26/10/2025
A woman’s beauty is like the paint job on a car; it shines today but fades with time. It contributes nothing to her function. You can’t drive beauty into the future.
When you’re choosing a woman, don’t be moved by her body. Be moved by her values.
Ask yourself: Does she respect you? Is she kind and empathetic? Does she have sense and humility? Does she honour tradition and understand her duty as a wife? Is she feminine, gentle, and submissive in spirit?
These are the things that hold a home together. It’s not what she has in her chest but what she carries in her heart. It’s not what she has at her back but the values that back her life. It’s not what she puts on her head but what sits inside her head.
A good wife isn’t measured by the size of her breasts or the fairness of her skin. Those things are fading; every sunrise takes a piece of them away.
But character doesn’t fade. Virtue doesn’t wrinkle. Values don’t sag. So focus on them, make the main thing the main thing.
Keep your eyes on the main thing; the kind of woman who builds, not the kind who drains. Because after the lust dies and the body changes, it’s her mind, her respect, and her virtue that will keep your home alive. Don’t get entangled to a beautiful and sexy nonsense, you’ll cry!