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THE DIFFERENT STAGES OF MARRIAGE...Specially for you.1. THE AMAZEMENT STAGE: This is the "wow" stage. Lots of new things...
14/12/2024

THE DIFFERENT STAGES OF MARRIAGE...
Specially for you.

1. THE AMAZEMENT STAGE: This is the "wow" stage. Lots of new things to discover with your spouse. The newness, the freshness is so amazing. Sleeping on the same bed, wearing the same attire, cooking for him, doing house chores with her, bathing together. Wearing your dazzling wedding ring everywhere, turning people's head at the newest couple around. Loads and lots of fun. Sexual exploration and excitement. Being in control of your kitchen, feeding him and lots more. It's the honeymoon stage and it's so so beautiful.

2. THE IRRITATION STAGE: This is when you begin to notice weaknesses you have overlooked or blissfully wish they go away but didn't. The repetition of such weaknesses begins to work on your nerves and you are getting irritated: he snores a lot, she is slow in the kitchen, she belches loudly, he screams unnecessarily, she won't bathe before coming to bed or shave, he spends many hours watching football and ignores you when you talk. "What's just wrong with this guy?" You think aloud, well it's part of marriage.

3. THE ANGER STAGE: This is when the repetition of such weaknesses gets on your nerves and you display your anger. The introverted partners stuffs it in and either keep malice, avoid you or stubbornly continue with the irritating habit. It's the stage you begin to wonder: "have I really married the wrong guy?" "Have I married the wrong woman?" No, you did not, you are simply going through a phase together.

4. THE RESSOLUTION STAGE: When you both begin to face the reality of marriage and acknowledge your partner's weaknesses. You eventually realize anger and malice does not solve any problem and begins to find ways to deal with your differences, both of you begin to compromise here and there and adjust to each other.

5. THE ACCEPTANCE STAGE: When it dawned on you that some things are just part of your partner and may never change till Jesus comes. You resigned from anger, abuse and quarrel and choose to accept them, lovingly adjust to them and enjoy them regardless of their weaknesses.

6. THE RESTUL STAGE:This is the stage you permanently accept them with all their strengths, weaknesses, short comings and flaws and love them unconditionally regardless of what they do. This is real love -agape, divine and true. You reconnect emotionally, spiritually and physically at a deeper level and enjoy honey moon again while building a lasting marriage regardless of the challenges you face.

There is no perfect marriage. Every marriage goes through this stages. How you handle it will determine if you will come out bitter or better.

You don't have to abuse your spouse or keep malice if Christ is at the centre of your home and you obey the word of God daily.

Nevertheless, do not be disappointed if you go through the unpleasant stages in marriage. It is a phase and will surely end.

Handle your marriage with wisdom and keep loving regardless of the challenges you face. That is what will make your marriage a Heaven on earth experience Counselling Research Institute of Kenya Stephen Kamore

Mental is key for a holistic christian. Considering how much of a role your mental health plays in each aspect of your l...
04/12/2024

Mental is key for a holistic christian. Considering how much of a role your mental health plays in each aspect of your life, it's important to guard and improve psychological wellness using appropriate measures. Healthy Women must know how to cope with stress caused by challenges they face as mothers wives, workers and ministers. Mood and mental health play an important role in many aspects of women's lives. They may affect relationships, self-esteem, work performance and even physical health. Let us all embrace promoting mental health in our churches, organizations and institutions for the glory of God Stephen Kamore Counselling Research Institute of Kenya

Be careful of people you call friends. .Many people will walk in and out of your life, but only true friends leave footp...
04/12/2024

Be careful of people you call friends. .Many people will walk in and out of your life, but only true friends leave footprints in your heart. Jesus had his few disciples as his friends...in. John 15:15 "I no longer call you servants, because a servant does not know his master's business. Instead, I have called you friends, for everything that I learned from my Father I have made known to you"A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out. Are you seeking friends here are a few points to reflect on before making your final decision.

Great moment with employees learning on healthy workplace relations and productivity. An organization may have strong st...
04/12/2024

Great moment with employees learning on healthy workplace relations and productivity. An organization may have strong strategic direction in terms of vision, mission and motto. However, it is only strong working relations that increase work productivity. For Workplace counseling, team building and mentorship programs call 0721345450 Stephen Kamore Counselling Research Institute of Kenya

Great day with FGCK Kasarani District women during their annual conference courtesy of Bishop Peter Kariru and  women le...
30/11/2024

Great day with FGCK Kasarani District women during their annual conference courtesy of Bishop Peter Kariru and women leadership. The theme was : Women of Excellence with special focus on Personal Development and ministry burnout. All for the glory of God. I thank God for transforming through the counseling and mentorship program Stephen Kamore Counselling Research Institute of Kenya

Empowering Parents on how to walk and mentor the boy child during the school annual general meeting at Kijabe boys high ...
29/11/2024

Empowering Parents on how to walk and mentor the boy child during the school annual general meeting at Kijabe boys high school, Kiambu County courtesy of Chief Principal Karanja. A great way to establish a connection with your son as you mentor them is through being approachable, honest, and transparent with them. Boy empowerment programs are designed to help boys and young men reach their potential, and to challenge gender-biased social norms. For parents empowerment, boys and men mentorship programs call 0721345450 Stephen Kamore Counselling Research Institute of Kenya

A refocusing retreat is a time away from distractions to set intentions, recharge, and improve well-being. A refocusing ...
28/11/2024

A refocusing retreat is a time away from distractions to set intentions, recharge, and improve well-being. A refocusing retreat can help you achieve goals, improve your mental and emotional health, and deepen relationships. Retreats can lead to lasting improvements in your physical, mental, and emotional well-being. It is time to start refocusing the year 2025. For self care programs 0721345450 Stephen Kamore Counselling Research Institute of Kenya

28/11/2024

Workplace counseling is important to boost employees productivity. It is important for employers to prioritize employees mental health. Distressed employees are a liability to the organization. For workplace counseling and mentorship programs call 0721345450 Stephen Kamore @

Focus is a valuable ability that can help individuals complete their tasks at work and promote productivity in their pro...
27/11/2024

Focus is a valuable ability that can help individuals complete their tasks at work and promote productivity in their professional, family and spiritual life.Without focus, your mind can become distracted and easily sidetracked, making it challenging to stay on track and accomplish your goals. It feels good to have a fresh beginning and new goals to work towards. Creating a strategy for change is admirable, and experiencing even the smallest of wins can have a huge impact over time Counselling Research Institute of Kenya Stephen Kamore

It was a great day Launching Kijabe Boys High school five years Strategic Plan ( 24 - 28). I thank the School Chief Prin...
27/11/2024

It was a great day Launching Kijabe Boys High school five years Strategic Plan ( 24 - 28). I thank the School Chief Principal Mr Karanja and the entire school community for giving me the privilege of leading and guiding the entire process. For consultancy in rebranding of your institution and strategic plan writing call 0721345450 Counselling Research Institute of Kenya Stephen Kamore

Training on Counseling theories and pre- marital counseling in progress.  Focusing on my passion of adding value to my s...
25/11/2024

Training on Counseling theories and pre- marital counseling in progress. Focusing on my passion of adding value to my society. To serve is beautiful, but only if it is done with joy and a whole heart and a free mind.The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others. For empowerment on Counselling, Mentorship and Leadership call: 0721345450 Stephen Kamore Counselling Research Institute of Kenya

7 TYPES OF PEOPLE TO AVOID1. Wheelbarrow People: These individuals drain your energy and waste your time. They expect yo...
24/11/2024

7 TYPES OF PEOPLE TO AVOID

1. Wheelbarrow People: These individuals drain your energy and waste your time. They expect you to do everything for them without considering your needs. They are consumers of your energy, time, and resources.

2. Mosquito People: These people only want to extract benefits from you while injecting negativity into your life. They have nothing positive to offer but always seek to take from others.

3. Scaffolding People:These individuals are glory seekers and controllers. They want to dominate your life because they helped you once. They aim to keep you under their control and restrict your independence.

4. Crocodile People: These are pretenders with no genuine intentions. They get close to you to learn your secrets and may use that information against you when conflicts arise. They are liars, backstabbers, and gossipers.

5. Chameleon People:These envious individuals are in constant, unhealthy competition with you. They secretly monitor your progress with negative intentions and amplify your mistakes while never supporting or celebrating your successes.

6. Naysayer People: These are dream killers who will never appreciate or support your dreams. They focus on your failures and always see the negative side of things, creating more problems instead of solutions.

7. Garbage Pusher People: These individuals bring negativity and bad news. Their lives are filled with debris and they spread discouraging and demoralizing information. They thrive on sharing unfortunate and heartbreaking news.

It is your responsibility to evaluate the people around you and ensure you are surrounded by positive influences. Your life will move in the right direction when you associate with positive people and disconnect from negative ones. Stephen Kamore Counselling Research Institute of Kenya Institute of Kenya

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It was a great day at FGCK Kayole empowering ladies  on how to raise and mentor a God fearing generation, courtesy of Bi...
23/11/2024

It was a great day at FGCK Kayole empowering ladies on how to raise and mentor a God fearing generation, courtesy of Bishop David Njenga. The pillar of a strong church, family, marriage, business, ministry or career is mentorship. For mentorship, coaching and counselling programs call 0721345450 Counselling Research Institute of Kenya Stephen Kamore

10/11/2024

You are God's workmanship for a purpose. (Ephesians 2:10) No one exists for the sake of existence. In divine plans of God you have your space and purpose to accomplish. No one is useless in the kingdom of God. Listen and share to inspire a friend. Counselling Research Institute of Kenya Stephen Kamore

10/11/2024

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