03/08/2022
THE DANGER OF BEGGING PEOPLE TO STAY IN YOUR LIFE - TD JAKES
When an individual can leave you, let them go…
I don’t want you to attempt to talk someone else into remaining with you, calling you, thinking about you, coming to see you, remaining appended to you
When an individual can leave you, let them go..
I don’t care how wonderful they are, I don’t care how attracted you are to them, I don’t care what they did for you 20years ago, I don’t care what the situation is.
When an individual can leave you, let them go..your predetermination isn’t fixing to anyone that left.
The Bible says in 1 John 2:19: They came out from us, that it might be made manifest that they were not for us. But have they been for us, no doubt they would have continued with us..
People leave you because they are not joined to you and if they are not joined to you, you get superglue and you can’t make them stay… LET THEM GO!
what’s more, it doesn’t imply that they are a terrible individual, it just implies that their part in the story is finished. what’s more, you must know when individuals’ part in your story is finished..
And you got to know when people’s part in your story is over, so that you don’t keep trying to raise the dead. You got to know when it’s dead..
When your boy is dead, wash your face and have another baby… You got to know when it’s over.
If they walked away, it’s no accident.
If they left you, it’s no accident.
If you try to make it work and it wouldn’t work, it’s no accident.
Accept it as the will of God, clap your hands, wash your face, do your dance and keep going.
Let me tell you, I got the gift of goodbye. I believe in goodbye, it’s not that am hateful, it’s not that am faithful and I know whatever God mean for me to have, He will give it to me and if it takes too much sweat, I don’t need it…
STOP BEGGING PEOPLE TO STAY, LET THEM GO..