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12/06/2024

HOW TO APOLOGISE TO YOUR SPOUSE

1. Don't justify why you did wrong. Accept it was wrong

2. Don't seduce your spouse into s*x hoping that s*x will make your spouse forget the wrong you did and you can escape humbling yourself to say sorry

3. Don't blame your spouse for making you do something wrong. Be an adult. Take responsibility for your actions

4. Don't send friends, family or siblings to apologise on your behalf. It shows cowardice. Face the one you have wronged

5. Don't belittle the wrong you did as if showing your spouse he/she is overreacting. If it is a big deal to your spouse, take it as a big deal

6. Don't start listing your spouse's past wrongs when your spouse confronts you on your current wrong. Love doesn't keep a record of wrongs

7. Don't apologise on social media or put a post on Facebook or WhatsApp status hoping your spouse will see it without saying anything in private. Make your apology personal and heartfelt

8. Don't brush it off and move on as if nothing happened just because you know your spouse loves you. Don't sweep things under the carpet

9. Don't throw money and gifts at your spouse and doing good deeds without addressing the hurt you have caused and the issue. You can't buy your way into healing. Healing is emotional, not material

10. Don't apologise rudely and casually saying "Aah, OK then, I am sorry then if that will make you stop complaining" just because your spouse has asked for an apology. Show genuine remorse

11. Don't wait for when your spouse has decided to divorce you or to break up with you to let go of your ego and say sorry. You might be too late

12. Apologise as soon as possible, sincerely, acknowledging your fault, recognising how it hurts your spouse, assuring him/her of your love and commiting to do better

12/06/2024

12 Reasons Why Reading Books Should Be Part of Your Life:

1. Knowledge Highway: Books offer a vast reservoir of knowledge on virtually any topic imaginable. Dive deep into history, science, philosophy, or explore new hobbies and interests.

2. Enhanced Vocabulary: Regular reading exposes you to a wider range of vocabulary, improving your communication skills and comprehension.

3. Memory Boost: Studies suggest that reading can help sharpen your memory and cognitive function, keeping your mind active and engaged.

4. Stress Reduction: Curling up with a good book can be a form of mental escape, offering a temporary reprieve from daily anxieties and a chance to unwind.

5. Improved Focus and Concentration: In today's fast-paced world filled with distractions, reading strengthens your ability to focus and concentrate for extended periods.

6. Empathy and Perspective: Stepping into the shoes of fictional characters allows you to develop empathy and gain a deeper understanding of different perspectives.

7. Enhanced Creativity: Reading exposes you to new ideas and thought processes, potentially sparking your own creativity and problem-solving skills.

8. Stronger Writing Skills: Immersing yourself in well-written prose can improve your writing style, sentence structure, and overall communication clarity.

9. Improved Sleep Quality: Swap screen time for a book before bed. The calming nature of reading can help you relax and unwind, promoting better sleep quality.

10. A Portal to New Worlds: Books transport you to different times, places, and realities. Experience thrilling adventures, historical events, or fantastical journeys from the comfort of your armchair.

11. Lifelong Learning: Reading is a journey of continuous learning and self-discovery. There's always something new to learn, regardless of your age or interests.

12. Conversation Starter: Books provide a treasure trove of topics for conversation, fostering connections and enriching discussions with others.

Wahala wear koikoi shoe ๐Ÿ˜‚
10/06/2024

Wahala wear koikoi shoe ๐Ÿ˜‚

10/06/2024

NOBODY IS YOUR ENEMY
*ANYONE THAT ANNOYS YOU* --is teaching you patience and calmness.
*ANYONE THAT ABANDONS YOU* --is teaching you how to stand up on your own feet.
*ANYBODY THAT OFFENDS YOU* --is teaching you forgiveness and compassion.
*ANYTHING THAT YOU HATE* --is teaching you, unconditional love.
*ANYTHING THAT YOU FEAR* --is teaching you the courage to overcome your fears.
*ANYTHING YOU CAN'T CONTROL* --is teaching you to let go.
*ANY "NO" YOU GET FROM HUMAN* --is teaching you to be independent.
*ANY PROBLEM YOU'RE FACING* --is teaching you how to get a solution to problems.
*ANY ATTACK YOU GET FROM PEOPLE* --is teaching you the best form of defence.
*ANYONE WHO LOOKS DOWN ON YOU* --is teaching you to look up to CREATOR ( *GOD* ).
Always look out for the lesson in every situation you face in every phase of life.
Be polite, calm, gentle and thankful to God because He will be with you to the end.
Life had taught me lessons. I do not see people at my cross road, because humans are not reliable. I only see God as the author and finisher of my faith.
*R E F L E C T I O N S*
*When you live your life without anyone betraying, hurting, disappointing, disgracing or offending you, then it means you never did anything worthy.*
*The beauty of life, is that it comes with disappointments and betrayals, from people you least expect.*
*Unfortunately, some of us spend so much time crying over these betrayals and disappointments, and end up becoming victims of all circumstances.*
*Remember One Thing:* *Holding unto anger is like knocking your head on the wall and expecting the other person to feel the pain. You are only hurting yourself.*
*The fact is that the world is full of annoying, naughty, stupid and ungrateful people, and you will always come across them at one point or another in life. But the best thing to do, is to deal with them with wisdom and maturity.*
*You canโ€™t get everyone to love you, think like you or behave like you... never.*
*We must learn to tolerate and

Let's put an end to verbal abuse!
10/06/2024

Let's put an end to verbal abuse!

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10/06/2024

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10/06/2024

๐Ÿ๐Ÿ ๐“๐‡๐ˆ๐๐†๐’ ๐“๐Ž ๐“๐„๐‹๐‹ ๐˜๐Ž๐”๐‘ ๐ƒ๐€๐”๐†๐‡๐“๐„๐‘ ๐”๐‘๐†๐„๐๐“๐‹๐˜

1: Tell your daughter that Money has no gender. She can make money the way any Man can make it and even more.

2: Tell her to step into the FIELD, not the BED to make money. Money from the field comes with dignity, money from the Bed comes with STD.

3: Let your daughter know that she needs to trade her brain, not her private parts to make money.

4: Train your daughter never to pray to marry a rich man, but to work to become a rich girl.

5: Train your daughter never to pray to marry a Governor but to work to become the President

6: Train your daughter that the instrument of money making is under the Hat not under the skirt.

7: Train your Daughter never to Man-hunt but to focus her focus and she will become the focus of many Men.

8: Train your daughter that no man can love her like God, so she must never trade her relationship with God for a relationship with any Man.

9: Train your daughter that the internet never forgets or forgives, let her know that the foolish post she makes on the internet can depose her from her position tomorrow.

10: Tell your daughter that time waits for no man, if she wastes her time with a foolish man, she will wake up one day to discover that it is nighttime.

11: Tell your daughter that life gives back what you give into it, wickedness will be fully repaid.

12: Tell your daughter that beauty is not in exposing nakedness, it is dressing to look like a Queen

13: Tell your daughter that she is a princess and not a pr******te, tell her to dress to prove who she is.

14: Tell your daughter that it is a great wickedness to sleep with the husband of another Woman.

15: let her know that married men do not love her, they only see her as an available s*x toy to satisfy the animal in them

16: Let your daughter know that the best friend she can keep is God, He can not disappoint her.

17: let your daughter know that beauty without a brain makes one look like a Deco

Una good morning ๐ŸŒ„
06/06/2024

Una good morning ๐ŸŒ„

30/05/2024

In case you've been wondering what the new anthem feels like
Here it is!
The New National Anthem

Nigeria, we hail thee,
Our own dear native land,
Though tribe and tongue may differ,
In brotherhood, we stand,
Nigerians all, and proud to serve
Our sovereign Motherland.

Our flag shall be a symbol
That truth and justice reign,
In peace or battle honourโ€™d,
And this we count as gain,
To hand on to our children
A banner without stain.

O God of all creation,
Grant this our one request,
Help us to build a nation
Where no man is oppressed,
And so with peace and plenty
Nigeria may be blessed.

*CHILDRENโ€™S DAY SPECIAL**'Primary 4 To JSS 1,โ€™ Hereโ€™s Danger Of Rushing Childrenโ€™s Education**Education expert and Profe...
27/05/2024

*CHILDRENโ€™S DAY SPECIAL*

*'Primary 4 To JSS 1,โ€™ Hereโ€™s Danger Of Rushing Childrenโ€™s Education*

*Education expert and Professor of Educational Management at UNILORIN offers words of advice to parents*

-- PLATFORMS AFRICA ๐Ÿ‘‡

https://platformsafrica.com/2024/05/15/primary-4-to-jss-1-heres-danger-of-rushing-childrens-education/

*VIEW POINT*

*"The teacher of Amanda in K.G one at barely two (years of age), is already convincing the parents to allow her to be taken in extra lesson till 4pm."*

*Let The School Child Breath, By Dorcas Sanni Ojelabi*๐Ÿ‘‡

https://platformsafrica.com/2024/05/27/let-the-school-child-breath-by-dorcas-sanni-ojela

*STOP. READ*

*FOR PARENTS : 11 Foods You Should Never Feed Your Kids By Aminat Umar* ๐Ÿ‘‡

https://platformsafrica.com/2023/12/02/for-parents-11-foods-you-should-never-feed-your-kids-by-aminat-umar/

*HAJJ 2024*

*Nigerian Pilgrim Dies In Mecca + IDENTITY*๐Ÿ‘‡

https://platformsafrica.com/2024/05/26/2024-hajj-kebbi-loses-pilgrim-in-mecca/

*SAD*

*'Theyโ€™ve Killed Them,โ€™ Kogi Varsity Confirms Murder of Students By Kidnappers*๐Ÿ‘‡

https://platformsafrica.com/2024/05/27/theyve-killed-them-kogi-varsity-confirms-murder-of-students-by-kidnappers/

*TIES*

*Bristow Helicopters, NCDMB Mull Ties On Search, Rescue Operations*๐Ÿ‘‡

https://platformsafrica.com/2024/05/26/bristow-helicopters-plans-collaboration-with-ncdmb-on-centre-of-excellence-search-and-rescue-operation

*TIES*

*Bristow Helicopters, NCDMB Mull Ties On Search, Rescue Operations*๐Ÿ‘‡

https://platformsafrica.com/2024/05/26/bristow-helicopters-plans-collaboration-with-ncdmb-on-centre-of-excellence-search-and-rescue-operation

*TIES*

*Bristow Helicopters, NCDMB Mull Ties On Search, Rescue Operations*๐Ÿ‘‡

https://platformsafrica.com/2024/05/26/bristow-helicopters-plans-collaboration-with-ncdmb-on-centre-of-excellence-search-and-rescue-operation

Happy Children's Day

Sincerely,

*Platforms Africa*

Education expert and Professor of Educational Management at UNILORIN offers words of advice to parents A

27/05/2024

Children are our heritage.They are jewel that should be pamper in our hands. May all our children become successful people in the world,may their glory shine beyond our imagination ๐Ÿ™
Happy Children's day to children all over the world

25/05/2024
Stop jealousy and competition with people who do not even know someone somewhere is beefing them! you're only implicatin...
25/05/2024

Stop jealousy and competition with people who do not even know someone somewhere is beefing them! you're only implicating yourself!

14/05/2024

Health benefits of BANANA ๐ŸŒ
Do you know that bananas are high in potassium and can bring down high blood pressure caused due to high sodium.

If you have low blood pressure and high blood sugar,please don't eat.

You can use peanut to eat it. But those with high blood pressure due to high sodium, should avoid peanut. As the sodium in it is high.

Banana Contains Potassium, Magnesium, Vitamin B6

*Banana may improve digestion.
*Helps to improve heart health.
*Helps to build lean muscles and Supports bone health.
*Helps muscles to recover after exercise.
*Helps to reduce boating.
*Helps to make you feel fuller.
*Prevent constipation.
*Improve digestion and
gut health.
*Promote recovery from intense activity.
* Produce red blood cells
*Metabolise carbohydrates and fats, turning them into energy.
*Metabolise amino acids.
*Remove unwanted chemicals from your liver and kidneys,
*Maintain a healthy nervous system.
*Bananas are a good source of magnesium and potassium, having a little banana (magnesium) before bed can ease painful muscle contractions and spasms and promote overall relaxation.
*Bananas are respectable sources of vitamin C.
*Manganese in bananas is good for your skin.

Avoid banana if you have
1. late-stage kidney failure because banana is high in potassium
2. Foods high in potassium also can interfere with some medications for high blood pressure and heart .
Consume at least one_two banana daily but note that you need to avoid banana if you're diabetic

13/05/2024

My dear followers, please endeavour to engage on my posts so we can start learning new things.watch reels pls
When you see this, kindly engage

12/05/2024

To all mom ,I celebrate you today
One is to give birth but it takes grace to stay alive to raise the kids.May God grant unto you long life to raise your kids ๐Ÿ™
HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY ๐ŸŽ‰๐ŸŒบ๐ŸŒบ

07/05/2024

Good morning to our wonderful family ๐Ÿ’

05/05/2024

HAPPY NEW WEEK TO Y'ALL

Dear parentsEndeavour to guide the kids when they are wrong.They need your guidance and counselling at their tender age.
04/05/2024

Dear parents
Endeavour to guide the kids when they are wrong.They need your guidance and counselling at their tender age.

04/05/2024

To all mothers who takes care of their children and look after their home who supports their family,may God continue to uphold you ๐Ÿ™may God keep strengthen you ๐Ÿ™ may you not die untimely ๐Ÿ™.Keep being strong ๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’

04/05/2024

To all responsible man struggling to cater for their families in this current economy,may death not be your reward ๐Ÿ™may favor locate you each day ๐Ÿ™ may you succeed in your endeavors ๐Ÿ™you shall never lack ๐Ÿ™.๐ŸŒบ๐ŸŒบ

04/05/2024

Dear followers
Thank you all for following this wonderful page but would be more appreciated if you all engage on posts.when you come across this post, it's meant to appreciate you and also needs you to be engaging when I post
Thank you ๐Ÿ’•

03/05/2024

A lovely and interactive page

Indeed they are!
03/05/2024

Indeed they are!

Yesterday morning, I was walking to the junction of my street when I witnessed a very funny scenario.

This young woman who has a baby strapped to her back, was also holding a boy of about three years old with her right hand, and in her left hand were the kids lunch bag, a school bag, and another big black bag.

It was a struggle for her as she kept trying to hold the boy's hand firmly, carry all the bags and intermittently adjust the baby on her back.

I was walking behind her. Just before she got to a big signage, she let go of the boy's hand, and tried to adjust the sleeping baby. Immediately, the little boy ran off, threw himself on the road and began to cry. Infact, he was wailing so hard that if I wasn't following and watching the whole scenario play out, I would have thought that the mother spanked him. The woman tried to drag him up, but he refused and rolled more on the dirty ground, staining his school uniform. The woman was already tired, she stopped and looked helplessly as the little boy kept screaming and screaming. I watched as she dipped her hand into her bag, ruminated for a while, and brought out her phone which was ringing loudly. By that time, I had already gotten very close to her.

"...please, I am still on my way, I will soon get to the office. Abeg, please don't be angry. I will soon be there."

Helpless anger was written all over her face. From her conversation, I deduced that she was rushing to work, but her little son was not helping matters at all.
Immediately, I walked over to where the boy was rolling on the ground and picked him up like a piece of paper. Boy was shocked. He didn't know what happened or how it happened. From his reaction, it was obvious that he was used to stressing the mother in such way without any intervention from any one.

"Thank you sir... Good morning sir." The woman blurted out. All she needed was to get to her office as soon as possible.

The little boy seemed to have recovered his composure, and he screamed again, but I gave him this bombastic side eye that made him to keep quiet immediately.

"What is your name?"
He looked at me in defiance as if to say na who call you for this matter?.

"I said what is your name?" I thundered, and the boy shook like a jellyfish before replying.

"My name is Victor."

"What?"

"My name is Victor, Victor Benjamin."

"Tell me your real name"

"My name is Victor Benjamin."

At this point, he was already crying. I guess he wasn't accustomed to people raising their voices at him.

"Your real name cannot be Victor, and you are acting like this, crying and screaming like a baby. Can't you see that you are stressing your mummy already."

"Ohooo! Tell him ooo." The mother interjected.

"I want cake and fanta."
I looked at his little mouth as he pouted his orders as if he was in a party."

"I have your biscuits and juice packed in your lunch bag. You ate your cake last night, so why would you remember cake and fanta in the middle of the road and throw yourself on the ground, eeehh Victor?"

The boy kept calm and looked away, all these while, I was carrying him in my arms and walking with the mum.

"Oga, thank you very much. This is our school, and I work here as well."

"You're welcome ma."

She stopped in front of the school gate, but I signalled her not to worry as I took the boy inside the school compound just before the assembly bell was rang. The mother hurriedly said her thanks and rushed off towards the admin office. By the time I turned around to say goodbye to Victor, he was already playing with one little girl, and admiring the ribbon on her hair.

I walked out laughing in my mind. See somebody who was releasing stubborn powers and stressing the mum a few minutes ago, he is now smiling sheepishly with his school mates. Children are indeed another form of curious entertainment. May God bless every mother and children out there.

Amen.

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3rd May 2024
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03/05/2024

HAVE A WONDERFUL DAY TODAY ๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’

03/05/2024

A reminder to detox your system with warm water this morning
Good morning to you All

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