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30/05/2023

The emotionally intelligent person knows that love is a skill, not a feeling, and will require trust, vulnerability, generosity, humor, s*xual understanding, and selective resignation. The emotionally intelligent person awards themselves the time to determine what gives their working life meaning and has the confidence and tenacity to try to find an accommodation between their inner priorities and the demands of the world. The emotionally intelligent person knows how to hope and be grateful, while remaining steadfast before the essentially tragic structure of existence. The emotionally intelligent person knows that they will only ever be mentally healthy in a few areas and at certain moments, but is committed to fathoming their inadequacies and warning others of them in good time, with apology and charm. There are few catastrophes, in our own lives or in those of nations, that do not ultimately have their origins in emotional ignorance. ~Alain de Botton

11/10/2022

A dog was so loyal to a woman so much she would leave her baby with him and go out for few races quickly. She would always returns to found the child deeply asleep with the Dog. One day something tragic happened.
The woman as usual, left the baby in the hands of this faithful Dog and went shopping.

When she came back, she discovered a horrible scene, and there was a total mess. The baby wasn't in his crib, his diapers and his clothes in shreds, with blood stains all over the bedroom. In shock, the frightened woman started looking for the baby. Suddenly she saw the faithful Dog emerging under the bed, covered with blood from everywhere licking her mouth as if she had just finished a delicious meal.

The woman was convinced that the Dog had eaten her baby. Without much thought, she beat the Dog to dead with a wood. Then she continued research to atleast find a part of her child's body. Soon she leaves another scene. Behind the bed was the well shaped baby who was naked and had fun on the carpet. Under the bed the woman discovered a body of a snake that has been torn apart. It was a fierce battle between the snake and the dog. The dog fought to protect the baby against the ravenous snake. It was too late for her now to make amends because, in her impatience and anger, she had killed the faithful Dog.

THINK ABOUT THIS ⚠️

"How often did you judge people with hard words and spread lies about them before you had time to assess the situation?"

How many times did you jump into conclusions about a person’s appearance just Because of how they look?

How many people’s enemies have you inherited , just because you heard “they are” , “they did” and “they said” without verification

"Always be patient to access the situation and avoid jumping into conclusions which may either tear you down"

Life Tips! 1. Never lend money to your friends, you will lose the money and the friendship2. Never pay to watch p**n3. Y...
07/10/2022

Life Tips!

1. Never lend money to your friends, you will lose the money and the friendship

2. Never pay to watch p**n

3. Your friends could be friends with your enemies

4. Readers are leaders

5. Don't spend everything today with the hope to earn more tomorrow

6. Never beg for love

Be kind to people including animals

7. Stay humble, no matter what!

8. Live to no one's expectation, live according to your true self.

9. Learn to say YES/NO and mean it

10. Own your mistakes, don't blame others for it.

11. Never stop working on yourself.

12. Never leave for tomorrow what you have to do today.

13. Things you attract are in correlation with what dominates your thoughts

14. It is normal to make mistakes.

15. Never tell a loved one, you're too busy.

16. Do not keep issues with your partner over 24hrs.

17. Investigate before you invest

18. Don't develop much love for free things.

19. There's a problem in the land where the king loves music too much.

20. Do good and never expect one in return
Stop depending so much on people, expectation kills.

21. At the point of death, people don't regret the things they've done but the things they couldn't do.

22. Talk less and think more

23. Never be afraid to think big

24. Try not to offend people, some will spend their whole life trying to payback.

25. Appreciate people for their efforts and kindness to you no matter how little it is.

26. Whatever money cannot do, more money can do it.

27. Everyone is sick

28. Never leave small fishes in search for a bigger one

29. There's a great difference between ownership and possession.

30. If you have disabilities, you're special and can be extremely great

31. Exercise daily and eat healthily, let your food be your medicine and your medicine your food.

32. Blaming people (relatives) for not helping you is a bad habit.

33. Help people secure a job where and when possible, never seek for s*x in return.

34. Never give what you will regret losing ownership over it.

35. Never abandon your parents at old age, that's when they need you the most.

22/09/2022

A woman have s*x because she wants the man.

A man have s*x because he wants s*x.

You see the difference?

S*x is a physical thing to a man.

But for a woman, s*x is both physical and emotional.

A woman can have s*x because of love. But a man can have s*x because of s*x.

Before a woman can have s*x with you, she must have feelings for you. She must have that emotionally attachment to you.

That EROS dimension of love will be there.

Hardly will you find a woman having s*x with a man she does not love. Except if she's a pr******te.

But for a man, reverse can be the case. A man may have no iota of love for you, and still have s*x with you.

This is why a man can hire a pr******te just to have s*x. He doesn't need to love the pr******te before he fulfills his s*xual desire.

Now, understand this:

As a woman, a man can use you to feed his s*xual desires. He can even give you money. He can take you out. All because he wants s*x, not you!

If you want to know if a man truly loves you, don't give him s*x. Sit back and watch.

If he leaves you because you don't give him s*x, then he doesn't love you. He only loves s*x!

Dear young adult girl!

As you're growing up and getting closer to the journey of marriage life..pls try to understand that you can choose a husband for yourself but your kids can't choose their own father,while choosing a father for them pls choose a father,a friend,a tutor,a prophet,and a guidance for them...

And don't forget to be good mother you can raise a hero and not a zero
Wedding ring is the smallest handcuff ever made, so think deep, choose your prison mate carefully and sentence yourself wisely, to avoid prison break.

19/09/2022

USE SUCCESS AS A REVENGE

Year's back,

1. Nokia refused Android
2. Yahoo refused Google
3. Blackberry rejected whatsapp

Lessons here is:
1. Take calculated risks.
2. Embrace changes.
3. If you refuse to change with time, you might perish.

4. If you are not informed, you will be deformed.

Great No:2
1. Facebook has taken over whatsapp and instagram.
2. Flipkart has taken over Myntra and flipkart owned Myntra takes over jabong.

The lesson is:

1. Become so powerful that your competitors become your allies.
2. Dominate the industry and then eliminate the competition.
3. Keep innovating, keep invest in knowledge

Great No 3:

1. Lamborghini was founded as result of revenge of a tractor owner who was insulted by Enzy Ferrari, the founder of ferrari

The lesson is:
1. Never underestimate anyone, ever !!
2. Success is the best revenge.

Just keep working hard !!
Invest your time wisely !!
Do what pleases you !!
Don't be afraid to fail !!

16/09/2022

20 Lessons From the Book “Secrets Of the Millionaire Mind”

1. If you’re not doing as well as you’d like, all that means is there’s something you don’t know.

2. It’s not what we don’t know that prevents us from succeeding; it’s what we know that just ain’t so that is our greatest obstacle.

3. If you want to move to a higher level of life, you have to be willing to let go of some of your old ways of thinking and being and adopt new ones.

4. I have a saying: “It’s not enough to be in the right place at the right time. You have to be the right person in the right place at the right time.

5. The key to success is to raise your own energy; when you do, people will naturally be attracted to you. And when they show up, bill ’em!

6. These four quadrants are the physical world, the mental world, the emotional world, and the spiritual world.

7. A lack of money is never, ever, ever a problem. A lack of money is merely a symptom of what is going on underneath.

8. Your financial blueprint consists primarily of the information or ‘programming’ you received in the past, and especially as a young child.

9. The first element of change is awareness. You can’t change something unless you know it exists.

10. The second element of change is understanding. By understanding where your ‘way of thinking’ originates, you can recognize that it has to come from outside you.

11. The third element of change is disassociation. Once you realize this way of thinking isn’t you, you can separate yourself from it and choose in the present whether to keep it or let it go—based on who you are today, and where you want to be tomorrow.

12. If your motivation for acquiring money or success comes from a nonsupportive root such as fear, anger, or the need to ‘prove’ yourself, your money will never bring you happiness.

13. Money can’t make you something you already are.

No thought lives in your head rent-free.

14. You have to believe that you are the one who creates your success, that you are the one who creates your mediocrity, and that you are the one creating your struggle around money and success.

15 . Your field of focus determines what you find in life.

16. If you want to get rich, focus on making, keeping, and investing your money. If you want to be poor, focus on spending your money.

17. Again, energy is contagious: either you affect people or infect people.

18. Resenting promotion is one of the greatest obstacles to success.

19. The size of the problem is never the issue—what matters is the size of you!

20. Living based in security is living based in fear.

Elon musk's father owned an Emrald mine in apartheid South Africa - MONEY.Jeff Bezos started Amazon with 300,000 dollars...
16/09/2022

Elon musk's father owned an Emrald mine in apartheid South Africa - MONEY.

Jeff Bezos started Amazon with 300,000 dollars that he got from his parents and from his rich friends - MONEY.

Bill Gate's mum sat on the same board as the CEO of IBM and convinced him to take a risk on her son's new company - CONNECTION.

Warren Buffett is the son of a powerful congressman who owned an investment company - FAMILY BACKGROUND.

The fact is, it's harder for a person who has no connection, no money, no family support, or a working system to make it than a person who has one or even all of these.

What am I saying? Education is important. But we do not live in an equal society. You may have all the good grades, and certificates but always remember that SUCCESS is a function of very many variables, not just EDUCATION.

27/08/2022

1. Mulgul (January)
2. Ngotioto (February).
3. Kiptamo (March)
4. Iwaatkut (April)
5. Momut (May)
6. Baki (June) .
7.Ngeiyet (July).
8. Roptui (August).
9. Puret(September).
10. Epeso (October).
11. Kipsunde Netai (November).
12. Kipsunde Nebo Aeng (December)

03/06/2022
20/05/2022
08/05/2022

Intelligent people tend to have less friends than the average person. The smarter you are, the more selective you become.

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07/05/2022

"The greatest remedy for anger is delay"

05/05/2022

Starting with 2 Stories:
1. Yahoo refused Google
2. Nokia refused Android

Moral:
1. Update yourself with time, else you will become obsolete
2. Taking no risk is the biggest risk. Take risks and adopt new technologies.

2 more stories:
1. Google acquired YouTube and Android
2. Facebook acquired Instagram and WhatsApp

Moral:
1. Become so powerful that your enemies become your allies
2. Grow fast, become big, and then eliminate competition

2 more stories:
1. Barack Obama was a ice cream seller
2. Elon Musk was a worker in a lumber mill

Moral:
1. Don’t judge people based on their past jobs
2. Your present doesn’t decide your future, your courage and hard work does

2 more stories:
1. Colonel Sanders created KFC at the age of 65
2. Jack Ma who was rejected by KFC founded Alibaba

Moral:
1. Age is just a number - you can be successful at any age
2. Never ever give up in life - only those who never give up win

2 final stories:
1. Owner of Ferrari insulted a tractor maker
2. The tractor maker created Lamborghini

Moral:
1. Never underestimate or disrespect anyone
2. Success is the best revenge

You can be successful at any age and from any background.

Dream big. Set goals. Work hard.

Never ever give up in life. Go ahead.

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04/05/2022

They say with every dream that dies, our ability to dream gets a little smaller.
With every loved one we lose, our ability to love is a little reduced
With every time we our heart breaks, it Won’t break easily the next time and this also means they become stiffer and stiffer and lose their gentleness.
With every wave of pain we feel, our ability to heal becomes harder and harder.
On the contrary to the common belief: Heartaches and brokenness do not make us stronger, they consume our ability to feel and with time turns us numb we grow thicker skin which protects us from being emotionally delicate and sensitive like we once were.
We lose a piece of our innocence, our spontaneity we don’t feel trusting, loving and caring like before.
We grow more cautious more guarding because we have been through hell and don’t want to go there again.
Heartache does not make us stronger.
We grow thorns and surround ourselves with high walls and we take the risk of not being able conceive deep connections with anyone, we take the risk of swapping our safety with loneliness in both cases we have a taste of a certain pain.

Metanoia

04/05/2022

Simplicity...
“Any intelligent fool can make things bigger, more complex, and more violent. It takes a touch of genius — and a lot of courage to move in the opposite direction.”
― E.F. Schumacher

The secret to happiness is simplicity.
Throwing complications into our life is how things get messy and this is usually accompanied by a lot of noise (useless words) and big opinions that only lead to confusion.
So, learning to see the micro (keeping it simple) and appreciating its clarity will transition to the bigger picture (if needed).
This is spiritual alchemy at its finest- an intelligent and conscious response to life.
And I truly believe it’s best to leave complexity to nature.
Nature does it best, if only we could emulate its consistent intelligence.
-debbie lynn

“Like all magnificent things, it's very simple.”
― Natalie Babbitt,

30/04/2022

In the end, regret is the only debt we can’t repay. Therefore, be brave. Play your own game. Back yourself. Dare greatly.

It’s better to fail at everything yet regret nothing, then fail at nothing and regret everything.

29/04/2022

Brief History of Menengai(Kaapchemenen-Ngai)
Menengai is named after a clan which live in Loong'onot area of Nakuru county. This clan is called Kapchemenengai also called now called Kipang'waneek in Kipsigis. Kapchemenengai is now a major clan in Tugen.
The story goes that there lived a woman named Chemining' who had lived for over 200 years. The Kipsigis,Nandi,Tugen and Keiyo used to feed this bionic woman till they got tired. One day the Keiyo said that the best thing to do was to kill Chemining something the Kipsigis,Tugen and Nandi refused to partake of the killing.
when the time for Keiyo to feed Chemining came, a plan was hatched to kill her. But before she was killed a huge comet stroke Menengai area creating a huge caldera as we know today killing members of the Keiyo people hence the saying... Cheptabisiet nekibar Keiyo or the cursing which goes thus: Barin Cheptabisiet nekibar Keiyo(May the comet which killed Keiyo kill you too).
Kapchemenengai people also occupied Loongonot which means Loong'onotik or place of big shields just like Kaaploong' in Kericho.
the Maasai who met the white people in 1900 made it clear Menengai was occupied by Kapchemenengai people whose epynmous founder was Chemining, the ageless woman of old.
Surprisingly, Menengai Crater looks like it was hit by a meteroite or comet eons of years ago.
Che-menen-Ngai seems to suggest the woman was proud of her God,Ngai.
See: https://youtu.be/sILb-bF5YOs

20/04/2022

I know I’m not a very good person right now and I haven’t been for some time.
It makes me ache in ways I’ve never known in places I didn’t know existed inside me.
I can’t tell you why I ever ended up going down those bad roads and making terrible choices-hurting myself and those closest to me…but I did, and I can’t go back and change that, even though I’d give anything to do just that.
Maybe I was hiding from myself, running from my truths and demons that wouldn’t let me be..
Oh, to just be able to step back in time and undo all the pain I caused, but I can’t.
I only have here and now and I can’t help to but cry as I loathe the person staring back at me in the mirror.
Where did I go wrong?
How did I end up here?
Maybe I’ll never know, but it doesn’t mean I won’t keep trying to understand myself better.
But for now, I’m turning my face to the light and making myself a promise.
Maybe I won’t get where I want to be any time soon, but I will keep showing up and continue trying to grow.
I’m hopeful that someone will care enough about me to not give up on me, holding my hand through the dark nights and hard days.
They’ll see who I really am past the ugly and gross parts of me that I’ve let take over in recent times.
Maybe if I’m lucky, they’ll choose to stay and be there for me when I need them most…
Just walking with me as I work to banish the darkest parts of my soul and come back to the love I once held so dear within myself.
I hope for that and so many things, but I know that I have to find a way through this mess of a mind I have created within myself..
I have to fight, battle and do whatever it takes to come home to a better place.
I know it will be a long road full of challenges, but I can do this.
I have to find a way.
I lost who I was in those dark days and I miss that person.
The good and kind person that loved who they were..not this version that I let myself become.
I don’t really have any answers right now.
I just know that I have to keep doing better.
I have to keep showing up and trying.
And maybe, just maybe, someone will find me in the darkness and walk with me.
I hope for so much right now, and it all starts with me.
I don’t like who I am, so I’m choosing to change.
I don’t have to see the whole path, just the first steps..
So, I’ll see you on the other side.
Who knows?
I might just have a smile on my face and someone by my side.
Either way, I’ll make it.
Now, as always..
I got this.
Except that this time,
I’m doing it because of me, for me.
I have to…
There isn’t any other choice.
Here’s to better days, brighter hopes and a happy heart..
Someday soon.
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01/04/2022

"What I hate is ignorance, smallness of imagination, the eye that sees no farther than its own lashes. All things are possible.

When we speak in anger, anger will be our truth. When we speak in love and live by love, truth in love will be our comfort.

Who you are is limited only by who you think you are. There are those who live in the boundaries of guilt and fear, the limits of imagination. They believe limita­tion is the world. You cannot change them.

There is work of your own to do. You will never reach the end of your own becoming, the madness of creation, the joy of existence."

🔥 Egyptian book of the Dead
🎨 Carlos Quevedo, Incandescent

21/03/2022

Seriously

14/03/2022

Wonders of the world

04/03/2022

Have you ever noticed that when you board a boda boda or matatu, you get very comfortable without even asking the rider/driver for his/her driving license. You do not even bother to know his name, ask him if he is sober, sick or if he runs mad?
Sometimes you even sleep.
For some who even travel with planes, you rarely see the pilot, yet you are so comfortable with trusting this person with your life.

But when it comes to God, we are stubborn like Gideon, we ask God for proof before we can trust Him. How sad that believing the one who created Heavens and earth is so hard for us.

Lack of full trust in the Lord has led us into paths we were not meant to go through, lack of trust in the Lord has made us fail...
Therefore as Prov 3:5 says "Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight."
Make a choice of trusting God with all your heart.

Blessings and love.

03/03/2022

WHAT is CHEATING?

Cheating is not only having s*x with another person who is not your wife/husband, it also includes:

1. Receiving money from a man without the knowledge of your husband

2. Giving money to a woman without the knowledge of your wife.

3. Sharing s*x jokes with a person who is not your spouse

4. Deleting messages which you dont want your spouse to read

5. Avoiding answering a call from that other in presence of your spouse or stepping aside to answer that call

6. Avoiding answering a call from a spouse when that other person is around or stepping aside to answer that call.

7. Saving contacts of those other persons with different names so that your spouse fails to recognise

8. Lying about your location to your spouse when you are with that other person or vice versa

9. Having office husbands and wives

10. Piling unresolved issues with your spouse is another highest type of cheating which will in turn ruin your body, soul and spirit.

BE TRUE TO YOURSELF AND GOD WHO KNOWS EVERYTHING IN HIDDEN PLACES.

ENJOY YOUR MARRIAGE LIFE 💚

02/02/2022

"And yes, it still hurts but it doesn’t hurt the same as it used to. Therefore, I’d still take this as a good sign —as a progress for me. It might be slow but at least, I made friends with the truth. You might have withered my days with your dishonesty and selfishness but I finally found my own daylight after I decided to take the other side of the door. It might take time for me to bloom again but at least, leaving you didn’t kill me."

- Mica Meñez

10/12/2021

Learn to let go of the old to make room for the new. We are taught all our lives to hold on. Most of the time it's out of fear. But when you hold onto things that are no longer for you, you prevent the things that are actually supposed to show up from arriving. You stop yourself from receiving the gifts of life. ⁠

The things in the past are gone. They’ve drifted off into the ether. You can’t go back and change them. You can’t redo them. Those moments cannot be touched. All you have is now, this moment...and what you do in this moment determines the story that exists in the future. ⁠

It’s hard to let go. I know. It’s one of the greatest lessons I keep learning over and over again. But when you do, there’s so much room for possibility. You are free to create. Free to be. Free to choose.⁠ Free to write the story in any way you see fit. ⁠

The most important part of all of this is that you can’t let the pains of the past prevent you from getting back out there in the world and trying your best again. You’re going to get hurt form time to time. It’s inevitable. But refusing to play at all because you’re scared delivers the greatest pain of all - regret. ⁠

You have to be willing to lose...in order to win. In everything. You only learn and grow when you put your heart on the line. It’s not the end of the world if you lose. It’s just a moment in time. Get back out there and try again. Give it your all. Learn from the past and move forward with a deeper wisdom. ⁠

You can do this.

06/11/2021

There are fights worth giving up; battles worth surrendering to. But there's this only war that you have to win over, 'though you are at the very verge of defeat—it is when it's your own life that is at stake. When you still have a chance to keep on going, choose life. You may not know instantly why you must live, but time will come that you will realize why you must continue.

If this is currently your silent battle, I pray that you will be able to save yourself.

—Ren Ednalig | 272nd

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