Edward Cole

24/12/2023

Why worry?

24/12/2023

Sad, really sad

24/12/2023

Not everyone saying I am happy for you is truly happy.99% of those saying so wish opposite could happen

24/12/2023

24/12/2023

24/12/2023

Information is better than accomodation.

22/12/2023

After a series of complaints all over the world from chickens as to why they are always slaughtered in every event one c**k lamented about Jesus Christ. He said that during the celebration of the birth of Jesus and his death, they people always kill them therefore he wanted to know what they did to Jesus Christ.
A meeting was called and it was decided the venue should not be in the western part of Kenya mostly where Luhyas are so they settled for somewhere in Maasaai Mara where they decided that each c**k will be armed with a gun to guard their territories for at least 2hrs each day.

Hii krisi hakuna kula kuku

22/12/2023

Petero alimkana yesu...

TAFAKARI

22/12/2023

At the beginning of all relationship, your partner always looks like a God sent or an answered prayer but as days goes by things start to change and it feels like even God ain't aware of them.

Recently I learned how things can change in seconds.

22/12/2023

Until you know what's eating you, you will keep complaining about the unending pain

22/12/2023

Yes

22/12/2023

What are few things you should not feel guilty about

1.. Don't feel guilty for not responding immediately. You don't have to be accessible to everyone at all times.

2.. Don't feel guilty for choosing yourself.

3.. Don't feel guilty for moving on.

4.. Don't feel guilty for standing up for yourself.

5.. Don't feel guilty for being really good at something. Accept the compliment.

6.. Don't feel guilty for feeling good about yourself.

7.. Don't feel guilty for saying No to things that don't feel good to you.

8.. Don't feel guilty for taking a break.

21/12/2023

12 THINGS TO SAY NO TO IN YOUR MARRIAGE

1. Say NO to going to bed with unresolved issues. The longer issues pile up the messy things become and the climate in your home worsens

2. Say NO to involving parents or family in solving marital matters. Instead, see a counsellor, a pastor or a neutral person of authority who believes in marriage if you can't manage a breakthrough as a couple. Parents and family are biased and after you two have solved issues, they will remember the wrongs done to their son/daughter and it will affect family relations. Minimise the amount of people involved in your domestic affairs

3. Say NO to coming to big decisions without giving the other an opportunity to be heard and considered. This is how to build unity

3. Say NO to using the words "My" in marriage. "My car", "My child", "My house", "My money"... Instead say "Our car", "Our child", "Our house", "Our money" regardless of who contributes the most financially. You two are a team

4. Say NO to arguing in front of the children. Don't expose them to tension that will emotionally stress them

5. Say NO to ending a sexual moment with only one of you sexually satisfied. Both of you ought to enjoy love making

6. Say NO to using insults no matter how angry you get. Your spouse will easily remember the insults spoken in moments of anger than the loving words spoken in times of peace

7. Say NO to eating outside yet your spouse has taken the time to prepare a family meal for you. Make it a habit to eat together

8. Say NO to visits by your relatives without informing your spouse. It is not your home alone. If you want your spouse to be a good host to your relatives, consult with him/her when the visit will happen and for how long

9. Say NO to entertaining another or flirting with others. You two are allowed to have a healthy social life and friends even of the opposite gender but with boundaries and transparency

10. Say NO to sleeping in different beds/rooms yet you are in the sam

21/12/2023

Did you know?

Using your phone while eating negatively affects digestion. And using your phone while popooing keeps you longer in the toilet, affects the process & quality of bowel movement, & can raise your risk of hemorrhoids (pile).

20/12/2023

Money, Security, and Status are factors that directly affect how people choose who to sleep with and who they will be in a relationship with.
Money 💵 does not change people, it just opens doors to more options for most people in life. Without money people tend to make decisions based on their needs, which they need at the time.
Money and success for men is a status that allows more mating potential.
Beauty for women is a status that allows more mating potential.
A man with higher access to women can have more offspring, and thus increase his reproductive success. One man can have 1000 offspring with multiple partners.
A woman with higher access to men won’t have any more offspring than she could have had with regular access. But a woman with higher access to high-status men is more likely to have her offspring(s) survive and thrive.
When a Man makes money he feels like he wants more women but when a Woman makes money she feels like she doesn't need a man.
When it comes to relationships men care more about the Youth, Beauty, and the Cooperativeness of a woman.
While women care more about the man's ability to provide security, resources, and status.

20/12/2023

Peace of mind is the ultimate of it all
Reacting to everything
I’m 'Slowly' Learning That I Don’t Have To React To 'Everything' That Bothers Me.
I’m slowly learning that I don’t have to hurt those who hurt me.
I’m slowly learning that maybe the 'ultimate' sign of maturity is walking away instead of getting even.
I’m slowly learning that the energy it takes to react to every bad thing that happens to you drains you and stops you from seeing the other good things in life.
I’m slowly learning that I’m not going to be everyone’s cup of tea and I won’t be able to get everyone to treat me the way I want to be treated 'and that’s okay.'
I’m slowly learning that trying so hard to ‘win’ anyone is just a 'waste' of time and energy and it fills you with 'nothing' but emptiness.
I’m slowly learning that not reacting doesn’t mean I’m okay with things, it just means I’m choosing to 'rise' above it.
I’m choosing to take the 'lesson' it has served and learn from it I’m choosing to be 'the bigger' person.
I’m choosing my 'peace of mind' because that’s what I 'truly' need. I don’t need more drama. I don’t need people making me feel like I’m not good enough. I don’t need fights and arguments and 'fake' connections. I’m slowly learning that sometimes 'not' saying anything at all says everything.'
I’m slowly learning that reacting to things that upset you gives someone else power over 'your' emotions.
You can’t control what others do but you can control how you respond, how you handle it, how you perceive it, and 'how much of it' you want to take personally. I’m slowly learning that most of the time, these situations say nothing about you and a lot about the other person.
I’m slowly learning that even if I react, it won’t change anything, it won’t make people suddenly love and respect me, and it won’t magically change their minds.
Sometimes it’s better to just let things be, let people go, 'don’t' fight for closure, 'don’t' ask for explanations, 'don’t' chase answers, and 'don’t' expect people to understand where.

19/12/2023

What are some confidence hacks?
1.. Always maintain eye contact while speaking or delivering a speech. Looking elsewhere shows doubt and nervousness.
2.. Make sure you make relevant hand and body gestures while delivering speeches. Never stay stiff.
3.. While walking, always stay upright with your chest facing forward.
4.. Deepen your voice as much as possible while speaking.
5.. Be loud and clear. Never mumble stuff. Even if you're telling the right thing, talking with a low volume makes you look like an unsure person.
6.. Always make sure that you have a natural smile on your face when you're discussing something casual. It'll make you look more comfortable.
7.. Always be well groomed
8.. Never fidget with things like keys etc. or play with your fingers. All of this is a sign of nervousness.
9.. Use as much space as possible. The more space you use, the more confidence you demonstrate.
10.. Above all, let go of your fears. They are your main demons. Never care about what others would think and voice your opinion.

18/12/2023

The System Wants You To Believe In These 6 Lies.
You have to Wake up before it gets late:
1. News
The news is there to hack your attention. Not to keep you informed.
They want you to:
• Be Distracted
• Believe their lies
• Stay under their control
Observe with your mind not your eyes.
2. Failure
"You should avoid failure there is one correct answer."
Wrong.
Make mistakes so you can:
• Grow
• Learn
• Strengthen your skills
Nobody is born perfect. Embrace failure and see it as an opportunity to grow.
3. Work hard
You should work smart, not hard.
Don't get me wrong, it will still get hard sometimes, but they want you to trade your time for money your whole life.
1 Minute of your life is worth more than all money combined.
Stop valuing it more than your time.
4. Money
Until 1971, money was tied to gold, which gave money value.
Nowadays, money is tied to nothing. Money is basically worthless.
Learn how:
• To create money with no money
• To make money work for you
• Money works
or you will work your entire life for it.
5. Consumerism
Many people think fulfillment lies in materialistic things.
It lies in:
• Personal growth
• Relationships
• Self-love
and in contributing to something greater than ourselves.
You won't find fulfillment anywhere else.
6. Change is impossible
“Life is the way it is”
That's a lie. Life is what you make out of it.
Before you can live the life you want, you must become a person.
Change how you:
• Think
• Feel
• Act
and you can become almost anybody.

18/12/2023

Just imagine competing with someone who has already arrived.
Learn to run your own race, even if you arrive late bora usicopy anyone else.
Kuna mtu leo hii you went to the same school, same class and maybe you were clever than them in class but after high school wewe ulienda Nairobi ukajoin university yeye aliachia hapo but because he/she is from a certain family where there's everything or they inherited some wealth and they are now rich, you start cursing and blaming God vile hayuko fair. You are still better and soon you will enjoy your labor as long as you don't quit.

18/12/2023

Charismatic idol worshipers

Friends,

The largest numbers of closet idolaters are domiciled in Pentecostal churches of today and I kid you not. To bring them out, interrogate the teachings or ideology of their spiritual idols and watch them crawl out of their various holes with either brazen insults or oblique remarks and innuendos in defense of their self-appointed idols.

Some of them will issue outright warnings. You will hear things like "Watch what you say to the anointed.." watch your tongue....." Etc. Meanwhile, all you have done is not to abuse anyone but to challenge a teaching.

They are the most biblical illiterate yet the noisiest and loudest. They are zealous but not for the Lord. They can't defend their faith but they can defend their father-in-the-Lord with every fibre in their bodies.

They are modern-day idol worshippers. If these guys had lived in the days of Sango, Oya, Ogun, and other local deities known to Africans, they would have been their strong advocates and defenders. Many people did not know that these African gods were mere humans who became spectacular in their lifetime because of the exploits that they did. It was their people that crowned them as deities.

Friends, the brand of Christianity known as Pentecostalism has mass-produced idol worshippers in very damaging proportions and the implications of this will hit us hard in years to come. When I look back today, I can't believe I was once a part of it.

It is a new day!

18/12/2023

Enjoy your festive season, full video on tiktok

18/12/2023

Myths and facts about grief and grieving

MYTH: The pain will go away faster if you ignore it
FACT: Trying to ignore your pain or keep it from surfacing will only make it worse in the long run. For real healing, it is necessary to face your grief and actively deal with it.
MYTH: It's important to “be strong” in the face of loss.
FACT: Feeling sad, frightened, or lonely is a normal reaction to loss. Crying doesn't mean you are weak. You don't need to “protect” your family or friends by putting on a brave front. Showing your true feelings can help them and you.
MYTH: If you don't cry, it means you aren't sorry about the loss.
FACT: Crying is a normal response to sadness, but it's not the only one. Those who don't cry may feel the pain just as deeply as others. They may simply have other ways of showing it.
MYTH: Grieving should last about a year.
FACT: There is no specific time frame for grieving. How long it takes differs from person to person.
MYTH: Moving on with your life means forgetting about your loss.
FACT: Moving on means you've accepted your loss—but that's not the same as forgetting. You can move on with your life and keep the memory of someone or something you lost as an important part of you. In fact, as we move through life, these memories can become more and more integral to defining the people we are.

18/12/2023

Healing in a person begins the moment they feel they have been heard. We are here to listen to you, don't allow the monster called depression to weigh you down, don't kill yourself because no one understands you.

Give us a call right now or drop your message to us on Whatsapp at 0718 972483 and we will be ready to walk with you.

18/12/2023

Look at this

18/12/2023

The thing about different perspectives is that whichever way you look at it. You are right

Take this for example

(Group 1)
will go to the hospital, and looking at the number of sick people in the bed they would start questioning the existence of God.

You will hear words like if God exists why is he allowing this level of pain and suffering.

(Group 2)
will go to the same hospital and begin to thank God, the pain and suffering of others will strengthen their faith in God.

Many of us have taken sides, we either belong to group1 or group2

The real question is, is it possible to not take sides?
Is it possible to observe outside our dual state of mind?

What do you think? I need your opinion on this.

17/12/2023

Kuna bash pale Uhuru Park kwa wale hamtaenda ushagoo hii Dec. Sakaja amesema msiboeke tu home

17/12/2023

Did you Know that

When a child is born..An Ancestor returns?

17/12/2023

But Why???? Mbona isiende tu straight?

The world's shortest International Flight is from Brazzaville, Congo 🇨🇬 to Kinshasa, DR Congo 🇨🇩

The distance between the Maya Maya International Airport in Brazzaville and N'Djili International Airport is just 13 nautical miles (about 26 KMs)

Currently, the leading airline operating the route is ASKY Airlines, and uses its Boeing 737 on a triangle routing between Lome (Togo)

It costs approximately 500 USD to fly between the two cities on the direct flight ✈️

17/12/2023

One day am gonna build my own station, hata K**a Ni station ya polisi au ya gari Moshi.

17/12/2023

Eti Kuna Nini inahappen huku kwa the pride of Africa???

17/12/2023

https://youtu.be/SkcQ_c91kw4?si=QsWIvXSnDedNu4h3

Hidden Curse | Apostle Lewis Mukoya

17/12/2023

Between the two who's truly hurt? 99% of you will get it wrong

16/12/2023

If the essence of Christianity is to give miraculous healing and financial breakthroughs to believers, then Christianity is a failure. Who has suffered more persecutions, deaths, and poverty than Christians?

16/12/2023

A goal without deadline is just but a dream

16/12/2023

DISCOVER

The word "discover" simply means to uncover something that is there but has not yet been known. Thus, when scientists find a solution to a problem, they call it discovery because that solution has always been there but has been covered or unknown to people. Do you know that the solution to that thing worrying you now is just there staring you in the face? After talking to God in prayer, remember to talk to yourselves. Remember to discuss with each other. Remember to find out each other's talents and abilities. Remember to work as teams. Remember to find out the resources lying waste around you. Remember to assist children in discovering their individual talents on time. That is how you can discover the solutions to the problems bothering you now. The solution to every problem around us is right before us, staring us in the face. We either uncover them or we match over them. The choice is ours. After praying, stand up, roll up your sleeves, and begin to do what you have prayed for. That is where your miracle is waiting for you.

The photo was taken back in 2017

16/12/2023

Hesabu kidogo tu before you celebrate the reduction of oil price.

16/12/2023

The new look of Uhuru Park.
When was the last time you visited? Ama tangu serikali mpya iingie uongozini hujawahi enda huko😂😂