a person who is not accountable and feels no need to carry you along?

How do you build with a person who doesn’t care about helping too with your own tasks, struggles, desires and needs?

How do you sacrifice for someone who is always quick to issue threats of offloading you every opportunity or misunderstanding?

How do you build with a husband with whom your future feels shaky and unsure?

A lot of times, these are the root causes that we try to ignore while complaining about lack of support from wives as expected.