27/10/2022
Today's personal finance dilemma in the Saturday Nation reads as follows;
My name is Steve, I’m 33 years old.
I don’t have a car, I don’t have enough money to sustain marriage life and I still struggle to raise Sh7,500 for my bedsitter.
I’ve tried all ways to raise my income, but I haven’t been successful. I’ve tried business, seeking promotion in formal employment, nothing works for me. I’m currently formally employed on a monthly salary of Sh30,000.
Every other time I hang out with my high school friends, they jointly spend on the upwards of Sh45,000 per trip. I feel like I’m a burden to them because I can’t contribute to the bills or fuel to the destinations, which are mostly out of town.
I feel hopeless. I’ve stagnated in life.
My view is as follows;
1. Create a realistic budget
Looking back, I did not quite consider having a budget; after all, I was young and did not have a lot of responsibilities.
Which got me thinking, how many times do we see a nice dress or shoes and buy them immediately? Or when your peers are going for drinks after work every Friday and yet you know you cannot afford it but find yourself spending money you do not have? How about that call you get from home that your church is doing fundraising and they need your contribution?
I am not saying you don’t treat yourself, but on what basis are you making your financial decisions?
What I know is budgeting helped me stay in control and aided in tracking my money. As cliché as it may sound, I found the 50-30-20 rule to be so helpful. I started spending 50% of my income on essential bills, 30% on my financial goals and 20% on other expenses.
However, for this to work, you have to stick to your budget.
2. Save and invest in your future
This is what I learned; savings are crucial, even if your contributions are small. For instance, you can consider saccos and Money Market Funds, for that. Also having an emergency When it comes to your investment, be vigilant and consult people who have been where you are. It is important to also ensure it is something in line with your financial goals. Remember to also invest in yourself. Take that short course, go back to school or go for networking events. At the end of the day, the results are about how strategic you are.
3. Live according to your means
Have you seen auctioneers repossess people’s cars in the middle of the road? This is mostly a result of people who live beyond their means.
Unfortunately, I have seen professionals live beyond their means because they feel like they are falling behind compared to their peers. Eventually, they cave into the pressure and try to live the same even when they cannot afford it.
Sadly, once you start comparing yourself and try to live like your peers because you feel like they are leaving you behind without considering your salary, then you find yourself in unnecessary debt and a bad place financially.