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Value Added Woman II

FIRM BELIEVER
Writer & Journalist
Kingdom Relationship Marriage Coach
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28/10/2024

Cheers to chapter 24 🥂

Manifesting all that God has written concerning me 🙌✨

Happy birthday to you my best girl ✨

© Value Added Woman II

08/09/2024

IS IT WORTH IT?

At some point in my life, I began to question my celibacy decision. Hold on, don't judge me, I'm not as spiritual as some of y'all are. I'm still trying to figure it out.

I had guys who would approach me regarding relationships and whenever I told them what I stand for( my values/beliefs) most of them withdrew completely. I remember one who outrightly told him, that he hoped after all these things I wouldn't end up with the wrong partner.

It was getting overwhelming at some point and I remember chatting with one of my father figures and telling him what was happening, he told me something I'll keep holding onto which you may also find helpful. In his words " They Should Know you for who you are, keep your standards, and be proud of it. Have your head focused"

Here's what I also have to say, the moment you decide to set standards for yourself not everyone will stay and it's ok as long as you are standing for the right thing.

We live in a generation where relationships are more like an avenue to enjoy free access to engage in immoral kinds of stuff and when you choose not to bend to their rules or compromise they see it as pride or doing too much.

Not everyone will be able to afford you when you intentionally choose to Stand out.

That shouldn't stop you from Standing out.

I say this with everything in me IT IS WORTH THE WAIT. When it comes to séxual Purity it is nonnegotiable.

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01/09/2024

Every phase and season in our lives is only there to teach us a lesson.

Don't be too carried away by either the euphoria or pain that comes with that season that you end up not learning what God wants you to learn.

** I'm learning to love people genuinely from my heart regardless of how they treat me, a very tough one for me I must confess😂.

One beautiful thing about God is that He loads us with grace for each season.

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What season are you currently in and what is it teaching you?

Happy new month ❤️✨

09/08/2024

For the past few weeks I've been in my, " I don't think I can't do this anymore more era", that moment where you're tired of showing up and just want to be hidden.

Sometimes the journey gets so rough that I'm tempted to ask God if he ever called me in the first place, I remember one time I was talking down on myself and how unqualified I am for the job.

Truth be told, sometimes the encourager also needs encouragement but we often don't talk about how we feel so we just boss up and keep moving even when deep down all we want to do is burst out in tears because of how hard the journey is.

While trying to be kind to others, don't forget to be first the recipient of your own kindness. Be soft on YOU

You're not a superhuman, it's ok to pause, rest, re-strategize and show up again with Soo much gusto ready to impact your world.

This is me, speaking to myself and saving it here online ( might be a blessing to someone here)

To that person going through this same phase, I'm sending lots of hugs your way🫂❤️

You're not alone ❤️

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17/06/2024

I was watching a video online, I couldn't help but admire how the lady speaks fluently and the fact that the video was all shades of perfection only to get to the end of the video to see the behind-the-scenes and errors she made before getting it right.

A lot of time we see people's successes, we admire and wish to be them because to us THEY ARE PERFECT not knowing the work they put in behind the scenes to get to where they are today.

We see people's Christian journey and wish we were the ones doing the amazing things they are doing not knowing that there was a lot of work and uncomfortable instructions they had to obey to get to the level people admire.

How can I forget how we keep screaming God when every time we see couple who we look up to as our role model, wishing we were the ones not realizing that there's always behind the scenes of compromising for each other, a series of sacrifices, forgiveness, and work.

Here's what you have to understand, Behind the scenes is not always rosy. It won't be perfect at first, but that shouldn't stop you from putting in the effort to make it work.
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06/06/2024

The world's system has its definition of what a picture-perfect person should look like and most times we don't fit into it.

Because we've gradually bought the idea the ecosystem has sold to us, a lot of people are beginning to hide in their shelves because, in their subconscious mind, they don't fit into it.

One time a lady posted a video of herself and going through the comments section I felt disappointed how people were telling her to go do BBL because her shape was not good enough, here I was on the other side admiring how she looked.

If you get your validation from what people say, you're definitely going to keep living at the mercy of people's opinions about you.

Regardless of your complexion, your height, or your body size. The scripture says YOU ARE CREATED IN GOD'S IMAGE AND LIKENESS.

Sometimes you have to constantly remind yourself that you are good enough.

You are beautifully crafted by God, let this sink

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04/06/2024

SINGLE AND SEARCHING

I think it's important to bring this to your remember dance, you that is still single and is beginning to loose it. When the scripture said there's Time for everything, it included Time to be single and Time to be married ( it doesn't have to be clearly written there) one beautiful thing about the Bible is that there's scripture for every phase or season of our lives. God is indeed a detailed and intentional God 🙌

Refuse to be under pressure of any kind, especially when it comes to marriage. Please be convinced that God is saying Yes, not just your feelings alone.

And until then, unashamedly rock your single hood phase, because truth is, you won't be single for ever. Now that you're still single see this as a time for Growth, personal development and keep investing in yourself and for your future too.

You should not enter marriage and be wishing to be single. See our season and stage of your life as a gift from God to prepare for the next stage. And be intentional enough to learn all you can learn from it because trust me you'll need this experience to push through the next phase.

Don't forget, God is an orderly God.

He is intentional 🙌

PC- Ma'am Chinaza Favour

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02/06/2024

Truth is, this Christian journey can be a little bit of overwhelming most times. Trying to keep up with the world and your spirituality.

Anxiety, situations and circumstances that arise to trigger you.

Moments when you feel so weak to pray, and all you want is someone to talk with and just be vulnerable to.

Sometimes all you need as a push for the season you're currently in, is just the right company.

Iron sharpeneth Iron.

Learn to intentionally associate yourself with people who will be the push you need in moments like this because truth of the matter is, tho Christianity is a personal race we still can't neglect the place of collective work of sharpening each other.

As the body of Christ we all need each other in this journey.

You're not alone.

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26/05/2024

I didn’t write this but I felt it!

Your calling is going to crush you.

If you are called to mend the brokenhearted, you are going to wrestle with a broken heart.

If you are called to heal God’s little ones, you are going to experience your own share of trauma.

If you’re called at all to the lost and broken of this world. The throw aways. To preach and teach the gospel, you WILL be sifted for the wisdom that anoints your message.

If you are called to empower, your self-esteem will be attacked- your successes hard fought.

Your calling will come with spiritual warfare and a sifting - BOTH are necessary for your mantle to be authentic, humble and powerful.

Your crushing won’t be easy because your assignment is not easy - and you can’t minister POWERFULLY what you haven’t walked out. Read that sentence again.

When you’re feeling the weight of it coming down on you, RUN to the Father who longs to be your comfort. Let him whisper your true identity over you while resting under the shadow of his wings. Position yourself against his heartbeat. Let him renew your strength and set your eyes forward.

No olives, no oil.
No grapes, no wine.
Your oil is not cheap my friend.
~Author Unknown

24/05/2024

The best way to fight addiction is to stop feeding it!

Allow it to starve, little by little you'll notice the urge to satisfy that cravings is no longer there

No matter how bad that addiction looks, it holds nothing on you when you stop feeding it. I hope you find this valuable ❤️

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05/05/2024

It wasn't the water He came for, it was Me.

_Woman at the well

Jesus doesn't mind leaving the 99 just for You, you are that Special.

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01/05/2024

I welcome you all into a new month, this month enjoy great Grace🙌.

Happy new month family

29/04/2024

Set principles and standards for yourself whoever cannot abide by them should go, those that can abide by those principles will stay...

As a lady, not every invitation you accept, can you come to my house? politely tell them No. Is ok to say No, many of us are scared to say No because we don't want them to feel bad, Some invitations require you No polish in Love.

I don't accept male visitors especially when it is late, and I don't do visits either, you want us to see, let's meet in an open place. You can say I have trust issues, which is ok.

Oh if only we know that sexual purity is also a good fight we have to fight; Because the truth is your flesh is not born again you have to learn to be Lord over it, going to a guy's house alone/late in the night is giving the devil a free ticket to tempt you.

The journey to sexual purity is an intentional act.

Not everybody will stay because you choose to be sexually pure. But is all worth it, you are obeying the scripture by keeping God's temple clean and Holy.

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27/04/2024

To every single person reading this, by the Mercy of God May we not miss it in marriage 🙌

Amen

26/04/2024

You won't always feel like praying, you won't always feel like fasting or studying the word; times like that will come when you won't feel like doing any spiritual activity but see those moments as an opportunity to exercise yourself spiritually.

If your walk with God is based on feeling, trust me the enemy will always make you not feel like it.

Last night I didn't feel like praying, I prayed anyways.

This morning I woke up to pray, I didn't feel like praying, so I forced myself and prayed for about 40 minutes, I kept praying I didn't feel anything, but I kept praying, and I realized the feelings later joined me in prayers🤭🤭

Our Christian walk is a journey of Sacrifice.

The time you don't feel like praying is the best time to pray.

pray when you feel like praying, and pray when you don't feel like praying.

Fast when you feel like fasting, and fast when you don't feel like fasting.

Study when you feel like studying and study when you don't feel like it.

Your feelings are true but they are not always right, learn to be master over your emotions and feelings.

PS- Do you find this helpful? please share to bless others.

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24/04/2024

You can either choose to marry a PRAYER PARTNER or marry a PRAYER POINT.

Marrying a Prayer partner is different from marrying a prayer point.

Prayer partners are those you can pray together with and join forces together to intercede for your marriage and this one is sweet because both parties are joyfully doing it.

Then, prayer point is the one where one party is the only one involved, and most times you can spend all the years you were supposed to be praying for God's blessing in your marriage to interceding for God's intervention in the life of your partner.

Is amazing how so many singles close their eyes to all the red flags and signals God keep showing them in the relationship only to end up marrying a PRAYER POINT; You spend all your years praying for them to change when all these could have been avoided in the early stage.

Marrying an unbeliever and believing you will change them in marriage, you might spend the rest of your life in marriage praying for them to encounter God.

Both of them have prayers but you choose the kind of prayer it will be.

The truth is there are some prayers you stop praying when you marry a PRAYER PARTNER.

Do you know that after God, you have a major role to play in your life?

Do you know that after God, you have the power to also determine the outcome of your life relationship/marriage inclusive?

Congratulations to Sir Femi Babs, yours shall be amongst the best 🙌

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12/04/2024

Learn to intentionally compliment your partner, appreciate them, let them know how much you love them.

The little things that we feel don't matter, are what matter the most.

They should hear those sweet words from you🤭

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10/04/2024

That thing you've been praying and believing God for, whatever it is Receive answers to your prayers in Jesus name

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