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04/01/2025

9 Things Pulling You Away from Allah:

1. Ignoring repentance
2. Skipping prayers
3. Forgetting the Quran
4. Holding onto anger
5. Gossiping and backbiting
6. Lying
7. Disrespecting parents
8. Taking blessings for granted
9. Pleasing people over Allah

Correct these habits and watch your life transform. Insha-Allāh🌹

03/01/2025

𝟙𝟘 𝕋𝕙𝕚𝕟𝕘𝕤 𝕐𝕠𝕦'𝕝𝕝 ℕ𝕖𝕧𝕖𝕣 ℝ𝕖𝕘𝕣𝕖𝕥:

1. Praying salah on time
2. Reciting the Qur'an daily
3. Giving charity to those in need
4. Making heartfelt duas
5. Waking up for Tahajjud prayers
6. Showing obedience and respect to parents
7. Staying firm and committed to your Deen
8. Being kind and compassionate to strangers
9. Choosing halal over haram in all aspects of life
10. Quitting harmful habits like music and smoking

02/01/2025

02/01/2025

`REMINDER`

Alhamdulillah, the month of Rajab has begun! With only two months left until Ramadan, let's make a conscious effort to make up any missed fasts, insha'Allah.

May Allah ﷻ grant us steadfastness and count us among the righteous during this blessed period, and may we be prepared to make the most of Ramadan when it arrives.

`اللهم بلغنا رمضان . آمين!✨`

31/12/2024

𝙇𝙞𝙛𝙚 𝙘𝙝𝙖𝙣𝙜𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙉𝙖𝙬𝙖𝙛𝙞𝙡 𝙥𝙧𝙖𝙮𝙚𝙧𝙨: ✨❤️✅

- Tahajjud - For acceptance of du’a
- Duha prayer - For Sadaqah
- Sunan rawatib - For a house in jannah
- Salatul Istikhara - For decision making
- Salatul Taubah - For Forgivess from Allah ﷻ
- Witr prayer - For ending your day.

31/12/2024

𝙎𝙏𝘼𝙏𝙐𝙎 𝙊𝙁 𝙒𝙊𝙈𝙀𝙉 𝙄𝙉 𝙄𝙎𝙇𝘼𝙈 :

• When a girl is born, she becomes a reason for her father to enter 𝙅𝙖𝙣𝙣𝙖𝙝.
• When she grows up and marries a man, she completes 𝙝𝙖𝙡𝙛 𝙤𝙛 𝙃𝙞𝙨 𝙍𝙚𝙡𝙞𝙜𝙞𝙤𝙣.
• When she becomes a mother, 𝙋𝙖𝙧𝙖𝙙𝙞𝙨𝙚 lies under her feet. 🥹❤️

29/12/2024

Have Sabr! 🌸
The right person will find you.
The right person will appreciate you for who you are and see the beauty in your flaws.
They will support your dreams and stand by you in tough times 🤍🌻

29/12/2024

مَن ترك شيئًا اتِّقاء الله عوَّضه الله خيرًا منه، وهو بمعنى: *وَمَنْ يَتَّقِ اللَّهَ يَجْعَلْ لَهُ مَخْرَجًا* [الطلاق:2]. ✨

25/12/2024

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*DU'ĀA BEFORE SLEEPING🍂*

The Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) said:

*"When anyone of you goes to bed, he should dust it off thrice with the edge of his garment, and say:*

« بِاسْمِكَ رَبِّ وَضَعْتُ جَنْبِي وَبِكَ أَرْفَعُهُ، إِنْ أَمْسَكْتَ نَفْسِي فَاغْفِرْ لَهَا، وَإِنْ أَرْسَلْتَهَا فَاحْفَظْهَا بِمَا تَحْفَظُ بِهِ عِبَادَكَ الصَّالِحِينَ »

_Bismika Rabbi wada'tu janbi, wa bika arfa'uhu. In amsakta nafsi faghfir laha, wa in arsaltaha fahfazha bima tahfazu bihi 'ibadakas-salihin_

*In Your Name O Lord, I put my side (on the bed), and in Your (Name) I will rise (from) it. If You should capture my soul, then forgive it; and if You should release it, protect it with what You protect Your righteous slaves."*

📖Sahih Bukhari 7393

23/12/2024

𝕋𝕙𝕖 ℙ𝕠𝕨𝕖𝕣 𝕠𝕗 𝕚𝕤𝕥𝕚𝕜𝕙𝕒𝕣𝕒 𝔻𝕦𝕣𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕪𝕠𝕦𝕣 𝕙𝕒𝕣𝕕 𝕥𝕚𝕞𝕖𝕤🥺
𝕄𝕦𝕤𝕥 ℝ𝕖𝕒𝕕 ❕

I started praying Istikhara that night. I so desperately wanted it to work out. I remembered so many years ago when the life of another woman depended on my decision and what my decision was. I felt contrite, I felt that because I did not give another woman a chance, a space in my life, that Allah will punish me this time around.

I repented, not once in my life did I think my action worthy of repentance because I had done nothing wrong. I only protected what was mine. Now that I am on the receiving end, I realized how wrong I was in denying another woman this PRIVILEGE of a husband. I prayed that she will accept me.

He phoned me a few days later telling me that his wife is having a hard time accepting it but that she is willing to meet me.

I was nervous the day of the meeting. I prayed a lot the day before and asked Allah to help me. When I met her, she was a person, a woman like me. A woman who loves her husband and fears losing him.

She took my hand and with tears in her eyes said: “This is very hard for me, but I hope that we can be sisters” her words broke my heart.

All I needed in these dark days was a hand reaching out to me and embracing me, giving me hope and the will to carry on. His wife was to me, the woman that I could not be and I will be forever grateful for that. I thought that no one could love her husband the way I loved mine, but she taught me the true meaning of unconditional love.

You never know a person’s situation until you are in it. Judge by what is right according to Qu’ran and you will see how Allah subhanahu wa ta’ala will send double fold of blessings your way.”

SUBHANALLAH !!!🥰

23/12/2024

_Marriage is a battle ground where you fight almost everytime but at the end, you still fix up things. A marriage without misunderstanding is not a marriage. Misunderstanding makes marriages stronger and don't let a little misunderstanding in your marriage drive you to divorce._

_Marriage is not a weekend vacation full of happiness and joy; it's a long term battle. Every smiling couple You See, have a hidden *misunderstanding and problems they've overcome*, so don't think it's only you going through difficulties in your marriage._

_Even the prophet used to have problems with his wives and days will go by without him having a proper conversation with them. Do you remember what happened when the mother of the believers, Aishah was wrongly accused? What happened?_

_If the prophet who is the best of creation and the most beloved human to Allah could have misunderstanding and challenges in his marriage, then who are you?_

23/12/2024

Don't give up on your dua'a, Keep praying, have patient (Sabr) and have hope in Allāh ﷻ Wallahi one day your Dua'a would be answered and all your wishes will become true inshāllah

23/12/2024

Nowadays, men are marrying the body and women are marrying the pocket.

That's why nobody is happy in marriages nowadays.

True marraige is built on character and personal relationship with Allah.

23/12/2024

𝕋ℍ𝔼 𝕋ℝ𝕌𝕋ℍ 𝔸𝔹𝕆𝕌𝕋 𝔸ℙ𝕆𝕃𝕆𝔾𝕀𝔼𝕊 𝕀ℕ 𝕄𝔸ℝℝ𝕀𝔸𝔾𝔼; ℍ𝔸𝕃𝔸𝕃 𝕄𝕌𝕊𝕃𝕀𝕄 ℂ𝕆𝕌ℙ𝕃𝔼 💝

1. Sometimes it takes just a simple apology to save your marriage

2. Sometimes your spouse will not apologize in the exact way that you want an apology to come, accept the apology all the same

3. Buying gifts, taking your spouse on a date, cooking your spouse's favourite meal is not an apology. You have to speak it or write it to acknowledge your wrong. Don’t gloss over the offense with money or good times, your spouse will feel bribed

4. Apologize to your spouse, not because you are sure you did wrong; but because your spouse perceives you did wrong. Care about how your spouse feels

5. Do not overapologize constantly saying sorry for the same thing especially when your spouse has forgiven you. Apologize then start talking about new things

6. Don’t say an apology with an attitude "I am sorry then if that will make you feel better". This doesn’t show sincerity

7. If something is a habit, be prepared in the event that your spouse repeats the same mistake after apologizing. It might take a while to fully change. What matters is do you see effort in him/her to do better? Be patient

8. Apologize for the times when you hurt your spouse in reaction to your spouse hurting you. Don’t feel entitled to hurt your spouse just because you're mad at what he/she has done

9. When you are apologizing, be specific about what you are apologizing for. "I am sorry for what I said in the morning my Love". Don’t give a general "Sorry"

10. Don’t be too proud to apologize, don't be too proud to accept an apology. In marriage, you will step on each other, learn to reconcile and keep on dancing

20/12/2024

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The Prophet (ﷺ) said:

*"The five (daily) prayers and from one Friday prayer to the (next) Friday prayer, and from Ramadan to Ramadan are expiations for the (sins) committed in between (their intervals) provided one shuns the major sins."*

📖Sahih Muslim 233

Jabir رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ narrated that Prophet ﷺ said:

*"Friday is comprised of twelve hours. There is one in which a Muslim who asks Allāh for something will have it granted to him. So Seek it in the last hour after `Asr.”*

📖Sunan Abī Dāwūd (1048)

19/12/2024

Remember this