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24/03/2024

HOW A MAN AND WOMAN OUGHT TO LOVE

1. Better a partner who tells you the truth, than a partner who sugar coats you with a lie

2. Better a partner who finds reasons to stay, than one who finds excuses to walk away

3. Better a partner who tells you the issues between you two that need solving, than one who runs to having an affair because of issues between you two

4. Better a partner who corrects you when you're wrong, than one who keeps silent as you make mistakes

5. Better a partner who tells you how he/ she wants to be loved, than one you have to guess hoping you are doing the right thing and he/ she is silently frustrated

6. Better a partner who replies your messages late, than one who doesn't reply at all

7. Better a partner who admits wrong, than one who always has to be right

8. Better a partner with little money who builds you, than one who crashes you and belittles you just because he/ she has alot of money

9. Better a partner who will say a short prayer for you in your presence, than a partner who says "I'll pray for you" yet you've never heard a prayer uttered

10. Better a partner who fights for you, than a partner who avoids fights and will leave you at the slightest provocation

11. Better a talkative partner, than one who you feel you are the only one putting too much effort to start and hold a conversation

12. Better a partner who picks up your phonecall and tells you "Honey, I can't talk right now", than one who ignores your phonecalls

13. Better a partner who comes home late after telling you his/ her whereabouts, than one who goes missing without saying a word

14. Better a partner who opens up to you no matter how painful and difficult, than one who keep secrets in the name of protecting you

15. Better a partner who is honest with you when someone else tries to come between you two, than one who keeps things from you and slowly slips away

16. Better a partner who calls upon you for support, than one who suffers in silence out of fear

24/03/2024

Until you get tired of touching yourself, ma********ng as you watch p**n; you will never enjoy intimacy with your spouse.

Until you get tired of coming home drunk like you are nineteen years old yet you are way over thirty with a spouse and children; you will find your spouse's requests for you to stop drinking as an attack.

Until you get tired of arguing every day and turning small conversations into fights; you will never pursue peace with your spouse and conversations that are productive.

Until you get tired of chatting online late into the night with friends who don't even add value to your life; you will never put away the phone at home to focus on your family.

Until you get tired of lying, deleting messages, scheming in secret to have an affair; you will never see the beauty of faithfulness.

Until you get tired of winning every argument just to prove a point to your spouse that you are better; you will never learn to listen and dialogue.

Until you get tired of spending nights away from home with lost friends who are also running away from home; you will never know the joy of family.

Until you get tired of wasting money on liabilities and to impress people; you will never see the need of investing and leaving an inheritance for your children.

Until you get tired of the things you used to do when single that you should have outgrown by now; you will never be fulfilled in marriage.

Until you get tired of breaking up and making up, separating then reconnecting then separating again; you two will never make progress as a couple.

Until you get tired of what the worldly lifestyle has to offer; you will never raise a Godly family.

You have to come to a place where you are tired, tired of all the things holding back the progress in your marriage. Unfortunately, some people get tired when it is too late or when they are much older in life, having wasted years that could have been used to nurture a family. Don't let that be you.

23/03/2024

LADIES, HERE ARE THE FACTS YOU HAVE TO KNOW ABOUT MEN
1. Every male( including a little boy) has the instinct of detecting disrespect and dishonour from your words and actions towards them.

2. Men feed on honour and respect. They value it over food. Do all you like to a man but don't touch his respect and honour.

3. Men hate it when they're talking to you and you are talking back at him. He hates it when he is talking and you are walking away.

4. Men hate to be challenged by their wife. Challenging him is stirring up the beast in him. That is unprofitable for you, woman.

5. Men can do anything for their peace of mind, even it makes them look like a coward. When a man looses his peace at home, his life is about to relocate to another place to seek it with anyone who can give it to him.

6. When a man is complaining about a particular thing, he has reached his breaking points of endurance. Do your best to pay attention to that thing and find a way to help him.

7. When a man is talking to you, he needs you to be silent and pay attention to him by focusing on him. Your calmness can make him reduce the tone of his voice if he was shouting at you.

8. The silence of a woman scares a man naturally, he can do anything just to make sure he finds out what went wrong.

9. A man is never never too busy for the woman he loves.

10. What a man wants from his woman after every day activities is peace of mind. Keep the issues away from him till he has been refreshed with food and warm/cool bath.

11. Whenever a man gets a gift for his woman, it means he has thought about her deeply before doing so.

12. A man is not always far from his investment. He either carries it in his mind or he go with it anywhere he goes.

13. Men love sêx . Women love lo******ng.

14. Men shade the most honest tears after children since they rarely show emotions.

15. Every man you see has a baby side of them that yearn for deep pampering and petting. That's why we call them baby.

23/03/2024

A CHEATING WOMAN IS MORE DANGEROUS THAN POISON

A man can cheat on his woman and still love her but a woman cannot cheat on her man and still love him. I say this because while men do not have s*x with emotions, women can't have s*x without attaching emotions to it. This is the reason men simply need a place to have s*x while women need a reason to have s*x.

Most women who take their husbands to court for divorce are those that cheat on their men. A non cheating woman would most likely never take her husband to court for divorce, unless the man exceedingly abuses her physically and emotionally to the point of killing her.

Men don't equate s*x with love. A man can have s*x with another woman but still doesn't love her. That's why women who fell in love with married men find it difficult to find happiness in those relationships as they are just being used by those married men. But once a married woman starts sleeping with you, she can even narrate some hidden secrets concerning her husband and she will even tell you why she hates him (her husband).

For men, s*x and love are two different things. But for women, s*x and love are one and the same things. For men, s*x comes first before love (infatuation), but for women love comes first before s*x (true love). Therefore, once your woman starts having s*x with another man/men, her love shifts from you to that man and she can even start giving that man the best food and love than she gives you.

The fact that your man is cheating on you doesn't mean he has stopped loving you. But I can't say the same for women. Once a woman starts cheating on you, she has fallen for someone else and you people will never live the same again.

If your wife starts cheating, you should be a lucky man not to die in less than 10 years. It has been found that 95% of women who cheat wish their husbands dead. She can even accept poison from the boyfriend to eliminate her husband.That is the main reason why it is to dangerous for a woman

23/03/2024

15 QUALITIES OF AN EXCELLENT HUSBAND

A man who who deserves the praise and respect of his wife has these qualities:

1. HE LOVES HIS WIFE MORE THAN ANY MORTAL. Your wife is next to your heart after God, treat her with all the affection she deserves.

2. HE IS NOT A MUMMY'S BOY. I don't know what some men are doing with marriage. A man who still runs to his momma for supper and can't make sound decisions without seeking his father's approval is a marital accident.

3. HE RESPECTS HER BOTH IN PRIVATE AND PUBLIC . Not by prostrating before her but by being mindful of her feelings, approaching her like an adult and being careful not to criticize or embarrass her in public.

4. HE IS VERY UNDERSTANDING . Women are complex. To live successfully with one requires a great deal of understanding and massive knowledge. A woman can be laughing with you now and burst into tears the next. She can be calm this minute and be irritable and mad the next. She's struggles with so many things disturbing her hormones and destabilizing her emotionally. She has her monthly cycle to tackle and her contraceptives also jog her hormones up and down. An average man finds it difficult understanding his wife because he doesn't menstruate and not on contraceptives but an excellent husband takes the time and pain to understand his wife.

5. HE IS COMPASSIONATE. Women need plenty of compassion especially when she fails and falls short.

6. HE FORGIVES EASILY. Your wife will make mistakes, she will offend you; she is human and not perfect, learn to forgive easily and overlook her idiosyncrasies, she will respect you lot for it.

6. HE WORKS HARD AND PROVIDES FOR HER NEED. Please, be concerned about her needs: food,clothing and shelter. An excellent husband provides these for his wife.

7. HE REALLY LISTENS TO HER . When I counsel women, I listen to their hearts not just their mouths. Your wife has a lot to tell you, ALWAYS listen.

8. HE TOUCHES HER A LOT. I don't mean s*x. Women need plenty of non-

23/03/2024

HOW TO RECEIVE LOVE

Are you struggling to receive love when people want to be there for you? Consider the following

1. CHECK YOUR ATTACHMENT STYLE
How were your relationships when you were a child? Did you grow up feeling rejected, neglected alone, as if you had to earn love? This kind of childhood can make you not to expect love from anyone. Unlearn this notion brought by your nurturing, if you need to, seek therapy. Just because you were not loved then, doesn’t mean you cannot be loved now

2. FORGIVE THE PEOPLE WHO FAILED TO LOVE YOU
If you expected someone to love you in the past such as a parent, a sibling, a romantic partner or friend... and they made you feel unworthy of love, forgive them. Otherwise, your grudge against them will make you repel people are not them that want to love you

3. SEE THE GOOD IN YOU
Get to appreciate, celebrate and love yourself... despite your mistakes, shortcomings or how you were treated in the past. Failing to do so will make you not understand why someone would see good in you and want to love on you. Many times we struggle to receive love, because we actually don’t love ourselves

4. SEE PEOPLE AS GOD'S VESSEL
Are you praying for God to bless you, well, God doesn't work in isolation, God uses people as vessels of honour. God will send people your way to minister to you and bless you, so you pushing them away or isolating yourself is actually you fighting God and your prayers. Remember, God is love and He loves best through people

5. REFLECT ON HOW IT FEELS TO BE THERE FOR PEOPLE
Have you been there for someone? It felt good, right? So why would you deny other people from feeling good by being there for you? Stop being selfish, others deserve the joy they get by giving to you

6. STOP SEEING YOURSELF AS A BURDEN
If you have been made to think that needing help or someone wanting to make you smile is being a burden to them, then change that mindset

7. STOP BEING SUSPICIOUS OF PEOPLE WITHOUT CAUSE
Avoid judging people as w

22/03/2024

9 Ways To Be Polite To Your Spouse

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Many couples lack some basic courtesies needed in marriage. Rudeness, careless words, disrespect for one's spouse, criticisms, public embarrassment do not portray politeness.

Before the wedding, most singles ensure they are courteous as they put their best partner ahead of their desires. They are consumed by the passion to make their intended spouse feel good about them. Once the ceremony is over, courtesy dwindles until mutual honour and respect is annihilated.

To show that we are polite to our spouse, thereby enjoying the miracle of politeness in marriage, we must do the following:

1 Speak politely to your spouse. The easiest way to be impolite is through our words. An impolite person uses harsh words, is unkind, full of abusive words, criticizes unjustly and finds it easy to condemn. The easiest way to be polite can still be through our words; when you speak politely, encourage, motivate, appreciate, praise, assure your spouse of your support and speak to uplift each other. Proverbs 15:23

2 Be excited when you see your spouse.

3.Honour him or her in the public and in secret.

4. Never report your spouse to your friends and family members.

5. Handle him or her politely in presence of your friends, children and family.

6.Get angry politely. Even in the face of provocation, get angry without being impolite.

6. You must not talk or act to destroy. When you are angry, express your anger in the most polite way.

7.Give attention to your spouse. It is an act of being impolite when you ignore your spouse whether at home or in public. This attitude has the capacity to kill your spouse's morale.

8. V.I.P your spouse. Treat your spouse as a very important personality. Give high regards to your mate, esteem him or her in your heart and in your actions.

9. Be a privileged partner. See yourself as a very privileged person to have married your spouse. See him as the president; handle her as you would if the

22/03/2024

SIGNS A RELATIONSHIP IS DYING

1) He or She has started to withdraw.

You are beginning to enjoy less and less of their presence, attention and affection.

The calls are becoming less frequent
The texts and visits too.

They suddenly don't seem to want to be around you as before.

They are gradually adjusting and conditioning themselves to life without you.

2) They no longer beg for your attention and affection.

Initially they'd complain when you didn't call and text, and suddenly they are no longer complaining, no longer finding it annoying or disturbing, NO, they aren't becoming more understanding, they are getting used to your absence..
They'll stop missing you

~Once your lover gets accustomed to your ABSENCE, your PRESENCE loses its ESSENCE~

It will now appear or become obvious that they now even prefer to be alone, and don't seem to mind when you won't go with them for a function, say you cancel a dinner or date, most often they will be the one canceling.

3) EVERYTHING leads to a disagreement

Someone once said "When your partner finds a Replacement for you, everything leads to an argument"

Even good Morning will cause quarrel.

At this stage they are probably trying to find a more concrete reason to walk out

Trying to make you be the one who walks out.

4) They no longer Call you the names they used to call you.

The Pet names start to go. The nick names fly out the window. They now call you by your name.

5) They Start to give you plenty Excuses

You: "Can we hang out this week?

Them: "I'm afraid we can't.."

You: "Why?"

Them: "I MAY have headache that day"..
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You: "Can we?..."

Them: "No" and a flimsy excuse follows

~Excess excuses in a Relationship are a sign there is no Sacrifice in it. No sacrifice is a sign there is no Love.~

Once your Partner has made up their minds to move on, and they find a replacement, be it a job, or a hobby, or someone, even if it's just a friend . Forget it.

22/03/2024

HOW TO MAKE YOUR WIFE SUBMIT TO YOU

1. Submit to God as a husband. This will diminish your pride

2. Have a vision of love that you communicate to her that she can submit to

3. Give her clarity and security. Make her know that she is your priority and focus. When a woman knows that her position is not treatened, she feels safe and pours herself to the relationship

4. Be admirable. She will proudly follow your lead when you bear admirable qualities and character

5. Love her up and water her emotions. Women respond to love by giving love

6. Do not dictate or Lord over her. Show her gentleness and consistency. Let her walk by your side not suppressed under you

7. Protect her as she gives you her all. Don't be her enemy or make her feel exposed to attacks and she will build with you and help you

8. Do not silence her voice. She should feel at home enough to contribute her thoughts and ideas. Submission is not slavery

9. Avoid advice from men who are intimidating or taking their wives for granted. She is your responsibility, don't be misled

HOW TO SUBMIT TO YOUR HUSBAND

1. Submit to God as a wife. This will teach you humility

2. Be hundred percent commited, not displaying double mindedness. Participate in the marriage, don't leave everything to him. Use your voice and your greatness as a helper

3. Do not demean him or belittle the man that he is based on his achievements or compare him with others

4. Communicate that you are proud of him and you believe in him. Don't show him you might be more excited with or prefer another man

5. Inspire him and encourage him. Shouting at him or constantly complaining will not bring out the best in him but only discourages him

6. Be gentle with him. Speak with a tone of peace and love. Respect him in private and in public

7. Protect him and cover him. Don't gossip about him with others. Don't mock him or give ammunition to others to bring him down

8. Do not talk lowly of him or at him just because you ha

22/03/2024

HOW TO MAKE YOUR SPOUSE FEEL S*XY

1. Stay faithful. It makes your spouse feel confident that he/she is enough

2. Make s*xual advances on your spouse. This is for both husband and wife. Wives don't just sit in bed waiting for him to do all the work

3. Speak highly of the sweetness of her va**na. Speak highly of the goodness of his p***s

4. Praise your spouse's physical looks often

5. Take care of your spouse's emotions. Make your spouse feel safe in your presence

6. Touch your spouse more. When your spouse feels you can't keep your hands from him/her, it makes your spouse feel wanted. This is only effective if point number 5 is addressed

7. Grab your spouse unexpectedly and with passion. Grab her butt while she is cooking, hug him from behind when he is from the shower

8. Be naughty and flirtatious. Who else do you expect him/her to flirt with?

9. Brag about your spouse to others. Honouring your spouse is a major turn on

10. Kiss even s*x is not the agenda. Make out

11. Notice the efforts your spouse makes to look s*xy such as shaving down there, dressing s*xy in bed, working out, wearing a nice scent

12. Moan when your spouse is making you feel good when making love. It encourages your spouse to please you

13. Tell your spouse how good you felt after making love and you both are cuddling. Recap the sweet moment

14. Treat your spouse good when s*x is not the agenda. Don't be good and loving only when you want an or**sm

15. Affirm your spouse when your spouse is self conscious and negative about herself/himself or their body. Boost your spouse's ego

16. Look at your spouse in the eyes often with eyes of focus and desire. Those are the little things that communicate "You are my kind of s*xy"

22/03/2024

DO THIS AND THANK ME LATER.

1. Wear no brå when with your husband. Him seeing your n!pples pokïng what you are wearing têâses him

2. Grâb her butt when she is coōking. That is an area only you are allowed to fēel

3. Give your husband a lap dance. Entertain him

4. Dance sëx.üally for your wife, if possible, nãkêd. She will get excited seeing your pen*s Júmping and even swêlling

5. Make out and rub your spoūse in the prīvāte areas while taking a shower together

6. Give your spoūse a full body māssage with a happy ending

7. Find that nēgleçted spot your spoūse loves being touched; such as the sçalp (this is why some men lōve head māssāges at the barber shop) or cleaning of ears

8. Dress up for se.x. Have those outfits that are all about së*xüal appeal

9. Send your spoūse nāūghty text messages and voice notes

10. Video call your spoūse and sedūçë him/her on the phone

11. Whisper to your spoūse the kinky things you will do to him/her

12. "Acc!dentally" pour water on your t-shirt at home. Men get turned on by a woman wearing a wet t-shirt exp0sing the shape of her brëāst & butt

13. Wake your spoūse up with rubs or licks 😋😋

14. Make moañing sounds to your spoūse's ear

22/03/2024

6 MATES YOU MUST MARRY!

One of the ways your marriage will not add to the rate of divorce in our world today is for you to marry your mate and if you are married already, make your spouse your mate!

You see that statement of ' Am I your mate?' does not apply in marriage. You must marry your mate. I will like to talk on seven dimensions you and the person you want to marry or you have married must be mate.

1. MARRY YOUR SPEAKING MATE: Marry someone you can speak together and understand each other. Communication is very crucial in marriage. Don't marry someone that, when you are saying 'A' he or she will be saying ' Z' Once their is dichotomy in your speaking and understanding level, you can't enjoy that marriage. So many men go to bar to hang out with friends and gist till 11pm because they know their wives can't engage in any meaning intellectual discussion. So many women too prefer to hang out with their friends, because they know their husbands mentality when it comes to vital issues and discussions is very low. Marry your speaking Mate.

2. MARRY YOUR 'SCHOOL' MATE: By this I mean, marry someone you can learn together and improve together. Don't marry ' Mr Know all' or 'Miss Know all'. Don't marry someone who is rigid and not open to new ideas, new ways of doing things, or new innovations. Marriage is a great institution. From day one till death do you part, you will keep learning. Marry your 'school' mate; someone who is ready to learn with you.

3. MARRY YOUR SPIRITUAL MATE: Marriage is not just a social union. It is also a spiritual union. Marry someone who knows the same God you know. Don't marry someone who's believe of God is different from yours. Two can't work together except they be agreed ( Amos 3:3, Joshua 23: 11-15, 2 Corinthians 6:14-18). The spiritual controls the physical, even in marriage. Check for spiritual compatibility in that person you want to marry.

4. MARRY YOUR SPENDING MATE: Don't marry someone who is stingy.

22/03/2024

WOMEN HAVE S*XUAL NEEDS TOO

1. Blessed is the wife whose husband doesn't make her feel dirty or unGodly when she expresses her s*xuality

2. Blessed is the wife whose husband knows how to play with her cl****is, he doesn't just focus on her va**na

3. Blessed is the wife whose husband wants to know her favourite s*x position and doesn't only insist they do his favourite

4. Blessed is the wife whose husband doesn't turn her down when she initiates love making

5. Blessed is the wife whose husband studies her moaning so that he keeps doing what she likes

6. Blessed is the wife whose husband doesn't mind sometimes she taking the lead s*xually. She is allowed to be s*xually aggressive

7. Blessed is the wife whose husband doesn't tell her she is shouting or disturbing when she cannot help but moan loudly as he makes her feel good

8. Blessed is the wife whose husband doesn't make her feel embarrassed when she squirts or wets the bed as she climaxes

9. Blessed is the wife whose husband doesn't give orders of "Give me a blow job", "Bend over"; but he requests and also allows her to request what she wants. If it is licking or spanking she wants, she will get it

10. Blessed is the wife whose husband flirts back, when she sends him suggestive chats and messages

11. Blessed is the wife whose husband listens when he tells her "Darling please be gentle"

12. Blessed is the wife whose husband doesn't tell her to tone down and be decent when she is trying to dress s*xy and naughty for him

13. Blessed is the wife whose husband wants to fulfil her s*xual fantasies and is ready to explore new experiences with her

14. Blessed is the wife whose husband pumps hard when she moans "Harder! Harder! Faster! Faster!"

15. Blessed is the wife whose husband takes time to prepare her with foreplay because she enjoys getting sufficiently wet

16. Blessed is the wife who is not made to feel abnormal when she asks for love making often

17. Blessed is the wife whose husband

22/03/2024

19 ROMANTIC THINGS TO DO THAT DON'T INVOLVE S*X

When romance is often mentioned, many think it is all about s*x. But romance is actually anything you do to your partner that communicate and show that him/her is special to you. Here are a few examples.

1. Calling your partner a special name that you wouldn't call any other person such "Honey", "Sweetheart"

2. Cooking together. This activity actually gives you two a chance to bond closer

3. Going out on dates to intimate places (not clubs) where you can look into each other's eyes and have heart to heart conversations

4. Pulling up her seat or holding her hand when she climbs up a stair case. Even though she can do this on her own, this makes her feel like you are mindful of her

5. Singing love songs together. This warms the heart

6. Covering each other in prayer. The most romantic thing is taking care of each other's spirit

7. Holding each other's hand as you walk.

8. Going out for walks, picnics and plays

9. If you have children, planning dates just for you two as you make plans for someone to take care of the kids. Children tend to kill romance if you are not deliberate about maintaining the fire

10. Talking on the phone till late about heart matters if you two are far from each other. If all you talk about till late is s*x then you are missing out on depth

11. Writing each other love letters. Yes, there is something special about reading each other's handwriting in this digital age. Leave a note for your partner on the pillow or post a letter if your partner is far away

12. Making him a warm drink as he works or going to see him with packed lunch. This shows that you have him in mind

13. Sending a parcel. There is something special about opening up a physical gift from the one you love

14. Praising each other publicly, whether in front of your friends, on social media or in social gatherings. But do this only when you love your partner well in private, otherwise it is just pretense

21/03/2024

HOW I S*X MY HUSBAND WITHOUT HIS PERMISSION! 🥰😄

My husband and I were having a fight.. So we were not talking.. He was giving me the silent treatment.. I also ignored him and we went on like that for the whole day..
After work that day.. I returned home.. Made dinner and we ate.. He went in to sleep while I stayed to watch my programs.. Later I joined him i n bed.. I couldn't sleep.. I kept turning and tossing.. I was restless.. I went to drink cold water and returned.. He was fast asleep already.. I was so h***y but we were fighting so.. I had to suppress my urges..
Early morning I got up to p*e. When I returned he was still sleeping but he had a strong er****on. This made me even more h***y.. I looked at it for a while and wondered but this thing is mine nau.. Why am I making shakara.. That's how I slowly took it out and grabbed it in my mouth oo.. Someone that was sleeping suddenly woke up and said wat are you doing.. I didn't even answer him.. He said stoppppppp.. He said stoooooooooopppppp... I stopped sucking, shifted pants and sat on it jeje... I was still beefing him of course but the beef did not reach that side please.. I started rolling and whining and flipping and thrusting..
Someone that was mad at me suddenly started moaning.. Baby stop this.. Stop*eeeet.. Stooop ahh stoop... I was just giving him side eye.. That's how we both came crumbling and collapsing with so much passion..
After that I went to shower and dress up for work.. He said where are you going.. I said work of course.. He said do you realise you just used and dumped me??? And that was how we burst out laughing..
We had breakfast and both left for work.. Then he sent me sweet messages later.. Baby i want us to fight more often. This our cute little fight was so adorable and you totally knocked me off this morning.. Because you hardly initiate s*x.. So keep it up.. Love you and have a nice day... Since I received this text I've been smiling..
Love is beautiful.. Marriage is wonder

21/03/2024

DIFFERENT TYPES OF S*X IN MARRIAGE!

1. RECONCILIATION S*X:- S*x is a most potent weapon for diluting and difusing misunderstanding in Marriage. If you don't use S*X to settle some stubborn crisis, then you are missing out and not maximising it. In addition when you both settle a misunderstanding, the person at fault could initiate s*x as a way to make up to the other who was on the receiving side of the conflict.

2. HEALING S*X:- There are some sicknesses and diseases that are cured by good S*x I mean very good S*x. Healing s*x is gentle, it is full of grace and elegance. You don't rush it. Mbanu. You do it softly and it hits the bull's eye. Please Husbands, don't throw your weight on her if it's for healing, let the bed carry your weight 100%.

3. PUNISHMENT S*X:- When I counsel couples, are times I hear spouses say "Since he did that, I decided to punish him by depriving him of s*x", or "since she refused me, I decided not to touch her again". That is as senseless as saying "since my child failed a Test, I punished him by withdrew him from school". It's foolishness. The wise thing to do is to give your spouse more s*x as punishment rather than depriving him or her. When your husband or wife misbehaves, correct them using s*x. That is the best punishment. Not slapping or fighting or public disgrace. Punishment s*x is very hot. 😷

4. MEMORABLE S*X:- This is a very special kind of s*x that you organise and plan for. Every couple must be doing this once in a while. Honeymoons should be organised at least once is a quarter (once in 3 months). If you have means, do it once a month. You book a hotel for say 3-7 days and retreat to help build your marriage. A kind of Intimacy Retreat. You mustn't go to hotel if you can't afford it. Just send the kids somewhere and make it memorable. Light Candles around and on the blue or green bulb. Use good perfume and the Angels will bear you witness.