10/10/2023
FOR THOSE STRUGGLING WITH CLARITY
On social media, it's very easy to see everyone going about their business and wonder why you still don't know what you want to do.
For some people, they get depressed. But over here, we ask questions. We always respond to situations with a mind fixed on finding solutions.
So, how do you find your own path?
How do you discover your purpose?
What shows you what you're meant to be doing?
Before I answer that, let me branch a little. If you're confused, that's a good thing. Yes, because it shows you are ACTIVELY THINKING about your life. An unconcerned person can not struggle with confusion because it has never even crossed his mind. But here you are, taking the first step and I celebrate you. Little things like this count. You're aware now, so you have higher chances of finding clarity.
Back to our question.
Here's my answer.
Clarity is a journey. You might not know exactly what you want to do your whole life but you can CHOOSE what you want to do NOW.
I placed special emphasis on 'choose' because most times, people don't think they are the ones to decide what to. They keep waiting for a special moment or out of body experience to REVEAL what they should do.
I believe we're free will agents responsible for all our decisions including what we decide to call our vision. Pick yours. Choose something you find worthy and make it your focus for now. Yes, I said for now because your interest might change with time. Do not be so worried about stability or sticking to one thing forever. People evolve.
Is there something you love at the moment? Make it the centre of your attention.
Is there something people compliment you about often or something you do easily? You might want to explore it more.
And just in case, you find more than one thing attractive, that's not a problem. I'm a writer, public speaker, spoken word artist, founder of a fashion brand, director of two NGOs, a coach and lots more. Yet, I'm a big name (even if I say so myself) in all these industries. And what's the secret? PERIODIC ATTENTION. I started out as a writer and built influence with it. When I had solidified my brand, I diversified and added public speaking. That was how I gradually introduced them all and took time to focus on them at specific times till I could juggle them all comfortably. So, pick one, probably your favourite or easiest to monetize and after solidifying yourself as an authority in it, you could diversify. Or you might even drop one along the way. Or deleg*te its daily operations.
Don't put yourself in a box.
So, what are you MEANT to be doing?
It's totally up to what you CHOOSE to do.
You've spent too much time thinking about this already. Pick and get to work. There's always room to switch if you discover it's not what you want to do anymore.
- The world is our stage 🌎
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Lang Bok