29/01/2023
FOUR (4) THING'S THAT WILL KILL YOUR RELATIONSHIP EVERYTIME..
Goodness knows, I know that, with the many I have been through. Even the team side-eyes me about it.
But looking back, you can see a pattern for things you did that messed up the relationship in that case. This is not to suggest I went through these but, conversations say a lot.
And today, we are going to share four things which are guaranteed to pole-axe your relationship.
1. Trust Issues
A person you are dating doesn’t want to be asked every five minutes what they are doing and who they are doing it with. Trust is the cornerstone of a relationship and if it just isn’t there, forget the relationship. It also speaks to emotional hangups from the past you have not gotten over. This is not to say if there is something you should ignore it, but questioning things even when there is nothing can be tiring, Noone wants to keep justifying their every action and very existence.
2. Infidelity
This one is a bit obvious. Noone wants to be cheated on. And even if the person forgives you, know that the relationship has ended and you have moved into a new one.
3. Compatbility issues
This one is bigger than most people think. Very often, people date partners who are good to them and not ones who are good for them. They fall into the ideals that they think one should be with and ignore people who they are compatible with. Compatibility is fundamentally about being able to get along with someone. It matters.
4. Abusive behaviour
Dating someone is to be with a person who makes you feel good, one who makes you aspire to a better version of yourself. What you don’t to be is someone who is the bane of the partner’s existence. It doesn’t have to be physical. It can be emotional.