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Yesterday's Group photo collection Trip of the Year to Dawki The Team are so bless to have such a friend like you allWis...
31/12/2020

Yesterday's Group photo collection
Trip of the Year to Dawki
The Team are so bless to have such a friend like you all
Wish you all a blessing life by His (God) grace... AMEN

29/12/2020

Iai Iaroh Team
Trip of the Year
2020
Ka Team ka dap da ka jingkmen bad jingsngewnguh ia kiei kiei kiba U Blei u la kyrkhu kyrpang ia ngi
Ka Team ka iawer ia baroh kiba kwah ban leit trip ryngkat bad ngi lashai ka 30-12-20.

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Trip of the Year
Theme: Leh Kmen ko Samla ha la ka jinglong samla
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26/12/2020

May The Good Lord,
Prince of Peace
Blessed you as you watch this..🤗

For to us a child is born,    to us a son is given,    and the government will be on his shoulders.And he will be called...
24/12/2020

For to us a child is born,
to us a son is given,
and the government will be on his shoulders.
And he will be called
Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God,
Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.

We, from Iai Iaroh Team
Wish you all a Merry Christmas, may The Lord Saviour Jesus Christ, The Prince of Peace bless you in what ever you're planning and doing to Celebrate 2020 Christmas.

God bless you.

10/11/2020

Learning is the best thing in life...
learning make you
humble
Wise
Strong
Sharp
And things you couldn't imagine you can Do
Let us be a Learner 😊😊

King Of GloryPassionhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U6zTX6xEFv8Don't lose heart, oh my soul, oh my soulDon't give up, th...
28/09/2020

King Of Glory
Passion
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U6zTX6xEFv8
Don't lose heart, oh my soul, oh my soul
Don't give up, there is hope
There is always hope
And there is peace in the storm, in the storm
No, don't forget, He is Lord.
He is Lord of all
There is a King of glory
There is a God who saves
One who is strong and mighty
Freedom is in His name, so
Open the gates of Heaven
Lift up a shout of praise
There is a Lion roaring
Jesus, the King of glory
So lift your eyes, stand in awe, standing in awe
There is one, only one where my help comes from
There is a King of glory
There is a God who saves
One who is strong and mighty
Freedom is in His name, so
Open the gates of Heaven
Lift up a shout of praise
There is a Lion roaring
Jesus, the King of glory
Nations bow, mountains shake
At the sound of just one name
Over all, Jesus reigns them all
I know
Nations bow, mountains shake
At the sound of just one name
Over all, Jesus reigns
I know
Who is the King of glory?
It's the Lord, strong and mighty
The Lord, mighty in battle
This is our King, this is the King of glory
Come on, sing to Him
Sing to Him, so say:
There is a King of glory
There is a God who saves
One who is strong and mighty
Freedom is in His name, His name
Open the gates of Heaven
Lift up a shout of praise
There is a Lion roaring
Jesus, the King of glory
There is a Lion roaring
Jesus, the King of glory

GOOD MORNING FOLKS Well in such hard times of unexpected things that happen in our life, let's commit ourselves and sing...
27/09/2020

GOOD MORNING FOLKS
Well in such hard times of unexpected things that happen in our life, let's commit ourselves and singing along with this beautiful song. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TE6jMt3gn_c Thank you
Don Meon
Oh, God will make a way
Where there seems to be no way
He works in ways we cannot see
He will make a way for me
He will be my guide
Hold me closely to His side
With love and strength for each new day
He will make a way, He will make a way
By a roadway in the wilderness, He'll lead me
And rivers in the desert will I see
Heaven and Earth will fade but His word will still remain
And He will do something new today
Oh, God will make a way
Where there seems to be no way
He works in ways we cannot see
He will make a way for me
He will be my guide
Hold me closely to His side
With love and strength for each new day
He will make a way, He will make a way
By a roadway in the wilderness, He'll lead me
And rivers in the desert will I see
Heaven and Earth will fade but His…

24/09/2020
23/09/2020

Take your time and go along with us from Doug Fields books 👍👍😊
Doug’s Top 10 Youth Ministry Commitments
1. I will move slowly.
Speed often leads to pain. When we first moved into our home, I teased my wife about her cautious parking habit. While it was a tight fit in our garage, it seemed to take her an absurd amount of time to pull into her space. One day when I was parking her car, I confidently and arrogantly zipped into the garage much faster than she did (I’m sure I shaved 10-15 seconds off of her time), but I also caused over $250 in damage as I broke off the side mirror. My teasing halted immediately, and this experience led to a teaching principle…for my children, of course: what looks to be quick and easy may need to be approached slowly and carefully. The principle applies to youth ministry. It’s safe to assume you want to make some changes at your church during your first two years. Great! But these changes probably don’t need to be implemented right away. With confidence, I can guarantee that even the changes that appear to be no-brainers cause pain for someone. If you’re a volunteer, immediately suggesting changes may communicate a divisive or critical attitude to the lead youth worker. If you're the lead youth worker, fast changes can appear arrogant or reveal a maverick’s personality to your church. Instead of making immediate changes, keep a record of all potential changes as soon as you think of them. This allows you to give them prayerful consideration. Hang on to your list. Continue to be a critical thinker in the arena to which God has called you, but realize you don’t have to apply all (or any) of the ideas that come to you. Slow down. If you’re in this for the long haul, what’s the rush? Hurried changes are often perceived as lacking thought. (I’ve committed an entire chapter to making the change process successful. See Chapter 11.) When I arrived at Saddleback Church in 1992, I told my pastor that it would take at least five years for us to begin to see a healthy, balanced, volunteer-laden, vibrant ministry. This wasn’t an arbitrary figure. I had come to Saddleback Church after spending 11 years in youth ministry at another church. I knew there’s no such thing as a just add-water approach. Remember, God didn’t move the Israelites into the Promised Land overnight, and he’s not expecting you to change your church within your first two years. Relax. Prepare your own heart before you change your church. Remember, Jesus took 30 years to prepare for three years of ministry (and he had that God-thing going for him).
2. I will regularly check my motives and evaluate my heart.
God honors pure motives, and the more you check yours, the stronger your leadership and decision-making will be. If your motives are pure, you’ll persevere, reproduce student ministers, be productive, and contribute effectively, all while having fun. Most conflicts arise from unclear, mixed, or impure motives. If you don’t personally evaluate your motives, others will—and if they’re not pure, the impurity will be exposed.
I’ve learned that to check my motives, I must continually ask questions about myself:
●Why do I want to lead this ministry?
● Why do I want to teach this material?
●What's my motive for saying yes to that request?
●Why do I really want to change this program?
●When do I let people know I don’t have a clue about what I’m doing?
You may think of other questions you need to ask yourself. It’s good for you to evaluate your motives so you can lead with integrity.
In my early years, I wanted to cancel a student-run praise and worship night. Nothing was wrong with the program, and most people would have considered it a fairly successful night for students. I told people I wanted to cancel it because it wasn’t growing and it was taking students out another night of the week (both good reasons). When I held the mirror up to examine my motives, I saw that my motives were to be noticed, to develop my credibility, and to highlight my speaking gifts (which weren’t being seen because students were running the program). I used excuses as a smokescreen to cover my real agenda. My entire plan reeked of bad motives. Thankfully I didn’t cancel the program, but I did see my ugly, dark side that was close to the surface and very real.
To keep your motives right, commit yourself to an honest and regular evaluation of your heart, the source of your spiritual growth and leadership. (I have written an entire chapter about your heart’s condition. See Chapter 3.)
I’ve made my own pledge to never do any training if I can’t talk about the spiritual life of a leader. Unfortunately, I spent my first several years in youth ministry creating fancy programs, inventing wild games, and growing the group to head-turning numbers, all on my own power. I was the antithesis of John 15 where Jesus tells us to be connected to the Father in order to bear fruit. I was connected to youth ministry books and magazines instead of God and his Word. Believe me, I’m a different man today and a much better youth worker because of my heart’s connection. I don’t have the energy that I did in 1979, but my church doesn’t have the spiritually immature leader my previous church once had—I’ve learned to give myself regular heart checkups since then.
3. I will steer clear of the numbers game.
You don’t need to be in youth ministry long before you hear this famous question:“How many kids are in your group?” I’ve heard it asked more times than I want to admit. Now I feel embarrassed for the person who asks this question. It feeds into the myth that bigger is better and that the value of your leadership is based on how many students you have. Here’s my fleshly response to this carnal question:“Who cares?”
Please commit during your beginning years to not engage in the numbers game. Don’t join the group of youth workers who erroneously base their value on how many students attend a particular event. This is not a basis for determining value.
Carol was a great volunteer youth worker who left our youth ministry team because she was “tired.” Later when I asked for an exit interview, she admitted that the real reason was because she felt she was ineffective. She had only three girls in her small group while the other female leaders had at least twice as many. Even as a volunteer small group leader, she felt the pressure to grow.
Truthfully, Carol was a great small group leader, and if she had had more students in her group she wouldn’t have had enough time to adequately care for them. She played the numbers game, and at the end of the game, our ministry lost, Carol lost, and those three girls lost. The numbers game is a losing game! Don’t be fooled into becoming a loser!
Throwing out numbers can be exciting or debilitating depending on who you’re talking to. Bigger isn’t better; healthier is better. Steer clear of churches and youth workers who are driven by numbers, and surround yourself with those who are motivated by serving God faithfully and pursuing health.
What if My Supervisor Is Really into Numbers?
First of all, I’d like to say, “I’m sorry.” I understand the pressure of numbers, and I hate it. Thankfully some churches use numbers as tools—say, for planning and budgeting— but don't obsess over them. They're more concerned about pursuing health than attendance. But I realize that isn’t the case in all churches, and you may feel the pressure of more… bigger… better. Not a fun culture to work in. To write honestly, I need to say that chances are slim for changing a numbers-driven culture in a short period of time. While people and churches can change, it usually doesn't happen quickly. So what can you do? Here are some thoughts:
1. Understand where the number pressure comes from. In many churches, the people making decisions are comfortable with a profit-loss mentality. Many church leaders come from the marketplace, and they want to know if they're getting “bang for their buck.” That mentality leaks into the church and becomes, "Is the youth worker's salary justified by the number of students we have?” The answer to this isn’t always objective, and that’s where it becomes ugly. Attendance can be one form of evaluation, but shouldn't be the only form. The numbers pressure has more history in secular thinking than in it does in biblical examples. But since the church is made up of people, and people are fallible, this type of thinking shouldn’t surprise anyone. Regardless of whether you agree with it, it’s good to know where these ideas come from.
2. Understand your supervisor. Have a meeting with your supervisor to ask for her expectations. (Ideally this happens before you begin work. See Chapter 12.) Once you have the expectations, I suggest taking three steps:
1. Put the expectations in writing. Review them with your supervisor to make sure you understand them correctly.
2. If the expectations don’t include numbers (and they probably won’t), ask whether attendance numbers are related to the expectations, and, if so, what are the numbers expectations? 3. If there are numerical expectations, ask, “What happens if those numbers aren't met?”
3. Learn to communicate in terms of health rather than numbers. Don’t feed others' appetites for numbers by making number statements (“We had so many students there last night.”) Instead choose statements that reflect health (“It’s exciting to see how students are responding to the Bible study by bringing their friends.”) Here are some other actions to take:
● Tell life-change stories. Share the good work God is doing in people’s lives.
● Use words like health instead of growth.
● Communicate forward thinking by using terms like reach, build, increase, vision, and change. ● Train the other youth ministry leaders to be more concerned with health than numbers. The more people pursuing health, the better.
Please don’t give in to the temptation to inflate numbers so you can stay in favor with your supervisor. You will compromise your integrity if you do. If your ministry is in God’s hands, if you’re seeking his direction, if you're giving your best effort, that’s all you can do. You’ve got to focus on doing the possible in the best way you know how and trust God for what's beyond your control.
If that isn’t good enough for your supervisor, it may be time to ask God to move you in a new direction. Don’t be discouraged. Many healthy churches exist and your next ministry opportunity may be at one.
4. I will not criticize the past.
It’s tempting to talk about the past with contempt to make yourself look better in the present or as an excuse to justify a change. Don’t do it! Honor those who went before you in the ministry. Some students will wish you were like their last youth worker. But God didn’t make you like that last person. In time the students will move forward.
You may think criticism of the past bolsters your credibility. But if you’re working with genuine people—students or adults—they’ll see right through you. Only people of weak character are won over by negativity. Your hopes for credibility will only be seen as immaturity in the eyes of authentic people.
Don’t give in to the temptation to make your predecessor look bad by highlighting problems you have because of her mistakes. Keep quiet, take notes of what people value about the past, and learn from those who have been at your church longer than you. In doing so, you'll outlast your critics, enhance your character, and model integrity to your students.
Criticizing is easy, but character finds goodness and brings attention to it. Commit to strengthen your character by making others look good.
5. I will avoid the comparison trap.
This commitment has a similar result to the numbers game since it can't lead you anywhere good. When you compare you lose. Either you’re filled with pride because you’re better than another person, or you’re dejected because you don’t measure up. Both attitudes are wrong and destructive. Comparison places what you know about yourself (or your ministry) against what you don’t know about another youth worker (or her ministry). That's not a fair evaluation. You'll be tempted to compare yourself to others several times during your first two years; you’ll wonder if you’re going to make it because you’re not like someone else. To this day, when I compare myself to another person, I find myself second-guessing my gifts and ministry opportunities. What a depressing position to be in. My prayer is that you steer clear of this temptation early and continually.
We have a wonderful volunteer in our ministry named Li who played the comparison game before she even joined our volunteer team. She was the mom of a student and opened her home every Wednesday night to host several small groups in several rooms of her home. When we needed an additional small group leader, I approached Li to prayerfully consider the role. She told me that she didn’t feel young enough when she compared herself to leaders in their 20s and 30s. She was afraid that none of the students would want to leave the younger leaders to be in a small group with a mom pushing 50.
She committed to pray about the opportunity. Some of the teenagers approached her and said,“We’d like to be in a small group with an older woman who has parented teenagers. We need some wisdom to better understand our parents.”
Li was amazed and eagerly jumped at the chance to influence these girls. She later told me,“I can’t believe I almost missed this incredible ministry opportunity because I was comparing myself to 20-year-olds. I learned a great lesson.”
I can tell you from firsthand experience that nothing is ever as good as it looks from a distance. From outer space, the Earth looks like a peaceful, stress-free place, but up close it's chaotic and dangerous. When you feel tempted to compare yourself to another volunteer, leader, or Bible teacher, stop and focus on God’s love for you in that moment. God’s love isn’t based on how you measure up. He loves you for who you are, not for whom you think you should be more like. Your value as a youth worker must come from God’s unconditional love for you, or you’ll find yourself pursuing the approval of others and trying too hard to earn something from people that God gives freely.
6. I will focus on priorities.
The many demands of youth ministry will keep you busy. But when you’re spread too thin, you’ll eventually snap. You’ve got to make a commitment to manage your limited time to go the distance. To do this, you need a healthy understanding of your priorities based on the church’s values and expectations. (We’ll process this idea from start to finish in Chapter 12).
To help with your priorities you must learn quickly how and when to say no. Without a sense of priorities, you’ll say yes to things that deserve a no, and you'll have lost time for those important areas that require your yes. (See page 32 for ideas on time management.)
One reality you'll quickly learn is that youth ministry never ends. More is always waiting to be done, and you’ll find yourself wanting to do more. The most difficult decisions you may face are the ones that require saying no to being at more events, meeting with more people, doing more.
Doing more isn’t necessarily good youth ministry. Doing the right things, based on your priorities, is good youth ministry regardless of how much time you have available to spend. I’d rather have one youth worker who knows his priorities and does the right thing for 30 minutes a week than have two youth workers who have hours to spend and are aimless with their time. The most effective youth workers are the ones who know how to focus on what’s expected of them. People who are spread too thin might be busy, but busyness is not synonymous with effectiveness.
No. No. No. Keep practicing that word!
7. I will pace myself.
Hopefully, you're in youth ministry for a marathon, not a sprint. Right away, you must learn how to stay in shape. Since youth ministry is never finished, and more can always be done, learn to take daily stretches—breathers throughout your day and week so you can be refreshed. Discover places, moments, and people who provide refreshment from the busyness of youth ministry and take your mind away from all that needs to be done.
Because I’m in youth ministry full time, I try to take a daily stretch to clear my mind from youth ministry. It doesn't need to be long, but it does need to be refreshing.
My escapes happen when I—
● Coach my kids’ sports teams
● Drink diet Pepsi and read the newspaper at Taco Bell
● Play racquetball
● Jog with a friend
● Lift weights
● Relax in the whirlpool bath with my wife (or in the church baptismal…kidding!)
These activities slow me down. When I’m out of control and think I need more time in my day, I feel outside of God’s will. I know God doesn’t plan more for me to do than he’s given me time for. The same truth applies to you. Draw up a list of your own ways to get refreshed. (I highly recommend caffeine!)
8. I will serve.
This commitment may not impress you as good youth ministry advice, but it's crucial to your long-term effectiveness as a leader. The longer you’re in youth ministry, the more likely you’ll be in positions where you lead and others follow. That’s fine, good, wonderful, and even appealing. But Jesus gave the church a unique model of leadership that requires serving. If you want to be a great youth worker, serve. If you want to be first, be last. If you can’t serve, you can’t lead, at least not as Christ intended. You're an incredible example of Christ to church leaders, members, and students when you serve. Actually, you’re never more like Jesus than when you serve.
This is the part of youth ministry where you'll get God’s blessing because you won’t get human recognition. This is when you make the extra effort to pick up trash in the Sunday school room, help someone in the church office, carry boxes to the secretary’s car, refrain from teasing your pastor about his toupee, give up an hour to help fold church bulletins, and offer transportation to an elderly saint.
These are the tasks that probably aren’t included in your job description but should be written on your heart. Jump at the opportunity to serve in the little ways and your youth ministry will benefit because of your character. You can’t lose when you serve.
9. I will be a learner.
I live by an axiom that's popular in my church:“All leaders are learners. When a leader stops learning, the leader stops leading.” Although this attitude requires a constant investment of time and sacrifice, not to mention a diet of humility, it has enhanced my leadership skills as a youth worker. I can only teach what I know, and this truth requires me to keep growing. This habit is especially important to maintaining a decent selfesteem, since many of the teenagers in my church think I don’t know anything.
I’m saddened each year at youth ministry conventions when I notice that veteran youth workers choose not to attend the workshop sessions because the material isn't delivered by big-name, general-session speakers. In my experience some of the bright, young, unknown leaders have some of the freshest approaches and newest ideas—ones that offer strong learning opportunities to those of us who’re getting wrinkles and losing hair!
Make a commitment today to be an eager, life-long learner. Read. Listen to tapes. Discuss ideas with people you disagree with. Sit at the feet of teachers who are younger and older than you. You'll learn from your mistakes, but a wise leader is proactive and learns from others, too. The fact that you're reading this book shows you value this principle.
10. I will pursue contentment.
One of the common themes I hear from new youth workers has to do with discontentment. Typically, they want to see more fruit from their labor and see it faster. They want bigger results and instant rewards and feel abandoned when these don’t materialize.
I’ve learned that when I feel discontent with my ministry situation, every option outside my church seems better. The church down the street looks inviting, that speaking invitation sounds alluring, the opportunity that I said no to last month now appears worthwhile. Each is a symptom of discontentment.
Ministry isn't easy. Your first two years may be the most difficult years you'll ever experience, and our enemy would love to see you ineffective and living in the land of discontentment. One of the most frequent results of discontentment is leaving, walking away from your ministry. When you leave your youth ministry too soon after arriving, you hurt the church. Students stop opening up when adults rotate through their lives. The next leader has to deal with the backlash.
Anika's my neighbor, a 12th grader who's had five different small group leaders at her church. Anika told me she doesn’t feel like talking to her small group leaders anymore. She has no confidence they'll stick around. I’ve tried inviting her to attend one of our small groups, but she has no assurance ours will be any different.
Short-term commitments may be beneficial for the adult, but they damage the student.
If you want to survive, pursue being content with where God has you and the gifts you’ve been given. Stop looking over your fence into your neighbor’s yard, and thank God he's using you where he has you. You've heard the adage, "The grass is greener on the other side"? The truth is, the grass is greener where it’s watered. So start watering your own grass.
Discontentment and discouragement are blood relatives. When you have one uninvited guest, you almost always have the other. Since they show up so frequently, I've devoted the entire next chapter to dealing with the problem. And if you and your church are still on a honeymoon, you can come back to the topic later.

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