03/02/2021
Hey FAM, so today I decided to share my story, hope it inspires someone. I know a lot of you haven't seen me go live or do videos, reels etc and might be wondering why as everyone knows the power of leveraging videos. Being an introvert really slowed my success as I was really finding it difficult putting myself out there. To be honest I sabotaged myself for long, I knew what the problem was but I didn't have the confidence to face it. At first, I thought that I lacked strategy, so I kept jumping from one free webinar to the other and after attending, I will say inside of me ๐คbut I already know this things. It was so bad. I will come to Instagram and press the live button and cancel it back then end up putting a motivational quote ๐๐๐ days, weeks, months passed and I didn't make any sale. So middle of 2020 I met my coach and complained I was stuck, she invited me on a zoom call and then started asking me some questions. That was when she realized I knew all the steps and framework in her program and she screamed so why aren't you making 20k months๐ค๐ค she said Thelma,stop deceiving your self, you are afraid of showing up and I quickly admitted. She was honest enough to tell me I don't need her high ticket program but just a mindset shift, and since then everything changed. Iam now more confident on sales calls and even had a prospect close herself on a sales call I had on Monday.
This made me change my focus on who I work with. The passion to help new coaches and service providers came from the struggles I had, guys this almost led to depression, I knew what exactly it took to run a successful business but this very damaging mindset won't leave me. And to be honest, this mindset came because of my accent, the way I pronounce stuffs, I hated the way my voice sounded on audio so I felt people won't listen or like my messages. But all that was a lie I told myself
Would love to know ๐ค
What were your struggles when you started out?
What is the lie your telling yourself?
What's the reason for your self sabotage ? Let's share ideas and help ourselves move past this limiting beliefs.