23/12/2024
My people, something just happened now o!* I just met one of my gender,in a Saloon( I no go mention name🥺🥺and she was br@gging about being *Nwunye Odogwu.* You know how it goes—how her *odogwu* husband pampers her, gives her everything she wants, and doesn’t question her decis!ons.
But wait first, let’s balance this table. 😁
While she was bragging, something crossed my mind:
Yes, your *odogwu* buys you gifts, takes care of you, and shows you off—but at the slightest misunderst@nding:
- He se!zes your car key.
- He sm@shes your phone.
- He locks your shop!
Tell me, is this still *odogwu behavior* or the actions of *onye ara!*?
True *odogwu* doesn’t control you or use m@terial things to man!pulate you. A real *odogwu* bu!lds you up, respects your independence, and communic@tes instead of trying to suppress! you.
So, my dear *Nwunye Odogwu,* let’s be honest:
If your *odogwu* uses every small qu@rrel as an excuse to humil!ate or control you, are you really *Nwunye Odogwu,* or have you become *Nwunye Onye Ara* in disgu!se? 😱
Biko,if you must brag, make sure it’s in front of people who don’t know your story. Yes!!! People Wey no no You OOO,!! See as I just dey look her🙆,Don’t let gifts and pampering cover up the fact that you’re enduring oppress!on in the name of love.
As for me, I’ll always choose peace of mind over t!tles. What about you? Share your thoughts in the comments. Let’s discuss!