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15/06/2024

Think about this:
If you turn off your phone for a week, how many people will come looking for you?
Appreciate them, they are your true F&F.

15/06/2024

Whenever your client's card delines at your POS checkout, please treat that as confidential. Don't go screaming "Sir, Insufficient Funds"!
You'll lose that client forever.

26/05/2024

From my inbox: Please help me sir and hide my id.
I am married to someone I don't love. I am still in love with my ex. What should I do?

25/05/2024

Everyone must choose one of two pains: The pain of discipline or the pain of regret.

21/05/2024

Nigerian Universities: Military Barracks or Learning Centers

Nigerian universities have a reputation for being tough, and not in the good, motivational way. Picture a military academy where cadets are yelled at, punished, and pushed to their limits, except instead of physical training, it's all about mental endurance. Enter the Nigerian university classroom, where lecturers often rule with an iron fist, making learning feel more like a battlefield than a place of enlightenment. If you've seen the Bollywood classic "Three Idiots," you might see some uncanny resemblances.

The Three Idiots Parallel
"Three Idiots" is a heartwarming yet satirical take on the educational system in India. It follows three friends who navigate the pressures of engineering college. One of the main themes is the overemphasis on grades over true learning, a concept all too familiar to Nigerian students. Just like in the movie, Nigerian lecturers often prioritize rote learning and memorization over creativity and understanding.

A is for God, B is for the Lecturers
There's a saying in Nigerian universities: "A is for God, B is for the lecturers, and C is for the very gifted." This phrase encapsulates the grim reality of academic life. Lecturers often make it clear that high grades are not meant for mere mortals. This can be disheartening for students who feel they are set up to fail from the start. Just like Virus, the rigid and traditional principal in "Three Idiots," some Nigerian lecturers seem to relish in their power, creating a toxic environment where fear, rather than curiosity, drives students.

Toxic Learning Environment
The result of such an oppressive system is predictable. Students are stressed, anxious, and in extreme cases, drop out or face severe mental health issues. The story of Joy Lobo in "Three Idiots" who takes his own life due to academic pressure is a sobering reflection of real-life tragedies in Nigeria. The military-style discipline, where students are expected to follow orders without question, stifles creativity and innovation. It turns education into a survival game rather than a journey of discovery.

Humor in the Chaos
Despite the grim reality, humor can be a coping mechanism. Imagine students navigating through this academic jungle, using wit and sarcasm as their machetes. Picture a student saying, "If the lecturer was a character in 'Three Idiots,' he'd be Virus, but with an extra dose of meanness." Or another quipping, "In this university, getting an A is like finding water in the Sahara; you know it exists, but it's probably a mirage."

Lessons for Nigerian Universities
"Three Idiots" teaches us that true education is about fostering curiosity, encouraging innovation, and nurturing passion. Nigerian universities could take a leaf out of Rancho's book (the protagonist in "Three Idiots"), who believes in learning for the sake of knowledge, not for grades. Here are a few lessons Nigerian universities can learn from the movie:

Encourage Critical Thinking: Move away from rote learning and encourage students to understand concepts deeply.

Foster a Supportive Environment: Create a nurturing atmosphere where students feel safe to express their ideas and questions without fear of ridicule or failure.

Recognize Different Talents: Understand that not all students excel in the same way. Some may be brilliant in practical applications, while others may shine in theoretical understanding.

Reduce Stress: Implement measures to reduce the overwhelming pressure on students. Mental health support should be as important as academic support.

Conclusion
In conclusion, Nigerian universities could benefit greatly from the lessons in "Three Idiots." While the movie uses humor to address serious flaws in the educational system, the underlying message is clear: education should be about enlightenment and growth, not just survival. So, the next time you're facing a tough lecturer, remember Rancho's mantra, "All is well," and strive to learn for the joy of learning, even if the system isn't perfect. After all, sometimes the best way to beat the system is to laugh at its absurdities and keep pushing forward.

Aklahyel Goni

19/05/2024

HOW TO TOUCH A WOMAN:

A woman loves to be touched by her man, sensations of love hidden under her skin waiting for him to awaken them.

1. Gently squeeze the palm of her hand when she is scared, it comforts her

2. Gentle squeeze and rub her back when you hug her tight, it makes her feel safe

3. Grab her bum with no apologies, it makes her feel wanted and desired by you, her man

4. Hold her by the waist when you introduce her to your friends and family, it makes her feel secure

5. Gentle rub her hand when she is worrying or has received some bad news, it shows her you care

6. Hold her back when she is in the kitchen cooking and her hands are tied as you tell her how much she means to you, it makes her hardwork worth it

7. Place your hand between or on her breasts as you both sleep, it makes her feel comfortable and warm with you

8. Touch her tummy when she's pregnant, it tells her she is not alone, daddy is there with her

9. Rub her hips down when she is dressing up or when she is relaxing in bed, it makes her feel s*xy

10. Hold her hands when you two are praying, it shows unity before God

11. Sneak from behind and wrap your arms around her, it makes her feel special

12. Massage her shoulders when she says she is tired, it calms her down

13. Stroke gently her back, tracing her spine, it releases sweet shivers all over her body

14. Rub her feet when she's had a long day, it tells her you are serious when you say you will take care of her

15. Oil her body, her back, her elbows, her knees sometimes. Love on the body that you find s*xy

16. Hold her face, her neck as you kiss her, it melts and nicely weakens her. She loves to surrender to your masculine love

17. Play with her fingers as you cuddle and talk, it tells her you're paying attention.

17/05/2024

From my Inbox:
I am a 36-year-old man. I married my wife seven years ago, and we have two sons together. I am seeking advice because I lost my job two years ago due to false allegations of embezzling funds. My wife, who was employed at the time, did not support me and believed I was guilty despite my explanations. Once, she even insulted me by calling me a thief in front of her cousin.
I was deeply hurt and left the room to cry alone; she followed and mocked me for crying, saying that I should be ashamed. The next day, heartbroken, I moved out to stay with a friend.
For a month, there was no communication between us. During that time, I was cleared of all charges, the real perpetrator was discovered, and I was offered reinstatement along with compensation of 37 million Kwacha. I kept this information from my wife and instead requested a divorce, which she did not contest.
Recently, after receiving the compensation, I also secured a new job and began living independently. However, now that my wife has learned about the money, she is trying to halt the divorce process and has been incessantly messaging and calling me. She also contacted my new girlfriend, falsely claiming we are still married and I am lying. Thankfully, my girlfriend is aware of the entire situation and dismissed her claims.
Now, my wife is threatening harm against us both and demanding half of the compensation. When I confronted her about demanding money from someone she labeled a thief, she became more aggressive and threatened legal action. Additionally, she is preventing me from seeing our sons, whom I have continued to support financially through my elder brother.
I am here to seek guidance on how to handle this complex situation, as my wife's aggressive behavior is escalating.

16/05/2024

Fresh Graduate of Business Administration or Business Management with First Class needed for a remote Job.

16/05/2024

NEVER UNDERESTIMATE THE LOVE OF A WOMAN

- She may catch you with another woman and leave the room in anger, making you feel guilty and ashamed. Don't assume she'll never return. Women are capable of forgiveness, but it’s a process. It takes time for her to heal and work through her emotions.

- If she doesn't answer your calls, it doesn't mean she has moved on. She might need time to process her emotions and gather her thoughts. Women often invest significant emotional energy in relationships, making it harder to just move on.

- When she finally calls you back after a few days, don't assume she's completely forgiven you. She may still be hurting inside. Her smile could be masking lingering pain. Women often put on a brave face, so don't assume everything is fine just because she's smiling.

- Remember that a woman's love is not a sign of weakness. She chooses to love you despite your flaws, hoping you'll become a better person. Women are more likely to forgive and give second chances because of their emotional investment. This doesn't make them weak; it shows their strength in handling difficult emotions.

- Women may get hurt but often choose to believe in their partner's potential for growth. Don't take this for granted. Their empathy and understanding might lead them to prioritize their partner's needs over their own. This shows their willingness to build a stronger relationship.

- Flowers and gifts might temporarily ease the pain, but they won't erase past hurts. Her smile might still hide lingering pain. Don't rely solely on material gestures to fix the relationship. Work on building trust and communication to understand each other's needs and desires.

- Women can live with pain and hurt, but they shouldn't have to. Don't repeatedly break her heart and expect unconditional love. Women deserve respect, empathy, and understanding. Respect her boundaries and work to create a safe, supportive environment.

- Never take her love for granted. Cherish and respect her, as she might be the last person to give you a second chance. Women's love and support can be powerful motivators for personal growth. Don't waste this opportunity.

- Loving you doesn't make her foolish, but belittling her feelings does. Treat her with kindness, empathy, and understanding. Avoid gaslighting and emotional manipulation, which can harm her mental health and self-esteem.

- Commit to loving and respecting our women. They deserve genuine love, care, and support. By doing so, we create a healthier and more positive environment for everyone. Strive to be better partners and individuals, and treat women with the love and respect they deserve. Healthy masculinity involves being strong, vulnerable, and empathetic.

16/05/2024

Some Times Quality S*x Can Prevent Adultery and Unnecessary Conflict. Couples Should Have S*x At Least 3 times in a week. S*x Enhances Love In Marriage.

16/05/2024

HOW TO DESTROY A GOOD MARRIAGE IN JUST ONE MONTH

By Bisi Adewale

To destroy a good marriage is very easy than you think, it does not cost anything. I listed here things you can do to destroy a great marriage by just doing them for a Month, no matter how strong the marriage is, it will be destroyed if you do these things.
If you want a great marriage, just do the opposite of everything listed below, if you want to destroy your home, just do them.
❖ Neglect God in your home, don’t give him a chance at all, base everything on self-will, sin and unrighteousness.
❖ Never spend time with your husband, travel from Dubai to Paris, from Newyork to London, from one continent to another
❖ Take your husband for granted regularly, don’t care about him, and call his bluff when he complains.
❖ Nag him ‘to his senses’, complain repeatedly until his eye pop out of his head.
❖ Put your career (business, job or ministry) first; create little or no time for your husband and family.
❖ Attend every party east, west, north and south; don’t ever stay at home at weekend, enjoy yourself that is life.
❖ Hand over your house to your house maid; arrive home around mid-night every week.
❖ Never allow your husband to control you, you went to school he went to; why should he lord it over you?
❖ Challenge every of your husband decision, always make sure you have your way.
❖ Be critical; condemn your husband for his ‘bad behaviour’.
❖ Never create atmosphere of love at home.
❖ Talk often about your ex-boyfriend; let your husband know that your ex is better than him.
❖ Give him s*x anytime you feel like at least s*x is not food.
❖ If you allow him to sleep with you at all, just lie down there like a log of wood.
❖ Be difficult, be hard, be in charge.
❖ Be selfish, be stingy.
❖ Dress so shabbily that people will think you are his house maid.
❖ Respect your husband to anybody that care to listen.
❖ Be dirty, be lazy
❖ Don’t take ‘nonsense’ from your husband, make it fire for fire.
❖ Drink, smoke you can even go ahead to abuse drug.
❖ Hate your in-laws and don’t hide it from them.
❖ Never allow your in-law in your house.
❖ Argue bitterly with your husband, never lose an argument.
❖ Allow your friends to dictate what you do in your marriage
❖ Make friend only with divorce, feminist and women who are fighting
their husbands.
❖ Be stubborn, be difficult, take no retreat, no surrender stance.
❖ Never allow God to have a say in your homes.
❖ Avoid communicating with him at least ‘silence is golden’
❖ Be a sleeper, sleep for about 9 hours daily.
❖ Keep record of all wrong doing never forgive and forget.
❖ Don’t be faithful to your husband, cheat on him at least you own your body.
❖ Be abusive, curse him regularly.
❖ Keep malice regularly; don’t ever talk to him/her except he/she say ‘I am sorry’.
❖ Regret marrying him, tell him you do.
❖ Send rotten text messages and e-mail to her when he hurt you.
❖ Never grow, never improve, just be yourself.
❖ Do everything to change your husband, if he refuses to change fight him.
❖ Be extravagant; lavish his money on expensive shoes, cloth, hats, food, etc.
❖ Spend like Father Christmas for people outside and your own family.
❖ Give all your love to your children; don’t ever love your husband.
IT DOES NOT TAKE A GENIUS TO DESTROY A MARRIAGE, ALL WE NEED ARE MEGA FOOLS, STURBBORN, DIFFICULT, UNYIELDING, UNBENDING WALL-BUILDING EXPERTS
If joy is your desire in that marriage, if winning your husband is your desire, then, go ahead avoid everything mentioned above, if you keep going into them you will destroy your marriage. Two or three of those things mentioned above are enough to destroy any home. So be a good woman and a great wife, be a marriage-building expert, build bridges to locate and connect your husband not wall, turn your marriage around and win your husband.

14/05/2024

"Train Your Mind to Be Successful: Attract and Get Anything You Want in Life" by Sayra S. Montes shares valuable insights on how to develop a mindset that attracts success and helps you achieve your goals. Here are ten lessons learned from the book:

Power of Positive Thinking: The book emphasizes the importance of maintaining a positive mindset. Positive thinking helps you stay motivated and resilient, even in the face of challenges. By focusing on positive outcomes, you attract good things into your life.

Visualization Techniques: Visualization is a powerful tool for achieving success. The book suggests visualizing your goals as if you have already achieved them. This mental practice helps you stay focused and committed to your objectives.

Goal Setting: Setting clear, specific goals is essential for success. The book advises breaking down your big goals into smaller, manageable tasks. This approach makes your goals less overwhelming and more achievable.

Self-Discipline: Success requires self-discipline and the ability to stay focused on your goals. The book highlights the importance of developing good habits and sticking to them, even when it's difficult. Self-discipline helps you stay on track and avoid distractions.

Overcoming Limiting Beliefs: Many people have limiting beliefs that hold them back from achieving their full potential. The book encourages you to identify and challenge these beliefs. By replacing them with empowering thoughts, you can unlock your true potential.

Gratitude Practice: Practicing gratitude can significantly improve your mindset and overall well-being. The book suggests keeping a gratitude journal to regularly acknowledge the positive aspects of your life. This practice helps you maintain a positive attitude and attract more good things.

Continuous Learning: The book stresses the importance of continuous learning and personal development. Staying curious and open to new knowledge helps you grow and adapt to changing circumstances. Lifelong learning keeps your mind sharp and your skills relevant.

Taking Action: Success doesn't come from just thinking and planning; it requires taking action. The book encourages you to take consistent, purposeful steps toward your goals. Even small actions can lead to significant progress over time.

Surrounding Yourself with Positivity: The people you surround yourself with can greatly influence your success. The book advises building a supportive network of positive and like-minded individuals. Positive relationships can provide encouragement, inspiration, and valuable feedback.

Mindfulness and Meditation: Practicing mindfulness and meditation can help you stay present and focused. The book recommends incorporating these practices into your daily routine to reduce stress and improve mental clarity. Mindfulness helps you stay connected to your goals and make better decisions.

These lessons from "Train Your Mind to Be Successful" offer practical strategies for developing a success-oriented mindset. By applying these principles, you can attract and achieve the life you desire.

Aklahyel Goni

14/05/2024

14 TRUTHS ABOUT FOREPLAY AND OR***MS

1. Foreplay starts with your clothes on. How special, s*xy, desired and safe do you make your spouse feel?

2. Foreplay is preparing your spouse adequately so that both of you can give each other pleasure

3. Foreplay requires you to focus on more than just the va**na and the p***s

4. Foreplay is an art. The more you do it to each other, the better you become at it, the more you understand each other's body

5. Foreplay needs to be customised. Find out what parts of your spouse's body are sensitive to touch, rubs, licks and kisses. Is it the ni***es, the neck, the butt, the ears, the shoulders, the arms. Find out the erogenous spots and camp there for awhile

6. If you rush to pe*******on, you might miss out on intense pleasure

7. If you don't adequately prepare your spouse, she might feel pain and not enjoy, he might not feel the highest of pleasure

8. Foreplay is more enjoyable when you both maintain good hygiene

9. When foreplay is well done, it can actually lead to or***ms even before pe*******on. Read each other's body language

10. When foreplay is sufficiently done to a woman, she gets extremely lubricated and gets to a point whereby she desires him inside her passionately. Once a woman gets to this point she becomes hungry and assertive. Take her there

11. Many wives want more foreplay but don't know how to ask or have been ignored or made to feel like it is all about the man

12. S*xual and s*xual words is also part of foreplay. There are some things you can tell your spouse that heightens desire accompanied with the touching

13. The longer that climax is delayed for a man, the sweeter it is

14. Foreplay brings you two closer

To enjoy love making in your marriage, invest more time on foreplay

© Dayan Masinde

14/05/2024

WHAT MEN ACCUSE WOMEN OF WHEN IT COMES TO S*X.

1. Many women dress up for the public but they don't put as much effort to dress up for their husband in bed. Lady, your number one audience is your man

2. Many women complain that their husbands don't s*x them good, yet they do not express what they want their husbands to s*xually do to them. Lady, your man doesn't read minds

3. Many women are shy in bed, largely because of their low self esteem making the husband feel as if he is forcing a s*xual encounter with her since she comes off as disengaged in the act. Lady work on your self esteem, it directly affects your s*x life

4. Many women do not praise their husband's performance in bed even when he is good. Lady, the more you talk well about his p***s, the way he touches you, the way he licks you; the more he want to please you. Work on his ego

5. Many women belittle their husband, talk down at him with disrespect and then expect him to give great s*x. Lady, when you undermine him and talk to him as if he is not man enough because he doesn't earn "enough money", he has failed in his goals a few times; be sure he will not be so interested in making love to you

6. Many women are inactive during s*x because they think it is the husband's role to lead in s*x. So she lies in bed, lifeless, passive and bored expecting him to do all the s*xual heavy lifting. Lady, men too want to be s*xually made advances on: both of you giving, both of you taking

7. Many women think that complaining and nagging will get a man to do the right thing. What they fail to realize is that it only leads to the man repelling the woman, he will struggle to desire to kiss her and touch her. She will drain him. To get a man to do what you want, inspire him, compliment him for the good he has done so far, show him how him doing right makes you smile because men love to be the reason a woman smiles. Then in bed, he will pursue you because he feels safe with you

8. Many women though they do not have s*xual in*******se with another man, they are emotionally unfaithful. They engage another man or men in intimate discussions and chats as they wonder why the husband is angry at this. This makes the husband feel put off

9. Many women complain that the man is talking too much about s*x, they tell him off. When the man tones down on the s*x talk, the woman complains and becomes insecure doubting whether he still finds her s*xy

10. Many women use s*x as weapon. During an argument, they employ silent treatment as a tactic denying him his conjugal rights. Soon, the man gets used to living without her s*x and suddenly she is the one who desperately wants s*x just to prove to herself all is well in their marriage but the damage is already done

11. Many women do not observe good hygiene. When the weave stinks, armpits smell of sweat and the va**na area not well maintained; he will struggle to have s*x with her. Lady, stay clean

12. Many women, especially conservative or Christian women view s*x as dirty or of the world and so they don't fully release themselves in it, even in marriage. This is perhaps because they grew up being told "NO S*X" that they fail to realize s*x is Godly and God's gift to nourish and sweeten their marriage. Lady, God created your body for pleasure with your spouse

13. Many women are rigid when it comes to s*x, "Don't do this, I can't do that" - making s*x an uphill task. Lady, relax; allow your body to be explored

14. Many women don't know how to say no to their husband. Lady, even when you feel you are not in the mood for s*x because of your monthly periods, you are sick, your mood is low or you're tired; don't just brush him off. If you will not give him s*x still make him feel loved. Cuddle with him, kiss him, have an intimate pillow talk, tell him you love him, tell him he will get some hot s*x when he wakes up; do not make him feel ignored

15. Many women think that the best thing they have to offer is great s*x and so they do not work on themselves, their attitude, their character, their dreams and individual progress. They only concentrate on getting tips on how to be s*xy, how to twerk, how to squat, how to keep the va**na tight and not content to grow their mind, their business, their spirit. Eventually the man grows tired, drained and feels empty with her. A man needs more than a few hot minutes in bed

16. Many women compare how their current s*x life is with the s*x life they had with an ex or exes. Lady, the old is gone, the new has come.

13/05/2024

"Skills Rather Than Just Degrees" by Prof. Isa Ali Pantami is an influential work that addresses the balance between formal education and practical skills in the professional world. While some may misconceive that the book undermines the value of academic degrees, it is important to note that the author, being a professor himself, advocates not for the abandonment of schooling but for a more comprehensive approach to education that integrates practical skills with academic learning.

Here are ten lessons from the book, which also help clarify this common misunderstanding:

1. Complement Education with Skills: The book emphasizes the importance of complementing traditional degrees with practical skills. This dual approach ensures that individuals are not only knowledgeable but also ready to apply their knowledge in real-world scenarios.

2. Adapt to Technological Changes: In an era where technology evolves rapidly, the book stresses the need for continuous learning and adaptation to new technologies, which often are not covered comprehensively in formal education systems.

3. Value of Soft Skills: Prof. Pantami discusses the critical role that interpersonal and management skills play in the workplace, which are seldom the focus of conventional degree programs but are essential for career success.

4. Lifelong Learning: The necessity of lifelong learning is a recurring theme in the book. It encourages readers to view education as a lifelong journey that extends beyond the acquisition of a degree.

5. Practical Experience: Real-world experience is highlighted as a crucial aspect of professional development. Internships, apprenticeships, and hands-on projects enrich theoretical knowledge and make it applicable.

6. Innovation and Creativity: The book champions innovation and creativity, skills that are often nurtured through practical problem-solving experiences more than through rote learning typically found in academic settings.

7. Networking: Building a professional network is portrayed as a valuable element of career development, providing support, mentorship, and opportunities that formal education alone may not offer.

8. Critical Thinking: Critical thinking is necessary for making informed decisions and solving complex problems, skills that are applicable in all aspects of life and should be integrated with academic learning.

9. Align Skills with Market Demands: It’s vital to align one's skills with market demands. The book advises readers to stay informed about the evolving job market and adapt their skill sets accordingly to remain competitive.

10. Formal Education as a Foundation: Finally, the book reaffirms the value of formal education. It acts as a foundation upon which practical skills are built, suggesting that degrees provide a comprehensive understanding of fundamental concepts which are crucial for in-depth learning and professional credibility.

Addressing Misconceptions:
The misconception among some Nigerians that Prof. Pantami's book condemns formal schooling stems from a narrow interpretation of its title and thesis. However, the book actually advocates for a more integrated approach where formal education and skill development complement each other, enhancing the efficacy and relevance of both.

This holistic approach prepares individuals to not only excel in their careers but also adapt to and lead through changes in their industries. By fostering a balance between obtaining degrees and developing practical skills, Prof. Pantami underscores the profound impact that well-rounded education can have on personal and professional growth.

Aklahyel Goni

12/05/2024

HOW TO TOUCH A WOMAN:

A woman loves to be touched by her man, sensations of love hidden under her skin waiting for him to awaken them.

1. Gently squeeze the palm of her hand when she is scared, it comforts her

2. Gentle squeeze and rub her back when you hug her tight, it makes her feel safe

3. Grab her bum with no apologies, it makes her feel wanted and desired by you, her man

4. Hold her by the waist when you introduce her to your friends and family, it makes her feel secure

5. Gentle rub her hand when she is worrying or has received some bad news, it shows her you care

6. Hold her back when she is in the kitchen cooking and her hands are tied as you tell her how much she means to you, it makes her hardwork worth it

7. Place your hand between or on her breasts as you both sleep, it makes her feel comfortable and warm with you

8. Touch her tummy when she's pregnant, it tells her she is not alone, daddy is there with her

9. Rub her hips down when she is dressing up or when she is relaxing in bed, it makes her feel s*xy

10. Hold her hands when you two are praying, it shows unity before God

11. Sneak from behind and wrap your arms around her, it makes her feel special

12. Massage her shoulders when she says she is tired, it calms her down

13. Stroke gently her back, tracing her spine, it releases sweet shivers all over her body

14. Rub her feet when she's had a long day, it tells her you are serious when you say you will take care of her

15. Oil her body, her back, her elbows, her knees sometimes. Love on the body that you find s*xy

16. Hold her face, her neck as you kiss her, it melts and nicely weakens her. She loves to surrender to your masculine love

17. Play with her fingers as you cuddle and talk, it tells her you're paying attention

11/05/2024

LONG DISTANCE MARRIAGE WITHOUT S*X

Somebody asked me if long distance marriage can work without s*x, no, it cannot work without s*x. I don't know why people just like to be deceived into something that simply doesn't work!

Healthy couples have s*x an average of 3 times a week. Stress, advancement in age, sickness or body ailment may slow it down to once a week or much more less, couples still have the comfort of each other's bodies and can do other things to douse the s*xual fire!

Long distance marriage creates s*xual tension, it doesn't douse it!

Some couples do s*x video, ma******te, go very dirty and whatever they can do to relieve the s*xual tension but it doesn't cure anything, it simply adds petrol to the fire!

Until a man have real s*x as in real in*******se in flesh and blood, he will be restless and s*xually unfulfilled and will be very sensitive to women, in plain language, he will face more s*xual temptation he may be too weak to handle!

Same with women.

Some of the women I counseled who cheated on their husbands were in long distance marriages.

By all means, stay close to your spouse. If it is completely unavoidable due to work, do all in your power to move and go live with your husband wherever he is. If that is not possible, find ways to see physically at least monthly and have as much s*x as you can before he travels back. If once in a month is still not possible, meet at least once in 3 months.

One of the reasons we get married is because of hot, steaming REGULAR S*X! Don't let any religious fanatic tell you otherwise! Paul said its better to marry than to burn! It is a "crime" to be married and still be burning!

Not everyone in long distance marriages cheats but the struggle for s*xual purity is always high! They have to battle hard to stay s*xually sane and not sin!

Help your spouse overcome s*xual temptations with ease by being physically available always to douse their s*xual fire and relieve every s*xual tension in their soul and body!

Be a source of pleasure not pain and your marriage will be bliss forever!

Lifted