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Don't Rule out The God's Factor. Yesterday, I posted a video and I did same on my WhatsApp update in the afternoon. Imme...
03/02/2025

Don't Rule out The God's Factor.

Yesterday, I posted a video and I did same on my WhatsApp update in the afternoon. Immediately, some people reached out to my inbox on how it had impacted them positively.

A particular lady sent a message that struck me the most, she said, "Whenever she is having negative thoughts she always overcomes it with the word of God.

In everything we do in life, be it business, sports, eating a healthy diet, relocating, teaching, marriage, etc. They have biblical principles that back it up. Apostle Paul trained his body like an athlete, Daniels fasted, Esther determined to win, and Abraham relocated from one country to another..

Also any challenges you are passing through in life, someone had already passed through it and overcome . Hannah took a step to Shiloh, The three Hebrew men overcame by trusting only God Almighty.

I remember when pastor Bims of blessed memory was invited for the second time as a guest speaker for the sister's campus fellowship conference at AAU Ekpoma she brought with her some flashcards that had different Bible verses printed on each one, which she called: "The promises of God for your life " that was my first time of hearing the word flashcards.Everyone was handed a card each and mine was Isaiah 45:2.

That verse speaks directly to the problem I was having at that time, and also paved the way out of that problem. This was because I kept confessing that word to myself, over and over again.

Last week, I concluded a paid 31-day boot camp with a coach. We were up to 80 women on that platform. Her coaching approach is from the biblical angle, applying God's truth to any specific situation in our lives.

Recently, I read where pastor E.A Adeboye wrote on how he solved his thesis with God's leading.

Using God's wisdom to solve situations of life will reveal his truth to you. Locate a position in the word of God and you will overcome the obstruction of this world. Hebrews 1:3





31/01/2025

Dear Woman,

Have you ever noticed how often you get caught in a repetitive cycle of negative self-talk and self-sabotage? It can be challenging when we become our own worst critics.

Check out the phrases that may frequently cross your mind or linger as negative thoughts

"I am shy."
"I am not confident.
"I am too old."
"I am too young."
"I don't have money."
"I don't think I can do this."

Each of these statements can create a heavy weight of doubt and limit your potential. It's time to say, "Enough is enough!" You have the power to make meaningful adjustments in your life. If you don’t, you might find yourself stuck in one place, unable to move forward.

Remember, our unconscious mind influences our conscious thoughts and behaviors. The beliefs we hold can shape our reality, in ways we're not even aware of.

Take a moment to reflect on this, Your thoughts are not your identity; they are simply thoughts.

You can challenge and change them. By doing so, you can break free from self-imposed limitations and step into a greater version of yourself.

Listen to this: 👇





Your best teacher is someone who has overcome the experience you are going through.
31/01/2025

Your best teacher is someone who has overcome the experience you are going through.

The phrase "Go big or go home" is a motivational statement that often overwhelms some people, leaving them confused when...
30/01/2025

The phrase "Go big or go home" is a motivational statement that often overwhelms some people, leaving them confused when starting something new. While it’s meant to encourage greater effort, many feel pressured and intimidated, leading to procrastination and an inclination to postpone their goals. Some might even conclude that "success is not for the faint-hearted." Others fall into the trap of perfectionism, planning endlessly without making any real progress.

Instead, we should look into the idea of "Go small or go home." Start with what you have afterall, Consistency is more important than intensity. Consistency doesn’t mean being perfect; it’s about making progress every day, no matter how small.

For instance, if your goal is to read every day, start by reading a book for just 10 to 15 minutes. If your aim is to write daily, begin with 4 to 7 sentences each day. If you can write more, that's fantastic! Try to do this consistently for 10 to 14 days straight, without skipping. This could involve writing an online post, journaling, or jotting down thoughts in a notebook. You’ll likely find that the pressure feels significantly lighter, making it more doable .

If you can't start your business as a wholesaler start with retailing.

I have seen mallams who started with selling sweets and drinks in a small kiosks and later moved to big shops, selling foodstuffs in large quantities.

I am not here to encourage complacency, but rather to remind you of the value of small beginnings.

Start your purposeful journey today, and it can lead to a fulfilling life.

I love you. 😊




30/01/2025

Here are some valuable insights to consider as you seek clarity on how to live a purposeful life.




29/01/2025

Last December, after I had just finished a one on one counseling session with one of my clients who was preparing for her wedding, she called me back and asked a straightforward question about How I discover my purpose I clarified whether she meant my purpose as a counselor or as a coach, and she said both. We ended up talking for two hours about purpose, marriage, career, potential, and talents.

I shared some insights based on my personal life experiences and the knowledge I have acquired along the way. While I also assessed her thoughts, she provided her answers.

These are some questions that revolved around the topic of "purpose." Listen to it.

My next video will be about finding and living with purpose.




SHE ABANDONED HER CHILDRENLast year, I was shocked when I stepped outside of the house in the morning and I discovered...
25/01/2025

SHE ABANDONED HER CHILDREN

Last year, I was shocked when I stepped outside of the house in the morning and I discovered that a pigeon had built a nest right on the window paraphet of our guest restroom, the window was a bit high and it's usually keep closed.

The bird had already laid two small eggs there. Every time I go to that corner of the building, it would quickly fly away in its timid manner as pigeons are said to be frightened birds.
I noticed it liked to perch on our fence or on the roof of our next neighbour across the fence and, watch me from there.

This continued for over a week, and then I decided to give it some space and stayed away for three days or so, On the fourth day, I went back, but there was no sign of the pigeon. I keep checking it for four consecutive days, and while the eggs were still there, the bird was nowhere to be found. I mentioned this to my hubby, and we joked that maybe it had flown off to find a new partner. Still, I feel a bit sad thinking those eggs might never hatch.

This situation reminds me of how sometimes people have wonderful ideas, dreams, and plans but may not follow through on them. Just like the pigeon laid its eggs but didn’t sit on its eggs long enough probably 21 days for them to hatch, many had got scared when they faced challenges right before a breakthrough.

Instead of giving up, it’s important to keep trying, persevere, and face your fear, revisit those abandoned projects, and push forward.
The world is waiting to celebrate you!




I had a cough that lasted for a week, not a chronic one, though, but I always bring out phlegm, anytime I coughed.After...
22/01/2025

I had a cough that lasted for a week, not a chronic one, though, but I always bring out phlegm, anytime I coughed.After some days, it subsided a bit.

I am aware that wet cough requires one to take an expectorant for its treatment, so I visited the pharmacy and met a young lady, who was there all alone. I explained my symptoms to her. Instead, she gave me a subtle stare for a few seconds, and I was wondering why she did that.

Anyway, I waited for her to reach for the counter, and she brought out two different types of cough syrup that weren't expectorants together with few pieces septrin tablets, I tried to argue with her that, that's not what I asked for, but she insisted I should go and take it. I wanted to just walk away at that moment, probably to get it at another pharmacy..." okay, bring it and how much"? I told her, turning back and deciding to try it out. Then, I remembered that the cough was no longer the wet type. Rather, it was more of an irritating and itchy type, probably because of the warm lemon water I always take in the mornings. That was when it dawned on me that she knew the right medication to give me by merely watching my facial expressions and listening to the sound of my voice, no creakiness, I guess.

And this experience got me thinking that, Most times we feel that we know ourselves just because we embody ourselves. I want you to know that most people don't even know their identity, they don't know who they are, what they represent, and the potential that is embedded in them until they undergo the journey of self-awareness, through introspection and evaluation.

Examine yourself to know your personality type, temparaments, beliefs and your values, set time for journaling to catch your thoughts, ask yourself questions in your place of solitude to understand whom you are and what your purpose is.

Also, don't think that you can figure everything out alone, Learn to lean on others. This will open doors you couldn't unlock alone.

21/01/2025

Show me your friends and I will show you your future"

Nurturing meaningful connections with others can bring joy, support, and fulfillment to our lives.

1:Self-Reflection

When I started coaching/counseling clients who are couples, On the topic of self-reflection, I pointed out to them that before each of them can develop positive relationships that will withstand the test of time, each of them must first understand who he/she is before understanding their partner.

Yes, it's not always easy to express who we are, our unique self, that's why it's good to make time for self-reflection, acknowledging your values, boundaries, and emotions."

2: Empathy and Active Listening

So many people are no longer patient with others instead, they display selfishness when it comes to hearing others out. I am more of a listener than a talker. This quality makes people drawn to me and want to confide in me. So empathy and active listening are the foundations of positive relationships. Seek to understand others' perspectives, and show you care through engaged listening. Don't be in a conversation where you do all the talking alone.


3: Effective Communication

You don't need to have known each other for ages before you cultivate effective communication between or among yourselves. Don't say what will hurt the other person deliberately if you want to connect with them.

"Clear and compassionate communication is key. Be honest, direct, and respectful in your interactions, and make sure to resolve conflicts constructively."

4: Support and Encouragement.

Connecting with others should be combined efforts and not one-sided. There was an online trend last week about "nsaku" Which will come from both one person and should reciprocated by the other person. Life is give and take.

So, positive relationships thrive on mutual support and encouragement.

Celebrate others' successes, offer help when needed, and encourage a sense of belonging."
Friends who don't celebrate with you during your success and try to cover up with negatively aren't your true friends.

5: Forgiveness and Understanding

forgiveness are very important in the course of nurturing positive relationships.
"No relationship is perfect.

Practice forgiveness, let go of grudges, and endeavor to understand the uniqueness and complexities of others."

6: Nurture and Prioritize

In nurturing a positive relationship "out of sight is out of mind" should not rule over prioritising each other(s).

Make time for the people who matter. Prioritize quality interactions, and show your love and appreciation through small gestures and thoughtful actions."

"Positive relationships are a treasure. By developing empathy, effective communication, support, forgiveness, and nurturing connection, we can build strong, loving bonds that enrich our lives.

Remember, There is a popular saying that "Your network is your net worth"
We all need valuable friends who encourage us to grow.





Wear a smile and have friends; wear a scowl and have wrinkles, what do we live for if not to make the world less difficu...
18/01/2025

Wear a smile and have friends; wear a scowl and have wrinkles, what do we live for if not to make the world less difficult for each other.

I remember when I didn't use to smile, and people misunderstood me as a snub and proud, not knowing if I was going through some stuff at that time.

People often say that other's opinions don't matter just do you! However, there are still some opinions that matter especially when it has to do with one's character and success in life.

For example, Anger, which is a great character flaw has done a lot of damage to the lives of so many people.

I have heard of someone who lost millions of dollars in contracts due to his inability to control his Anger before the panel, and before that time, he was somebody who didn't embrace other opinions.

Some opinions still matter, to some extent, with emphasis on 'some extent' and not all.

When we talk about self-awareness, there is no way you can know yourself completely. Others will still point out where you are lagging. That's why a place for a coach and mentor is very important.

Only listen to those who can help shape your character and propel you towards growth and success. Not those who try to bring you down or limit your abilities and potential.

Back to my story, I know that I look more beautiful when I smile. Thank you 😁




Three things that made you in life 1. VISION Your vision is a clear and compelling mental picture of what you want to a...
17/01/2025

Three things that made you in life

1. VISION

Your vision is a clear and compelling mental picture of what you want to achieve or become in life. I remembered my greatest dream then was to get a job . Vision is a long time goal that inspires motives you to work towards making it a reality. Having a vision comes with statement, and sometimes visuals as a reminder.

Why is vision important?

Having a clear vision is important for several reasons

A. Direction and Focus
B. Motivation and Inspiration
C. Decision making
D. Purpose and Meaning

2. POTENTIAL

Your Potential refers to the inherent abilities, skills and talents that an individual possesses, which can be developed and utilized to achieve success and fulfilment in life.

Types of Potential

A. Innate Potential
B. Developed Potential
C. Hidden Potential

3. PEOPLE

Your People are individuals who supports, influence, and interact with us throughout our lives. These individuals can include.

A. Family Members
B. Friends
C. Colleagues
D. Mentors
E. Role Models
F. Community Members

Why are people Important?

People play a vital role in our lives, providing

A. Emotional support and connection
B. Guidance and Mentorship
C. Opportunities for growth and learning
D. Networking and access to resources
E. Diverse perspective and ideas
F. Sense of belonging and community.

What other things do you think can be added to this lists drop your thoughts in the comment section.





17/01/2025

If you want your spouse to support your dreams, you first need to support theirs.

I remember when my husband and I had just gotten married and I had to move back to Minna, Niger State. That was where I had served as an NYSC corper and met him.

I joined him there, briefly before all of us relocated back to Abuja. At that time, he owned a limited company specialized in ICT, Engineering, and sales.
I watched him organize training sessions for staff in government schools, judiciary staff, Nigeria Police, and Paramilitaries personnel covering both the practical and theoretical aspects.

During this time, I was also pursuing a postgraduate program in computer science at the Federal University of Technology Minna after earning my first degree in Geophysics from Ambrose Alli University Ekpoma.

During the holidays, I took the opportunity to learn the practical aspects of computers from some of his staff, most of whom were boys, including those who came for their industrial training (IT). Together, we would dismantle a Central Processing Unit (CPU) and then couple it back. The HDD, RAM, ROM, motherboard, processor, power pack, and VGA cables are what I found to be quite interesting.

One day, my husband had outside training sessions at two different locations. He took one of his staff members with him, while two other boys were assigned to another location. I was left alone with a lady who came for her IT and a recent graduate from the company. When students began arriving at the hall that we used for training. I decided to step in for the first time and pair the students according to their skill levels, and I chose to teach them the basics.

Most of the time, they were paired in twos or threes, and I gradually trained them.

My husband was thrilled that I was helping to fill the gap left by a lack of staff, but what he didn’t know was that teaching computer theory and practicals wasn’t my thing, I was only doing it to support him.

Fast forward to when we arrived in Abuja. Some of the boys stayed back in Minna, except for two who came with us, Samuel and Lukman Alatise, who now works at the ICT section of Federal Road Safety Corps.

When it was time to start training at one of the three UBE schools for government staff and one private school called Intellectuals School at Pasali Kuje Area Council, Abuja, we had to call for John Imeli, that's another staff to join us in Abuja. While this was going on, I was still searching, applying, and hoping to get a government job.

When we were in Minna, I had already had my first child, So a few months after we got to Kuje, I registered for hair braiding training, and Samuel, one of the boys who were with us, unexpectedly announced that he would be traveling back to Minna the following morning to see his mother, and my husband permitted him to go.
This took us by surprise, especially since he was in charge of one of the UBE schools closer to our home and the hairdresser’s shop. We had no choice but to let him go.

That night, my husband turned to me and said Baby, you had to take charge of the school staff starting the next day, and their training sessions used to be three times a week. I couldn't sleep well that night, and even the following day, I stayed up late preparing for what I would teach them since it was my first time teaching many people at a time, I didn't want to go and fumble when I got there.

On the third day, after missing a day, I had to take two days off from my madam, who owns the hairdressing saloon, strapped my baby on my back, and headed to school.

When I got there, those teachers and their nonteaching staff, now my students, asked about their tutor, Samuel, and I explained that he had returned to our headquarters office in Minna and that I was now their new tutor. They had had some confusion over what they had been taught in MS Excel, so I started their training from scratch. Pie chart, bar chart, histogram, etc.

I remember when I would come with extra wrappers, snacks, water, and toys to keep my baby occupied and lay him under a nearby table whenever he was asleep.

I also make sure I always arrive there before the classes to ensure all the computers are well connected and come with laptops, just in case...Some of the students even helped carry my baby especially when we had to move some components upstairs.

My husband was impressed and happy that I was helping out, especially when I had to combine my academic knowledge with the practical skills I gained in his company to give back to others without asking him for payment, even while I was still searching for a government job. I was just volunteering and supporting him.

Couples who support each other's vision will enjoy their marriage more profoundly.

Dear women and men inclusive, are you one of those who say they can’t share their money, time, and resources with their partner?

Support your partner’s vision, even when you feel clueless about your own. When it’s your turn, you will receive massive support.

Marriage also should not hinder your personal growth, rather, we need each other's support to evolve as individuals.




15/01/2025

Have you ever found yourself wondering why you do the things you do? Or have you spent time thinking about what your purpose in life is ?

It's important to know that we’re not just here to exist, we all have a unique calling(s) that are unique, and might even change as we go through different stages in life.

Your purpose is what motivates you to move forward, even on the tough days when you feel discouraged.

So how do you know whay your purpose(s) is

What is your "Why"!





Dear woman, If you paved the way for the spirit of fear to take hold of your life, other spirits will gain an entrance t...
15/01/2025

Dear woman,

If you paved the way for the spirit of fear to take hold of your life, other spirits will gain an entrance to have a grasp on your heart making you stagnant, and unable to move forward in confidence and assurance.

Self doubt
Limiting beliefs
Negativity
Imposter syndrome
Procrastination
Low self-esteem
And it's other relatives

Stop feeding your fears, instead starve it to death!






FOCUS on your FOCUS! I used to to be someone who is often distracted by shinning objects, if I see an advert on starting...
14/01/2025

FOCUS on your FOCUS!

I used to to be someone who is often distracted by shinning objects, if I see an advert on starting a new business I will click and registered.

It got worse to the state that I will register for three to four courses at a time, some are not even self paced, I will be running Helter Skelter from one coach on a life class to the other that are scheduled for the same time, to catch up with them.

sometimes I will miss out on the ones that matters at that point.The painful part is losing on all sides and the worse of all is the burn out that comes as a result of my lack of focus.

Improving focus requires a combination of strategies that help you manage distractions, build your attention span, and develop a consistent routine. Here are some versatile tips to help you improve your focus on anything you want to apply it to.

1. Set clear goals and priorities
Before starting a task, define what needs to be accomplished and prioritize your goals.

2. Create a conducive environment
Eliminate distractions by choosing a quiet, comfortable, and clutter-free workspace.

3. Use the Pomodoro Technique
Work in focused 25-minute increments, followed by a 5-minute break.

4. Practice mindfulness meditation
Regular mindfulness meditation can improve attention and reduce mind-wandering.

5. Develop a pre-work routine
Establish a consistent pre-work routine to signal your brain that it's time to focus.

6. Avoid multitasking
Focus on a single task at a time to avoid dividing your attention.

7. Take breaks
Regular breaks can help recharge your focus and prevent burnout.

8. Exercise regularly
Regular physical activity improves cognitive function and boosts focus.

9. Get enough sleep
Adequate sleep is essential for cognitive function, memory consolidation, and focus.

10. Limit digital distractions
Use tools like website blockers or phone apps to minimize digital distractions.

11. Stay hydrated and energized
Drink plenty of water and eat nutritious food to maintain your energy levels.

12. Practice attention-building activities
Engage in activities that require sustained attention, such as reading, puzzles, or learning a new skill.

Remember, improving focus takes time and practice. Be patient, consistent, and be kind to yourself as you develop new habits and strategies to enhance your focus.
Success is at your fingertips





13/01/2025

The Power of Positive Thinking

Every time you tell yourself, "I can't do this," you create a mental barrier that hinders your progress.

This negative mindset can prevent you from reaching your full potential. However, when you choose to push through challenges and believe in your abilities, you open doors to endless possibilities.

By adopting a positive attitude and perseverance, you can overcome obstacles and achieve greatness.

Success is not just about talent, it's about determination and resilience. When you commit to your goals and maintain a can-do spirit, you set yourself on a path to becoming the best in your field.




12/01/2025

Let me share a story about how I first experienced a shift in my perspective about living a life of impact and purpose. Even though I had limiting beliefs, I later got back on track.

I have always shared how I used to say I would like to be a top executive in a big office, I am not against white-collar jobs. You can also impact people while doing your 9-5.

Anyway, the first shift ever that opened my eyes to a purposeful life, even though I didn't pursue it immediately,I will still say it was my first turning point. I had just finished my last papers from AAU Ekpoma and was still hanging around afterwards. While in my off-campus rented apartment sketching a picture of a friend, I had always loved sketching, and I would draw to look exactly like the people I was drawing. Sometimes, I go to my friend's place who are also artists.

Back to my story,

As I was still sketching, two young people, a guy, and a lady, knocked on my door; they were out evangelizing, going from hostel to hostel, and they handed me a flier inviting me to their fellowship on campus. I told them that I was a graduate but would try to attend their next service. They collected my number for follow-up and sent me reminders.

I had the fellowship that I attended as a student WLBC campus fellowship, and served as an usher. We had been sent off and were even given valuable gifts, so I don't feel the need to show up there again.

When I got to that fellowship I discovered that it was a newly established one. Their worship and praise ministrations were powerful, and it got to the time of sermon, this young lady mounted the pulpit and preached a message that was full of great wisdom that surpassed her age. " Be a preacher of God's words", I can't forget the topic of her message. I was genuinely amazed and wondering how and when she got herself equipped with those powerful messages, I started jotting down as much as I could to refer back to it later. At the same time, I found myself envisioning myself doing same , sharing messages just like her.

When I got home, I started practicing some of her words in front of the mirror over and over. I thought to myself, “Wow, this is the life I want a life of impact!” Little did I know, God had been watching me this whole time. I’ve always admired women ministers like Pastor Bimbo Odukoya, of blessed memory, Rev. Christy Bature, and Mama Helen Oritshejafor whenever they visited our sister's campus fellowship, but I never knew I would be a preacher, coach, and a counsellor today

Then, God introduced me to a wonderful man an engineer who later became a pastor. At one point, I wasn't pleased with him becoming a pastor because both my paternal grandfather and father were pastors. But God reminded me of the vow I had made at the Age Of seventeen when I gave my life to him that I would serve Him with all my heart. (There were lots of distractions though). At that point, I knew that I had to carry on the mantle and embrace the callings that God had blessed me with.

I have helped intending couples resolve conflicts in their relationship, helped women who are stuck to gain clarity on what to do,to discover their purpose and became founder of businesses too.

And you know what? This is just the beginning...

If you are the one whom God had sent out to impact the lives of others in your divine area of Assignments do not hesitate to yield to the calling of God. The lives and souls that God sent you to, are waiting for your manifestation.

If you want to make good of your time you've got to know what is important and then give it all you've got.

Give your time to your highest and best skills and talents. What is that thing you can do well?
Give your attention to it and bless others' life with it. Your purpose is waiting to be fulfilled.




10/01/2025

You will enter your realm of glory in the name of Jesus's!




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Dear Woman, Have you ever noticed how often you get caught in a repetitive cycle of negative self-talk and self-sabotage? It can be challenging when we become our own worst critics. Check out the phrases that may frequently cross your mind or linger as negative thoughts "I am shy." "I am not confident. "I am too old." "I am too young." "I don't have money." "I don't think I can do this." Each of these statements can create a heavy weight of doubt and limit your potential. It's time to say, "Enough is enough!" You have the power to make meaningful adjustments in your life. If you don’t, you might find yourself stuck in one place, unable to move forward. Remember, our unconscious mind influences our conscious thoughts and behaviors. The beliefs we hold can shape our reality, in ways we're not even aware of. Take a moment to reflect on this, Your thoughts are not your identity; they are simply thoughts. You can challenge and change them. By doing so, you can break free from self-imposed limitations and step into a greater version of yourself. Listen to this: 👇 #KFT #kemiflorencetowoju #LifePurposeJourney #becomingapurposefulwomanwithkft #fulfilingpurposeofcreationbyliftingothers

Here are some valuable insights to consider as you seek clarity on how to live a purposeful life. #KFT #kemiflorencetowoju #becomingapurposefulwomanwithkft #fulfilingpurposeofcreationbyliftingothers

Last December, after I had just finished a one on one counseling session with one of my clients who was preparing for her wedding, she called me back and asked a straightforward question about How I discover my purpose I clarified whether she meant my purpose as a counselor or as a coach, and she said both. We ended up talking for two hours about purpose, marriage, career, potential, and talents. I shared some insights based on my personal life experiences and the knowledge I have acquired along the way. While I also assessed her thoughts, she provided her answers. These are some questions that revolved around the topic of "purpose." Listen to it. My next video will be about finding and living with purpose. #KFT #kemiflorencetowoju #becomingapurposefulwomanwithkft #fulfillingpurposeofcreationbyliftingothers

Show me your friends and I will show you your future" Nurturing meaningful connections with others can bring joy, support, and fulfillment to our lives. 1:Self-Reflection When I started coaching/counseling clients who are couples, On the topic of self-reflection, I pointed out to them that before each of them can develop positive relationships that will withstand the test of time, each of them must first understand who he/she is before understanding their partner. Yes, it's not always easy to express who we are, our unique self, that's why it's good to make time for self-reflection, acknowledging your values, boundaries, and emotions." 2: Empathy and Active Listening So many people are no longer patient with others instead, they display selfishness when it comes to hearing others out. I am more of a listener than a talker. This quality makes people drawn to me and want to confide in me. So empathy and active listening are the foundations of positive relationships. Seek to understand others' perspectives, and show you care through engaged listening. Don't be in a conversation where you do all the talking alone. 3: Effective Communication You don't need to have known each other for ages before you cultivate effective communication between or among yourselves. Don't say what will hurt the other person deliberately if you want to connect with them. "Clear and compassionate communication is key. Be honest, direct, and respectful in your interactions, and make sure to resolve conflicts constructively." 4: Support and Encouragement. Connecting with others should be combined efforts and not one-sided. There was an online trend last week about "nsaku" Which will come from both one person and should reciprocated by the other person. Life is give and take. So, positive relationships thrive on mutual support and encouragement. Celebrate others' successes, offer help when needed, and encourage a sense of belonging." Friends who don't celebrate with you dur

If you want your spouse to support your dreams, you first need to support theirs. I remember when my husband and I had just gotten married and I had to move back to Minna, Niger State. That was where I had served as an NYSC corper and met him. I joined him there, briefly before all of us relocated back to Abuja. At that time, he owned a limited company specialized in ICT, Engineering, and sales. I watched him organize training sessions for staff in government schools, judiciary staff, Nigeria Police, and Paramilitaries personnel covering both the practical and theoretical aspects. During this time, I was also pursuing a postgraduate program in computer science at the Federal University of Technology Minna after earning my first degree in Geophysics from Ambrose Alli University Ekpoma. During the holidays, I took the opportunity to learn the practical aspects of computers from some of his staff, most of whom were boys, including those who came for their industrial training (IT). Together, we would dismantle a Central Processing Unit (CPU) and then couple it back. The HDD, RAM, ROM, motherboard, processor, power pack, and VGA cables are what I found to be quite interesting. One day, my husband had outside training sessions at two different locations. He took one of his staff members with him, while two other boys were assigned to another location. I was left alone with a lady who came for her IT and a recent graduate from the company. When students began arriving at the hall that we used for training. I decided to step in for the first time and pair the students according to their skill levels, and I chose to teach them the basics. Most of the time, they were paired in twos or threes, and I gradually trained them. My husband was thrilled that I was helping to fill the gap left by a lack of staff, but what he didn’t know was that teaching computer theory and practicals wasn’t my thing, I was only doing it to support him. Fast forward to when we arrived i

Have you ever found yourself wondering why you do the things you do? Or have you spent time thinking about what your purpose in life is ? It's important to know that we’re not just here to exist, we all have a unique calling(s) that are unique, and might even change as we go through different stages in life. Your purpose is what motivates you to move forward, even on the tough days when you feel discouraged. So how do you know whay your purpose(s) is What is your "Why"! #KFT #kemiflorencetowoju #LifePurposeJourney #BecomingAPurposefulWoman #fulfillingpurposeofcreationbyliftingothers

The Power of Positive Thinking Every time you tell yourself, "I can't do this," you create a mental barrier that hinders your progress. This negative mindset can prevent you from reaching your full potential. However, when you choose to push through challenges and believe in your abilities, you open doors to endless possibilities. By adopting a positive attitude and perseverance, you can overcome obstacles and achieve greatness. Success is not just about talent, it's about determination and resilience. When you commit to your goals and maintain a can-do spirit, you set yourself on a path to becoming the best in your field. #KFT #kemiflorencetowoju #BecomingAPurposefulWoman #fulfilingpurposeofcreationbyliftingothers

Let me share a story about how I first experienced a shift in my perspective about living a life of impact and purpose. Even though I had limiting beliefs, I later got back on track. I have always shared how I used to say I would like to be a top executive in a big office, I am not against white-collar jobs. You can also impact people while doing your 9-5. Anyway, the first shift ever that opened my eyes to a purposeful life, even though I didn't pursue it immediately,I will still say it was my first turning point. I had just finished my last papers from AAU Ekpoma and was still hanging around afterwards. While in my off-campus rented apartment sketching a picture of a friend, I had always loved sketching, and I would draw to look exactly like the people I was drawing. Sometimes, I go to my friend's place who are also artists. Back to my story, As I was still sketching, two young people, a guy, and a lady, knocked on my door; they were out evangelizing, going from hostel to hostel, and they handed me a flier inviting me to their fellowship on campus. I told them that I was a graduate but would try to attend their next service. They collected my number for follow-up and sent me reminders. I had the fellowship that I attended as a student WLBC campus fellowship, and served as an usher. We had been sent off and were even given valuable gifts, so I don't feel the need to show up there again. When I got to that fellowship I discovered that it was a newly established one. Their worship and praise ministrations were powerful, and it got to the time of sermon, this young lady mounted the pulpit and preached a message that was full of great wisdom that surpassed her age. " Be a preacher of God's words", I can't forget the topic of her message. I was genuinely amazed and wondering how and when she got herself equipped with those powerful messages, I started jotting down as much as I could to refer back to it later. At the same time, I found myself envisioning mysel

You will enter your realm of glory in the name of Jesus's! #KFT #kemiflorencetowoju #tcgmi #fulfilingpurposeofcreationbyliftingothers

You will dance a dance of joy before the end of this month! Good things are coming your way! #KFT #kemiflorencetowoju #tcgmi #fulfilingpurposeofcreationbyliftingothers

Preparation of the medical outreach and church's dedication that took place on the 20th to 22nd of December 2024. God took absolute control. I pray for you 2025 is your year of testimonies and new songs! #KFT #tcgmi #fulfilingpurposeofcreationbyliftingothers

The fast lane to success or failure begins with your mindset".( kft). Whether you succeedd or not, it has to do with what you believe and confess to yourself. The Bible says, "As he thinketh in his heart, so he is".And " Out of the abundance of heart the mouth speaketh". The reason why people often pick familiar misery over foreign happiness is because of their mindset look at this scenario, a young lady who had encountered many failures in business have developed a low self-esteem and over time become a pessimist...I don't think I can ever succeed again, or a young man who had got several rejections from seeking employment and had developed negative outlook to life will say, "I don't think I deserve good things of life that's why this job is not coming through. Limiting beliefs and self doubt all stems up from Negative mindset .In other to conquer it and unlock your potential it will start with a shift. Let's dive in #KFT #kemiflorencetowoju #beapurposefulwoman #fulfilingpurposeofcreationbyliftingothers

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