Unkul Yucee

10/03/2024

When Looking For A Job

IN U.S.A: What skills do you have?

IN EUROPE: What certificate(s) do you have?

IN NIGERIA: Who sent you?

02/02/2024

From the day you were born until today 2nd feb 2024,

If you notice things are not as expected.

The system seems to be getting worse every day.

But did you also notice that even in the midst of the poor situation, people are still building houses, buying cars and doing all sorts of things?
The truth is that if it is not your turn, you might think those people are ritualist, scammers or even corrupt in one Way.
You might be right
However, not all of them.
When it is your turn, some people will think same.
But it can never get to your turn when you didn't prepare for it.

The current world is beyond degree possession and all that.
Skills is taking over the world
And digital skills is leading the world Now.

Unlearn and relearn the new Skills that are profitable in the world.

Instead of complaining or hoping and for a better country, get a digital skill to better your life.

I don't have a special recommendation in this Post but what this Post is All about is you getting a digital skill that can help earn money and not complain about any Economy.

Cheers.

17/01/2024

16 THINGS WE LEARN TOO LATE:

1. The less you say, the more your words will matter.

2. Don't take everything personally. Not everyone thinks about you, as much as yourself does.

3. When you focus on problems, you'll have more problems. When you focus on possibilities, you'll have more opportunities.

4. No matter how much it hurts now, someday you will look back and realize your struggle changed your life for the better.

5. There will always be a reason why you meet people. Either you need them to change your life or you're the one that will change theirs.

6. Never be afraid to try something new because life gets boring when you stay within the limits of what you already know.

7. When you are ignored by a person whose attention means the most to you, the reaction in your brain will be similar to physical pain.

8. Sometimes you will never know the value of a moment until it becomes a memory.

9. Once you begin to take note of the things you are grateful for, you begin to lose sight of the things that you lack.

10. If you do not have control over your mouth, you will not have control over your future.

11. Life is a mirror and will reflect back to the thinker what he thinks into it.

12. Life is ten percent what happens to you and ninety percent how you respond to it.

13. The only person you have to face in the morning is yourself.

14. Nothing feels as good as something you do from the heart.

15. You are a reflection of the 5 people you spend the most time with.

16. Your potential is directly correlated to how well you know yourself.
May God bless you 🙏

16/01/2024

A country where English language is compulsory and Agriculture is optional will end up speaking good English with empty stomach .

20/12/2023

Dear young man,

If you marry at 35 years of age, there is a likelihood that you might not see your grandchildren especially from your last child.

In Nigeria, life expectancy is posted at 63 years.

All things being equal, at 25 years of age, your destination ought to have been charted.

If you don't know where you're headed at 25 years of age, then more homework should be done.

I beg of you, get a mentor.

Listen to me, no one is reinventing the wheel.

Understudy someone who is what you want to become.

All the great avatars in history had a mentor.

Even Jesus was mentored.

Be intentional.

Remember, during capital accumulation, consumption should be low.

Reduce alcoholic injection.

Smoke less if you must.

Reduce your womanizing quotient.

Take a hard kook at your financial leakages.

Block them without mercy.

Be adamant to go to places where you impulsively spend money.

Monthly budget wouldn't be a bad idea.

Instal money thermostat to your wallet.

May you always do your homework.

Unkul Yucee

05/12/2023

What is sad about most families is that they grew up like this, sleeping together, eating together, visiting each other but today most of these people:

1. Don't talk to each other.

2. Don't visit each other.

3. Have become enemies even though they are a family.

4. Accuse each other of witchcraft and jealous.

5. The new generation born out of these families don't know each other because their parents, who are siblings, are no longer on talking terms, and the tragedy is these kids end up dating each other because they don't know their family tree and roots.

6. Only meet during funerals.

The most sad part is the grandmothers or grandparents who were the glue holding families together are long gone.

This Christmas, make means to mend fences with your relatives. Be the bigger and mature person, you lose nothing by extending a hand to your brother, sister, cousin or a long lost relative.

Credit..Maddi Veno

27/11/2023

DEAR WIFE...

1. If you want your husband to make love to you often, have a good attitude. No matter how s*xy you look or dress, your husband will not find you attractive if you have a bad attitude

2. If you want your husband to be eating with you, be pleasant to be around. No matter how tasty your food, it loses taste when being around you is stressful

3. If you want your husband to be opening up to you sensitive and difficult information, learn to keep secrets and not to overreact. A man refrains from sharing too much when he is scared information will be leaked or be misinterpreted

4. If you want your husband to be praying with you, stop acting as if your prayers are more powerful or you are closer to God than him. Allow your husband to pray his kind of way

5. If you want your husband to be taking you out often, stop bringing drama and ruining dates with issues that should be dealt with at home. No man wants to go spend time and money at a venue where he will be emotionally drained

6. If you want your husband to solve the issues in your marriage, stop seeing yourself as the angel and him the devil, stop attacking him or labelling him as "The agent the devil is using to ruin your marriage". See also your fault, show him you are on the same team and seek solutions, not finger pointing

7. If you want your husband to come home early, be peaceful. The wife tends to own the home and so can easily make the husband keep off if she becomes harsh, uninviting and combative

8. If you want your husband to be chatting with you and calling you up, be fun to talk to, make him miss you. If each time he calls you or chats you up it ends up with you starting a fight, reminding him of his wrongs or ordering him around he will avoid communication with you

9. If you want your husband to receive your suggestions and corrections then speak to him with a tone of love. If you come at him shouting, dictating at him or manipulating him he will harden up

10. If you want your husband to enjoy kissing you, then speak loving words, be gentle, be easy to talk to. Lips that speak words that hurt are not attractive to kiss

11. If you want your husband to do more sweet, romantic and special things; appreciate the little he does and he will do more. Complaining never inspires a man to do better but appreciation does...

26/11/2023

5 WAYS TO KILL DIFFICULTIES IN YOUR LIFE

1. Accept the situation: Acknowledge the situation you are in and accept it. Denying or ignoring the problem won't make it go away. Acceptance helps you to remain calm and find a solution.

2. Focus on the solution: Instead of focusing on the problem, focus on finding a solution. If one solution doesn't work, try another until you find one that works.

3. Seek help: Don't be afraid to seek help. Talk to someone you trust, such as a friend, family member, or therapist. They can offer you support and advice.

4. Take care of yourself: Deal with stress by doing things you enjoy, such as exercising, meditating, or spending time in nature.

5. Learn from your experience: Every difficulty is an opportunity to learn. Reflect on what happened, what you learned, and how you can use this experience to become stronger and more resilient in the future.

STAY BLESSED 🌺💕🌅💞🎻🌅🌄🌍💐🌺

25/11/2023

THE POTENTIAL KILLERS OF MEN

● Children school fees
● house rents
● Electricity bills
● Medical bills
● Generator fuel & repairs
● Car fuel and repairs
● Feeding of family
● Clothes for children
● Sallah or Christmas and New year bills
● Furniture & House maintenance
● In-laws wahala/demand
● His own aged parents
● His siblings most times
● His wife's demands
● Vigilante bills
● Erecting Building
● Religious demands
● Family social bills
● Electronics bills
● Recharge cards
● Extended family bills
● Community demands


On top of the above, he also faces the followings :

● Wife stress
● Boss stress at work
● Police stress on the way
● Area boys stress
● Kidnappers fear
● Friends stress
● Economy stress
● Fear of job loss
● Unemployment pains
● Armed Robbery stress
● Children misbehaviour
● Neighbours stress
● Bank loan payment stress
● Enemies stress
● Demonic attack stress
● S*x stress

..and so on! OMG!!

Are these reasons not enough for all African Wives to understand and give their husbands peace at home ?

Are men not trying ? How can an African man with these kind of loads be romantic like an American man ?

Women, please give your husbands peace at home.

Encourage your husbands.

Stop being sarcastic to them. Except if you like to join the widows club early!
Note:That club is not funny. Ask members. Help your husband. Contribute to the family.

Be a helper. Be submissive. Stop nagging.

Build your home and marriage. It is not greener outside there. Don't be deceived!!

Help your men to live longer like you.

22/11/2023

BIG SECRETS IN MARRIAGE!

Secret 1

Everyone you marry has a weakness. Only God does not have a weakness. So if you focus on your spouse's weakness you can't get the best out of his strength.

Secret 2

Everyone has a dark history. No one is an angel. When you get married or you want to get married stop digging into someone's past. What matters most is the present life of your partner. Old things have passed away. Forgive and forget. Focus on the present and the future.

Secret 3

Every marriage has its own challenges. Marriage is not a bed of roses. Every good marriage has gone through its own test of blazing fire. True love proves in times of challenges. Fight for your marriage. Make up your mind to stay with your spouse in times of need. Remember the vow For better for worse. In sickness and in health be there.

Secret 4

Every marriage has different levels of success. Don't compare your marriage with any one else. We can never be equal. Some will be far, some behind. To avoid marriage stresses, be patient, work hard and with time your marriage dreams shall come true.

Secret 5

To get married is declaring war. When you get married you must declare war against enemies of marriage. Some enemies of marriage are:
Ignorance
Prayerlessness
Unforgiveness
Third party influence
Stinginess
Stubbornness
Lack of love
Rudeness
Laziness
Disrespect
Cheating
Be ready to fight to maintain your marriage zone.

Secret 6

There is no perfect marriage. There is no ready made marriage. Marriage is hard work. Volunteer yourself to work daily on it. Marriage is like a car that needs proper maintenance and proper service. If this is not done it will break down somewhere exposing the owner to danger or some unhealthy circumstances. Let us not be careless about our marriages.

Secret 7

God cannot give you a complete person you desire. He gives you the person in the form of raw materials in order for you to mould the person that you desire. This can only be achieved through prayer, love and Patience

Secret 8

Getting married is taking a huge risk. You can not predict what will happen in the future. Situations may change so leave room for adjustments. Husband can lose his good job or you may fail to have babies. All these require you to be prayerful otherwise you might divorce.

Secret 9

Marriage is not a contract. It is permanent. It needs total commitment. Love is the glue that sticks the couple together. Divorce start in the mind and the devil feeds the mind. Never ever entertain thoughts of getting a divorce. Never threaten your spouse with divorce. Choose to remain married. God hates divorce.

Secret 10

Every marriage has a price to pay. Marriage is like a bank account. It is the money that you deposit that you withdraw. If you don't deposit love, peace and care into your marriage, you are not a candidate for a blissful home.

So today let us pray for our marriages. Send to those you care about because you never know who you may be helping.
May God bless you all.

THINGS YOU SHOULDN'T TELL ANYONE.

In a relationship, whether married or still in courtship, there are things you should not tell another person. You never know who will be the Judas over your relationship. There are high secrets you have to keep only to yourself.

1. Don't tell anybody how weak your partner is. Someone may use it against you/them.

2. Don't tell people how much you quarrel with your partner, make them see it as perfect from outside while you settle issues from inside.

3. Don't tell even a best friend how much you get as pocket allowance from your husband, if they ask tell them that he's giving more than you expected.

4. Men don't tell your friends how good your wife is in bed, that's a secret between you and your wife.

5. Don't ever tell your mother the way he or she is acting in the marriage, you won't like the outcome if she's a jealous Mother in law.

6. Ladies, a friend may be eyeing your hubby and that's why you shouldn't tell them what moves him most.

7. Even your pastor is not worthy to know how many times you quarrel with your husband, most of them will use it as sermon. Just talk to God alone.

8. Don't tell the children that their father/mother is a bad person. It can make them hate them.

9. Don't tell anybody your partner's past mistakes, it is too risky for your marriage.

10. Don't tell anyone to try seducing your partner to prove their loyalty. They may end up winning their love..

Prevention is better than cure....✍️

Unkul Yucee

21/11/2023

NAKED TRUTH ABOUT SIDE CHICKEN😭😭😭

1. He drops you off and drives back to his wife and kids.

2. He throws away used Condoms as he goes home.

3. He buys sweets to clean your fragrance no matter how expensive it can be

4. He forgives himself for cheating as he is driving to the mother of his Children.

4 He first takes shower to remove your unwanted sweats.

5. He then convinces him self that he can't leave his Wife and Children because of you.

6. He hugs her and ask his children about education.

7. He eats food cooked by his wife not two pieces of KFC he bought for you.

8. After eating he relax on the couch, and they both go to the bedroom.

9. They discuss about the future while she is lying on his chest.

10. Then they make love (Not s*x which he had with you).

11. He doesn't take bath after it because he is used to that Aroma of his Wife.

12. She continues lying on his chest while discussing their investment, policies and planning their Anniversary.

13. And you are alone struggling with s*x because he just did a fast.

14. He gave you 100k and your Mother is boasting that she has a discplined daughter not knowing that you are slowly turning to the resting zone of a bored Husband of some one.

My sister it is not too late, know your values and have goals that Man will never take you anywhere. Find your own Man and God will surely bless you.

Thanks for Reading!!
UnkUnkul Yucee

19/11/2023

A woman have sêx because she wants the man.

A man have sêx because he wants sêx.

You see the difference?

Sêx is a physical thing to a man.

But for a woman, sêx is both physical and emøtional.

A woman can have sēx because of love. But a man can have sêx because of sêx.

Before a woman can have sêx with you, she must have feēlings for you. She must have that emøtionally attachment to you, Not talking about those trāding their for møney in the name of Hoøk up, Stop it. Heaven is watching

That EROS dimension of love will be there.

Hārdly will you find a woman having sêx with a man she does not love. Except if she's a prøstitute.

But for a man, reverse can be the case. A man may have no iota of love for you, and still have sêx with you.

This is why a man can hire a prøstitute just to have sêx. He doesn't need to love the prøstitute before he fulfills his sèxual desire.

Now, understand this:

As a woman, a man can use you to feed his s*xūal desires. He can even give you money. He can take you out. All because he wants sêx, not you!

If you want to know if a man truly loves you, don't give him sêx. Sit back and watch.

If he leaves you because you don't give him sêx, then he doesn't love you. He only loves sêx!

Dear young adult girl!

As you're growing up and getting closer to the journey of marriage life..pls try to understand that you can choose a husband for yourself but your kids can't choose their own father,while choosing a father for them pls choose a father,a friend,a tutor,a prophet,and a guidance for them...

And don't forget to be good mother you can raise a hero and not a zero
Wedding ring is the smallest handcuff ever made, so think deep, choose your prisøn mate carefully and sentence yourself wisely, to avoid prisøn break.

18/11/2023

You were born in a first class hospital, I was delivered at home, we both survived.

You went to a private primary school and I went to Saint Luke's junior primary School, we both ended in the high school.

You went to Kings College Lagos, I could only afford ajayi crowther secondary school, but we were both tested with the same WAEC and NECO exams. And we both passed.

You proceeded to the prestigious Babcock University, I could only work and pay for my studies at National Open University of Nigeria (NOUN). We both earned the same NUC recognized degrees.

You woke up from the bed and I woke from the floor, we both had a peaceful night rest.

Your outfits are all expensive, mine are all simple and cheap, we both still cover our nakedness.

You ate fried rice and roasted chicken, I ate local made food but we both still ate to our satisfaction.

You ride on Lexus jeep, Range Rover, G Wagon, Hummer Jeep and I use public transport but we still got to our various destination.

You may be reading this post from your

Samsung Galaxy 6edge or 7edge, IPhone12pro+ or iphone 13 and I typed it with my Touch one broken screen, we still see the message.

Lifestyle is not a competition and there are different ways to get a lot of things done, different lanes all leading to the same destination. Just because your neighbour is doing things faster does not mean you are failing.

Happiness doesn't come from having everything, but making the best out of what you have, it's all about how you see yourself.

Happiness is not having what you like. Happiness is liking what you have and being contented.

17/11/2023

When flights were 32k from Lagos to Portharcourt, a friend of mine booked a to and fro flight = 64k.

His monthly salary then was 85k.

When we met, he told me that he came by air.

I just quickly went to Airpeace website and saw that the ✈️ fee was 64 to and fro.

I had this conversation with him.

Me: Guy, you came by flight?

Him: Yes, I did. I came by Airpeace.

Me: Abeg, how much did you say is your salary again?

Him: 85k.

Me: And, you spent 64k on flight. This is excluding airport taxi and other logistics. So, over 80% of your monthly salary on a single transportation. That's not feeding, rent, etc.

Him: Keeps quiet.

Me: Was there an important personality that you knew was entering that flight and you wanted to connect with him?

Him: No?

Me: So, why did you enter flight?

Him: It's faster and safer.

Me: Where you dey rush go? You just wanted to snap pictures, take videos, and massage your ego that you have taken flight.

There are many of us who do this.

We are eating in restaurants that are way above our budgets.

We are wearing cloths, shoes, accessories that are far above our income.

You did a job of 100k, you want to spend 70-80k on things that bring no return.

Who do you want to impress?

There is no competition in this world. The only competition you have is within you: That your today is better than your yesterday.

I've learned to face my front, enjoy the pace, and growth.

Do not live above your income.

Cc: Udochukwu Chikwendu

17/11/2023

The only bird that dares to peck on eagle is the raven. It sits on the eagle's back and bites its neck. However, the eagle doesn't respond or fight with the raven. It does not spend time or energy with the raven. It just opens its wings and begins to fly higher in the sky. The higher the flight, the harder it is for the raven to breathe and the raven eventually falls due to lack of oxygen. Not all battles you need to respond to. Not all arguments or critics you need to respond to or answer back. Just lift up a standard, they'll fall off! Stop wasting time with the 'ravens'. Just take them to your height and they'll fade away. The enemy may sit on your back and bite your neck... But remember, "The race is not for the swift, nor the battle to the strong, nor the bread to the wise, nor riches to men of skill, but time and chances happen to them all" May The Lord take you to a height where it'll be difficult for the enemies to peck on you in Jesus name!

12/11/2023

EFCC on boys, SARS on boys, POLICE on boys, GIRLS on boys, FAMILY on boys.
No wonder Bobrisky left us.
😂😂😂😂

08/11/2023

I've never heard a lady say "I had a good man but i messed up"
They're always right and would never admit it was their fault 🥴

08/11/2023

95% of broken marriages are instigated by female friends who advises their friends not to take any nonsense from any man.😎

31/10/2023

As you go out today in search of green pasture, may God provide you with Greener Pastures in Jesus name, amen.

30/10/2023

Transport fare to go search for daily bread don pass the daily bread..

God na ur hand we dey o

28/10/2023

*WHEN MARRIAGE IS A MISTAKE.*

A MUST READ!!!!!!

Most times when a *marriage is in trouble* , people tend to see their Marriage as a *mistake* rather than seeing the *mistakes they are making* in their marriage. At this point they *regret marrying their wife or husband, begin to think of a new partner, imagine marrying their ex or fantasizing a marriage without issues.*

Some even divorce or remarry and later wish they had *remained* with their first Spouse, as they find greater trouble in the new spouse. This is because *the first marriage was not a mistake,* and the mistake has not been *discovered yet.*

So you can remarry as many times as you like, you will still experience problems in marriage until *you discover the mistakes you are making in your marriage and correct them.*

So divorce or separation is not a solution to consider when you are having problems with your marriage.

When your car has a flat tyre, you do not abandon it, but repair the tyre and move on.

When we have a headache, no matter how excruciating, we do not cut off the head but take care of the headache.

When a bulb blows out in the room we do not change the room or the house, we replace the bulb and light up the room.

When we have challenges at work, we do not refuse to go to work, we go there to solve the problems.

So when marriage has an issue, we don't have to try to change the spouse instead of changing the *attitude* that is creating the problem.

Most times when we see some couples enjoying their marriages and enjoying each other to the fullest, we admire and cherish them, but the opposite is seen in our own marriage. The reason is that some people have worked on their marriage *by paying the necessary price* and that is why they are enjoying the fruits of their labour. It is said, “The way you make your bed is the way you will lie on it”.

Your marriage is as *good* or as *sweet* as you make it. Some couples, because of the *negative things* they are seeing in their marriage, accuse each other of being responsible. They point accusing fingers at each other for being responsible. Some even say many bad things about their spouse, even *calling him or her names;* some think that marrying that man or that woman was a mistake.

*It is not so, your marriage was not a mistake,* *but you are the mistake.*

Your *habit* is the mistake
Your *character* is the mistake
Your *manner, anger, unforgiveness, laziness, lack of love, lack of affection, lack of attention, impatience, bitterness, selfishness, ignorance, stinginess, not being considerate, infidelity and lovelessness are the mistakes.*

Talking about bitterness. Some still dream of a marriage with their ex seeing your spouse as a stumbling block. *Wake up* and smell the coffee. Be *content* with your spouse. That *behavior* is your mistake.

So *get up now* and *build your marriage* because it is not a mistake.
*Divorce or separation* are never an options.
Be kind in your language, be humble in your manner, be appreciative in your character and be lovely in your attitude.
*Amend your ways and decisions.* Give your spouse a *stress free life. GOD BLESS YOU*IN JESUS NAME

25/10/2023

*THE TRUTH ABOUT MARRIAGE!*

In marriage there are days you wish you had remained single.

There are also months you look at your spouse and wonder 'what was I thinking when I married him/her?💘

There are times you'll wish you had married someone different 😭

😭 There are times you feel like divorce is the only option left.

There are instances you feel betrayed beyond recovery.

There are also times you feel your love is been taken for granted. You are not alone.

*The truth is that every marriage has it's fair share of trials/difficult moments.*

Every marriage goes through rough times.

Every Husband and wife experiences perplexing moments.

Remember it's the rough surfaces that sharpen the best.

*Rough times are meant to build your marriage not break it.

*The beauty of marriage is in realizing that difficult seasons are temporal moments*.

Straight roads don't make experienced drivers. Keep moving on.

Whether married or single, this prayer is for you. No power will damage your marriage in Jesus name.🙏

God bless every marriage in Jesus name,
AMEN! 💋

23/08/2023

18/04/2022

IS IT A SCAM OR BREACH IN NIGERIA?

You Bought , A Pole, You Bought The Cable & You Bought The Meter. And You Contributed Money To Buy Or Replace The Community Transformer.

As Soon As You Have Done All These, They Automatically Become Their Property.

Then The Fraudster Electricity Distribution Companies Will, Without Taking The Meter Reading, Send Outrageous Estimated Bills To You For Power Never Consumed. And If You Dare Raise A Question Against Their Barefaced Robbery, They Will Come And Remove The Cable You Bought With Your Money As Their Property.

Then You Will Be Charged What They Call Re-connection Fee To Get Your Cable Fixed Back.

And You Will Have To Bribe Their Personnel To replace A melted Fuse Or You Will Remain Perpetually In Darkness And Still Pay The Bill At The End Of The Month.

The Most Heinous Part Of Their Corporate Crime Against The People Is The Revenue Target They Set For Their Personnel As To How Much They Intend To Rob Nigerians Every Month.

Let this post go round, this daylight robbery from Electricity Distribution Companies Must Stop.

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