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08/02/2025

Reasons narcissists act dump after abusing you

of love

07/02/2025

How narcissist use their voice to manipulate their victims
narcissistic abuse

06/02/2025

Personality types in relationships

05/02/2025

Confirmed ways to defeat the narcissist
narcissist

03/02/2025

The punishments God gives to narcissist

03/02/2025

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21/01/2025

The covert narcissist is dangerous

20/01/2025

Narcissistic betrayal is the worse form of betrayal.
betrayal

19/01/2025

Why the narcissist fear your potentials

15/12/2024

Signs a person is not yet over their ex

08/12/2024

WHAT PEACE MEANS TO A NARCISSIST

"a narcissist's idea of peace = absorb all my toxicity in silence, never complain, but when the world watches, you better play the role of the perfect happy wife." this powerful and thought-provoking statement sheds light on the manipulative and controlling behavior that is often exhibited by narcissists.

narcissists often have a distorted view of reality and may believe that they are entitled to special treatment and automatic compliance with their expectations. they may use manipulation, coercion, and emotional blackmail to get what they want from others, and they may become angry or vindictive if their expectations are not met.

the statement highlights the ways in which narcissists may try to control and manipulate their partners, particularly in public. they may demand that their partner present a perfect image to the world, while behind closed doors, they may be subjected to emotional abuse, criticism, and control.

this kind of behavior can be incredibly damaging to a person's mental and emotional health. it can lead to feelings of anxiety, depression, and low self-esteem, and it can even cause a person to doubt their own perceptions and sanity.

it's essential to recognize the signs of narcissistic abuse and to take steps to protect yourself if you find yourself in a relationship with someone who is exhibiting these behaviors. this may involve setting clear boundaries, seeking support from friends and family, or even ending the relationship altogether.

remember, you deserve to be treated with love, kindness, and respect. don't settle for anything less, and don't be afraid to prioritize your own needs and well-being.

08/12/2024

Signs that show someone likes you

07/12/2024

What forgiveness means to a narcissist

06/12/2024

Things you should avoid in life:

1. You should never depend on someone else for your mental and emotional health. Always prioritise your well-being.
2. Never let anyone get used to treating you poorly. Stand up for yourself and maintain self-respect in all relationships.
3. Never go on second dates with people you know are wrong or bad for you. Trust your instincts and avoid relationships that are not beneficial to your growth.
4. Never compare yourself to others.Everyone's journey is unique. Focus on your own progress and growth.
5. Never stay in a toxic environment.Surround yourself with positivity and supportive people.
6. Never ignore your dreams and passions.Pursuing what you love brings fulfillment and purpose to your life.

HAPPY NEW MONTH ❤️❤️

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03/12/2024

Signs you may be in a toxic marriage

- You are always scared of expressing yourself.
- Serious conversations are blocked.
- You are avoidably lonely.
- Issues are addressed with threats
- Crushing words are a norm.
- You are prevented from growing.
- You are physically abused.
- Secrecy.
- Lack of encouragement.
- You are cut off from friends and family.
- Your movement is excessively limited.
- You are being tracked.
- Emotional blackmail happens.
- No apologies even when glaringly wrong.
- You cannot spend what you earn.
- Third party opinions matter more than yours.
- You are not happy with the risks you are being made to take.
- S*x and money are punishment tools.
- You are always made to look wrong.
- You don't have a purpose.
- You are attracted to someone else.
- Lies flow easily.
- You feel insecure.
- You have no privacy in the marriage.
- Efforts are one sided.
- No empathy.

03/12/2024

We approach marriage with different mindsets and orientation but let me begin by stating clearly that I believe, it is a man's primary responsibility as husband to handle the financial needs of the home he forms.

Having said that, a marriage is teamwork and that means the financial strength of the home is a summation of what the wife brings and what the husband brings.

Marriage is not 50/50, 70/30 or whatever. Marriage is 100/100. Wife brings her best and all, husband brings his best and all for the success of the home on every issue. I repeat, every issue.

Unfortunately, such is the mindset of many today where wives come in expecting a man to be completely responsible for every single financial need. While this is part of what many men signed up for and hence should deliver, it makes for little growth sense.

Check the scenario:

Man earns N200k a month and this is decent by societal standards. Yet, what really can that achieve in the world today?

Accommodation: N500k per annum
School fees for 2 children: N600k p.a
Feeding for 4 p.a: N500k p.a
Utility and bills: N500k p.a
Clothes for 4: N100k p.a
Healthcare: N100k

What's left?

If everything is left to the husband, how does this family grow, invest, save etc?

How will this husband not be frustrated putting everything he has into the family without seeing growth?

Now imagine that in many homes, the income is less than half of N200k with similar or more bills.

In going through all the above, now imagine having a wife saying "my money is my money, his money is our money", spending on herself alone and missing out on the chance to contribute to the growth of the home?

Forget about the money, would you desire for yourself or son, brother, etc, a woman like that?

Of course there'd be talks about women who have contributed in the past and the men disappointed them. Are you married to those men? Is your marriage their marriage?

Of course many will not agree because their minds are fixed (and they have a right to that) but it's a marriage. Both partners working and contributing their maximum to the success of it will always be better than leaving something to one person.

Marriage is teamwork, be the best team member you can be.

30/11/2024

Do narcissists plan to destroy their marriage from the beginning of their marriage?

The truth is that the narcissist never wanted a future with you. From day one, they saw you as something that was temporary. You were disposable.

When a person is in a relationship and they're thinking about their future with that person. They're going to take the necessary steps to ensure that everything turns out ok. It's like preparing for a storm. They're going to do everything they can to prevent destruction. To prevent anything from going wrong. But the narcissist never took any steps to protect your future with them. And although you could argue that there are storms in every relationship.

They never took any steps to make things right. When you look back at your relationship, you will see that the narcissist is the storm. They caused destruction in your life. They broke you down. They turned you into nothing but a shell of what you used to be. They destroyed you mentally and emotionally. They destroyed you financially. If they were considering a future with you, they would never have done any of that.

If they have a purpose for you in the future, they're going to treat you with dignity and respect. They're going to protect you from danger or harm. They're not going to abuse you. But that's exactly what these narcissists do. They abuse you to the point where there's no going back.

Where you're not going to serve any purpose for them in the future. Because those are their true intentions. They want to break you down. So that you're not going to be good for anyone after they're gone. They know that the relationship is going to end. They know that at some point you're going to leave them and move on to something else. Every narcissist knows this. They know that they're not meant to be loved. They know that you would not willingly desire to remain around them.

20/08/2024

How the narcissist love bomb their victims to manipulate them

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