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28/01/2025

26/01/2025

WHAT HURTS A MAN

1. It hurts a man when his wife speaks to other people with more respect and warmth than she does with him

2. It hurts a man when his wife treats him well only when there are visitors

3. It hurts a man when his wife makes him feel less important to the children just because he doesn't have a womb

4. It hurts a man when he is always the one to say sorry even for the things he is not wrong for just because she is emotionally delicate

5. It hurts a man when the wife airs their dirty linen in public, telling her family and friends his flaws and tainting his image

6. It hurts a man when the wife is ever moody, unapproachable, cold and combative, making him feel uncomfortable to come home early

7. It hurts a man when he watches his wife smiling and blushing when she reads text messages from other men over the phone but brushes him off and assumes his presence

8. It hurts a man when the wife is distant, spiteful, not responsive to his touch, mad and not telling him what she is mad for

9. It hurts a man when the wife keeps getting confusing advice from her friends, outsiders and third parties are wrecking what belongs to two

10. It hurts a man when the wife sees nothing else but his negatives. She rarely appreciates his good

11. It hurts a man when the wife does not move past a resolved issue. She is stuck in matters that they agreed to progress from

12. It hurts a man when the wife speaks to him with a tone as if to boss him, order him around or belittle him

13. It hurts a man when the wife doesn't honour him or his effort just because he doesn't earn that much

14. It hurts a man when the wife uses him to get a comfortable life but then she turns to another man for emotional and sexual comfort.

Now, ask yourself as a woman, how will you feel if these things being in these shoes.
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25/01/2025

Celebrating my 5th year on Facebook. Thank you for your continuing support. I could never have made it without you. 🙏🤗🎉

15/01/2025

24 PHONE USE RULES FOR COUPLES:

1. Don't make a habit of putting your phone on silent mode or turning it off each time you're with your partner. It makes you look like you are hiding something

2. Save your partner's phone number using a special title like "Hubby", "Love", "Wife", "Sweerie". Or save using a title plus the official name. Using the official name only makes your partner look like just the other contacts on your phone

3. Answer your partner's phone call with loving affectionate words like "Hi love", "Hey honey". How a conversation starts detetmines how it flows. If you start warm, you two will enjoy talking with each other on phone

4. End the talk on a high. Say "I love you", say a joke, a compliment, a warm phrase before you hang up. Hang up with a smile

5. It is OK to chat with friends online. But never chat with another person more than you chat with your partner

6. If you will be busy, notify your partner you will not be able to pick up calls or reply texts promptly. Inform your partner what you will be doing and approximately for how long. This prepares your partner and brings peace because your partner will not feel ignored

7. Flirting on phone is good but only flirt with your partner

8. Tell off people who try to flirt with you, entice you and charm you on phone. Let them know that you are taken

9. Take lots of photos and videos together to capture moments. You will need those pics and videos in future as you look back

10. When you go out on dates, keep the phone away, minimize phone use so that you focus on each other

11. Don't make a habit of walking away from your partner to answer phone calls. Your partner will perceive you are hiding something or having an affair. Love is about perception

12. After the date and you don't live together; man, call her up and check on her, tell her you got home safe; lady, send him a text, thanking him for a wonderful time

13. Unless it's an emergency, when you can't reach your partner and you probably know he/she is at work or doing something; don't keep calling and texting desperately. You will only look like a nag to your partner and that will make your partner detest phone contact with you. Relax, your partner will see your missed call and text

14. When you see a missed call or text from your partner, please call back or reply as soon as you can. Put your partner at ease

15. Save your partner's phone number as an emergency number to be contacted incase something happens to you and your phone is locked

16. Avoid fights and arguments over the phone, they are difficult to manage and leave a bad feeling when you hang up, thus negatively affecting how you two relate. Talk about serious issues that are volatile face to face

17. When your partner offends you or you two aggrevate each other, never refuse to pick up your partner's phone call. That only makes matters worse. Keep the line of communication open so that you work things out. If you can't talk at the moment you are hurting, just pick up the call and say "I can't talk right now" and your partner will understand

18. Inform your partner when and why you need to turn off your phone when you two are apart. Keep your partner from worrying

19. When you two are having fun together, it is good to celebrate your love online but don't post too much about your lovelife. Some things are best kept private. The world doesn't have to know every detail of how you love each other

20. When you two are having problems, don't vent about your partner directly or indirectly on your social media posts

21. Don't let your partner get news about you from social media like your online friends. Tell the news to your partner first, and then post online

22. If your partner tries calling you but your line is engaged, explain who you were talking to. If someones calls you when you're with your partner, say who it was. Transparency and clarity enhances trust

23. Remember it is both your role to communicate. None of you should feel he/she is forcing a conversation or is doing much of the talking. Communication takes two

24. Put away the phone when your partner needs your undivided attention, especially in the bedroom. Don't be intimate, holding your phone, more than you hold your partner

Phone use can affect your relationship/marriage negatively or positively. Be smart as you use your smart phone
Marriage Without Tears

08/07/2024

My last relationship taught me that the more chances you give someone, the less they value you. They're not afraid to lose you because they know no matter what, you won't walk away.

Never let someone get too comfortable with disrespecting you. Love yourself first.

08/07/2024

Men know what they want

17/06/2024

REASONS WHY MEN FIND IT HARD TO FORGIVE CHEATING ....

1. A man understands that $3x for women is never physical, but emotional. Cheating to them it's a sign they are no longer in love.

2. A man instinctively understands that a cheating partner is a murder weapon. And when instigated, could kill him to elope with her new lover.

3. A woman becomes disrespectful once she starts cheating on her man. The disrespect eventually pushes the man away.

4. A man understands that a cheating wife could compromise his children by giving him kids belonging to another man.

12/06/2024

S*x is not love
going on a date is not love
talking to someone 24/7 is not love
staying up all night for someone is not love

Love is someone who sees that harsh side of you and still chooses to love you, someone who makes things happen for you when you can’t, someone who holds you and calms you down as tears pour out of your eyes, it’s someone voicing all the good things about you when all you see is the bad, it’s someone who makes sure you’re okay, it’s someone who thinks about you every night and every single day, it’s someone who’s constantly pouring themselves into you, that’s what love is.

12/06/2024

I was taught that keeping quiet kept the peace
Until I realised Whose peace is it keeping?

23/04/2024

While watching Queen of Tears I learned many Things:

1. You can't guarantee that your money and power will last forever, so always be humble.

2. Be careful with people around you, some are just waiting you to fail or just preparing to bite you like a snake.

3. Manipulative people sometimes wear a masks of good ones, they gain your trust first and if you fell at their bait you are their prisoner or worst their milking cow.

4. You will definitely know who's only around you at your best and who helps you at your worst times.

5. For couple, communication is always the key in success marriage. You will truly know that you love each other at your worst times.

6. Don't hold grudge for too long, it will hunt you forever if you don't know how to let go, like Haein's mom who can't forgive her for loosing her brother.

7. Sometimes contented people are the happy ones, wealth is not an assurance that your are happy forever.

23/04/2024

RULES OF LIVING WITH PEOPLE

1. When you meet young people - INSPIRE THEM.

2. When you meet children - EDUCATE THEM.

3. When you meet old people - HELP THEM.

4. When you meet wise people - STUDY THEM.

5. When you meet leaders - HONOUR THEM.

6. When you meet foolish people - AVOID THEM.

7. When you meet humble people - TREASURE THEM.

8. When you meet arrogant people - IGNORE THEM.

9. When you meet gracious people - EMULATE THEM.

10. When you meet aspirational people - ELEVATE THEM.

11. When you meet strong people - SUPPORT THEM.

12. When you meet godly people - BLESS THEM.

13. When you meet elderly people - RESPECT THEM.

14. When you meet weak people - STRENGTHEN THEM.

15. When you meet hardworking people - ENCOURAGE THEM.

16. When you meet kind people - ESTEEM THEM.

17. When you meet Honest people -
PROMOTE THEM.

18. When you meet virtuous people - REWARD THEM.

19. When you meety evil people - EVADE THEM.

20. And in all situation “ Watch, Pray and wish everyone well.

22/04/2024

Let's talk about this topic today

WHY IS IT EASY FOR LADIES TO FORGIVE THEIR CHEATING PARTNERS AND DIFFICULT FOR MEN TO DO SO?

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21/04/2024

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20/04/2024

REASONS WHY MEN FIND IT HARD TO FORGIVE CHEATING ....

1. A man understands that $3x for women is never physical, but emotional. Cheating to them it's a sign they are no longer in love.

2. A man instinctively understands that a cheating partner is a murder weapon. And when instigated, could kill him to elope with her new lover.

3. A woman becomes disrespectful once she starts cheating on her man. The disrespect eventually pushes the man away.

4. A man understands that a cheating wife could compromise his children by giving him kids belonging to another man.

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28/03/2024

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