02/07/2024
"pls help me xp0se this married man, he tricked me into marrying him. I'm in pa!n & in tears as i write this..
Actually, I'm an orphan when, i lost my mom 2yrs ago, i had to drop out of School , bcuz of lack finances. My uncles didn't care. So, i decided to start cooking & selling food. This man used to buy from me almost everyday so, somehow we got attached & started having an affair, i told him my story & he promised to sponsor me to complete my university program, Even though, i knew he's married, all that didn't really matter to me. I didn't want to be a school dropped out, As long as, he was paying my bills it didn't really bother or matter to me. He was taking really good care of me. He rented an apartment for me & furnished it, changed my wall drop with new & expensive cloths, i had the latest iPhone & so many other things...
Thus, i became one of the big girls in campus. i lacked nothing. This man showered me with so much gifts & i got so attached to an expensive lifestyle hence, i started ignoring single & young guys that were coming for me, unless i just wanted to have fun. I tried dating few other rich guys but honestly, it was different, non of them ever showered me with gifts like he did. i believe, i was already in love with him i guess, that's why, it was hard for me to be with another man. When, i finally graduated from school, he proposed & asked me to be his second wife. I refused, even though, i had been longing & praying that he propose to me but, the idea of being his second wife was out of the question. He had once told me that he did not love his wife & that if he had met me earlier he could had married me instead of his wife. Cuz of that statement, all these years, I believed that he'll one day dvorce his wife since he didn't want her & marry me.
I refused to be a second wife to him, unless he was ready to separate with his wife & marry me, he refused, but later came around after i had ignored him for about 2 weeks & finally agreed to dvos his wife & marry me. He came up with the idea that, we do our traditional marriage & i should be patient while he initiate the dvos proceedings & told me, it was going to take just few months, i was pregnant for him already, so after the marriage, he pleaded that I, stay with his mom in the village so, she could take care of me until, i give birth. He went on to assured me that, by the time i give birth the divorce papers will be ready & I'll move in with him. After i gave birth i refused to continue living in the village. He rented an apartment for me in town. ..
Can you imagine that, it's been almost 2yrs & I'm 2 months gone as we speak, yet the dvos papers still aren't ready. Pls, i want to know, does a divorce process take this long! Because seriously I'm tired of all these. What annoys me the most is that, I've been asking my husband to allow me move in with my child with him while waiting for the dvos papers to be ready but, he keeps coming up with excuses. I couldn't take it anymore, i went to his house with my child but, i was bundled out of the house by his wife & his wife's sister yet, my husband hasn't done anything about this. Obviously it's now clear to me now that, all this was a plot for him to be using me to satisfy his sx-ul needs, this man is so, sel_f!sh, he tricked me into marrying him & still went ahead to impregnate me the second time, yet expects that i be all quiet & calm about it. I've asked him to settle & compensate me, so i can move on with my life but he has chosen to ignore me for 4 weeks now, i haven't been able to get to him,
Mr Damian! You decide to ruine my life out of sel,f!shn3ss, just because you sponsored my education, Just to inform you, I'm done & no longer interested in this mariage. Thanks for tricking me into marrying you, All i want now is to be settled & compensated so i can move on with my life. Pls do not come anywhere close to me & my child cuz believe me! I'll so em,b@r*ss you!
Pls help me x-P0s this man