16/06/2021
Juliet was in the kitchen preparing food while Sam her husband was in the bathroom bathing their little baby.
There was a knock on the door and as Juliet opened, behold it was James Sam's friend.
They exchanged pleasantries. "Where is your husband, Sam?" James asked.
Juliet told him where her husband is and what he is doing.
"You mean your husband, Sam my friend is in the bathroom bathing his baby?" James asked with a surprise look on his face 🤔🤔
As Juliet was about replying him, Sam came out from the bathroom with their baby well dressed and taken care of.
Juliet returned to the kitchen, to continue with what she was doing.
Sam greeted his friend, "watsup guy?"
"I'm good" James replied.
They both sat down in the sitting room.
"I was just asking of you, your wife told me you were in the bathroom bathing baby,.... Guy! How could you do this? You should have allowed your wife to do that after cooking... Habah🙄🙄
This is very wrong by all standards, I don't think this is normal, I guess this is the work of "LOVE PORTION" This kind of thing cannot happen in my house, a whole man like you,???🙆🙆Do you remember how many ladies used to rush you back then in those days? Why have you soon forgotten that you are the head of this house?
Guy, I'm highly disappointed by you" said James with a grin look on his face 🤨🤨
"Ah James! You made it sound as if it's a crime to assist my wife with some house chores. By the way, why are you here?" Sam asked.
James replied " I came to inform you that we will be meeting later in the evening at the hotel for Chris' birthday party. I called your line severally but you didn't take your calls, I'm not surprised, now I know what your wife has turned you into.
Sam chuckled...😄😄 and said..." James, my friend.. my friend.... I am not you and I can never be you. What works in your family/marriage might not work for mine, and I don't even want it...I am always with my wife in the kitchen to help her out, I wash my dirty clothes, hers and my baby's own too when I have the time, I don't leave her to do the chores alone. She's my lovely wife, not my slave....
Look James, no two marriages are the same, do what you like in your marriage but don't kill Rose your wife in the process... Have you looked at her lately? I mean your wife Rose...? She looks like a frustrated mad woman on the street, so thin and dry like firewood, almost invisible and you are here forming man, head of the house"
At this point, James didn't know what to say, he sat there like a dumb lunatic... Out of shame, he brought out his handkerchief from his pocket and wiped his face..
Sam continues..... I won't come to the party today, infact....I won't be attending unnecessary parties....my wife doesn't like it..
I'm sorry if I have disappointed you today ☺️☺️ please wait a little, my wife is in the kitchen so we can eat..
James couldn't help than to hasten his steps as he walked shamefully out of Sam's house 🤔🤔🚶🚶🚶🚶
⭐ Leave people alone and stop forcing your policies on them
⭐ What works for you might not work for others
⭐ Don't try to make people live like you, except it's to make them better
⭐ Marriage is a union of happiness, make your home a playground, a Lovely home, not a war zone
⭐Share the chores, I mean assist.... don't call her a weaker vessel and still give her all the hard work to do alone....
⭐ Learn how to solve your family problems amicably without involving others to avoid misunderstanding in your home
⭐Do not wait for an outsider to come and build your marriage for you, build it yourself with love, understanding and with the help of the Holy Spirit
⭐ Don't forget to always hold your hands and pray together with your partner
May the Almighty God give us wisdom and understanding on how to go about with our relationships/marriages in the Mighty Name of Jesus 🙏
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