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Fruitfulness shall be ours this remaining months amen.🙏🙏🙏
13/09/2024

Fruitfulness shall be ours this remaining months amen.🙏🙏🙏

03/09/2020

20 REASONS WHY ALCOHOLIC ABUSE CAN BE DETRIMENTAL TO YOUR LIFE, HEALTH AND SUCCESS.

Many persons drink alcohol for one reason or the other, in as much as alcohol has some heath benefits, it can be dangerous when abused. Dangers posses to us by alcohol outweighs its benefits if abused. Here are some of my reason(s) why you should abstain from Alcohol if possible but if not drink responsibly:

1. Death: That you take alcohol excessively and still alive today is by God's grace, others were not as lucky as you're, many has gone beyond this planet earth owing to Alcoholic abuse. Alcohol has cut short the lives of many. Alcoholic related deaths are too numerous to mention in our society today. Abstain or drink responsibly.
2. Accident: Many accidents which cost us our previous belongings like, Cars, Phones, money, gold and most importantly our life were caused by alcoholic abuse. Abstain or drink responsibly.
3. Lost of valuables: Many occasions we misplace our valuables after much intake of alcohol. Abstain or drink responsibly.
4. Damage to properties: After consuming much alcohol, sometimes we deliberately or indeliberate damage our valuables. Which we regret profusely when we regain our normalcy. Abstain or drink responsibly.
5. Embarrassment: Often times we caused lots of embarrassments to ourselves after much intake of alcohol. Which we argue if we actually did that!, when the evil spirits of alcohol leaves us. Numerous times we see ourselves crying for the shame we brought to ourselves, loved ones, friends and family owing to Alcoholic abuse. Abstain or drink responsibly.
6. Missing Opportunities: At one point in time or another a chronic consumer of alcohol had missed a very important opportunity, be it job business, appointment, or otherwise which would have been source of open doors of success for him/her because of much alcoholic consumption. In rare cases that we come across such opportunities again in our life time. Abstain or drink responsibly.
7. Cancer: chronic consumers of alcohol are more likely to develop throat, mouth or Esophagus cancers. Breast cancers are mostly caused by excessive alcoholic intake in women. Abstain or drink responsibly.
8. Heart Damage: Heavy chronic alcoholic drinking is one of the leading causes of cardiovascular diseases around. Abstain or drink responsibly.
9. Liver Damage: Chronic alcoholic intake can cause damages to the liver & prevent it from properly removing harmful substances from your body. Abstain or drink responsibly.
10. Pancreatitis: Excessive alcoholic intake or abuse is the leading cause of chronic Pancreatitis. Abstain or drink responsibly.
11. Infertility: Taking much alcohol over longer period of time leads to infertility. Abstain or drink responsibly.
12. S*xual Dysfunction: Men who has alcoholic use disorders are more likely to experience erectile dysfunction. Abstain or drink responsibly.
13. Diabetes: excessive intake of alcohol may prevent your organs from properly balancing your blood sugar levels. Abstain or drink responsibly.
14. Numbness: Tingling, numbness or pain in your hands & feet maybe a sign of damage in your nervous system occasioned by excessive alcoholic intake. Abstain or drink responsibly.
15. Change in Coordination: Too much alcoholic consumption can interfere in your coordination and your ability to balance or walk. Abstain or drink responsibly.
16. Muscle cramps: Chronic consumers of alcohol experiences muscle cramping, weakness & eventually muscle death. Abstain or drink responsibly.
17. Shrinking brain: Long time consumption of alcohol can shrink the frontal lobes of your brain. Abstain or drink responsibly.
18. Behavior Changes: Alcohol can change your typical behavior and leaves you without your mental clarity to make smart decisions. Abstain or drink responsibly.
19. Hallucination: People who depends much on alcohol may develop a sudden withdrawal which can cause serious complications including hallucination. Abstain or drink responsibly.
20. Birth Defects: A pregnant woman's heavy drinking can increase the baby's risks of several complications including fatal alcoholic syndrome and mental development. Abstain or drink responsibly.

Like They say excess is bad, alcoholic can never be an exception. You cannot take much alcohol without expecting its adverse effects. Many times alcohol serves as a punishment to us, after drinking much alcohol you can't sleep at night, you would develop internal heat, coughs, headache etc as a result of what you brought to yourself in the name of enjoyment, now you ask Does it worth it? For me it doesn't, it's just a punishment to yourself.

I'm not advocating for outright abstinence from alcohol but for us to apply caution when we drink alcohol because our people said in our local parlance that: ''Ihe na ato uto na egbu egbu'' ( what's Sweet can also kill) Enjoyment as some of us see it is good but when taking to the extreme it becomes detrimental. Caution is the WORD. Good morning Folks.....Onyeke, Chinedu. M.

The Event.
06/01/2020

The Event.

23/12/2019

Meet king Ahebi Ugbabe, the only female king in Colonial Nigeria. She's a Collaborator, Warrant Chief & A King. She Influences Powers. They said she was to be used as a sacrificial lamb to a deity called Ohe, in order to pay for her Father's many sins. Now i ask: which Ohe are they talking about? Could it be Ohe Imufu?...... Let's read through.

Ahebi Ugbabe was born in the later part of the 19th cetnury to Ugbabe Ayibi, a farmer and palm wine tapper, and Anekwu Ameh, a farmer and trader, in Umuida, Enugu-Ezike . She had two brothers and no sisters. She lived with her mother's family in Unadu for a brief period before returning to Umuida. After her return, she did not stay long before running away.

She later had to escape to Igalaland. Ahebi was running from an order for her to be married to a female deity as punishment for her father's crime. This punishment was known as igo ma ogo (to become the inlaw of a deity). Her family had gone through a series of unfortunate events when she was thirteen and fourteen. The farm yielded little, illness spread, and trading was slow. Her father had gone to a diviner, someone who was perceived as knowing the unknown. This man had correlated the events to the wrath of the goddess Ohe due to his crime. During her forced exile, Ahebi became a pr******te and used this form of work to her advantage. Along her travels, Ahebi learned to speak numerous languages, such as "Igala, Nupe, and Pidgin English. Her success and independence helped to redefine s*x work in Igbo culture, from servitude to a voluntary profession. Chinua Achebe wrote that "Achebe furthermore sets out to introduce 'the concept of 'wife of a deity' and extends the analytical category of 'autonomous s*x worker' as models through which to engage with continuities and change in conceptions of female enslavement as well as competing and overlapping definitions of prostitution in an African context" Her s*x work and linguistic skills gave her access to the Attah-Igala (king) and the British divisional officer, who not only facilitated her return to
Enugu-Ezike , but supported her claim to the office of headman, warrant chief , and, later, Eze.


Ahebi's reign began a few months after she returned to Igboland from exile. Ahebi was the only person in her village able to speak with the British. She replaced "the aged (and increasingly incompetent)" headman Ugwu Okegwu who was unable to communicate with the British. She was made the only woman warrant chief in all of colonial Nigeria in the British Native court. British District Officer W. H. Lloyd said Ahebi was "a lady of influence and power. She is intelligent and of a quiet disposition. When she does speak, it is usually to the point and sensible."
Although Ahebi commanded the respect of her people, she sewed seeds of resentment by conscripting forced labor and imposing a census and a British tax. The Igbo people "did not believe that human beings should ever be counted. This census caused the Woman's War in southern Igboland.
At first, "Ahebi easily quelled whatever resistance to her kingship existed" because of her British backing. Ahebi amassed wealth and power, but ultimately fell from grace when the extent of her multiple—gender and power—transgressions became too much for her community. She overreached in her ambition and violated a social more by attending a spiritual masquerade ritual with her own mask. This ritual was only for people assigned male at birth. The male elders and Ahebi went to court to settle the case and the British sided with the male elders, undermining Ahebi's rule.
Ahebi Ugbabe cultivated an aura of mysticism to solidify an image of all powerful rule. She used pre-colonial traditions to push this mysticism and therefore power. She also used this to augment her gender to effectively make herself king. Another way that Ahebi asserted herself as a man was she collected multiple wives, many of whom were runaways from abusive husbands. She also had multiple servants who would help her. These wives would bear children to continue Ahebi's name.

Before Ahebi died, she performed her own burial rites. She "did not trust that her society would accord her a befitting burial."She intended to perform the rites "in such a magnificent manner that her society would never forget that an incredible being such as herself had lived." Her living funeral included gunfire, animal sacrifice, and glorious music of remembrance.
Ahebi died in 1948. Although she was a woman, she was buried according to the local customs for burying men.

29/11/2019

1. If you are SINGLE and keep on saying "I DON'T TRUST MEN OR WOMEN!" Remember your mates are getting married every Saturday. Let me ask you, are they marrying spirits? Wise up!

2. If you are MARRIED and keep saying "I HATE THIS MARRIAGE!" OK! Is it not married people like you that are celebrating Gold, Silver and even Platinum jubilee?

3. If you keep on ranting, ''I'M LEAVING MY MAN, HE CHEATED ON ME!" Please, go to town and see all the fine, cute, s*xy, hot, hungry and desperate chicks waiting to sn**ch your man's money and property, they don't even mind sharing. Make it work, my friend!

4. Stop saying "I HATE MY JOB!" Look! 20 million people are jobless and can't even find any not to talk of keeping it! Do you want to join them?

5. You keep saying "I HATE WHERE I LIVE!" Oh please! *tears* Try visiting those locations that are flooding now, people leaving in tin/zinc shacks in winter or people living/sleeping under the bridge at night and you will be grateful to God that you even have a place to stay!

6. Some say "I AM TIRED OF THIS LIFE!" Well, go to the hospital and see people fighting for their lives! Go to the mortuary and take a look then tell me what you feel after that! The point is, be positive and believe in God, that's all that matters. Be Blessed.

CHERISH EVERY MOMENT OF YOUR LIFE:

To realize the value of a sister/brother ask someone Who doesn't have one.

To realize the value of ten years: Ask a newly divorced couple.

To realize the value of four years: Ask a graduate.

To realize the value of one year: Ask a student who Has failed a final exam.

To realize the value of nine months: Ask a mother who gave birth to a stillborn.

To realize the value of one month: Ask a mother Who has given birth to a premature baby.

To realize the value of one week: Ask an editor of a weekly newspaper.

To realize the value of one minute: Ask a person Who has missed the train, bus or plane.

To realize the value of one second: Ask a person Who has survived an accident. Time waits for no one. Treasure every moment you have.

Remember. Hold on tight to the ones you love! And don't forget the one who sent it to you! Have a stress free moment in your life.

I hope you will reflect on this. Good morning folks.

23/11/2019

You found him in facebook:
You check his Profile picture.
He is handsome.
He inboxed you.
You reply, all excited.
You'll want 2 hook up.
You set a date.
You dress up that Legging With No underwear.
Smelling good.
You put on a make up- fresh breath and new weave.
He takes you 4 lunch Hotel.
He Takes you for - Drinks At Java.
You two have a good time.
He rubs your hand,
Makes you laugh,
Gives you looks and smiles.
You stupidly fall in love.
It's like you've known him Forever.
He takes you to his apartment.
He makes you feel comfortable and lays u on his bed.
Kiss you passionately.
You love his aggression, strength, power and you give in.
It feels good.
You know it's wrong, but it feels good.
You ask for protection, he says it's too late.
You obey and don't disturb.
He says he loves you and you don't hesitate to say you love him too. He hits it nice and slow
After, he goes to the kitchen to get a glass of water.
He helps you drink it, ooohh man.
You feel special.
"He must be the one" you think to yourself:).
You get dressed.
He takes you to the taxi park.
He kisses you on the cheeks and says
"I had a great time,"
Gives You cash.
You smile and say.
"See you tomorrow babe."
He stays silent.
Your taxi drives away,
In the taxi u can't stop smiling.
You get home and inbox him that you got home safe.
He is online, but doesn't reply.
It's unlike him, so you inbox him again.
He doesn't respond.
Minutes later you can't find him on ur friend list.
HE BLOCKED YOU.
Days, weeks, months passes by.
You start feeling sick, weak, loose weight, act strange with sores in your mouth.
You go to the clinic.
Get tested.
Minutes later,
Nurse walks in."I'm sorry. You're HIV Positive and Pregnant!"
".HOW ?"
You don't understand.
Reality hits you.
You walk home.
Scared.
Confused.
You go to the bus stop.
You lay, hopeless, emotionless.
You see death coming nearer.
You look into the sky & mumble a prayer.
That's the end of you.
Don't be that girl!!!Live well. Stop Chasing Material Things. Stop chasing SPONSORS!!
Be A Girl You Want Your Daughter To Be!
TO ALL THE LADIES.
LIVE A LIFE
NOT A LIE.
🙂

23/11/2019

Oyibo!

22/11/2019

Don't Be A Burden On Your Man

Dear ladies,

Do you know that being a burden to your boyfriend or husband can reduce his target or aim in life? If he is supposed to be a Billionaire, he will become a Millionaire.

Try to get something doing dear. Don't just relax and rely on him for everything please because It's unfair. It must not be a big work, even if it's something that can help you buy yourself recharge cards or clothes, at least you have saved that one for him. Don't always be a demanding type which I call Tax Collectors.

If you are still in School, it's understandable. Try to manage the little you have. If your parents don't have much, avoid friends that lives extravagant life because if you follow them, you will end up doing some things you don't wish to do, but if you have finished school or not opportuned to go to higher institution, my sister please find little things to do to support yourself.

Not that I don't have a husband to look up to in providing my needs, but because I feel that I can get them my self if I work hard my self.

My Mum is a hard working woman too She is the one that thought me to be strong as a woman. I grew up knowing a woman can always do something for herself irrespective of who she is or where she is coming from.

What am trying to say is reduce the burden for your men. When he marries you and don't want you to do anything again, it's alright.
As long as he can provide everything for you.

How do you expect him to progress if you're always milking him dry? Stop milking your men dry, rather assist them to have savings.

Good morning beautiful people.

12/11/2019

Are you guilty?.... A man can travel for eight hours 'just to have s*x with a female friend and yet, not love her.
S*x makes men act as if they are in love.
The eight hours travel sacrifice, gifts bought, hotel paid for and other expenses may seem to be coming from true love but they were all in the sacrifice for s*x and nothing more.
The foolish thing is this, the majority of women would jump up inside them and conclude that this is the art of true love. S*x is not an act of commitment. Men still leave the women they sleep with on bed and start thinking of the next woman to sleep with. The satisfaction that
comes from s*x dies in minutes.
It is in the nature of Lions to go miles to hunt. The same with men. A man who can afford the expenses of flying from the UK to Nigeria for s*x would do it as if he would never turn to another woman for s*x.
S*x drives men to do what seems like the
impossible and such turns women around and they start acting weird. S*x and love are not on the same page even in the dictionary.
People can abandon their gold mines and dig the grave for s*x. Most young men do terrible things just to have the resources to keep many girls in their life. You may think they are working hard to live well in the future but they are just living for
fun and that is all. Students are now living
together like husbands and wives, and our
society calls it love. What kind of people do these students become when they leave school?
This is why we have a lot of frustrated graduates than nation-building graduates.
Today, a 16-year-old girl is already into s*x. She wants to wear everything on trend. She is already a pr******te in the sense that any man
that comes her way for relationship must show some signs of money and she would respond to him.
The funny thing is this, almost all those girls that have become s*x symbols end up in a deep mess. How many of them today is changing the world they are into? What kind of spirit would they do well within life? They have sold their souls out
to s*x. They pride on what they wear and hotels they go to. That is their biggest achievement. The girls they called cowards are setting up economic empires. Their future is already exhausted when they come to their true senses?
Advice to my beloved brothers and sisters:
For men; never allow your er****on today to destroy your future directions, stay positive.
My sisters, all that glitters is not gold, make your future bright and its start today.

31/10/2019

If Genevieve is such an expert in relationship. Why has it became too difficult for her to manage one for long?.......... Don't be too fast to quit your relationship because you see some bad behaviours in your partner; the truth is we all are humans. No human is
perfect and there is no human being that does not have one or two commas.
If you keep on searching for a perfect person to marry, then you will keep searching forever and end up not
getting married; this is because perfect person does not exist; person that has all the qualities you want does not exist. All you need to do is to correct your partner.
When you observe some characters you don't like in your partner, do not quit the relationship instantly, rather, correct him or her; counsel him or her.
Do not expect your partner to change immediately after you corrected him or her.
Give him or her some time to change gradually; change is a slow process. Be patient.
This is mistake many people make, When they notice an ugly behaviour in their partner, they quit the relationship.

It is very wrong. It doesn't show maturity.
Mature people don't quit relationships like that; they give their partners time to change gradually and then tolerate each other but listen be patient for him or her to change if you notice they really want to change, please I want you to understand something " you can't change your lover, if your lover doesn't want to change" so be careful when being patient and waiting for who doesn't want to change to change. You can't change him or her if he/she doesn't want to change, only them can change themselves.
I didn't said you should go and die in bad relationship, remember " you can't change your lover, if your lover doesn't want to change" some relationship need letting go especially in dating. Not waiting and loving a fool who keep cheating to change whereby he or she doesn't want to change. Sometimes some people can't change that's the fact unless they want to change. ( Marriage can't even change them ) Don't believe in marriage they will change, they won't change oooo.
I hope you learnt something.
Have you learn anything.
YES OR NO.......Genevieve Nnaji.

And Atiku loses out.
30/10/2019

And Atiku loses out.

Which kind of Abuse is this? Nawa o!
30/10/2019

Which kind of Abuse is this? Nawa o!

Jehovah bu Oku Na Erere.
29/10/2019

Jehovah bu Oku Na Erere.

27/10/2019

ONYEKE NWEYE ANNUAL INAUGURAL LECTURE.
Onyeke Nweye left lots of legacies which the youths & younger ones are yet to know, This is an avenue to get into Knowing the man Onyeke Nweye & the roles played by him while alive. There are going to be lots of activities that day, ranging from exhaustively discussing issues related to Onyeke Nweye, other interesting topics to be discussed by various scholars & Professors, dancing from various cultural groups, conducting of mass by a renown Catholic Adoration Priest, Music from Okanga Imufu, etc.

Aims And Objectives of the Lecture.
1. To Educate both the younger & the Old about the Man Onyeke Nweye.
2. To Educate the people on the roles played by Onyeke Nweye towards education.
3. Discuss of goods economics.
4. Types of goods economics
a. Private goods.
b. Public goods.
c. Common goods and
d. Club goods.
5. The rule of law.
6. Public law and
7. Community policing.
Justice shall be done to the topics above and other interesting topics that may be raised.

There shall be lots of fun that day, you will never regret a bit for being part of this landmark event.

26/10/2019

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Udoru Imufu
Nsukka

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