02/10/2025
Rita’s Musing
Most men do not abandon their homes because their wives refuse to give them peace, as is often assumed. Rather, many quietly withdraw because their wives neglect something very important, cleanliness. A man may endure arguments, nagging, or even disagreements, but when his home and his wife are not hygienic, it becomes difficult for him to feel comfortable. The truth is that no man enjoys being close to a woman who does not take care of herself or the environment around her.
Some wives are quick to complain that their husbands no longer come close to them, without realizing that their lack of hygiene is the silent reason for that distance. A woman who does not bathe regularly, leaves her hair and body unkempt, wears dirty clothes, or allows the house to smell will naturally push her husband away. Love thrives where there is freshness and attraction, and hygiene plays a major role in sustaining that.
Keeping a home clean goes beyond sweeping and mopping the floor. It includes proper care of the kitchen, bedroom, bathroom, and the entire living environment. It also includes personal hygiene, taking care of one’s body, maintaining fresh breath, wearing clean clothes, and creating an atmosphere of orderliness. When a man returns from a stressful day at work and meets a clean, fresh-smelling home and a well-kept wife, he feels welcomed and valued.
Hygiene is not just about appearance, it also shows respect. A woman who keeps herself and her home clean is indirectly saying to her husband, “I care about you, and I respect you enough to give you comfort.” On the other hand, poor hygiene sends the message of carelessness and neglect. Over time, this creates emotional distance, no matter how much peace or love the couple once had.
Every woman must understand that peace and cleanliness go hand in hand in building a happy home. It is not enough to say, “I don’t trouble my husband,” while ignoring hygiene. A clean environment brings peace of mind, while a dirty one brings irritation and frustration. When cleanliness is made a priority, it strengthens love, restores intimacy, and makes the home a place every man longs to return to.
In the end, hygiene is key. It is the hidden foundation that keeps respect alive, preserves attraction, and sustains love in marriage. A clean home is not just beautiful to the eyes, but also refreshing to the soul.
RE-Reportersnews
2/10/2025
Benin City
