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09/02/2023

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Are you going through a phase where nothing is going right? Always remember that God's plan will always be better than yours.

Just keep believing, keep going. God works in mysterious ways.

You never know when something will go right, keep doing the things you should do.

Keep believing in God ❣️

27/01/2023

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24/01/2023

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When was the last time you felt grateful for even the smallest things? When was the last time you felt lucky for things you have?

All our life we keep on craving for things we don't have and we don't show gratitude for everything God has given us.

And that is the reason we feel unhappy and void. We feel unhappy when we don't get the things we want. But just think how lucky and happy we will feel if we start feeling grateful for things we are getting.

The things we have are dreams of many, the things we are getting were once our own dreams. But we don't show gratitude for that.

STOP and think, think how your life has changed in the past 5 or 10 years and feel grateful. Great things will happen, work for that but enjoy the journey, stay fulfilled.

Show Gratitude. Stay Happy ✨

18/01/2023

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How easy it is for us to criticise someone else or to blame someone else but it feels hard to appreciate someone or to say SORRY when we know we are wrong, when it should be the other way around.

We don't realise this but our ego comes in between even while dealing with people we love the most.

In many situations and problems, the solutions will be simple if we keep our ego aside but we choose not to do that.

The next time you are in a similar situation, think about how you would have wanted the other person to react if they were in your place and react that way.

Or, think if this will matter to you after 2 years and if it will not. Then don't let your ego win. Don't lose a person you love just because of your ego.

Let LOVE win and EGO lose ❣️

17/01/2023

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Start living the life you want to.

At the age of 80, you will realise that throughout your life you kept thinking "log kya kahenge", but none gave a damn what you did.
Don't have regrets. Do everything you want to do, try, fail, learn but keep doing

13/01/2023

Our expectations become the root cause of our pain.

Why do we even expect that everyone we love or we connect with will want or cheer us to win? The world doesn't function like that. The world isn't fair. You will not always get the same things you give, in return.

But the energy you give out will always come back. Keep cheering people, keep feeling happy for people when they win, even if they don't reciprocate the same for you. And the sane things you will also get from the universe, if not from them then from others.

If you cut our expectations then even a rare cheer will feel like a blessing.

Keep moving forward even if no one cheers. Keep doing the work, everything else will follow. .

12/01/2023

আজ রাস্তায় এক অসম্ভব প্রতিভাবান শিল্পীর সম্মুখীন হলাম, কিন্তু তার পোশাকআশাক দেখে তার আন্দাজ ও করা যায়না। তার এই অসম্ভব প্রতিভার দাম তিনি পেয়েছেন বলেও মনে হয়না।

যাই হোক, আমরা কয়েকজন বন্ধুবাধব আজ বেলঘরিয়া এক্সপ্রেসওয়ে দিয়ে ফেরার পথে একটা চায়ের দোকানে দাড়ালাম। সেখানে কিছুক্ষণ দাড়ানো মাত্রই দেখি দেখি একজন মাঝবয়েসী লোক এসে দাড়ালো, পোশাকআশাক এবং চেহারা উস্কোখুস্কো। তিনি বললেন তিনি নাকি একজন শিল্পী, আমাদের এক বন্ধুর দিকে ইশারা করে বললেন যে উনি একটা portrait বানাতে চান, এবং সেটার দাম ও বললেন, খুব ই কম টাকা বললেন কিন্তু আমরা প্রথমে ওনার কথা খুব একটা বিশ্বাস করিনি, কিন্তু তিনি তাও বললেন যে উনি নাকি একজন শিল্পী আর ওনাকে মাত্র 6 মিনিট দিলেই নাকি উনি একটা portrait বানিয়ে দেবেন, আমরা ওনার পুরো কথাটাই শুনলাম। উনি নাকি লকডাউন এর সময় থেকে টানাপোড়ন এর মধ্যে পড়েছেন তাই এখন এই করেই আয় করেন। উনি এও বললেন যে উনি এই বেলঘরিয়া এক্সপ্রেসওয়ে তেই বেশ আরো কজনকে এই এক ই ভাবে বলেছেন কিন্তু বেশিরভাগ মানুষ ই হয় তার কথা শোনেনি বা তার সাথে খারাপ ব্যবহার করে তাড়িয়ে দিয়েছে।
সব শুনে আমি তাকে বললাম potrait ta বানাতে, তখনও তার প্রতিভা সম্পর্কে খুব একটা নিশ্চিত হইনি। কিন্তু তিনি যখন কাগজে পেন্সিল বোলাতে শুরু করলেন তখন খানিকটা আশর্য ই হলাম। তারপর তিনি গল্প করতে করতেই আঁকতে থাকলেন।
এবং মাত্র 4 মিনিট এর মধ্যে potrait ta বানিয়ে ফেললেন। এত তারাতারি এত সুন্দর potrait বানানো যায় সেটা আগে শুধু সোশ্যাল মিডিয়া তেই দেখেছিলাম আজ প্রথম এরকম এক প্রতিভার সম্মুখীন হলাম।
Potrait টা দেখে আমরা তো খুশী হলাম ই কিন্তু উনি ও দেখলাম বেশ খুশী হলো, হয়তো তার প্রতিভার ঝলক অন্য কাউকে দেখাতে পেরেছে সেটা ভেবেই।
আমাদের ব্যস্ততার জীবনে এরকম কতই না প্রতিভা আমরা এড়িয়ে চলে যাই, তাদের কদর করিনা। তাই এরকম কত শিল্পী ই রাস্তা তেই হারিয়ে যায়।
আপনারা ও যদি আগামী দিনে বেলঘরিয়া এক্সপ্রেসওয়ে তে এনার সম্মুখীন হন তাহলে দয়া করে এনাকে এড়িয়ে যাবেন না। 4 মিনিটে এরকম প্রতিভা পারলে আপনারাও দেখুন।
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06/01/2023

Criticising people is easy but it takes character to understand people's perspectives.

We often criticise people but we would do the same if we were in their shoes.

If we start being understanding and forgiving more than criticising and condemning, then we will be able to build better relationships with people and the world will be a better place.

Don't rush to judge, try to understand, try to forgive and forget before criticising and condemning.

Spread love, keep loving 💕

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03/01/2023

We always want everyone around us to be perfect but we seldom look at ourselves, look at our faults and try to be better at those.

Complaining about others is very easy but being understanding and forgiving is tough. So we always choose the easy path.

Once in your life, whenever you feel annoyed and disgusted, try to think from other's perspective. And before complaining try seeing your faults and try to be better at those

Don't expect everyone else to be perfect when you are not.

Focus on yourself, work on yourself, be better than yesterday.

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31/12/2022

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Relationships are meant to make you happy. Of course, there will be days when you will feel bad and pathetic about the relationship but if that phase stays for long and the issues don't get sorted, then maybe it's time to rethink.

Many of us, stay feeling pathetic because the consequences of heartbreak haunt us. The heart full of memories, gallery filled with pictures of togetherness, unforgettable evenings, the smell of our favourite person and many more. And these makes us stay even when we know that it's now time to move on.

But always remember, if things have gone wrong, then you have to face it at some point. If you are going to delay it, it will make you feel more miserable.

If you have lost yourself, your worth in the relationship, find everything in the heartbreak.

Don't stay in a relationship just because of the past memories, stay only if you're staying out of love. Stay only if you want to stay, not if you feel you have to stay.

Keep loving others and most importantly your own self ❣️✨

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30/12/2022

Throughout our lives we keep on chasing the big goals and in this endless chase we forget to live our lives.

Little conversations, just being with our close ones and enjoying the presence of them, little acts of empathy and care. We often take these things for granted and don't value these things.

We want to chase bigger goals and live our dream life.

But at any level of your life, doesn't matter you are rich or poor, these things will stay constant. These things make our lives happy and worth living.

Don't forget to cherish little bursts of happiness while chasing a dream life.

Life seems good when you start feeling grateful for everything you have. We value things when we lose them, start showing gratitude when you have them.

Life seems good when you realise "Life is all about living in the moment"

28/12/2022

Chapter-2, Verse- 66 of the Srimad Bhagavad Gita says:
नास्ति बुद्धिरयुक्तस्य न चायुक्तस्य भावना |
न चाभावयत: शान्तिरशान्तस्य कुत: सुखम् ||

Which means:
The man whose mind is not under his control has no Self-knowledge and no contemplation either. Without contemplation he can have no peace; and without peace, how can he have happiness?

Don't sacrifice your peace for temporary happiness, because without peace happiness can't last long.

Find your peace and happiness will follow ❤️

27/12/2022

When you choose to be in a relationship, LOVE that person with everything you have, don't hold back even an ounce.

But don't immerse yourself so much in giving that you forget to remember that you also deserve LOVE and AFFECTION.

Don't settle for less than you deserve. Always set the level of joy you expect and the level of pain you'll accept.

Love but always remember your worth, don't let anyone make you feel worthless.

Know when to hold back, don't stay with pain in your heart.

Always remember, you are worth everything, you deserve to be loved ❤️✨

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24/12/2022

How often do we start comparing our relationships? And in this generation, with the euphoric impact of social media we have become more susceptible to comparisons.

But we must remember that, everyone is different, everyone's way of loving is different.

Once we start comparing our relationships, we are just being ignorant of the true essence of our relationships.

Every relationship is unique and its true essence lies in its uniqueness.

Don't ruin a beautiful story, by comparing it with a different story. Enjoy its uniqueness.

❤️ Live.Love.Enjoy ❤️

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